About Nordic_Pixie
Biography

Shy but opinionated, quiet yet strong, openminded but know what I like and want.

Passionate, strong-willed, stubborn.

Value honesty, friendship, intelligence, humor and integrity highly.


I have a submissive side. Please show respect and understand that just because I am a submissive with a little side, I will by no means be pushed around or submit to just anyone.

I am friendly, but absolutely not interested in random cybering. If I don't know you, I will not talk in private with you or accept friend requests. I actually want to know the people I friend here.

I have been known as Starglow for a period on here before returning to my original username.




"The world is full of suffering.. It is also filled with the overcoming." - Helen Keller

"An eye for an eye makes the world blind." - Gandhi

"The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched; They must be felt with the heart" - Helen Keller

"The best place in the world is in the arms of someone who will not only hold you at your best, but will pick you up and hug you tight at your weakest moment" - Unknown

Name:
Pixie S
Sex:
Female 
Sign:
Libra
Orientation:
Straight
Location:
Interests:
Depends a bit on my mood. Can always mention some "classics" like spending time with friends, reading, writing, colouring, movies/good series, music, concerts and theatre, eating good food out, traveling, good discussions, animals and cooking.
Favorite Books:
The Book Thief, The Kiterunner, A Thousand Splendid Suns, Haroun and the Sea of Stories, Tales of Protection, The Prophet, The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Nighttime, Harry Potter, Room, Snowflower and the Secret Fan, Veronica Decides to Die to mention a few.

I like some fantasy (one of my favorites is Trudi Canavan) and read various erotic books at times (have enjoyed series like Masters of the Shadowlands, Black Dagger Brotherhood, Crossfire, The Original Sinners etc..)
Favorite Authors:
Too many to name only some.
Favorite Movies:
I enjoy a variety, but to mention a few; Shawshank Redemption, Fight Club, Let the Right One In, LOTR, My Left Foot, Once, Philadelphia, Lorenzo's Oil, American History X, Notting Hill, Amelie, American Beauty, The English Patient, Requiem of a Dream, Pans Labyrinth, Trainspotting, Little Miss Sunshine, The Devil's Advocate, A Beautiful Mind etc..

If I am in a girly mood, I love films like Dirty Dancing, Pretty Woman, Ever After, The Secret Garden, A Little Princess, anything Disney/Pixar and so on.
Favourite TV Shows:
House of Cards, The Walking Dead, Friends, The Big Bang Theory, Game of Thrones, Orange is the new black, Modern Family, Dexter, Six Foot Under, Breaking Bad, The Wire to mention some.
Favorite Music:
A fairly wide range, from The Beatles and The Stones to Pink, Ed Sheeran, Muse, The Script, The Fray, Tom McRea, Sara Bareilles, Passenger, Sigur Ros and many more.
Website:
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Topic: The basics of BDSM; What is it really all about?
Posted: 20 Aug 2015 15:58

There are very few absolutes within this lifestyle. How it is lived, has about as many varieties as couples within it. Besides the parole of "Sane, Safe and Consensual" there are few or no absolutes on how to practice BDSM. So what is the lifestyle all about?

There is one core thing that holds true for all the dynamics within BDSM; It involves some sort of power exchange. To put it in a simplified way, one person (the Dom) has power over the other (the sub). But here comes the crucial part; The power should always be GIVEN FREELY by the sub, in the manner decided by the sub. A real Dom will NEVER take or force power from a sub. The sub sets the limits within the relationship and can stop things and ask for the power back within a second. Once the dynamics have been set/decided, the Dom holds power over the sub, but the power should ALWAYS flow from the bottom (the sub) to the top (the Dom). A Dom only uses the power freely given to him/her by the sub based on his/her needs and wants.

It is also important to understand that being a Dom or sub is part of your personality, part of who you are, not a role you play. Much like say your sexual orientation is part of who you are, so is being a Dom or sub.

BDSM isn't about sex, in fact you can have BDSM relationships without any sex at all. However, most BDSM relationships will have a sexual component as most relationships between adults do, whether they are D/s or vanilla.

These are the basics of BDSM as I see it. Without understanding these, it is impossible to know what the lifestyle is about. There are tons of different dynamics in BDSM, but these things holds true regardless. Anyone else have any thoughts on this and how to best explain the lifestyle to those trying to learn about it and understand what BDSM is?

Topic: *IT'S THE BOSS'S BIRTHDAY!!! HAPPY BIRTHDAY MOM!!! NICOLA IS 39!!!*
Posted: 15 Jul 2015 02:24

Happy birthday!

Topic: 8 Free Silver Memberships but they have to be 'Gifted'.
Posted: 07 Feb 2015 15:46

31 please

Topic: Additions to Chat Room Themes
Posted: 03 Feb 2015 11:53

I would like some more backgrounds too, some new colours etc. Fun with some new things :)

Topic: A Dominate's thoughts on being a responsible Master
Posted: 05 Jan 2015 09:21

I never meant to imply that a D/s relationship is better than a well-functioning vanilla relationship. A great relationship is a great relationship, whatever "category" it may be placed within.

Of course you leave yourself vulnerable in an relationship where you truly connect and open up to another person. It is impossible to enter any form of meaningful relationship and guarantee you won't get hurt. I will however, based on personal experience with both vanilla and D/s-relationships, stand by than for the most part subs leave themselves extra vulnerable. The reason I think so, is that a sub usually gives over more control to her/his partner than someone does in a vanilla relationship. By control in this context I mean things like structuring of every day life, tasks given etc. The emotional hurt can be the same from any type of relationship, but it is easier for a sub to "spin out of control" as they are relying more on their partner. (I am not saying you don't rely on your partner in other forms of relationships, of course you do, but the whole point within D/s is that more control is given over than in other relationships).

Yes, I have been hurt before and I have learned a lot from it, good and bad. Has it left me more guarded? In some ways yes, and from learning and experiencing you are better equipped to deal with things you go through in the future, but you are also left with some scares that might never go totally away. We all make mistakes and hopefully learn from them. We all need to crawl before we can walk, walk before we can run. I see again and again tho those wanting to run before they can even crawl, not being honest with themselves or others where they are at in "their development". Honesty is the key I think in most circumstances. Of course there are some that are just pure abusers and they are often extra attracted to a BDSM lifestyle as it can be easier to "hide" abuse there, but that is really a whole other topic in itself.

Topic: A Dominate's thoughts on being a responsible Master
Posted: 04 Jan 2015 08:54



I agree with you completely, and I would love to have those that are here with their doms and or subs continue to converse in this thread to make it grow, the more it grows the more awareness on this subject ... it is sort of a peer to peer support group . we all can talk and learn and support each other ... for one dom to step in when another dom is overstepping boundries.. I do like that Driverman and Pixie have their rules for one another posted to the public...

as such even in the absence of one or the other for reasons we all know take presedence "real life" the doms that are aware of this do not over step their boundaries with her and respect her and offer their protection while her dom is away... or vise versa. if she is away, remind Driverman to ensure she is ok. to ask him about her in her lush absence...

I agree that awareness on this subject and general knowledge about the lifestyle is very important. With awareness and knowledge there will be less misunderstandings, less false assumptions and hopefully fewer people getting hurt. I hope that this thread keeps growing and that many give the topics in it some thought as I think they are very important.

I am far from "the perfect sub/babygirl", I do not have all the answers or all the knowledge. I do try to learn a bit every day tho, better myself bit by bit, keep an open mind yet listen to my gut instincts and always bare in mind to do no harm, to myself or others.

Topic: A Dominate's thoughts on being a responsible Master
Posted: 10 Dec 2014 14:34

I completely agree that living the lifestyle responsibly is an important issue. As a sub, I know first-hand how emotionally vulnerable you leave yourself when you submit. A Dom not understanding or caring about the responsibility that comes with having a sub, can do great damage, both physically and emotionally.

On a site like this, we all know there are only a few genuine Doms and subs. Most are role-players or just after a quick cyber-session, and there is nothing wrong with that as long as people are honest about their intentions. I have seen many hurt though, having been mislead, believing they are dealing with a true Dom or sub. I want to urge people to be careful before entering into any sort of D/s relationship, learn a lot about the lifestyle first, get to know the person in question well before moving forward.

My two cents of advice would be; As a sub, please be careful who you submit to before doing so and understand what it really means to submit. As a Dom, please make sure the sub is a good fit for you and understand the responsibility that comes with having a sub before you accept the submission.

Topic: Free GOLD memberships x 3 - a really difficult competition.
Posted: 23 Nov 2014 12:45

153 please

Topic: CONGRATULATIONS TO LADY MYSTERIA27 ON HER OMNIUM AWARD!
Posted: 20 Jul 2014 10:06

Congratulations, well done!

Topic: My Humble Thanks
Posted: 17 May 2014 14:19

Good luck with both love & life!

Sad to see you go, but totally understand. Sometimes there is a need to move on...

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Prey

With slow deliberation He walks towards her, Eyes burning dark, Locked on her, An animal on a hunt She his prey of choice. She quivers, Tingles running down her spine, Watching him approach. Never knowing his next move, Fast or tantalizingly slow, Hard or teasing exploration. With a quick move, He is suddenly in front of her, Sweeping her up in one motion. His mouth claims hers,...

Added 02 Sep 2015 | Category Erotic Poems | Votes 6 | Avg Score 5 | Views 259 | 8 Comments

In his lap

Crawling into his lap She sighs with content, His arms folding around her, Warmth filling her, Both outside and in. Curled up In his loving embrace, Her whole being relaxes, A busy mind quieting, All stress melts away. Her head on his chest, She listens to his steady heartbeat, Feel the rise and fall As he tranquillity breathes, And everything feels safe. Gentle caresses...

Added 30 Aug 2015 | Category Love Poems | Votes 6 | Avg Score 5 | Views 281 | 7 Comments

The Submissive

In quiet contemplation She kneels, Waiting, Surrounded by stillness, Her neck gracefully bent, Eyes lowered, Her heart-rate slows, Breath flows steadily As she finds peace In her submission. Her hands are not constrained, No rope or iron shackle her, Yet she is bound To Him, With an invisible bond Of trust, love and commitment. She chose Him, To give Him her power, And with...

Added 21 Aug 2015 | Category Love Poems | Votes 8 | Avg Score 5 | Views 382 | 10 Comments

I see you

I see you. Not just the flesh That covers you, But the warmth Behind your smile, The wisdom In your eyes. A spirit of a lion, Ready to stand up Both for yourself and others. A kind heart, Always willing to help. Passion radiates Like a roaring fire Whenever our eyes lock, Our hands touch. Hard working, Never giving up Without a fight. During a busy day, You still find...

Added 20 Aug 2015 | Category Love Poems | Votes 6 | Avg Score 5 | Views 262 | 8 Comments

Just right

One touch And her world changes, Bursting into colour, No longer gray and dreary. His warmth Fills her body, The light reaching every corner, No darkness for demons to hide. Caresses Brushing away any sadness, Embracing arms Creating a place of peace. Soft kisses Awakening her desire, Growing in passion As they explore each other. His voice Like molten chocolate, ...

Added 17 Aug 2015 | Category Love Poems | Votes 7 | Avg Score 5 | Views 194 | 9 Comments

Care

Please, Take me into your arms, Into your warmth, Hold me close, protected, Because tonight, I need your care. I just want to disappear Within you, Your scent safe and familiar As I nuzzle your neck, Rest my head on your chest, Listening to your steady heartbeat. Whisper with your soothing voice All those words You know I long to hear, Stroke my hair And caress me softly,...

Added 14 Aug 2015 | Category Love Poems | Votes 10 | Avg Score 5 | Views 254 | 13 Comments

Riding the lightning

As his hands trail Slowly over her body, His lips places kisses Everywhere, He doesn’t just awaken her, Make her desire come alive, He creates a full blown thunderstorm Deep inside her. His touch Sends electric pulses through her, Quivers down her spine, Every nerve is set alight. She whimpers in urgent need, Thunder rumbling inside, Shallow breath and a racing heart, ...

Added 11 Aug 2015 | Category Erotic Poems | Votes 7 | Avg Score 5 | Views 277 | 8 Comments

The dandylion

She isn’t a rose, Exquisitely beautiful, Nor a lily, With its elegant grace. She doesn’t have the exotic nature Of a bird of paradise or an orchid. The innocence and intoxicating scent Of the lily of the valley she can not match. She is the dandylion That grows in meadows and by the roads, Overlooked by many, Regarded as an unwanted weed by others. Yet she prevails, A...

Added 07 Aug 2015 | Category Love Poems | Votes 5 | Avg Score 5 | Views 173 | 7 Comments

Want

I long To feel your mouth Pressed against mine, Your hands exploring Every inch of my skin, Finding each spot That makes me tremble. I want Your lips trailing kisses Slowly down my body, Teasing and awakening Every nerve, Feeling you part my thighs, Drinking greedily from me. I need Your weight on top of me, Pinning me, Your hunger radiating As you thrust in deep, Claiming...

Added 04 Aug 2015 | Category Erotic Poems | Votes 7 | Avg Score 5 | Views 259 | 8 Comments

My heart's desire

You don’t have to offer me the moon, The sky with all its shining stars. I just want you to hold me As we lay on our backs, Gazing up at the beauty of the night, Millions of twinkling stars Sharing our quiet moment. You don’t have to buy me expensive presents. The greatest gift you can give Is your time and attention, The sweet words you whisper just for me, Gentle...

Added 03 Aug 2015 | Category Love Poems | Votes 8 | Avg Score 5 | Views 287 | 10 Comments

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