About nelms74


Time for an update. Been a member for years. Was active but past couple years been off and on. Hasn't been what it once was. Doesn't seem to be as full of open minded and engaging members as before. Not looking for cybersex or swap pics or hook up. I genuinely just want some intelligence open honest fun conversations with the possible opportunity to make some good friends. As for my personal private life that would relate to lush....just be straightforward. I've been a Dom for years. It was the choice that made sense with what I felt and understood about my sexuality. That said those with similar mindsets and of course subs would be a natural connection but I'm open to anyone thats just wanting to enjoy meeting people and making friends. Every chat doesn't have to revolve sex. Sexuality is only one aspect of who we are in our lives so would should we limited it here. Some guys have been overly aggressive or idiots and that has many ladies here thinking we all are one track mind or only wanting to get off. Not all of us. Many are just looking to enjoy our time here having fun laughing joking and most importantly being real. Be yourself and so will I. To many fakes here whether it be fake pics or guys pretending be women or just people pretending to be something to someone for selfish reasons. I don't nudge anyone. Long as your sexuality is positive and not used to hurt others go for it. Hope to make some new friends and enjoy a renewed interest in the community. Wish all the best with their experience here. Please feel free to reachout. I'm easy going southerner who is always open to interacting with interesting people

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22 Jun 2018 09:30
Huge sports fan. Lived in Dalls for 15 years so all the local teams there are my favs but I do love the Atlanta Braves. Atlanta is next fav city. Hot Atlanta and Big "D". I enjoy cooking and enjoy it even more if I have someone special to cook for. I'm not scared of the whole cooking, cleaning, and laundry thing. I love my family dearly and cherish all my close friends. Music is great relaxer for me. Been to many concerst. Movies are one of my major ways of passing the time. Ancient Aliens, History Channel, is a show I find interesting. Subject matter I find intellectually challenging when it's put a way of historical reference.
Favorite Books:
Not a big reader of books but, Johnny Got His Gun was a book I found to be quite thought provoking. Unique perspective. Check it out if you have the chance, time.
Favorite Authors:
Stephen King comes to mind. His dreams are the driving behind his books. I thought my dreams/nightmares were crazy.
Favorite Movies:
Where do I start. I'll name a few. Love Actually, In The Land of Women, LOR Trilogy, SFW, Life is a House, The Crow, Dazed and Confused, Dark Knight trilogy and the list could go on and on. I do enjoy Indie/Sundance/art house movies. Low budget but strong in character movies. Action, drama, comdey, romantic comedies, sci-fi, and so on.
Favorite Music:
I'm a fan of many genres. Coldplay is my tops at the moment and been the top band for me since they debuted. Kings of Leon, The Cure, Pink Floyd, U2, Beastie Boys, Adele, OneReublic, and damn there are too many to list. If it sounds good and has something to it I'll give it a shot.


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