Topic What's your opinion on abortion?
11 Aug 2013 15:29
I have always been a pro-choice person. I feel that the decision is never made lightly and should be a "joint" decision. However, too many men thing they either have the right to tell a woman to she must have an abortion or to keep the child. Though I know most men feel they are not given a voice, I feel they should listen to the woman and discuss all the options. A true man will support his woman's decision no matter what, even if he doesn't fully agree.
Topic What new story categories would you like added to Lush?
19 May 2013 08:28
I have two thoughts.
1) Cheating Husbands. We have "Wife Lovers" but not one about husbands who cheat.
2) Sci-Fi. Now, I know for this category it might require Lush to allow "non-human" characters to have sex, but it's just a thought.
Topic Would you ever fuck someone...
18 May 2013 23:55
I've never fucked a guy within the first hour, but I have stroked a guy's cock and we did some serious making out. I'm not sure if I gave him a blow job or not as I was pretty drunk, and it was a long time ago. However, I would have if I were able to.
Topic Cumming before/ after/ with
18 May 2013 23:51
As the title suggests do you cum before/ after/ or with your partner?
If your partner cums before you how do you deal with this?
I prefer to cum before or with my husband. However, so often he'll cum first so when he does, he will go down and perform a good oral session to finish me off.
Topic Do you like a vocal man?
18 May 2013 23:46
I do like a man to be somewhat vocal, but most I've had aren't. However, as long as he makes some noise when he cums... I'm happy. I like hearing him cum. I mean... he likes me making noise when I cum so of course... I want the same.
Topic Should obese people be classified as disabled?
11 Mar 2013 12:01
Obesity is often self inflicted. However, there are real medical condition that can cause it. However, we as a society need to stop "blaming" the world for what is wrong & take some responsibility. This is a lesson I've tried to teach my son and myself. I don't blame my problems on the government, on my spouse, on my ex-employer. I know the situation isn't all my fault, but I must accept my responsibility. I am overweight because I put the wrong food in my body & didn't exercise enough. Now, I'm working to change that. But it's not easy to make changes. I know this. However, I've started taking the necessary steps to make the changes within myself to better my quality of life.
I see too many people who get on "disability" claiming they can't work when they just don't want to. I understand there are those who can't work, and most of those really want to, and that's one thing. Being obese isn't a disability... it's a choice. It's not easy to overcome, but it can be done. It just takes hard work & determination... and getting off your lazy ass. And yes... I'm speaking from personal experience.
Thus, I'm getting off my lazy ass and hitting the gym 4-5 days a week.
Topic Quick question, Dick or Cock?
10 Mar 2013 10:59
I knew a lady who would call a guy "Richard" even though it wasn't his name. When we asked her why, she said, "Richard is long for 'Dick.'"
Dick is more of an insult "You dick!"
Cock is more of the organ used to fuck a pussy.
But, if an author uses dick instead of cock, I don't mind. I mean... it's their story not mine.
Topic role play sex
10 Mar 2013 10:43
Not during sex... but I've always wanted to... most of my role playing has been on line or in my stories.
Topic How slutty are you? http://www.okcupid.com/the-slut-test
01 Mar 2013 20:07
"Your above score was normalized against the average, so don’t even TRY to disagree with us. Science is certain, and so are we: you are absolutely 69% slutty."
What the perfect Slut percentage!!!!
Topic Ladies, what's the reality of shower masturbation?
01 Mar 2013 18:58
Okay, I learned by accident (the 1st time) any adjustable hand-held shower head works. For me, it was the more course setting where a slightly wider stream of water hitting my clit would make me cum within seconds. The fine or pin point (for me) hurt too much. I always leaned against the wall, propped one leg on the wall, and let it go. Now, if I'm fucking... I keep the water away. But it's a great way to enjoy a quick orgasm when I'm alone & horny.
Topic Be Careful What You Wish For.........
24 Feb 2013 10:01
Granted! You arrive and find your hotel is deep in the Australian Outback and you must hunt, catch, kill, and cook your own food. You're so successful that you become a member of a local Aboriginal tribe and marry the Chief's daughter who is the most beautiful woman you've ever seen and you have many children.
I wish I would become a famous erotic author and wealthy woman.
Topic Change in Lush culture
21 Feb 2013 21:25
First off... the person who started this thread is no longer a member... anyone wonder why? He claims it's because he's got a life... well I've got a life away from LUSH and my account is just as active as it's ever been. (And I'm sure others have a life away from Lush as well.)
Second... my point earlier with E.L James was that she's made a shit-load of money on her 3 books. Like her, love her, hate her... that's your choice. Based on the statement from the person who started his mess, my logic was he thought only "paid" authors are "real" writers. I'm no fan of Stephanie Meyers either.
Third... Everyone who comes to Lush comes for different reasons. For me, I was following a fellow author who liked this site and told me about it (and then he up and left... the coward!) I stayed for multiple reasons including the members, both Gold and free, the amazing stories, and the awesome feedback I've gotten for my own work.
Fourth... If you're going to make inflammatory statements in the forum, be prepared for people to raise some hell.
I may not like EVERY story here on LUSH (I know... shocking right!) But I respect each person for putting themselves out there and writing stories they want to write. I appreciate it when people read my stuff and make comments or send me messages, even if they say stuff I don't like to hear.
Thanks to everyone who as added to this thread as it's been so much fun to read... even with those who didn't agree with me.
Topic Sex in the car...
21 Feb 2013 20:52
Depending on the type of a car makes all the difference. If you can get access to a full size SUV or a big truck, and you're willing to try. Find an open stretch of highway, set the cruise control, tilt the steering wheel all the way up, remove your pants, and have your partner eat your pussy to orgasm. I know it sounds weird and a bit dangerous, but I swear I'm talking from personal experience. It is an amazing sexual experience. I mean, men like it when we suck their cocks while they are driving, so why can't we have our pussy eaten. I will admit, it takes some effort but it's so fucking worth it!!!
Topic going commando
21 Feb 2013 13:58
I hate going commando personally. I like my thong... it's the closest I can get and I feel so sexy in them. I know some women love going commando, but it's not my style. And for me, feeling sexy is what matters.
Topic tan lines yes or no
21 Feb 2013 13:52
I don't understand why pale skin isn't beautiful. Yes, I have had my share of tan lines over the years and I see no shame in them. It proves you have modesty and aren't showing off all you have for the world. Though, with tanning salons, that's not the issue like it was. I chose not to tan except when I visit the beach or go swimming at a friend's house. I just hate burning so I use lots of sunscreen.
Topic Why Are So Many Comments Completely Positive?
19 Feb 2013 15:32
If I'm going to give "negative feedback" I'd rather send a private message than write something on a public forum. Well, aside from the forum that is. A comment on the story is public. So if I write one, I try to be positive. I'd rather not trash someone's story publicly, but that's just me. If someone puts negative feedback (comments) on my stories, it hurts but I leave it. Besides, we were taught if you can't say something nice, then say nothing at all.
Topic Change in Lush culture
19 Feb 2013 14:49
I don't consider professional writers of erotica writers either. Call it a site to write but it's writing porn so it's a sex site. I get the site needs money to run, but many gold members seem to think they are better or above other members of the site, they still belong to a sex site, that doesn't make you an amazing person.
Oh how I wish I had read this sooner.
Really? People who have successfully written erotica aren't professional writers. Hmmm.. now let me try to understand this. If I write a story, with NO SEX and get paid for it, I'm a real writer. But, if I write a story with a lot of sex (or even a fair amount) of sex and get paid for it I'm not?
Sites like Lush Stores are a place for amateurs like myself come to develop their skills. At least, that's my reason for being here in part. Now, to be fair, not everyone who posts here wants to be the next Anne Rice, E.L. James, Stephen King, Mark Twain, Alice Walker, James Joyce, or Toni Morrison. Some write for the sheer joy of writing. Lush Stories is a place to share stories that have sex scenes and sex acts between characters. Some authors are better than others.
Now, I'm not currently a Gold Member for reasons I won't discuss here, but I appreciate the fact this is a free site for those of us who like this option even if it means I must deal with the advertisements on here. I don't feel a "Gold Member" is better than me. I see it as their choice. Good for them! If they are also writers, even better.
I think you might want to re-think your attitude. Yes your entitled to your opinion, but you must also be willing to have people disagree with you, especially if your going to post them here in the forum.
Topic Change in Lush culture
19 Feb 2013 14:22
I don't consider people who write stories on a sex site to be real writers.
Are you FUCKING kidding me?!?
So then, you don't consider E.L. James a real writer? Because she sure has made some real fucking money off her 50 Shades Trilogy & she started off on sites like this one! FYI, there are a lot of us who are "real" writers who use sties like LUSH Stories to get feedback. I know I do. I appreciate the feedback I get from those who read my work, both the positive and the negative. It's how we improve.
As for the "cybering" and other aspects, it's the social networking aspect of this site that I like and why I'm still a member. I don't judge if someone doesn't wish to cyber or even want to chat. That is their choice. I came here primarily to post my stories. I stayed for the amazing people I've chatted with and the awesome stories I've read. Sure some of us are on more than one site, but we're trying to get our stories out there, and this is a safe place for that.
So, to echo the sentiment of others in this threat... what do you consider a "real writer"? Because I sure as fuck think the folks who post here are REAL FUCKING WRITERS!!!
Topic Calling All Kindle Owners
19 Feb 2013 14:08
I have the Nexus 7 and I love it!. I have a Kindle App, Nook App, and Kobo App for reading e-books. Now I can shop around for all books I want to read. Some sites are more expensive than others. The Kindle app is wonderful and I have a tablet computer. I have a friend who's had both an iPad and a Nexus 7 and LOVES his Nexus 7 way more. Best part is, all the reading apps are 100% free so you have full access to all the free books. Plus, the Nexus 7 is reasonable priced tablet and the size is perfect for me. I love reading books on it.
Hope this helps.
Topic Guilty or Innocent.
16 Feb 2013 11:30
Innocent. Too busy watching my BFF have her two kids or me having my son.
Have you ever had sex in a public place? (I'm sure it was asked already)
Topic Story Tags - How important are they?
16 Feb 2013 11:28
The tags help a lot. Usually, if a story can catch my eye in the opening paragraph, I'll probably read through. There are certain things I'm not a fan of, but I know not everyone will like what I write either.
Topic Chat and Cybersex on this site question
16 Feb 2013 11:25
Wow, most of what was said is what I would have said. I have myself set as "away" so I don't get bombarded by "chat requests". You can also set yourself as "invisible" which I do if all I want to do is read & not be bothered by even the "on-line" chats (the little 100 character limit window).
Now, everyone has a different opinion about the cyber thing, and I respect your opinion in this. Happily, most of the folks I chat with have taken the time to get to know me first before engaging into a cyber session (and only a select few have cybered with me.) So, I think if you follow the advice the wonderful folks who have already given, you should be fine.
Oh yeah... and for those who think you're being a bitch... FUCK THEM! (not literally) You are here to share your stories and maybe read a few (I know that's why I'm here.) I stay because there are a few I love to chat with, and I get great feedback on my stories.
Stay strong hon! We might not agree in the realm of cyber, but I respect your opinion and desire to share your work.
Topic Open Crotch Panties
16 Feb 2013 11:16
Wow. I think I might be the one person with a different opinion here. I have owned 2 pairs, one I like way more than the other. The one I liked I wore under a short skirt and it was great. I didn't have to deal with them for using the bathroom or sex. I even was able to sit on my date's lap in a crowded bar and fuck him publicly without anyone knowing (he kept his shirt untucked so when I slid off it covered his cock.) It worked great as no one saw him reach under my skirt, and yet, we were getting our freak on.
The reason I liked the one vs. the other was the design. They were black, sheer, lacy, & very stretchy. My pussy was fully exposed, but my ass was semi-covered. The best part was the tiny gold whistle that hung over my bush (I'm so not making this up). Yeah they felt a bit weird but it was great! The one I hated had a small opening for my pussy and never lined up right.
I'm not a fan of having my panties torn off. Unless of course, the guy buys them for that purpose. For me, if I'm spending good money on panties, either take them off or push them to the side. Don't tear them off of me.
The few men who have been privileged to see me in my crotchless panties have complemented on their sexiness and enjoyed blowing my whistle. =d>
If you decide you really want a pair, you must find one that works for you.
Topic Guilty or Innocent.
15 Feb 2013 19:56
Innocent. However, I'm guilty of being up too late to due to LUSH.
Have you ever had oral sex while driving a car & you were the driver?