About positivetension

Happy to make new friends, not interested in cyber/roleplay. I prefer to talk about sex, fantasies, and what makes us tick. Or, you know...just be funny.

Relationship Status:
In a Relationship
West coast, USA
Human sexuality, random conversations, gummi bears, baking, walks by the river, black & white porn, motorcycle rides, recording dirty stories and occasionally writing them
Favorite Books:
Game of Thrones, His Dark Materials, Animal Farm, The Lovely Bones, To Kill a Mockingbird, Lolita, The Dark Tower
Favorite Movies:
Cabin in the Woods, Coraline, District 9, Alice in Wonderland, The Breakfast Club, The Hangover, Inception
Favorite Music:
Bloc Party, The xx, MUSE, Lana Del Rey, Radiohead, Crystal Castles, Goldfrapp, Deftones, She Wants Revenge
Date Joined:
22 May 2011
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Topic: first time giving head!
Posted: 16 Jul 2015 19:33

Be enthusiastic . Show him you're having fun and want to do it. He'll relax, enjoy it more, and reveal himself more intimately.

Be attentive . Watch, listen, and feel to how he responds to every little thing. Then you'll know what he loves or doesn't. You're a guy so you probably already know, but anyway.

Watch your teeth . Don't bite or accidentally scrape him. It's easy to cover them with your lips. You'll see.

That's all you need. You'll learn as you go and master your own style in no time. No guy is ever going to complain that you want to practice sucking him more, as long as you make it fun, pay attention, and don't accidentally hurt him.

Topic: Which are you?
Posted: 16 Jul 2015 19:10

sexual submissive/playful brat

Topic: Confession
Posted: 15 Jul 2015 18:56

I wish you well in your future endeavors. Good DAY, sir!

Topic: How often do you go pantyless?
Posted: 15 Jul 2015 18:54

Often in skirts or dresses, when the weather's nice. It's a fun secret.

Never in pants or shorts. Chafing is bad, and can really irritate shaved skin.

Topic: Being told what to wear
Posted: 15 Jul 2015 18:44

I enjoy the fantasy of being his dress-up doll...of shopping trips to places I could never afford, and of seeing his eyes light up as I try on anything he picks out. Surrendering that control is exciting. The dare of the inevitably scanty, revealing outfits brings butterflies. The thought of being exactly what he wants, his living fantasy, is a thrill.

But in reality there is a shortage of handsome millionaires who can coordinate.

In my everyday relationships, guys haven't asked/told me to wear specific things. If they did, I would probably be happy to go along (if it was appropriate to wear). If I know they like a certain thing, I'll sometimes make a point to wear it for them on my own. If they don't actually notice they at least show more interest, so I know when it's working.

Topic: what colour bra are u girls wearing?
Posted: 14 Jul 2015 19:33


Topic: Total stranger and a blindfold
Posted: 10 Jul 2015 18:37

It's a very thrilling idea, to be blindfolded and taken by a stranger (or several). I've enjoyed the fantasy of it.

It's on of those things that's too complicated and risky to actually do, though, so it stays a fantasy for me.

Topic: Girls, what color panties are you wearing today?
Posted: 10 Jul 2015 18:30

Ivory with navy lace trim

Topic: Why would anyone like to be humiliated and degraded?
Posted: 24 Jul 2014 17:47

Holy necro thread! But I suppose it's still a thing people wonder about....

I'm not much into humiliation play, but most of my fantasies revolve around different degradation scenarios (from affectionate to condescending to dismissive). The appeal for me is the chance to feel small. I am very responsible. When I have something to focus on, I work hard. People tend to place a lot of expectations on me and come to me for help. I don't feel free to just be a mess, I have to keep my shit together. It can all get exhausting and trigger a lot of anxiety.

Getting to play at being less-than can be a huge mental vacation when I'm under stress. Falling into a role of innate inferiority, being tasked with laughably simple things, giving up the burden of responsibility completely...it feels like an enormous weight being lifted. I would be outraged by that treatment from some random person in day-to-day life. When it's part of consensual play, with someone you respect and who understands, scratching that itch is an enormous relief.

Topic: Girls, do you spank yourselves?
Posted: 24 Jul 2014 13:20

Tried it. It's difficult and awkward to get a proper angle and have enough velocity (even more so if I'm doing something else at the same time). It was more frustrating than satisfying and not worth the effort. It made the longing for another person's hands even worse.

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The Kiss

I'll never forget the taste when he stuffed your panties into my mouth. Soaking wet and right on my tongue...you were musky and sweet. I savored it, sucking on them softly. Your scent filled my nose and I breathed it in deeply. My eyes traced your body, devouring every new inch of bare skin as he finished undressing you. He stood behind you with his hands on your hips, as if forcing me...

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