About nickatplay

I think of myself as a sexy mature man. Long time married, lovely family, but sex life has declined to zero. So, been on an online journey to find a lover and mistress. Occasionally succeeded, had affairs, parted company, moved on, all for good reason and in the search for a proper sex life.

Over the past three years, there have been life changing experiences which I really must write about one day! Always had an interest in erotic stories. Suffice to say I have discovered a dominant, sexual side which I guess was lurking within me, and is now coming out. Better late than never. Life is for living.

Always interested in the mind of the younger woman. Especially very sexual girls. Love hearing and sharing experiences. through messages or chat, when time allows. Love dispensing advice also, based on my experiences. One or two on here have benefited from my musings.

Did I say mind? Love beauty, and good hot, sexy bodies as well. Bring them on!

Update Dec 2014: Separated

Nick Green
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Greater London, United Kingdom
Golf, skiing, watching all sorts of sports - mainly football (soccer as well as gridiron!), golf, cricket, rugby, tennis.
Favorite Books:
Romcoms (why not?)
Favorite Music:
All sorts, tending to female vocal. Current, classic, pop, rock....
Date Joined:
07 Nov 2011
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Topic: Must we woman accept?
Posted: 12 Jan 2013 09:15

I think any man who doesn't attempt to match his partner in style on the first date is making a big mistake. Smart or casual, what's the problem? In this case, knowing the restaurant is classy, he is disrespecting his date, big time. If you want to get anywhere near her pussy, you first need to get into her mind.

Maybe its the difference between men and boys. Men know......, boys know s**t.

Topic: Being more dominant without being disrespectful?
Posted: 06 Jan 2013 06:01

Its quite simple really. You agree your boundaries outside the bedroom, and role play inside. D/s is all about respect on either side - giving each of you what you both want. He obviously either wants to be submissive, or to allow you to be dominant, and deserves full respect for that.

Topic: older guys
Posted: 25 Jul 2012 01:45

Speaking as the older guy, its always a pleasure to meet a young girl who appreciates sexy maturity and experience. Just remember, though, age is often in the mind. A guy can be old in his 30s, mentally, whereas, in my 50s, I am, and always have been young, and a lover of youth.

Topic: Why are ladies so confusing????
Posted: 23 Mar 2012 10:46

Interesting one this, the mind of a woman! We need to know her sexual past. Could be she's had a bad experience, and is shy/afraid to make the first move. I recently met a girl who was raped when she was 16, for example! It leaves its scars. Could be she is a virgin?! I would say you need to TALK about it. But here's an idea.....

Don't deny her the cuddles she craves. Explain that she turns you on so much and you'd love to make love to her, but that you love cuddling. Tell her she has such an effect on you that you prefer to sleep on the couch. Cuddle her until she goes to sleep, but then you go and sleep on the couch. Make her feel special, and show you care, by removing yourself. Maybe she will realise the effect she has on you. Is that a plan?

Topic: WORD SEARCH - The first three words you see describe you...
Posted: 12 Mar 2012 07:01



Topic: How big a gap in years would you consider ok for a sexual partner?
Posted: 08 Mar 2012 01:35

As an older guy its always a compliment to meet a girl who finds that maturity sexy. Experience brings a desire to please my girl and, boy, does she appreciate it. Being young at heart means the conversation flows well too!

Topic: Cock sucking
Posted: 24 Feb 2012 02:40

My mood has to be right and I have to know my guy and want him. Those facts being in place it's lovely to take his hot erect member into my mouth and just enjoy the feeling of him and to watch his face as I swirl my tongue round his glans, thrust back and forth and occasionally gently squeeze his balls.

Sometimes it's nice to take a man still flaccid and feel his erection grow in my mouth but always the outcome is the same. Just love it when he reaches his climax and squirts his semen into my mouth.

I would never disappoint a guy by spitting ... I always love to swallow his cum - if I didn't want to do that he'd never had been having oral with me anyhow.

I love your description, Sara. As someone who has only recently learned to receive. After much thought, I define the term "proper blow job" as being one which finishes with a swallow. Somehow its not the same without. The pleasure derived in knowing you gain pleasure from that is overwhelming.

Topic: having an affair with a married man
Posted: 24 Jan 2012 06:40

what am i supposed to do if hes married but tells me its ok??? i have no idea!!????

It is possible to be trapped in a sexless marriage. You could have a great time, within limits, and the sex is likely to be great since he will be experienced, attentive and affectionate. Just so long as you know a bf romance will be off the agenda, but a passionate relationship could enhance your life.

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Posted: 03 Dec 2013 14:43

Hi Nick
I have a related problem in that I married a guy who is more than twice my own age. I've never regretted this because I love him to bits and also I'm a sucker for Dirty Old Men. When I was working in the adult industry, it was not unusual for me to have sex 20-30 times a day if you include try-outs and rehearsals, apart from the actual on-camera stuff. I have been retired for several years now and find I still need hardcore sex - not love-making but raw, hard, gang-banging sex with many complete strangers. I am not a prostitute, I fuck for free. The only limitations is that he must be over 50 years old, be able to fuck me at least a dozen times a day (if not, bring some friends) and he must always cum inside me (to keep me lubricated). If we cannot get together, maybe we can at least fantasize. Email me with pics of you and your equipment (and nude pics of and interested friends who are horny and up for an orgy).
Posted: 19 Aug 2013 00:49
Happy Birthday from the Lush team.

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Posted: 19 Aug 2012 02:00
Happy Birthday from the Lush team.
Posted: 19 Aug 2012 02:00
Happy Birthday from the Lush team.
Posted: 29 Feb 2012 09:38
Thank you for my "Official Birthday" message ... it was very sweet of you x

Posted: 28 Feb 2012 14:49
Thank you for adding me as a friend x

Posted: 27 Feb 2012 20:43
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