Forum posts made by nymphwriter

Topic Post the title most recent song that you listened to
Posted 02 Oct 2015 18:53

Baby - Justin Bieber

Okay... here's why. Someone took this song and figured out it works well to show how to structure compound sentences with semicolons and the FANBOYS. So, here's the video to prove I'm not completely nuts!

Topic what are you drinking?
Posted 02 Oct 2015 18:46

3601 Sparking pink moscato. 3601

Topic "Porn watchers think more highly of women"
Posted 02 Oct 2015 18:41

Aside from some of the silliness that lingers in this thread, I did read this article for a rather personal reason.

When I was 19 or 20 and in college, I was taking a psychology class (probably Pscy 101 or something like that) and we were required to partake in a psychological study. The only one I honestly remember partaking in was one on a woman's physical and mental reaction to watching porn. Now, since I was a student in one of the Psyc classes, I wasn't paid for my time, just given credit for the sake of my class.

They had me watch snip-its of different porn flicks in a small room that wasn't very soundproof and thus I got yelled at for watching porn (turns out people could hear the video clips.) Now, some of the scenes were of men on a telephone while a woman gave them a blowjob (NOTE: this was pre-Clinton) and the men looking bored. Another was a scene from Debbie Does Dallas (yes... I did recognize it from seeing it before with friends.) Now, watching porn will create a physical reaction within me (I will eventually cum for those who don't get what I meant) and back then it happened, it was rather violent (the joys of youth) and happened rather quickly (okay... I'll admit it... I was masturbating.)

When I was done, I remember looking over my information. Several of the clips the man seemed bored. Others, he was more interested in the sex than the woman was. The whole thing nearly turned me off of porn as it took the fun of watching it away. Happily, that passed. I neither felt more "highly of women" nor did I feel more highly of the men. I didn't think less of either gender either. I saw porn as pure entertainment, and still do. Good porn will turn me on. Bad porn makes me laugh.

For those who think porn is evil and immoral... they have their own issues. I do agree the person who did this study did go in with an agenda, but it's still interesting that someone did a study like this for reasons only they can answer. We as a race have been curious about sex since our existence. Master's & Johnson make talking about sex a bit more of the norm.

It was an interesting study... I'm just curious how accurate the data collection really was. It's too easy to slant for the purpose of getting the findings you want.

Topic A Hearty Welcome to Harper Jewel!
Posted 02 Oct 2015 18:19

welcomes Harper Jewel! I'm not yet familiar with your work but I'm sure I will be soon. I'm just going to trust you are fucking amazing and I'm totally in awe of you & your talent. Maybe you can throw a bone to us lesser writers on how to be a success. [-o<

Topic Romance stories...
Posted 29 Sep 2015 19:02

Why can't two lovers find they enjoy a more hardcore element to sex? I think it would totally work. Often it takes so much trust in a partner to share something like this that it would be a perfect fit in a romantic story. I hope when you write this it as steamy and hot as it sounds already.

Topic How long does it take to verify a story?
Posted 29 Sep 2015 18:57

the wait at most sites like this is closer to 3-4 weeks between submission and posting. my mods kick ass, but still, we're only human and have lives outside of simply turning over stories.

That time line is really contingent on the site and if they are running a story comp or not. I once had a good story on another site take a month to post because comp entries were taking priority.

I'd rather see a few days wait to have a real human being read my story than have a bot pass it with stupid errors that will cost me votes. I'm super grateful as to how fast and accurately the Mods here verify stories.

Topic Do you give money to panhandlers?
Posted 29 Sep 2015 18:51

This is heart felt. I'm so sorry you lived that nightmare. I commend you my friend for the work you put into getting your teachers credential. You are an example for all. I would have you teach my children in a heart beat. Hugs.

Thank you. It's nice to know some appreciate the hard work it takes to earn a teacher's credential/license... and now I have licenses in two states.

Topic Things Everyone But You Have Done...
Posted 28 Sep 2015 18:55

I've never done illegal drugs or smoked weed (since it's slowly becoming legal I better separate it.)
I've never been to Canada, yet I'm married to a Canadian.
I've never broken a bone that I know of.

Posted 28 Sep 2015 18:50

OMG! Is that why you won the comp? I'm totally kidding Ben! You earned that win and we all fucking know it!

Topic Announcing the Winners of our "Historical Erotica" Competition
Posted 28 Sep 2015 18:27

Major congrats to the three winners! You guys kicked some serious ass. And extra congrats to everyone in the top ten. I knew the competition was stiff. dancenude

Topic Who should be the next US president?
Posted 26 Sep 2015 15:01

Well... I know who I'm voting for!

Topic Yogi Berra, loveable American icon passed away.
Posted 26 Sep 2015 07:04

We talked a bit about him in my class since we're doing a "sports" themed story. The author was still alive at the time of publication and would be in his late 80's so with Yogi Berra living to 90, we talked about how it's still possible that the author is retired, but still alive, today.

What impressed me was how many of my kids knew who Yogi Berra was and were even a bit familiar with his record.

RIP Yogi.

Topic Name a theme song for the avatar above yours.
Posted 26 Sep 2015 06:58

American Woman - The Guess Who

Topic Happy Birthday KatieElizabeth !
Posted 25 Sep 2015 17:57

Topic what's on your t-shirt?
Posted 25 Sep 2015 17:53

Troupe of Titans

It was a t-shirt for my school's drama club. I bought two to support the kids.

Topic The WORST movie you ever saw
Posted 25 Sep 2015 17:47

I waited and waited and waited SO long to see this online. I thought it looked so freaking amazing for what little previews I did allow myself to watch. FINALLY I found a copy to watch online and BAM what a waste! I was bored within the first ten minutes of the movie. I forced myself to watch the whole thing, in hopes it would get better. It only got worse. Sighs. A train wreck from start to finish.

Thank you for confirming we did the right thing in walking out. I was told it was about cyber-bullying and I thought it was like a documentary like the movie Bully or Waiting for Superman . Sadly it wasn't even close.

Topic The WORST movie you ever saw
Posted 25 Sep 2015 17:45

I saw it just before I married my first husband... and I was so disappointed with it. I'm not really sure why. For a long time it was my least favorite movie though I know many like yourself who loved it. I didn't think you were criticizing me... you just were curious as to why. I'm sure if I listed some movies I really enjoyed a few would be like... "WHY?" Big Hugs

Topic The WORST movie you ever saw
Posted 24 Sep 2015 19:19

"Howard the Duck." If you've heard of it, you know what I mean. If you haven't, thank whatever deity you believe in and do not Google it.

Agreed... what a piece of shit!

Topic American Psychological Association Classifies Belief in “God” As Mental Illness
Posted 24 Sep 2015 19:17

As much as I love the idea of classifying excessive religiosity as a mental disorder, according to Snopes this is a hoax.

In fact, the APA code of ethics clearly states that the organization is against discrimination based on religious beliefs.

LOL, next time I'll ask you first before I post a link here. Well, probably not. But good catch! thumbup

Darn that Snopes! LOL

Posted 24 Sep 2015 19:05

And here's why... bd.jpg

Posted 24 Sep 2015 19:02

I have no excuse for my being tardy... Happy birthday Rach!

Topic The WORST movie you ever saw
Posted 24 Sep 2015 18:56

The remake of Father of the Bride with Steve Martin.
Eyes Wide Shut (what a waste of money & film)
Unfriended - so bad my husband & I walked out in the middle. A true first for us both.

Topic Political Correctness
Posted 23 Sep 2015 20:06

teaching pc .. book ... Shhh pc.jpg

Sadly, this is how some schools & districts want us to teach children how to think. Some of us are still being radicals and trying to teach children to be independent free thinkers.

Topic How long does it usually take for a story to get verified?
Posted 23 Sep 2015 19:59

Lush still has some of the verification time with the bonus of a real person checking over your story. Gold members also get the bonus of minor editing on their stories. Read it

Topic Gav's Performance Review
Posted 20 Sep 2015 19:54

94/100... darling... you are 100/100 in my book. Big time Congratulations and I'm sending you a special gift. Hope you like... her. And thanks again for all you've done.