About paulonyou


Married middle aged guy who happens to be very bi and into fun with regular people, enjoying Porn, Nudity, Touching, Oral, massage, playing top or bottom, and helping first-time guys MM and couples MMF.
Love to watch or take pic's & vid's.
Sometimes I like to be a total slut !

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Woodville, South Australia, Australia
Local Time:
21 Jun 2018 12:33
I've got regular interests in looking after my family, my dog, my career and try to take a general Zen approach to things in life.
As for erotica and sex I like to read Amateur sex, Anal sex, light BDSM, Dogging, Exhibitionism, Group sex, Masturbation, Nudism, Oral & Outdoor sex, parties & toys, Striptease, Swingers, Voyeurism.
Favorite Books:
50 Shades, Ludlum, LeCare, Princess Bitchface, Hustler
Favorite Authors:
Ludlum, LeCare
Favorite Movies:
2001 Space Odyssey, Margin Call, Pulp Fiction, Porn.
Favourite TV Shows:
Modern Family, Big Bang Theory, House of Cards, Sopranos, Naked News, Internet Porn.
Favorite Music:
Amy Winehouse, Kimbra, AC/DC, Paul Kelly, JJJ 100, cool jazz/R&B


Date Joined:
06 May 2010
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Topic: Has anyone ever watched or filmed you fucking?
Posted: 03 Jan 2015 00:00

Yeah. The thought of mostly anonymous exhibitionism is a big turn on.
In the gay area of the local nude beach, and on web cam alone or with my fuck buddy.
Am trying to find a third guy/gal who can use a camera properly to help make some home vid's.
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Topic: An Oral Sex Question to Men
Posted: 09 Jun 2014 18:21

I've had plenty of bj's from women and guys, and I've sucked a lot of cock too. Just like most of the guys here I'm guessing we've all received at least one forgettable bj and one or two stellar bj's, and a lot in between.
Generally guys give better bj's because a) they want to, b) they know how it feels, c) they usually swallow
I find the down side to guys bj's is I find there's the lack of 'after glow' when it's all done, women tend to linger longer too.

Topic: Why do men love to see their woman fuck another guy/gal?
Posted: 26 Feb 2014 00:30

SHE doesn't ... interestingly enough, I know she is not opposed to the idea of sharing me with another woman.. but she does not want to be there.. nor does she really want me to be with another...

Strewth, she'll let you go walkabout - what a bonza shiela. I kinda get the jist of it but like ya suggest it's a tough call to choose to follow through if you know she's gonna be pissed or it's gonna piss on the relationship.

Topic: Why do men love to see their woman fuck another guy/gal?
Posted: 26 Feb 2014 00:21

I think he mentioned something along the lines of "no fucking way" and "over his dead body."

He didn't seem to be a big fan of that whole thing. Go figure. <img src="/images/emoticons/dontknow.gif" alt="dontknow">

Thanks for your comment. I see we're both Aries so maybe there's a bit of a cosmic connection to being interested in sharing partners together. I don't suppose your man is a Scorpio? My wife is and I've got a feeling that may have a lot to with her 'disgust' at me even talking about it.
The thing is I would love to watch her get into fucking with another guy, seeing her let-go and get fully consumed in getting off with a new cock. That's why I posed the question, because no matter what I say see doesn't even want to know. Never the less I respect her boundaries so I let it go - at least for a while :)

Topic: Seeing your woman fuck another guy or gal
Posted: 24 Feb 2014 22:55

Most guys I know would love to have their woman fuck another guy or gal, and I've tried to to explain it to my wife, but it always sounds so lame. Basically I cant explain it other than saying it's so hot and makes me feel great thinking how sexy she is getting off.
How do you explain it to your woman?
What sounded good and worked and what came out all wrong and pissed her off?

Topic: Why do men love to see their woman fuck another guy/gal?
Posted: 24 Feb 2014 22:52

What reason does your guy give for wanting to see you with another guy or gal, and what reason is good and what is bad?

Topic: Interesting him in Anal Play/Prostate Play
Posted: 08 Nov 2013 01:13

I'd suggest you don't combine a hand job and finger probe at the same time, at least not until you've got him well and truly hard and horny.
Sucking and licking is much better.
When you sense your guy is really getting into it, move your fingers from cupping and massaging his balls to rubbing under his scrotum.
Add some lubricant on your fingers, spitting on his balls and rubbing it in and down toward his butt can feel awesome.
With more wetness start to rub around his rosebud, keep sucking and licking his cock, and if he likes it he'll be moving his hips to meet your fingers on his rosebud.
BTW don't expect long or sharp finger nails to be at all helpful.
Add more lube and gradually slide in one finger up to the first knuckle and meanwhile he should still be right into it.
If he's getting close to coming don't be tempted to plunge your finger in - just let him cum, swallow or whatever you do, keeping your finger where it is and moving only gently until all his spasms have finished.
The next time you do it add more lube and slide in your finger to the second knuckle or all the way in, but don't rush into adding a second finger - most guys don't like it.
You might like to go out and buy a toy or two. There are some butt plugs that you can learn to really enjoy having inserted and played with while being sucked or even fucking. Coming really hard with a finger or plug inside you can be incredibly powerful and the spasms strong enough to shoot out the plug and leave your legs feeling absolutely wrecked.
Butt, it's not for everyone.

Topic: Blowjobs: Guys, do you like to suck cock as well as having your cock sucked?
Posted: 06 Feb 2013 17:33

As a married bi-guy sucking a cock is a real turn-on for me.
Not too small and not too big, prefer uncut. But having said that I really enjoy sucking a soft cock and working on it till it's fully engorged, hot and hard and stretching my mouth.
Feeling it throb and gush cum gives a great feeling of satisfaction.
It's also given me a better perspective on what a woman (or guy) goes through when sucking a (my) cock, letting me give better feedback on what's good and not so good technique.
Let's face it there are plenty of people out there who are sub-par cock suckers, so being sensitive to what they're expecting of themselves helps me guide them. It always pays off with much improved fellatio and turning those who 'don't swallow' into eager swallowers and post orgasm cock handlers.

Topic: If you COULD suck your own dick....?
Posted: 06 Feb 2013 17:09

As an alternative to having a wank, yeah sure, it would be nice from time to time. But I'm just not that flexible anymore.
In any case it's a bit like trying to tickle yourself - it just doesnt seem to work anywhere near as well as someone doing it to you.
Only one time did I manage to suck myself to orgasm but the discomfort of being bent over that far didnt do much to make the whole thing much fun.

Topic: Eating your own cum?
Posted: 06 Feb 2013 16:53

Yeah sure, but only from someone elses mouth, pussy or balls, and my wifes pussy of course.
Being a bi-guy I've sucked a lot of cock and love the taste of pre-cum and have made point of appreciating the different tastes of guys cum.
It's interesting to relate the taste of a guys cum to what he's been eating, such as guys who eat a lot of fruit have a distinctive milder taste. Pineapple is really obvious, while guys that eat a lot of spicy food or frequent meat eaters their cum is more savoury or sharper.

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A bi-guy going the next level

This is all true and happened over the last six months. I met John at the 'men's massage' session that a guy held in his home one afternoon. John was about my age, a bit thinner maybe, a couple inches shy of 6ft with dark cropped hair. I watched him and the other guys as we all undressed in the massage room, set out with two portable massage benches and a fan on a stand. I guess it was going...

Added 16 Aug 2011 | Category Bisexual | Votes 12 | Avg Score 4.42 | Views 26,036 | 5 Comments

Local Beach Blowjob

Being February (2006), it's summer and the warmest month in Australia. It's a great time of the year to get down to the beach and enjoy the warmth of an ocean breeze on your naked body while playing among the dunes. There aren’t many nude free beaches less than an hour out of town, but the local metro beaches have patches of virgin dunes that provide some great cover if you're careful. As...

Added 08 May 2010 | Category Bisexual | Votes 15 | Avg Score 4.33 | Views 26,386 | 5 Comments

North Adelaide Toilet Block Suck

This happened in the summer of 2004. I went to the toilet at the shopping centre in North Adelaide and while I was getting my cock out I heard a noise coming from one of the stalls. I'm ok with guys wanking off in toilets, no big deal, but this time I just felt a need to check it out. There were 4 cubicles and I sat down in the one next to the guy making the noise, by now he quietened down...

Added 07 May 2010 | Category Bisexual | Votes 19 | Avg Score 4.16 | Views 27,345 | 6 Comments

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