Forum posts made by playsit

Topic Which story would you recommend from Lush?
Posted 20 Apr 2015 09:47

You mean other than my own? Lol

Depends on your taste. We have a lot of really talented writers here. Already mentioned are the EC and RR tags, but also look at the winning competition stories.

Topic Why are high heels so hot while having sex?
Posted 20 Apr 2015 09:40

I prefer to have her feet bare in case I want to bite on her toes

Lol... yeah, that too ;)

Topic Why are high heels so hot while having sex?
Posted 20 Apr 2015 09:38

Why does a woman look so hot fucking in high heels? Men, do you "require" high heels for those special nights?

I think for me, it speaks of desperation and hunger. Slipping off a dress and not wanting to wait for the shoes to come off. If she's dressing up in special lingerie, the shoes make her feel sexy as hell, which is a turn on in itself, but more than that, it's a special package she put together just for my enjoyment... what's not to like?

Just for the record, I require nothing of my lover except to be engaged.

Topic What are you listening to right now?
Posted 20 Apr 2015 09:31

The wind whistling through cracks in my window frames ugh

Topic Happily Married?
Posted 20 Apr 2015 08:29

See I feel the opposite way. If you are looking for deep connection, are you happily married (not talking at you directly, just in general)? It makes more sense to have some kink or overall sexual deviancy that it is either too embarrassing to show your S/O or you travel alot for work and you just need the release, or whatever reason why the physical endorphin rush is not there.

Again, I go back to the definition of happy. It's different for everyone and we all have varying levels of what is acceptable.

Topic Happily Married?
Posted 19 Apr 2015 02:48

I take the above points, my question was aimed at those that don't tell there partners what they get up to on line!

I don't tell her because she would be hurt... why do that unnecessarily? Of course I'm not here to get my rocks off either, just looking for a deep connection.

Topic Happily Married?
Posted 19 Apr 2015 02:41

Awesome question..Just MY opinion..I think they can be happily married but there is something missing from there sex life and or from there life period that lush gives them. And NO I m not talking about myself..You can be madly in love with someone and your sex life sucks....Lush MIGHT give you what you need to Keep that happy marriage going.And I could be totally wrong...

I think this is spot on for many here.

Topic Happily Married?
Posted 19 Apr 2015 02:30

I am happy-ish with my marriage. We are grood friends who have been coexisting for many years more like roommates. We raised 3 grown kids together, laugh together, enjoy vacations with each other, and on occasions enjoy each other in the bedroom. I guess the definition of "happily married" is wide open for interpretation.

Some would look at my situation and be envious, but what they don't see are two people who couldn't be more opposite in what they enjoy, whose life values and goals are completely different. Deep, meaningful conversations are absent, and sensual love has never really been there. Again, what is the definition of "happily married"?

I used to think I was happily married but didnt understand why I was so frustrated. The older I got, the more I craved a deep spiritual connection with a woman - a soul mate if you will. Someone to share my thoughts and cravings with, to discuss life and love and all that makes life worth living.

My wife cannot help who she is anymore than I, and she is genuinely a good woman. She's done nothing that deserves the pain of losing a partner she honestly loves, so here I am - caught between living with a good friend with whom I've shared most of my life with yet needing so much more. Is being here right? Is it cheating? That answer is different for everyone. Am I a lying hypocrite deceiving my RL partner? Not at all. While she doesn't know I'm active here, she knows my deep desire for an intimate connection yet most of the time is unwilling to do anything about it. I wish this wasn't the case, but it's my reality.

Topic What are you listening to right now?
Posted 18 Apr 2015 10:05

The sound of a fast-moving river as it rushess through the valley. What a peaceful way to spend a warm spring morning ahhhhhhh

Topic Road Head
Posted 08 Apr 2015 03:05

Have you received it and do you like the idea?

I've never had road head, but would love to one day. Seems a bit uncomfy for the lady, but if she's willing I'm all in (no pun intended... We'll maybe just a little).

Topic Your biggest flaw?
Posted 07 Apr 2015 14:48

Perfectionism... thanks dad. It hinders a lot more than it helps

Topic What are you listening to right now?
Posted 07 Apr 2015 14:46

Birds chirping away outside my bedroom window

Topic If you could only eat one candy for the rest of your life, what would it be?
Posted 07 Apr 2015 14:44

Reese peanut butter cups. Yummm!

Topic If you caught someone you were attracted to, masturbating, would you stay and watch?
Posted 07 Apr 2015 14:42

I can think of a certain someone I'd watch ;)

Topic have you ever had car sex
Posted 07 Apr 2015 14:40

where and when and how it all happen

At a drive in. We folded the seat down in my hatchback, steamed up the windows real good and off we went so to speak.

Topic Need advice
Posted 04 Apr 2015 19:06

Have you tried to talk with her about this? Asked her why she doesn't want sex? Sometimes it might be because she is exhausted by looking after four children. Do you help with that? Maybe bathing them at night or helping her to pack school lunches the night before. Do some laundry or maybe clean some of the house? If you do these types of things already then that's a good start. If you don't do anything to help her then that is probably the major reason you're not having sex. It's different for a lot of women than men. A lot of us can't just jump into bed and immediately want sex. Maybe you could try hiding a couple of notes (somewhere you know she will find them easily) for her once a week, telling her you love her or that she's sexy. Perhaps one day arrange a baby sitter and take her on a picnic somewhere nice. I mean YOU make the food for the picnic. Take her for a walk and buy an ice cream. Take her to the park and push her on a swing. None of these things will cost any extra money but they will make a difference to how she feels in general. Good luck.

My friend Trinket may be on to something here. I went through a similar situation with 3 kids. Talking to my wife now, she tells me she felt used, that I was selfish. There was a change in her attitude when she felt I genuinely cared about her well being. Not just in bed, but throughout the day even when it didn't lead to sex. she still never thinks about it all that much and puts me off most of the time, but a month between is a hell of a lot better than a few years. Good luck.

Topic If you had enough money to quit your job, what would you do?
Posted 04 Apr 2015 18:29

Oh that's easy. I'd work part time at a high-end outfitter and help people choose the right backpacking gear, or maybe just volunteer for the Siera club or some other organization that works to protect the environment.

Topic What do the majority of guys like more...
Posted 03 Apr 2015 09:47

I'm more attracted to her ass. Breasts are nice, but the rythmic swaying of a lady who knows how to walk just the right way always catches my attention.

Topic How many of you, actually look at the PROFILE of the person you're asking to be friends with?
Posted 03 Apr 2015 09:15

I will always look at their profile before requesting friendship, even if I know them through the forums or through their comments on my poems. How else would I know what to say to them or even what they appreciate on their wall. Some of our gals just flat out say that guys need not apply, so I don't... how else would I know?

Topic Strap On Sex
Posted 01 Apr 2015 14:22

This is one of my fantasies. I love my anal vibe, I can only imagine hot it would make me to watch my kinky lover take me. Truthfully though, I think the main infatuation is in watching my lover get lost in lustfull vigor and let every inhibition fly out the window... after all, isn't that what we all really desire?

Topic Lips in or out?
Posted 01 Apr 2015 14:16

The porn industy would tell you yes, but real life just isn't that way. The attraction is more mental than physical. As long as my lover is comfortable in her own skin and doesn't allow the shape of her lips to govern her sensuality, it doesn't matter one way or the other to me. You are the way you are.... embrace it and enjoy life.

Topic What do you first notice?
Posted 26 Mar 2015 14:29

I am wondering what you guys first notice about a girl? Eyes, smile, boobs, ass? What first grabs your eyes?

That all depends on which direction she happens to be facing. General appearance is big with me: clothing, hair and posture tells me a lot. Slobby, unkempt appearance will have an impact on if I look further. A close second is facial features and mannerisms: does she have a warm smile? Is her makeup installed with a trowell? Eyes are huge with me.

Although if she's walking in front of me, my eyes always drift to her ass Embarassed

Topic Kanye West announces that he is the biggest rock star on the planet?
Posted 25 Mar 2015 09:33

Kanye who???

Topic What actor(s) do you dislike so much, that you won't even bother watching their movies/shows?
Posted 25 Mar 2015 09:27

Will Ferrell - makes the hair on the back of my neck stand up straight.

Topic What movie have you seen the most??
Posted 25 Mar 2015 09:24

National Lampoon's Christmas Vacation. At least once a year to kick off the Christmas season... probably the most quoted movie in my house too.

Posted 20 Mar 2015 09:18

Happy birthday Tamar. May your day be filled with peace and relaxation... that way you have the energy to party all night {}

Topic lesbians and bisexual girls/women
Posted 19 Mar 2015 05:08

Men smell like chickpeas.

Lfunny what?! lmfao

Topic What is your specific reason(s) for not visiting the Chat Rooms ?
Posted 17 Mar 2015 12:31

Guess I'm just a stuck-up bastard, but it never interested me. I always assumed it was more for the younger users.

Topic guys do you like to be called daddy by a girl during sex or general or both
Posted 12 Mar 2015 17:04

No thanks. I agree... kinda creepy.

Topic What's for dinner tonight?
Posted 12 Mar 2015 14:31

Thai fish curry - it got a 5! :-)

Yum! I'll be right over, I'll bring the wine