Forum posts made by oldfaithful

Topic drunk sex
Posted 05 Sep 2013 14:49

When my wife has a drink she turns into a sexual animal after just one glass of wine. Its fantastic. Pity its been 6 years since she last had a drink!!

Topic Pity Fuck
Posted 04 Sep 2013 08:52

I've heard of it in a different context. My understanding was it also included sex with a partner even if you really aren't in the mood.The old i've got a headache and am really not feeling great but he's still all over me so i'll give what he wants just so he'll leave me alone.

No idea if this is right but i can see it being more common than the urban dictionary definition - especially based on responses from Lushees so far.

Anyone else hear of this definition? And can anyone put their hands up to this one? Not me. Always happy to i guess most women have the sense and empathy not to try it on when their other half isn't right!!

Topic Relationships - how did you get to know someone
Posted 01 Sep 2013 12:44

For me i was desperately trying to go out with somone else when i first met my wife. As my mind was very much on someone else we became just good friends for a few months. It was only after i spectacularly failed with the other girl that my wife and i started dating. By then we had already been mates for a while and this was an easy and natural progression for us both.

Topic SimplyJohn - 3 free Gold memberships HERE!!
Posted 29 Aug 2013 05:39

157 for me please

Topic cities game
Posted 26 Aug 2013 12:00

Nelson, NZ

D'oh! Too slow...

Kingston, Jamaica

Topic cities game
Posted 26 Aug 2013 11:57

Nelson, NZ

Topic cities game
Posted 26 Aug 2013 09:50


Topic Have you been told that you bear a resemblance
Posted 26 Aug 2013 04:57

I've been told i look like....

and also...

Sadly not to the first and, after a swift exchange of words, the kid from school decided i did not in fact resemble Gonzo!

Topic Suffering guilt from your secret Lush Life?
Posted 25 Aug 2013 07:19

I certainly felt guilty when i first joined. I share everything with my wife except for my life on Lush. She is a very private person and does not like any social media sites so she certainly would not like this one.

I too am 40 - nearly, 40th coming soon- and have very different needs in our sex lives these days.

So at first it felt bad but only because it felt like i was somehow living a lie.

Now i'm ok with it and the reason i am ok with it is because i am true and open in my profile and in my posts. I make a point of the fact that i am happily married and i would not be embarrassed if my wife did ever see anything that i wrote. In other words my behaviour online has been and always will be exactly the same as offline. I am flirty yes but true to my friends and to my wife.

I hope this helps in some way as i did feel the same when i first joined.

Topic cities game
Posted 23 Aug 2013 08:07


Topic cities game
Posted 22 Aug 2013 23:42

Where does Lima come from? Next one was supposed to start with Y?

Topic What tv/movie character did you crush on as a kid?
Posted 22 Aug 2013 14:31

Lori Singer in Footloose

then Kelly Le Brock in Woman in Red

then Jessica Lange in the Postman always rings twice

Topic cities game
Posted 22 Aug 2013 12:48


Topic Three words said about the person above you
Posted 22 Aug 2013 12:41

Really likes films

Topic make up sex
Posted 21 Aug 2013 14:36

Never experienced make up sex as i've not had a single fight with my wife in 21 years

Topic Girls in Uniform
Posted 21 Aug 2013 11:46

Police uniforms for me. I got pulled over once cos the headlight on my knackered old car was flashing the police car in front. I was asked to get into the back of her car. She talked to me for quite a while but i have no idea what she said. Complete brain freeze. I think she noticed, took pity on me and let me go!

Topic Will you have sex with me?
Posted 21 Aug 2013 11:28

I couldn't even watch all of them - either one. Just too in your face and uncomfortable for me to watch. Ickey, that's what they both are!!

Topic Who is your celebrity crush?
Posted 21 Aug 2013 11:20

My answer to this normally generates cries along the lines of 'you're a puff'!

But the truth is i don't have a celebrity crush. Without meeting them i can't tell what their personality is like. A cracking face and body means nothing to me without the personality to match.

There, i said it.

Topic Say something nice about the profile of the person above you
Posted 20 Aug 2013 15:00

Comes across as warm and friendly...oh and having a close family is a big thumbs up from me!

Topic What was your" WHAT THE FUCK WAS I THINKING" moment?
Posted 18 Aug 2013 14:17

When i looked up and called a girl from college to ask to meet up over Christmas.

It was a love at first sight moment and i'd been like a lost puppy all term I couldn't bear the thought of not seeing her over the Christmas holidays and gave her a call even thougb she had previously given me the just friends line in the past.

I called her and asked if she wanted to meet up. She was clearly lost for words and just said 'i'm busy that day'

I hadn't mentioned a day and reality smacked me right in the face.

What the fuck was i thinking?

Topic what is your favorite movie quote
Posted 18 Aug 2013 11:23

Not a quote, but a brief exchange that has always touched me...from Schindler's List

Oskar Schindler: I could have got more out. I could have got more. I don't know. If I'd just... I could have got more.

Itzhak Stern: Oskar, there are eleven hundred people who are alive because of you. Look at them.

Oskar Schindler: If I'd made more money... I threw away so much money. You have no idea. If I'd just..

Itzhak Stern: There will be generations because of what you did.

Oskar Schindler: I didn't do enough
!Itzhak Stern: You did so much.

Oskar Schindler: This car. Goeth would have bought this car. Why did I keep the car? Ten people right there. Ten people. Ten more people.

Oskar Schindler: This pin. Two people. This is gold. Two more people. He would have given me two for it, at least one. One more person. A person, Stern. For this. Oskar Schindler: I could have gotten one more person... and I didn't! And I... I didn't!

Topic what is your favorite movie quote
Posted 18 Aug 2013 11:13

I love that you get cold when it's 71 degrees out. I love that it takes you an hour and a half to order a sandwich. I love that you get a little crinkle above your nose when you're looking at me like I'm nuts. I love that after I spend the day with you, I can still smell your perfume on my clothes. And I love that you are the last person I want to talk to before I go to sleep at night. And it's not because I'm lonely, and it's not because it's New Year's Eve. I came here tonight because when you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible.

Harry Burns - When Harry met Sally

Topic Google Your Username!
Posted 18 Aug 2013 10:43

No surprise what showed up for me......

Topic Describe yourself in one word
Posted 18 Aug 2013 03:10


Topic Who is the most famous person you have ever met?
Posted 18 Aug 2013 01:53

I've briefly met a few minor celebs from the UK. But the person i feel most honoured to have met, at his home, was former editor of the Daily Dispatch in South Africa, Donald Woods. Not that famous these days but he played a not insignificant role in the ending of apartheid in south africa. Having written about the murder of his friend and anti apartheid activist Steve Biko, Donald was forced to flee from his country with his family.

He later became the first private citizen to address the UN Security Council.

He was later portrayed by Kevin Kline in the film Cry Freedom.

Topic Your ideal partner in two words
Posted 18 Aug 2013 01:36

Selfless and loving

Topic what grabs your attention when reading profiles?
Posted 18 Aug 2013 01:27

For me an intersting post in the forums will entice me to check out a profile. Like a lot of other responses i like a person who has included a realistic bio. Though what they say in forums often says more about them than their profile does. I don't tend to friend request as i've always preferred the other person to make the first move. But i do follow people i like or respect and like to check out their stories too.

Topic Want to watch your wife fuck another man?
Posted 17 Aug 2013 13:35

Like most answers it's a fantasy but would absolutely go no further. For me i like the fantasy because i focus on my wife and the pleasure she is getting. Turning her on is what turns me on the most. So maybe the fantasy works because we stop thinking about ourselves and instead think aboutour wife?

Topic Naughtiest place youve had sex
Posted 17 Aug 2013 05:54

In a farmer's field. This was going fine until the farmer arrived with sheepdog. The sheepdog ran over and started sniffing and licking. Not pleasant when you've got nowt on!

Topic Today in Pictures (post a picture representing your mood)
Posted 15 Aug 2013 10:21