Forum posts made by paman

Topic Her orgasm or yours?
Posted 16 Feb 2017 09:49

Without a shadow of doubt, hers first, and sometimes second and then third as it happens to me.

Topic Wife’s secret friendship with a man.
Posted 06 Feb 2017 09:34

It's less than 24 hours since your first post and you're asking some pretty thought provoking questions. If I'm going to offer advice on something like this I'd like time to think it through somewhat.


Topic teen or milf
Posted 21 Dec 2016 07:40

Teen or MILF? Yes

Or did you want me to select one or the other?

And am I to assume that both are 'available' at the same time and I have the choice?

In which case 'teen' or 'MILF' would probably be an attribute and not a selection criterion.

Topic non-genital orgasm
Posted 19 Dec 2016 09:31

Many years ago a lady of my acquaintance could and did have orgasms whilst dancing.

Topic Have you had sex with someone you not suppose to,e.g wife of a friend,married co-worker etc ?
Posted 23 Nov 2016 09:48

Oh yes, but sorry: no details.............

Topic Cock rings
Posted 08 Nov 2016 07:56

It works ok for him (and me!) but he says it sort of makes him stuffy in the nose and he tends to have mild headches after using it.

A couple of paracetamol will deal with the headache and won't prejudice the effect of the cialis.

Topic breast size
Posted 01 Nov 2016 10:20

So long as their owner is happy with their size then I'll be happy too. Why? Because I don't want to have to battle to see them and caress them.

Topic gf asking you to circumcise?
Posted 01 Nov 2016 08:19

If I was asked I'd worry about the lady's knowledge of the male anatomy - 'cause I was circumsized when only a few month sold.

Topic Your first time
Posted 27 Oct 2016 06:00

Was your first time everything you wanted it to be? Do you regret it? Why or why not?

Taking this to refer to the first time once I had reached the legal age of maturity, then I'll answer with reference to my first experience of intercourse.

It may not have been everything I wanted it to be, but it was sufficiently enjoyable to want to venture down the path of "practice makes perfect".

Do I regret it? No.

Why or why not? It wasn't everything I wanted it to be because of our, not just my, inexperience. With experience I found it got better and better.

On the other hand, my first experience of anal was most enjoyable...... So no regrets there.

Topic hair down there
Posted 27 Oct 2016 05:54

As long as it's clean I have no particular preference.

Topic How long does your sex last ? (with Foreplay)
Posted 26 Oct 2016 09:23

The singer Sting once claimed he could make it last eight hours, but later added that this time included dinner and a film.

Topic Strongest orgasm
Posted 11 Oct 2016 05:53

Vaginal sex

Topic Gys, what`s the most Outrageous or Immoral Sexual thing you did ?
Posted 10 Oct 2016 09:22

If I told you then that - the telling - would be the most outrageous or immoral sexual thing that I'd done.

Topic Cock rings
Posted 10 Oct 2016 09:19

Speaking from experience I can tell you that the flexible ones for which you can adjust the tightness can help.

Topic Would you let yourself be tied up during sex?
Posted 23 Sep 2016 09:38

I have been and I enjoyed it, but...... It does need to be done in a relationship which includes total trust.

Topic Come dancing...
Posted 31 Aug 2016 09:53

Me personally? No.

But I have had the experience of dancing with a lady who did, as we were dancing.

Be aware that it was a long, long time ago, in about 1970.

Oh yes, it was repeatable as after about 20 minutes it happened again.

Topic Squirting
Posted 01 Aug 2016 00:56

I have made love to a number of ladies who squirt, and it's wonderful when it happens.

It doesn't happen every time, but when it does it normally signals a better than average, i.e. special, orgasm.

When my partner has a squirting orgasm then, without fail, we have both really enjoyed the experience.

So, I really enjoy them..........

Topic Lactation: Hot or Gross?
Posted 23 Jul 2016 10:09

I have experienced this with a number of nursing mothers and, with the right person and the right circumstances, it can be most enjoyable.

Other times, other people, other circumstances - it's not fun.

Just don't ask for what the circumstances need to be as I'm fairly sure I'd be unable to elaborate.

And don't EVER assume that you can decide you're going to play with the lady's breasts and use them like water pistols - wait until you're invited.

Topic UK
Posted 21 Jul 2016 08:43

Ladies, or gents too, I suppose,

Is the term "spunk" still used now days over in the UK. Have been hearing it used by both men and women in older "classic" type films that I would guess to be British?

Nice change from always hearing "cum", especially love the way women say it, HOT!

Depending on the age and genre of the film, 'spunk' could be a coarse reference to semen or a reference to a person's courage.

My impression is that the courage type usage is becoming obsolete.

Topic Skinny or Curvy?
Posted 14 Jul 2016 09:44

It's not skinny or curvy, it's, both, but not at either of the extreme ends of the skinny-curvy spectrum.

Topic Do you tell other people, about your sexual partners?
Posted 14 Jul 2016 08:41

I may tell others about people who have been my sexual partners, but I don't, and wouldn't, tell them those people have been my sexual partners.

In other words I may tell about a person, but I don't reveal the sexual content of that relationship.

Topic Cock Rings ever used one?
Posted 08 Jul 2016 07:17

Metal ones need to be accurately sized. Too small and either you won't get it on or, and this is worse, you won't get it off. Too big and it'll fall off.

Rubber or silicone ones work well if they are adjustable, otherwise they too need to be accurately sized.

Once you've got the right size you should find it stimulating, at least, and it may help sustain your erection.

But, once you have once that fits comfortably, don't wear it for too long in case the blood-flow gets too restricted.

The consequences of the blood-flow getting too restricted for too long are left as a mental exercise for the reader............

Topic Sexy Sentiments * What's your favorite?
Posted 29 Jun 2016 08:45

If I said you had a beautiful body,
Would you hold it against me?

Topic Do you guys mind girls with small bums? (I have 32DDDs, but a really tiny bum)
Posted 22 Jun 2016 09:04

Until bums, whether large or small, can engage in conversation I don't think that the smallness matters.

And initially, I read your post as you having 3-D 32s and I thought "well, of course they're 3-D, or is this an assertion that they do actually stick out?" I suppose as 32DDDs they do really stick out. Sorry......

Topic Do YOU, as a GUY, GET OFF on LESBIAN Porn?
Posted 21 Jun 2016 08:59

Not me - it doesn't excite at all........

Topic Guys, which of the following 4 types of chicks have you had sex with
Posted 06 Jun 2016 00:54


Could u describe the type u have had sex with, how old was that girl and what did she look like?

Yes - mid-40s
Yes - mid-30s
Yes - mid 50s

All were attractive in their own ways.

Topic Would you ever marry a girl with a notorious sexual history?
Posted 02 Jun 2016 09:49

Yes I could marry someone with a history...........

I would expect the marriage to be for love and that during the courtship and decision-making process of the marriage I would anticipate there'd be full discussion of the past, presnet and future.

I think regards what had happened, there needs to be agreement on how, if need be, it was going to be lived with/explained/whatever, and how the future would be - in so far as one can predict the future.

But your past needn't be a show stopper for the future.

Topic would you care about the color of her pussy or the shape and colour of her breasts?
Posted 24 May 2016 09:15

The colour of her pussy - no, I wouldn't care.

The shape and colour of her breasts - this reminded me of a short poem, a Limerick:

There was a young girl from Devizes
Had breasts of different sizes.
One was small,
Hardly nothing at all.
The other was big and won prizes.

But no, I wouldn't be concerned.

Topic Tan Lines Or Not
Posted 22 May 2016 09:53

I like it when you can see that there really is an all-over tan, or when you can see the full extent of the tan lines.