Financially secure professional in a STEM field. Overactive volunteer. Instructor, teacher, lecturer. Married over 35 years, father of three fully grown kids, but not dead! No spare time to be bored. I hope to use some of my precious spare time to write some more stories, work on my tumblr blog, and connect with people of diverse interests and backgrounds.
Explore. Try different things. Do not expect to always be successful. Do not be afraid to try different things. Your attempts will be greatly appreciated! He does not have to cum to be having a wonderful time!Watch your man's reactions, his breathing, and you will eventually learn what is best. Vary the speed, the pressire. Ask him where he is most sensitive. Ask him to demonstrate.Generally, have a very light touch and ideally some lube if you are actually rubbing over the skin surface. Otherwise, a firm grip and a good stroking action will also feel great. Learn where his frenulum is. He will be at your mercy if you get it right. If you get tired, get him to get it 90% there, then lightly tease and play...Practice, practice, practice....Call me for free lessons!
I like it a lot. Go ahead, and have lots of orgasms! I will probably have to fight the urge to explode seeing you...at least not until you've had lots of fun.
58%lol, guess I was too honest
Open office at my work...so, not very often ;)
Not sure if this counts as a sexual act really, but I'd say kissing. I am positive that you could turn anything into a very pleasant sexual act, including kissing.When do we begin?
Both are great, but overall I prefer to give
Religion sometimes gives guidance, sometimes provides a place to socialize, and an "in-group" for social support. But there is so much done in the name of religions...ALL of them ...that really bothers me. That, plus my scientific training, make me one that so far has not seen any evidence of an active caring god. If there is a superior being, that being is probably as far above us in terms of intelligence and advancement, we are like amoebas, and probably insignificant. That being said, I think we should behave as if we are here, on our own, without any superior being that can come to bail us out. We must therefore act responsibly, and using the natural morality and common sense we learn as we grow, and simply try our very best to make the best of this precious time we have, at quite possibly the best time there is to be alive on this little insignificant planet in the middle of nowhere. Knowing death is the end makes it absolutely imperative that we treasure each other, and our short time here
A good story needs set-up. If all you are interested in is sex, then porn is for you. But honestly, after seeing enough porn, it becomes obviously formulaic. Always this thing happens, then that thing, then ... the guy cums on the girl. BORING!I am always interested in the build-up to sex. Without context, it is not erotic anymore. A good story makes a huge difference.
I like blowjobs, but I guess when I was young, I was not with women that were much good at it (probably due to inexperience, or lack of confidence or positive feedback), or that seemed to really enjoy it (Possibly some bad experiences in their past). So, I learned to get by without getting many. That was not a problem then, and is not a problem now. Rather than insist on, or even ask for, a blowjob, I have always thought it best that it always be the giver's idea to give. That way, you do the things that you like, you put no pressure on your partner to put out, and everyone can usually find lots of different things that lead to fun and total satisfaction. A blowjob is just one of many nice things you can try together. I strive to give great oral, and I absolutely love doing it. I actively try to do my very best to please, because I get off on the feedback. I don't feel there should be any pressure to reciprocate. Whatever you do, you should both be enjoying it, and not ever keeping score.
I can't say much about who should be president, and it is not my call anyway, from up here in Canada. All I can say is who I do NOT want to have control of the football, because their right-wing nut-job ultra-religious attitudes may make them want to hasten the arrival of Armageddon. And since that would affect Canada and everyone, I think I can speak for all in saying that Carson, Cruz, maybe Rubio, should definitely not be allowed to win, nor should they pick Palin or any Tea-Party type to be VP. Sanders appears to be the most appealing to this liberal-minded Canuck. I guess I could tolerate Hilary, though I can see that she is not appealing as a progressive, so much as because she is NOT GOP.Hats off to Trump if he successfully implodes the GOP into oblivion. I feel sure he does not really want the presidency, just the fame that comes from trying for it, and the pleasure he takes from stirring the pot and being the center of attention.
You asked if there were regrets. I said there were none. But the silence made me think When the silence fell, I didn’t know Either of two extremes you felt. Except to know it must hurt. My reflections brought forth possibilities as the dust settled, And I shouted impatiently at the silence to end it. I was too busy to think!! My candle burned at the middle Wanting more...
Added 21 Oct 2015 | Category Love Poems
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This story is set in the late 1970’s. It was a time before e-mail, before everyone had their own workstations and computers at their desks. A lot of communications in the office were hand-written on “inter-office memo” pads. Typing documents was done by clerks, who were almost exclusively women. Ray liked his first job. It was technically challenging. As with most engineering positions,...
Added 02 Jan 2015 | Category Straight Sex
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Arriving on time at the downtown high-rise, she located his listing and buzzed his apartment. The harsh snap of the door latch unlocking made her jump, but she soon had the presence of mind to push the door open, and walk through. As Mari waited in the lobby for the elevator up to the top floor, she was starting to have second thoughts about this whole adventure. Her best friend had talked...
Added 13 Dec 2013 | Category Masturbation
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Mari stirred from her nap, full of the beautiful afterglow of her intense multiple release by John’s hands. Having fallen asleep on the firm massage table, she awoke feeling a bit stiff and oily, but otherwise she was feeling great. Before she could look around, John spoke to her quietly from the couch, where he had been silently admiring her in her sleep. “You would probably like a...
Added 17 Jun 2014 | Category Straight Sex
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Paul pulled off the county road, up a long gravel track leading to his friend’s cottage. It had taken about two hours just to reach the turn-off from the highway through the usual heavy weekend traffic. As he drove slowly over the winding bumpy road, a few entrances to other properties passed by, and the vegetation grew up higher between the muddy tire tracks until he could hear it...
Added 15 Dec 2013 | Category Straight Sex
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Sam had woken up at four in the morning, noticed the flicker of approaching lightning through the curtains of the tiny cottage bedroom, and thought it wise to use the outhouse before the coming storm struck. Linda, roused when Sam got out of bed, was feeling particularly horny. Being at the cottage made sex so much easier, better and more frequent, and she was always ready for more. She...
Added 16 Dec 2013 | Category Group Sex
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He set up his eight-inch telescope in the dimming twilight of the night. He had picked the beach far from the campgrounds, far from the shouting people and barking dogs, and smoky fires, yet not far enough to be unaware of them in the distance. More than just wanting darkness for stargazing, he sought solace from the world of troubles he had seen, but he wasn’t lonely. For now, it was just...
Added 16 Jun 2014 | Category Oral Sex
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She was giddy with endorphins, in the afterglow of her best orgasm ever. He enjoyed hearing her sighs and giggles, and whispered to her to roll onto her right side, facing away from him. The uneven ground beneath the tent had cooled her, but as he snuggled up to spoon with her, she felt his body heat warm her back. She laid her head over his right arm as he held her close with his right hand...
Added 18 Jun 2014 | Category Straight Sex
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