Forum posts made by paman

Topic Lactation: Hot or Gross?
Posted 23 Jul 2016 10:09

I have experienced this with a number of nursing mothers and, with the right person and the right circumstances, it can be most enjoyable.

Other times, other people, other circumstances - it's not fun.

Just don't ask for what the circumstances need to be as I'm fairly sure I'd be unable to elaborate.

And don't EVER assume that you can decide you're going to play with the lady's breasts and use them like water pistols - wait until you're invited.

Topic UK
Posted 21 Jul 2016 08:43

Ladies, or gents too, I suppose,

Is the term "spunk" still used now days over in the UK. Have been hearing it used by both men and women in older "classic" type films that I would guess to be British?

Nice change from always hearing "cum", especially love the way women say it, HOT!

Depending on the age and genre of the film, 'spunk' could be a coarse reference to semen or a reference to a person's courage.

My impression is that the courage type usage is becoming obsolete.

Topic Skinny or Curvy?
Posted 14 Jul 2016 09:44

It's not skinny or curvy, it's, both, but not at either of the extreme ends of the skinny-curvy spectrum.

Topic Do you tell other people, about your sexual partners?
Posted 14 Jul 2016 08:41

I may tell others about people who have been my sexual partners, but I don't, and wouldn't, tell them those people have been my sexual partners.

In other words I may tell about a person, but I don't reveal the sexual content of that relationship.

Topic Cock Rings ever used one?
Posted 08 Jul 2016 07:17

Metal ones need to be accurately sized. Too small and either you won't get it on or, and this is worse, you won't get it off. Too big and it'll fall off.

Rubber or silicone ones work well if they are adjustable, otherwise they too need to be accurately sized.

Once you've got the right size you should find it stimulating, at least, and it may help sustain your erection.

But, once you have once that fits comfortably, don't wear it for too long in case the blood-flow gets too restricted.

The consequences of the blood-flow getting too restricted for too long are left as a mental exercise for the reader............

Topic Sexy Sentiments * What's your favorite?
Posted 29 Jun 2016 08:45

If I said you had a beautiful body,
Would you hold it against me?
PLEASE?

Topic Do you guys mind girls with small bums? (I have 32DDDs, but a really tiny bum)
Posted 22 Jun 2016 09:04

Until bums, whether large or small, can engage in conversation I don't think that the smallness matters.

And initially, I read your post as you having 3-D 32s and I thought "well, of course they're 3-D, or is this an assertion that they do actually stick out?" I suppose as 32DDDs they do really stick out. Sorry......

Topic Do YOU, as a GUY, GET OFF on LESBIAN Porn?
Posted 21 Jun 2016 08:59

Not me - it doesn't excite at all........

Topic Guys, which of the following 4 types of chicks have you had sex with
Posted 06 Jun 2016 00:54

Redheads
Virgin
pregnant
BBW,chubby,fat,plump.

Could u describe the type u have had sex with, how old was that girl and what did she look like?


Yes - mid-40s
No
Yes - mid-30s
Yes - mid 50s

All were attractive in their own ways.

Topic Would you ever marry a girl with a notorious sexual history?
Posted 02 Jun 2016 09:49

Yes I could marry someone with a history...........

I would expect the marriage to be for love and that during the courtship and decision-making process of the marriage I would anticipate there'd be full discussion of the past, presnet and future.

I think regards what had happened, there needs to be agreement on how, if need be, it was going to be lived with/explained/whatever, and how the future would be - in so far as one can predict the future.

But your past needn't be a show stopper for the future.

Topic would you care about the color of her pussy or the shape and colour of her breasts?
Posted 24 May 2016 09:15

The colour of her pussy - no, I wouldn't care.

The shape and colour of her breasts - this reminded me of a short poem, a Limerick:

There was a young girl from Devizes
Had breasts of different sizes.
One was small,
Hardly nothing at all.
The other was big and won prizes.

But no, I wouldn't be concerned.

Topic Tan Lines Or Not
Posted 22 May 2016 09:53

I like it when you can see that there really is an all-over tan, or when you can see the full extent of the tan lines.

Topic How many active member from uk ?
Posted 03 May 2016 06:59

And me - six

Topic Do you guy like being rimmed and fingered
Posted 21 Apr 2016 09:59

Rimming? yes....

Fingering? YES! PLEASE!

Topic period
Posted 21 Apr 2016 09:56

Yes I've done it when my partner at the time has had her period.

With one particular and very special partner, sex during her period was something we both looked forward to as it was unnecessary to use condoms.

Topic Do YOU, as a GUY, GET OFF on LESBIAN Porn?
Posted 21 Apr 2016 02:03



Because I DON'T... (And for the ODDEST of reasons...)

I ADORE women... (My last remaining addiction!) BUT...

I don't GET FF porn!!! (It does not INVOLVE me, I can NEVER picture myself IN IT, it doesn't turn me on and I just don't GET IT!)

They look PRETTY and all, but I just think... WHERE IS THE DICK?

I KNOW it's a HUGE THING for Straight Men!!!

But I REALLY don't get it!!! I GENUINELY don't!

Thoughts?

xx SF



I agree almost entirely - my level of interest in FF is so low that I don't even think "where is the dick?"

Topic Pierced nipples, I've asked the women, now the men
Posted 16 Apr 2016 04:00

In an earlier reply I'd assumed that anyone with piercings would have had them because they wanted them, themselves. I'd overlooked the fact that they might have had them because they were asked/instructed to by someone else.

In other words when you see another's piercings they may be indicative of some form of submissiveness - but I suggest that in many cases it would be difficult to tell.

Regarding other replies, from personal experience I can advise that the movement of piercing jewelry against clothing can produce very pleasurable effects, as can the movement of heavy jewelry within a piercing. And someone I know has a VCH piercing and she told me that some of the jewelry she wears can keep her very excitingly aroused as she walks etc.

In other words, piercings can be for the wearer's personal pleasure.

Topic Pierced nipples, I've asked the women, now the men
Posted 14 Apr 2016 08:33



I'm not trying to fall out with anyone either :)

I just wanted people to understand that piercings (once they're healed) are not as fragile as you may think.

And having had a number of piercings I can confirm the truth of that statement, that there not as fragile as you may think.

Just be aware that whilst having the piercing done, during the healing process, if you have the piercing stretched or if the piercing pulls out, you will experience pain, either certainly or probably.

Then, once the healing or stretching is complete the sensations change from pain to pleasure.

Enjoy!

Topic Pierced nipples, I've asked the women, now the men
Posted 11 Apr 2016 09:43

When you see a woman, in pictures or in real life, who has her nipple(s) pierced, do you think she is submissive or not?

I don't consider there's any correlation between having piercings and being submissive; or being blonde and being dumb; or any of the hundred and one other stereotype correlations that are out there.

Topic Leading Lady
Posted 28 Mar 2016 08:59

D you like sexually aggressive women, or is it a turn off to have the woman take the lead? I find that I can be intimidating to some guys cuz I know what I want and say so.
Your question is slightly at odds with the topic title, so let me answer a bit at a time.

"Do you like sexually aggressive women...?" No, not really.

"Is it a turn off to have the woman take the lead?" 'No', if she takes the lead, but 'yes' if she drives the situation.

I like it if the lady explains, in words or deeds, what she is or will enjoy. But I'm not so keen if she issues orders or commands.

Topic Cock Rings
Posted 15 Mar 2016 10:33

I apologize if there is a thread already on this subject.
My questions are
have you or do you use a cock Ring.
What does this do for you?
If you don't, would you if asked

Yes I have a cock ring, and yes I use it but not every time.
It makes for a 'fuller' erection, i.e. more volume and greater rigidity, and also leads to a more intense orgasm.
But, as others have said, it is crucial to get the right size. Too small and you can't get it on, too big and you can't keep it in.

Topic For the older gentlemen: What keeps you so in to sex?
Posted 15 Feb 2016 11:43

I've got quite a few male friends on Lush in their fifties and sixties, just wondering what it is about sex that keeps you older men so involved with it? What keeps you coming back to Lush so much. Nothing wrong with it, just curious about the allure of sex at an older age. My grandpa is in his late sixties and plays golf all day long in Florida, and does volunteer work the rest of the time. Maybe he does something like Lush, but I'd be surprised. Just curious my older men guy friends, not saying anything's wrong with anything, please don't get all defensive about it. lol ;)

If you're going to ask this question about men's interest in sex you might also ask: "what it is about eating that keeps you older men so involved with it?"

It's a male appetite, no more, no less, and there's nothing that requires men to lose an appetite, any appetite.

Topic How to get an old friend to notice me
Posted 11 Feb 2016 08:19

Serious question: I reconnected with an old friend. He is getting divorced and so am I. I really like him and I think he likes me..but I can't tell...how do I get him to notice me? This is very tricky as my daughter is dating his son.

To be able to give advice I think I need to know what the likely outcomes of the two divorces are. In particular, what sort of relationships do you expect your daughter will have with you, and with her father, after your divorce? What sort of relationship do you expect your daughter's boyfriend to have with his father, and his mother after his father's divorce? In other words what are each of the post-divorces parent-child relationships likely to be.

With some combinations the problem is easy and you could, for example, ask him for coffee or a drink. Other combinations will be more fraught and need thought before advice is offered.

But whatever the possible outcomes your happiness must be considered as being important because life is NOT a rehearsal.

Topic UGLY
Posted 10 Feb 2016 09:55

I have known a lot of straight men that say all women are beautiful in their own way. Are there some physical attribute on a woman that you find ugly or gross?

Not sure about "all women are beautiful", but certainly many women are attractive in some way, or ways. The nature of the relationship then governs whether the attractiveness includes a sexual element.

I can think of women I know/ have known who are very attractive for the intellectual stimulation and relationship they give/gave, but with whom the thought of a sexual relationship never arose.

And I can think of others whom I would classify as "drop dead gorgeous" but the potential for non-sexual relationships was at or near zero.

Topic how far would you drive for sex?
Posted 10 Feb 2016 09:47

7 hours, 330 miles, plus a 22 mile sea crossing. That was one way!

Topic Cheesy, but successful, chat-up lines
Posted 04 Feb 2016 09:10

What cheesy chat-up lines have you used with success?

For example, "if I said you had a beautiful body would you hold it against me, please?" has worked for me... In fact it was much more successful than I ever expected and we were more than just FWBs for a number of years. Sadly, some years ago she succumbed to a very fast acting cancer.

So what's worked for you?

Topic How often do you get a hard on? Honest please.
Posted 02 Feb 2016 07:56

Several times a day, if I'm lucky.

Isn't there another question, which is 'for how long do they last?'

And then, maybe, there's another question: 'do you prefer many of short duration, or a few of long duration?'

Topic have you ever had car sex
Posted 29 Jan 2016 10:03

Yes, many, many years ago, but only because neither of us had our own home. It never did, and still doesn't, have any appeal at all compared to a house, apartment or hotel.

Topic Do you think women look good with nipple piercings and their clit pierced?
Posted 11 Jan 2016 01:56

Pierced nipples are definitely sexy as hell. I've never been with a woman with a pierced clit and I am curious what it would be like. Could I use a magnet?

Yes you could use a magnet, but the metals used for this type of jewelry are silver, gold, titanium or stainless steel, and magnets don't work on these metals, unless the stainless steel is very specialized.

Topic Jewellery - 4th Ring Finger
Posted 10 Jan 2016 03:01

Married? Yes.
A ring on my left hand ring finger? Yes
A ring on my left hand little finger? Yes, the family crest.

Be aware that marriage bands are worn on different hands in different countries, e.g. left hand in the UK, right hand in France.
And some divorced women in the UK have been known to were a wedding band on their right hand ring finger to signify their marital status.