Topic What do you guys think of when woman have had previous c-sections
01 May 2014 11:16
My wife had two big babies after long labours, and a c section with our third. So she has lots of stretch marks, and a c section scar as well as an appendectomy scar, done when she was 4 months pregnant with our first, so it stretched a lot as well.
But so what! She's my woman, and we've spent years together loving each other since then.
If ypou have someone who is concerned about these, then he may not be worthy of you.
Topic The Incest Category is going to be removed
19 Apr 2014 13:10
As many have said, this site is Nicola's site, and she must have the right to set the rules.
I have written a few stories in which the protagonists are related, but I don't have a problem if they are deleted. To be honest I wrote them because I had seen that of all the categories, it was easiest to get good ratings there, but also I had seen that the quality of writing was probably the lowest.
Personally, I don't have a problem with Incest under any definition, so long as it happens between consenting ADULTS. There should be no hint of pressure or reluctance overcome by the perception of the relationship, i.e. father - daughter/son. It became banned because it was (and still is) detrimental to the gene pool, and the survival of the race. But that's a bit out-dated, now we have effective birth control and understand genetics so much better.
Topic What is your Favorite Sex Toy?
18 Apr 2014 08:12
I must admit that neither belong to me. They're both my mum's. A very realistic looking 8" rubber dildo and a purple 'G' spot vibe.i love them both.
I think I'd like to meet your Mum, Jay!!
Topic Ruined Orgasm
15 Apr 2014 09:22
Its the use of the word "allow" that intrigues me. Like it is something that the OP takes pleasure from. That's more than a prick tease, that's just plain odd.
But of ruining means getting me right o the brink and then stopping, unless it was done as part f a longer sex session, I'd just finish myself off, and try to spray you as much as I could.
Topic do you believe in God?
14 Apr 2014 10:11
God is an Atheist. We create "God" because science as yet cannot answer every question we have about our being. A hypothetical God would, so he would have no need for a God. QED.
Mankind likes to create symbols for things they don't understand. Man's symbol "God" has been used as the excuse for more killing and cruelty by man to man than enough, and if indeed there were some Omnipotent being, he would have disowned mankind well before now.
Religions? Some of them provide good, workable, codes of ethics. But belief in a superior being. Rubbish!
I am an atheist. But not a God. Where's my tribe of uncivilised people when I need them?
Topic New Proposal - Daddy's Day?
14 Apr 2014 09:44
I had the same thought, Hayley. I totally agree, there should be a Daddy's Day for all those nubile and sexy young women who enjoy the skills and understanding of the older man.
Or is that being selfish??
Topic What type of car guy/gal are you
30 Mar 2014 10:28
Given my druthers, I'd have an Aston Martin probably the Vanquish. But I'mnot spending that much until I win the lottery. I just make do with my old Jaguar S type (yes, still running), and my Mercedes CLS diesel.
Topic Do guys like Chubby or Curvy girls?
28 Mar 2014 15:32
Yes. I know I am a tit man first and foremost, and while I have known some otherwise slim women who have a great pair, its not the norm, so generally the curvy women win for me.
Topic What do you prefer: slim or the fuller figure?
12 Feb 2014 10:55
Fuller, without question, nice curves, handfuls of boobs, and a bubble butt to get a good grip of.
In an ideal world, such a woman would not be overweight, just beautifully covered.
But I can handle some weight!
Topic Anal Fun
14 Jan 2014 03:18
Sounds like you haven't yet "taken the plunge", Beth. When you do, get some Astroglide, it's what I've used for several years now, moved on from KY.
All the advice so far seems sensible to me, but you can help yourself, give yourself some idea of what it might be like, and when you do, it'll make it easier. Just get a slim dildo and lube and play. Maybe in time, but a butt plug and use it first at home only, then maybe progress to using it all day. By then you'll have "educated" your anal sphincter to accept he presence of a long round foreigh object, so taking a cock, though different, should be a lot more fun from the start.
Oh, if I can help further, just ask....hehe
Topic Is cyber sex cheating?
14 Jan 2014 03:04
Got to disagree with most, and say no of course it isn't, and it doesn't matter whether your partner knows or not.
It is no more being unfaithful than looking at a sexy woman in the street, pub, at a party or theatre, or film, and thinking about what you would like to do when fucking her. Most men do this, and more women now are admitting that they do the same about a hot bloke. It's actually better in some ways as it can help improve your own sex lives, as you pick up things which you might do. OK, there are dangers as well, but if your own sex life with your partner is an open enough pone, so you can talk about sex with her/him, then no issue.
It only becomes unfaithful if you actually engage in sex physically with another. That's the real betrayal, in my book, though I know for many people more open relationships are possible and endure.
Topic its been so long
14 Jan 2014 02:55
It is so hard when the one you love is for whatever reason unable to fulfil your sexual needs. It happened to me after my wife had cancer and the drugs she had to take just killed her libido stone dead. Until then we had had a pretty good sex life, and it was hard for her to remember how good it had been, unable to rekindle any of that feeling. She knew it was pretty hard for me too, and for a while she did the mechanical stuff, but it was the emotion involved in making love to the one you love that was missing, and we soon became celibate. We talked to the doctors, tried different drug options, but nothing really changed.
Then one day, she asked me quite simply if I was going to stay, because she knew that the lack of sexual love had left a hole in our relationship. I didn't just give a glib response, we talked at length about it, and I re-affirmed my marriage vow commitment, until death us do part. Then she said that I should look for someone else to satisfy my physical needs. To be honest, I was entirely taken aback, but as we talked further, what she wanted me to do was to have the physical satisfaction and then come home to her. I didn't know if tis was possible.
I now have two relationships with what I suppose would be called fuckbuddies. They themselves are married women whose husbands have lost interest. In one case the husband is aware, in the other not so. My wife knows both of them, and the relationship works. Yes, its a bit unconventional, but she feels secure, and I have in some ways the best of both worlds.
So if you really can't work through the talking about it, the therapies and possibly medications that are available, then you have to take a hard decision.
No, not whether to cut and run, I'm assuming you love her enough not to do that. But whether to tell her that you just have to find a fuckbuddy or whether you just have to settle for a life of celibacy. Both are difficult paths. I was so lucky, and in some ways our relationship is stronger than it was before, but that really is because of the baring of souls that we had to do to reach, for us, the right conclusion.
Topic Husband interested in having multiple wives
14 Jan 2014 02:37
Have you thought ever of having another woman at home for YOU? If your husband isn't that keen on sex, you could have fun, shed some of the workload from you to her - your life sounds like not a lot of time for you - and he gets some company as well.
Just trying it out of the box....
Topic Would you have sex in public?
14 Jan 2014 02:18
Yes, and have done. Not as an exhibition, but where there is a risk of being noticed, gives a real buzz. The classic is in a pub or club where she sit son my lap. Little do the rest of them know that my cock is inside her warm body, until she starts to moan...hehe
Topic What is your favorite sex position ?
14 Jan 2014 02:15
Cowgirl, with a tit in my mouth, and a finger up her ass. I last longer, and she cums quicker - what's not to like!!
Topic What was your first R rated movie?
14 Jan 2014 02:09
"And God Created Woman" was the first film that I saw that in those days would have warranted an R certificate. In the UK, I think it had an X certificate, but I gather even that was censored a bit. I was only 13, but snuck in and boy did Brigitte Bardot sizzle. I wanked for days afterwards.
Topic Would you really say no?
03 Jan 2014 12:22
Hell, I'd drive you home if you had a 20 yr old Ford in the car park. After that, well, I'd be sorely tempted, and you probably would have sobered up just sufficiently for my defences to be weak :)
Topic The word panties vs undies
26 Dec 2013 13:54
"undies" is actually a collective noun for all underwear, so it covers (?!) more than just panties, briefs, knickers , .....
I can't say though that either word has much effect on me, it is who says it, and in what context.
Topic Would you go to a nude beach with a friend of the opposite sex if invited?
09 Dec 2013 11:44
There's a nude beach in North Norfolk, which doesn't get much use. Must be something about the North Sea and the east winds :) But I've been there a few times with my mrs, and would be happy to go again if the sun was warm and the wind stopped. The lack of people there does sometimes get you into trouble, as once we didn't hide the fact that we were getting quite aroused, and made love on our towels, only to find two couples peering over the dune behind us. At least we got a round of applause for our efforts!
Topic Anal Fun
01 Dec 2013 07:05
You've just come out of a relationship, and according to your profile are looking for nsa sex. Frankly it isn't the best time to start with anal, because, as many have pointed out, it takes time and also trust in your partner. The ideal for you would be to find a fuck buddy, who has some experience and can take you through this. You may not get anything from it, but if you do, then it can be outstanding!! (My Mrs says so too!).
So take it slowly, ease you anus into it - maybe get a butt plug and wear that for a while, starting small and moving up, and again as many have said, diy with a vibe. That should give you some insight into it, and I hope you enjoy it.