Topic Toys makers!~
31 Aug 2012 16:27
A powerful vibe that can be inserted into my ass and vagina at the same time and also stimulate my clit. It should aesthetically pleasing and come in a variety of colors, made from medical grade silicone, be waterproof, be rechargable and very quiet. If I could have that Id be in heaven!! LOL
I have seen some that almost meet your specifications......
Topic Which improvements or features would you like to see added?
31 Aug 2012 15:39
I see your issue, but I doubt denying certain posts of such a nature will be a plausible option. For a start, what if the title "Looking For A Dom/me" were actually a compilation of quotes from other users on why simply placing an ignorant (in the true sense of the word) ad were denied? Such a thread would need to be stickied or at the very least, have the link to it posted into every new thread.
Do you see where I'm going with this?
I often just copy and paste the quote I put in other repeat threads that include links to similar threads for the original poster so that they may read at their own leisure.
Unless a person is an obvious troll, or the way they posted appears particularly rude, I try to see each poster as if they were one of my friends dipping into a strange new world, and respond accordingly.
I would suggest being pro-active, and coming up with a resource like the BDSM 101 for this issue. I reckon you'd be pretty good at doing it, too.
We try to give them the resources - I don't think many listen. And also I'm saying this because I have seen subs being hurt from such behaviour.
Topic A WISH
30 Aug 2012 09:49
I wish tomorrow would come sooner.
Topic "Temporary" Slaves
30 Aug 2012 09:47
In the USA this would constitute rape
Same in the UK
Topic I am a male looking for mistress
29 Aug 2012 10:48
One more thing...
Maybe to stop the multiple "Looking for..." threads from popping up all the time... Maybe a sticky thread called "Looking for a Dom(me)/sub" would do the trick?
Just a suggestion.
That could cause more pain than good for everyone who does post in it. As most who post these sorts of threads know bugger all about what they are wanting and how to go about getting it and so get hurt very often. I've seen too many subs hurt because they didn't get to know their Dom/me.
Topic Wanting to learn more about BDSM
29 Aug 2012 09:43
and feel free to ask questions - the bdsm people love to educate - and they're friendly too! :)
Damn you beat me to it
A bit of advice for the OP - don't make a thread asking for Dom/me or sub, we see too many of them.
Topic I am a male looking for mistress
29 Aug 2012 09:41
oh look! it's this thread again....
Why yes it is!
I wonder how long until they find the search feature or actually look at the forum or read profiles or actually get a brain.....
Topic What super power would you have?
26 Aug 2012 14:54
Nothing too exciting? Are you kidding.
Exactly what I was going to post!
I would be able to visit a few Lush friends then.
Do more than just that with a power like that
Topic BDSM 101
26 Aug 2012 08:52
Can someone please talk about Sub-Drop and Sub-Frenzy please as it's something I've not seen mentioned in here yet.
Topic Rules Rules Rules and More Rules!!
26 Aug 2012 08:09
A slave cannot be truly owned by her master if she doesn't give everything without holding back. At the same time, a master must know everything in his slave's head so that he can fully carry out his responsibility to provide exactly the environment his slave needs to thrive. While I'm not sure I would go so far as to punish for a lack of communication, I would encourage you to look within on those occasions that you don't wish to share something and ask yourself why not. If there are deeper issues, then you should try to understand them - with the help of your master.
I must say that I am a pet who is guilty of that. I have tried to understand why not. But often it comes down to being told to shut the fuck up in the past.
What would you say to those of us who have in the past been forced to keep our mouths shut and to just get on with it no matter what?
Sometimes it can also be hard picking the right moment or gaining courage to talk over some things.
Topic Fifty Shades of Grey
26 Aug 2012 08:01
:Snort: And be with someone who will abuse you mentally, sexually, physically? Did you have a lobotomy girl? Christian admitted he got off on abusing women. Did you not see my post?
I wouldn't bother arguing. It's the same trying to argue about Edward to Twilight fans - no matter their age they won't listen to any words of advice you give them.
On a side note - I tried reading it and gave up on the first chapter.
Topic Bug slayer badge
23 Aug 2012 12:32
Replying to black boxes is sending me back up to the top of the page no matter what I do
Edit - I'm using Google Chrome if that helps.
Topic Scorpio women
23 Aug 2012 09:51
That Virgo one seems almost true of me....
23 Aug 2012 09:49
Hell No! Besides the obvious of why the fuck? Who knows what the cheap bastard might give you - or do to you.
And I value my relationship too much to do that.
And add in everything blazestcyr wrote....
Topic "Funny Quote" posts
22 Aug 2012 17:27
Topic Offences a Master/Mistress can make?????
22 Aug 2012 12:38
One thing A Dom/me can do is go against the rules that were agreed for the contract when you both first entered the relationship.
One such rule that can be is the Dom/me only allowing one sub if they have a certain sub, thus getting a second sub is breaking that rule and if it was me I'd force them to choose which sub they want.
Topic Keeping Your Mouth Shut or Speaking what is on your mind.
22 Aug 2012 10:24
My opinions are usually not welcome, nor popular, so it's usually best to keep things to yourself. I like to be direct, but have found it usually just gets me into trouble.
This is me to a t.
Sadly often when I do speak out I get a group of people getting me into trouble and not the one I was talking to.