Forum posts made by nikki703

Topic The No-Kids-Allowed Movement Is Spreading
Posted 28 Jul 2011 15:51

Doll...what you say makes a lot of sense. Avoiding place where there is likely to be lots of screaming children is a smart thing. But I wonder where all you people are eating and there screaming kids all the time. I've rarely had this be an issue anytime I've been out to eat? Does this happen everytime you go to dinner? Once out of every 5 visits? 10? I don't know that this is an epidemic of bad behaving children every night at dinner time. Still, just my opinoin, banning kids is not a good thing. If kids are unruly then the patron may leave. Or the establishment may ask the parents and the child to leave. Judge each case accordingly. But an outright ban is discrimination by definition.
Just my opinion.

Kids are usually asleep before the hour I would arrive at a restaurant for dinner. I avoid the chain restaurants that Chef mentioned as well (the martinis are always so watered down in those places anyway).

I guess one thing that always defies logic is... how the parents themselves can stand the embarrassment of the situation if they have obnoxious, misbehaved, loud children. Have they just learned to filter out the mayhem? Tune out the screaming?

If I walked into Applebee's with my friends and sat down next to a family with kids and we proceeded to get wasted and start swearing and talking loudly about sex, porn and gangbangs and screaming at each other.... Am I right to assume that it's the family that can "move to another table" or pack up their kids and "leave" if they find our behaviour annoying?

I actually do think the parents can pack up and leave or move to another table. It isn't exactly the same though. The topics of discussion aren't appropriate around children and as adults you wouldn't do that. But I see your point. But since you aren't doing anything illegal then I don't ahve a problem with someone else moving or leaving if they're offended. However if Applebee's banned certain conversations or people who chose those conversations outright, then that would also be discriminatory.

edit... Parents of children that misbehave like that are usually not embarrassed. They have no clue that their "angels" are disturbing others. I agree that a lot of parents are oblivious to the behavior of their kids. It's more of this whole, "no one can tell me what to do or how to live my life or how to raise my kids" mentality. We all think we are exempt from the rules of society because "I'm" special.

They have no clue or they just dont care? Most parents let there kids run around wild so they dont have to deal with them.

This is a very slippery slope. While I am not for not allowing families to dine where they want to, I also would be very upset if I had to listen to a kid cry all night while I am trying to enjoy my meal. So I try not to frequent places where that is going to happen if my goal is a quiet romantic dinner. But as DD said, I would generally be dining later than families would be there anyhow.

And as for the Applebees scenario, I would be my life that it would not be the family that would asked to move!!

As for airlines, I would love it if they had flights that were for adults only. In a restaurant, I can always get up and leave if I get too annoyed, but on a plane, we dont have that luxary. What is worse than listening to kid have a tantrum for 6 or 7 hours?

I am not for ever hitting a child for any reason but parents need to discipline their children and teach them how to behave in such situations. I guess I was lucky that my kids never gave me any problems and I am sure it is not because I possess any great parenting skills. But I also didnt let them get away with everything like some parents do either.

Most of time its the parent who'so blame. Kids generally only do what they can get away with!

Topic Bad Date Bingo
Posted 28 Jul 2011 15:20

Well bad breath is always a bad thing but so many of these are no-no's with me. But the worst has to be the combination of constantly checking his phone and talking about himself all night. I once went out with a guy who constantly told me how great he was and how much money he made, and that missing an important call could cost him to lose much money. Even late at night he kept telling me how he was expecting a call from Europe about a big deal. I can deal with most things but not someone who brags about himself and is arrogant. And I later found out that he was pretty much full of shit too.

Another thing that pisses me off that wasnt on the list is the control freak. Has anyone ever dated a guy that after you ordered dinner, told the waiter she doesnt want that and ordered for you. And not beacuse what I ordered was too expensive but because he had to be in control. I let it slide once but later that night, he tried it again with drink order when we went to a club so I just left!!! God I hate that!!!

Topic If you click on this thread, you have to post
Posted 28 Jul 2011 11:31

Nobody Playing Today!! Is It A Holiday?

Topic Word association game
Posted 28 Jul 2011 09:29


Topic True or False?
Posted 28 Jul 2011 09:28

True, Hope You Are OK!

Mine Was True About Haunted House

I Was A Virgin When I Got Married(20yo)

Topic Complete The Sentence!
Posted 28 Jul 2011 09:13

I went to a palm reader, after she looked at my love line she asked why are your hands so callused?

When I went to the supermarket yesterday, I saw 2 guys in the vegetable aisle and they were...........................

Topic uniforms?
Posted 28 Jul 2011 09:07

I have great respect for a man or woman in a military uniform but as far as sexual, it does nothing for me. But I guess Im in the minority!

Topic Gloryholes
Posted 28 Jul 2011 09:05

Not For Me, I Love To Glance Up At His Eyes As I Suck Him

Topic Lush Matching Photo Game:
Posted 28 Jul 2011 09:02

Flower In Hair

Topic Complete The Sentence!
Posted 28 Jul 2011 08:31

was walking along the redwoods and i saw a couple fighting like cats and dogs... the issue was which one would dress up like little red riding hood and be ravaged by the big bad wolf and his friends.

One day I ordered a pizza and decided that I would tease the delivery guy and answer the door naked. The doorbell rang and when I opened the door it was not the pizza guy, it was...................

Topic Complete The Sentence!
Posted 27 Jul 2011 16:26

Lola has a uncontrolable desire to give Nikki a massage! Well maybe its me that has the desire, LOL!!

Tami And Lola Want To Sit In A Hot Tub With A Waterproof Vibe And 2................

Topic What is your ideal man?
Posted 27 Jul 2011 09:27

- Physically fit and athletic, but not the perfect specimen
- Open-minded in everything
- Well groomed but also a bit rough in appearance
- Long Hair, preferably dark hair
- Motivated
- Confident
- Intelligent, but not arrogant
- A great, maybe even a little twisted sense of humor
- Adventurous/dirty in bed, wiling to push the envelope
- Loyal
- Honest
- Passionate about what is important to him
- Playful
- An equal
- Willing to share!

Topic Curlygirly and Mazza's BIG sandwich!!
Posted 26 Jul 2011 16:06

Anybody Know What Time It Is?

It's Body Shot Time!!!

Topic Complete The Sentence!
Posted 26 Jul 2011 10:59

The only way Lush would be worse is if all the guys were required to have "ACCURATE'" pics of their cocks as an avatar.

If I Could Only Post On Lush Once A Day It Would Be...............................

Topic That's what she said!
Posted 26 Jul 2011 10:55

Thats What She Said!! Then He Noticed I Was Leaking Some Some Fluids And Told He Had The Perfect Tool To Plug My Leak!

Topic What were you Thinking???
Posted 26 Jul 2011 07:14

Mine Is Pretty Simple, My Name is Nikki And July 3 (7/03) Is My Birthday. Just Plain Nikki Was Already Taken When I Joined Lush.

Topic Curlygirly and Mazza's BIG sandwich!!
Posted 26 Jul 2011 06:34

WOW!! Great party, hope I was invited!!

Id wear something like this

Then put this on for the Hot Tub

And this is what i would be drinking

As for music, whil I prefer classic rock, Im very flexible!!

Topic Who wants to taste the one above?
Posted 25 Jul 2011 10:02

Oh Yes

Topic True or False?
Posted 25 Jul 2011 09:43

True, Bet That Was Interesting!

Mine Was True, One Of Many Colors Back In My Rocker Days

I Once Gave A Guy Oral In An Amusement Park Haunted House

Topic How Many Times?
Posted 25 Jul 2011 09:38

two.......enough to replace their parents!

what is your favorite sexual fantasy?

There Is No "How Many Times Question", But My Favorite Fantasy Is To Have An Orgy With 10 Hot Girls So At Least It Involves A Number!!

How Many Times Have You Fantasized About a Family Member Of Your S.O.?

Topic Guilty or Innocent.
Posted 25 Jul 2011 09:32


Ever Had Sex With 2 Or More Members (Not Necessarily At Same Time) Of The Same Family?

Topic True or False?
Posted 25 Jul 2011 09:29


Totally FALSE!! And Its Not In My Future Plans, Why Ruin A Good Thing!

I Once Dyed My Hair Purple

Topic Forum Game: Sexual Choices
Posted 25 Jul 2011 08:10

How About During?

Kiss/Be Kissed On Neck Or Inner Thighs?

Topic True or False?
Posted 25 Jul 2011 08:04

I Hope False

Mine Was Sort Of True, I Dont Hate Jewelry But Never Over Do It Either

BTW, I Always Thought LM Prefered To Wear Womens Thongs, LOL

I Got Married Over The Weekend

Topic Fuck or Pass
Posted 25 Jul 2011 08:00

Fuck For Sure

Topic Hug, Kill, Kiss, Thrill or Marry the Person above you
Posted 25 Jul 2011 08:00

Not Sure If I Can Thrill Anyone, So Kiss, Yes Definitely Kiss!

Topic Complete The Sentence!
Posted 25 Jul 2011 07:57

When I was a teenage, I, LM, fantasized about Betty White, damn, I still do!

The first thing I did after my divorce was....................

Topic True or False?
Posted 25 Jul 2011 07:03

False, Not Totally Addicted

Mine Was True, I Love Winter!

I Hate To Wear Jewelry

Topic Offspring of Lushites
Posted 25 Jul 2011 06:59

Magical_Felix And Pussylover = MagicalPussy

Topic Offspring of Lushites
Posted 25 Jul 2011 06:58

Steamin And Pussylover = SteaminPussy