About playsit

So I've been here a few years now and it's time for an update.

I am first and foremost a romantic gentleman who treats others with the same respect I desire from them. Don't think me totally serious, I'm very light-hearted and playful, I tease and flirt with the best of them. I love to laugh and am just as likely to laugh at myself as I do others. If I can bring a smile to your face, I've done a great thing.

I came to Lush in search of something to bolster a lackluster love life, but what I found was so much more. I never expected to form such a strong bond of friendship with a few wonderful people.

John Not
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I'm a musician who plays electric bass, and all forms of guitar. I try to keep my body in shape by working out an hour a day, 4-5 days a week by running, biking & weight training. I keep my interest in working out by participating in local 5ks and biathlons. I love the outdoors and enjoy backpacking and hiking... just getting away from life for a while.
Favorite Books:
Anything related to nature and biographies of adventure sport athletes. My inner pervert can be found carousing through erotic stories, which is how I found this site.
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Favorite Movies:
Freedom Writers, Dead Poet society, Dangerous Minds, Bucket List, Salt...
Favorite Music:
Jazz, funk, soul, classic rock, R&B, latin, flamenco, classical, operas, musicals... you get the idea
Date Joined:
26 Aug 2011
Last Visit:
05 May 2015
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Topic: mutual masturbation
Posted: 30 Apr 2015 09:38

Never had the pleasure, but I think it would be hot as hell! I even wrote a poem that had to do something with this a few years back called 'Can I Watch'... ok, yeah - maybe a little shameless self-promotion there Embarassed

Topic: What's making you happy right at this moment???
Posted: 30 Apr 2015 09:31

A nooner... no, not that - a nap ;)

Topic: since wife had kids her sex drive has vanished what can I do?
Posted: 27 Apr 2015 11:52

Help her out with the kids and housework. You didn't go into anything other than you're not getting yours. Check yourself that you're not just being selfish. Sadly I'm speaking out of experience.

Topic: Facial Thing
Posted: 27 Apr 2015 11:46

Guess I'm the odd guy out. I've never thought about Cumming on a ladies face. I don't know, just seems degrading/disrespectful to me. Maybe my age has something to do with it.

Topic: Which story would you recommend from Lush?
Posted: 20 Apr 2015 09:47

You mean other than my own? Lol

Depends on your taste. We have a lot of really talented writers here. Already mentioned are the EC and RR tags, but also look at the winning competition stories.

Topic: Why are high heels so hot while having sex?
Posted: 20 Apr 2015 09:40

I prefer to have her feet bare in case I want to bite on her toes

Lol... yeah, that too ;)

Topic: Why are high heels so hot while having sex?
Posted: 20 Apr 2015 09:38

Why does a woman look so hot fucking in high heels? Men, do you "require" high heels for those special nights?

I think for me, it speaks of desperation and hunger. Slipping off a dress and not wanting to wait for the shoes to come off. If she's dressing up in special lingerie, the shoes make her feel sexy as hell, which is a turn on in itself, but more than that, it's a special package she put together just for my enjoyment... what's not to like?

Just for the record, I require nothing of my lover except to be engaged.

Topic: What are you listening to right now?
Posted: 20 Apr 2015 09:31

The wind whistling through cracks in my window frames ugh

Topic: Happily Married?
Posted: 20 Apr 2015 08:29

See I feel the opposite way. If you are looking for deep connection, are you happily married (not talking at you directly, just in general)? It makes more sense to have some kink or overall sexual deviancy that it is either too embarrassing to show your S/O or you travel alot for work and you just need the release, or whatever reason why the physical endorphin rush is not there.

Again, I go back to the definition of happy. It's different for everyone and we all have varying levels of what is acceptable.

Topic: Happily Married?
Posted: 19 Apr 2015 02:48

I take the above points, my question was aimed at those that don't tell there partners what they get up to on line!

I don't tell her because she would be hurt... why do that unnecessarily? Of course I'm not here to get my rocks off either, just looking for a deep connection.

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Stories Published By playsit
Recommended Read A Valentine's Fantasia

With closed eyes, Inhale me into Thy mind, My Lady, My Valentine. 'Tis there  We can dance The night away While minstrels - The constalations, Fill the air with Celestial melodies. Look deep into these Onyx windows and Examine my soul: Know the breadth Of my devotion, The vastness Of my infatuation, And the depth  Of my burning. Allow the inferno Raging within The freedom To singe, No, to...

Added 16 Feb 2015 | Category Love Poems | Votes 30 | Avg Score 5 | Views 741 | 26 Comments

Would You

If I looked at you just right, Would my emeralds be enough? If I smiled warmly,  Spoke softly,  Would my whisper-wind Touch your soul? You are the most beautiful Thing my eyes have seen. The softness of a rainbow, or Majesty of the mountains Compares not to what I behold. I have to draw you. I must study your body, Memorize lines and curves... Ponder light as it absorbs, Reflects off...

Added 25 Jan 2015 | Category Erotic Poems | Votes 17 | Avg Score 5 | Views 477 | 16 Comments

Show Me Your Wicked Passion

Darkened sun-baked flesh Glistening under dim light, The strong man kneels Before his Mistress, Giving of himself freely. Elbows support veined arms, Upon knees rest thick quads. Lean neck on broad shoulders Vee to muscular hips. A sculpted form awaits the Wicked pleasures ahead. Stubbled square jaw Rests on soft linen while Steely grey eyes lock onto A convienient mirror. He stares at...

Added 28 Nov 2014 | Category Erotic Poems | Votes 14 | Avg Score 5 | Views 1,020 | 12 Comments

The Ultimate Gift

A sudden gasp Melts into Closed eyes and A warm smile. Simultaneously, A back arches, Pressing head Into crumpled sheets. Hands grasp anything: Fabric, skin, hair... It matters not what. Lips separate, Slightly at first, Morphing into A gaping hole, As moans and Unintelligible words Turn into vulgarities. Muscles contract, Breathing stops, As heat from within Builds, erupting Into a...

Added 07 Oct 2014 | Category Erotic Poems | Votes 19 | Avg Score 5 | Views 691 | 18 Comments

Morning; My Lover

Morning O Morning, How I love spending time with you As I wake soft and slow. The crispness of your air contrasts my coffee perfectly. Moisture on the grasses absorb into bare feet as I walk down to the lake to Watch your still waters. Living sounds everywhere Fill my ears with your song: Birds and crickets chirp away, Trickling water from a quiet brook, Splashing fish eating...

Added 28 Sep 2014 | Category Love Poems | Votes 18 | Avg Score 5 | Views 611 | 17 Comments

Moving On

Moving on is easy? O I wish this were so. Flying inside my glass jar, With lid screwed tight, Nail holes allowing Barely enough oxygen, Forcing me to forget My natural existence, Else anxious thoughts Thrash my wings Removing precious air. Moving on is easy? O I wish this were so. On the cold, hard bottom Do I lay down to rest. Tossing and turning, My mind is alive with Hauntings of what...

Added 29 Aug 2014 | Category Love Poems | Votes 14 | Avg Score 5 | Views 531 | 11 Comments

Recommended Read Desperate Aching

Rain gently drumming On my black nylon cocoon, My eyes, my mind, Seeing only vague shadows Cast by the dull grey sliver Of what's left of the moon. The night sounds are loud: Crickets, bullfrogs and Something unknown, But memories of you Drown out natures lullaby. Our songs tortuously Loop through my memory, And your image dances Hauntingly before me. Though eyelids clamp tight, This hell...

Added 18 Aug 2014 | Category Love Poems | Votes 26 | Avg Score 5 | Views 759 | 24 Comments

A Call For Love

The TV watched the Old married couple Sit night after night. Eyes blank, lifeless, Staring at him without Saying a word, Just watching... Tender romance, Sensual love, Hungry lust. Why watch me when Right beside you Sits the one that Used to stir your soul, Make your heart leap, Cause your juices to flow? Smile at each other, Look into eyes that live, Re-introduce your lips And feel each...

Added 27 Jul 2014 | Category Love Poems | Votes 13 | Avg Score 5 | Views 781 | 12 Comments

Recommended Read A Spontaneous Connection

Shining stars brightly hung On a black velvet night, Compares not to the gleam In thine own darkened eyes, When playfully your mind Muses afternoon love. Heavy butterfly wings Pounding dense sky whilst The delicate movements Of thine lashes whisper Seductively into mine eyes, And I am lost as in a trance. Tender lips doth lightly curl, Revealing that smile which Thieves brightness from...

Added 18 Jun 2014 | Category Love Poems | Votes 22 | Avg Score 5 | Views 801 | 24 Comments

In Our Dreams

Tonight, while all is quiet And the whole world sleeps, Meet me under the Fourth star north of the moon. The clouds are springier there And we can bounce one to another, Laughing whilst playing celestial tag. Until we find just the right one, Where we can relax in its softness, Splash our feet in the milky way, And watch Saturn's rings Drip from the sky. There, we can enjoy each other:...

Added 02 May 2014 | Category Love Poems | Votes 15 | Avg Score 5 | Views 734 | 17 Comments

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