About purpleshade

My wife and I have been married for over 26 years. I love to read erotica, and try my hand at writing some too. I love chatting to sensible and mature people, whether they are heterosexual or homosexual. Please feel free to chat, bearing in mind that erotica should stimulate the mind, not only the genitals. Thank you.

Purple Shade
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Hearts and Minds, Surrey, United Kingdom
Erotica. Spirituality. Cycling. General knowledge.
Favorite Books:
Great expectations Charles Dickens, Me before you--Jojo Moyes, Rachel Joyce -- The unlikely pilgrimage of Harold Fry, Jonas Johansson--The one hundred year old man who climbed out of the window.
Favorite Authors:
Charles Dickens, William Shakespeare, Tom Sharpe, Jojo Moyes, Rachel Joyce, Jonas Johansson.
Favorite Movies:
Romantic porn. Notting Hill, anything with Hugh Grant. Action movies such as James Bond, particularly Skyfall. All of Jim Carey's movie, particularly Bruce Almighty.
Favourite TV Shows:
Soap, US tv comedy show.
Favorite Music:
Date Joined:
25 Nov 2012
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Topic: Do you guys actually like going down on girls?
Posted: 26 Dec 2014 22:37

Do all you guys out there actually like going down on a girl or is something you give a quick lick for so that you can jump to fucking? Lemme know what you think

Love leila

Going down on a woman is a truly beautiful experience. My partner loves to be kissed immediately after eating her. She loves the taste of her own pussy on my lips. It's a great way to bond and prolongs the intimacy between lovers...

Topic: Why do women get louder when having sex when there are friends in the next room?
Posted: 27 Nov 2014 05:15

There are women who like to make their female friends jealous. Some women will exaggerate their sex life in order to piss other women off....

Topic: decreasing sex drive
Posted: 27 Nov 2014 05:00

My husband is 51 and over the past couple of years his sex drive has diminished. He has no problem in achieving or maintaining an erection. He won't speak about it or see his GP and I've tried everything to get the spark back. I keep myself looking as good as I can for him and don't pressurise him into sex but it's frustrating and knocks my confidence everytime he refuses sex. Is this normal for men his age?

Hi dear,

I'm a 50 year old male. I lost interest in sex a few years ago. My wife became very frustrated, she felt that she wasn't attractive anymore, and felt that I didn't love her anymore.

The truth was that I found her very attractive and still loved her. 

Following my lack of interest, she stopped showing affection, and abandoned kissing and cuddling etc. I missed her closeness very much but she became almost bitter.

My wife is a rare gem in the sense that she encouraged me to watch porn, and allowed me to wear hear clothes in order to revive our sex life.

The bottom line is that I began to find sex a mundane chore. I loved sleeping with her naked, loved kissing, cuddling, licking and sucking etc. 
Whenever she stroked my erection, I immediately switched off.

I miss the closeness and intimacy that we once had in terms of non-sexual activity. She feels that everything has to be based around physical sexual intercourse.

I miss her sensual massage, I miss licking her fingers during hand feeding, and I miss her jovial banter.

I did seek medical advice. I was given counselling and medication. The erection is still good, especially considering my age, but I can't explain why I don't want to have physical intercourse anymore.

I now feel that non-sexual activity can be so rewarding. The lady who now gives me a regular massage (non-sexual) gives me such a warm feeling. Our female friends bake for us, their friendliness gives me a warm feeling too.

I now find mature conversation and the other activities to be more heart warming.

I still find my wife very attractive and I still love her very much but, unfortunately, she considers this not to be the case just because I have lost interest in taking her physically.

This is my personal situation. Whether this holds true for other men of my age I'm not sure, but would welcome other views too....


Topic: have you ever had car sex
Posted: 19 Oct 2014 14:28

where and when and how it all happen

Having sex WITH a car is a lovely experience!

Topic: wheres the craziest place youve given head?
Posted: 03 Oct 2014 11:37

In Syria.

Topic: Sexist Female Athlete
Posted: 03 Oct 2014 09:23

Jessica Ennis.

She always gives me ennis elbow!...

Topic: What is the sexiest thing a girl can wear to bed?
Posted: 02 Oct 2014 06:53

Her feet behind her ears!

Topic: Your ideal partner in two words
Posted: 01 Oct 2014 06:57

Well mannered.

Topic: 3 words a woman loves to hear a man say...
Posted: 31 Aug 2014 11:37

Knickers off now!

Topic: 3 words a woman loves to hear a man say...
Posted: 22 Aug 2014 07:15

You're so moreish.....


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Siti's Stockings

"Hi love, you look exhausted", she said as I plonked myself on the edge of the bed. I let out a sigh of relief as she pinched the tops of my shoulders. "Two hours of cadence training tonight, love", I replied as we exchanged a gentle kiss. "Cycling is certainly fun, but knackering too", I added as I groaned gently with the sensual touch of her hands. "Well, your wife has the perfect...

Added 01 May 2013 | Category Trans | Votes 25 | Avg Score 4.70 | Views 12,551 | 10 Comments

Peer Pressure, Both Ways...

"Fucking pervert, fucking pouffe, tosser, sissy...." Lenny had become accustomed to these names over the years, as he went about minding his own business, but the lads from out of town were relentless, as they began pushing and shoving Lenny. He tried to walk away, but they roughed him up a bit, before laughing hysterically and then shooting off. Lenny wasn't physically hurt, just a...

Added 18 May 2014 | Category Crossdressing | Votes 12 | Avg Score 4.58 | Views 10,650 | 5 Comments

Rose Otto

"Ah, ah, ah..." cried Brenda ecstatically, hoping that tonight, of all nights, might be different. She was completely naked, her 38c natural tits swaying with the rapid thrusts, her thick hairy legs locked around Doug's firm arse, her hands clasping him as if to keep him in place. Brenda's husband Doug was fucking her passionately, he had fingered her to climax prior to climbing on top of...

Added 24 Jun 2014 | Category Crossdressing | Votes 11 | Avg Score 4.36 | Views 6,604 | 8 Comments

Doubting Thomas

"Won't be a minute love", she flapped as she frantically began searching for her keys. Brenda always flapped about in a constant rush, which was in total contrast to her husband. Lennard was cool , calm , and collected as he patiently waited for her. He kept looking at his watch as he reminded her of the time. It was a hospital appointment today, Lennard was experiencing problems with...

Added 18 Apr 2013 | Category Exhibitionism | Votes 10 | Avg Score 4.6 | Views 5,525 | 2 Comments

Mojito On The Rocks

"God Penny, we might get caught!" whimpered Frank, as she tickled him all over, laughing hysterically. They were in the dressing room of the local store on the secluded Caribbean island. Penny wanted to buy some sexy exotic bikinis. She selected the jade green with soft peach, all elegantly laced at the side. Penny and Frank took the garments into the dressing room; the sales assistant...

Added 01 Jul 2014 | Category Taboo | Votes 6 | Avg Score 4.83 | Views 7,288 | 2 Comments

The Unexamined Life Is Not Worth Living!

Carol was glad to be back home in her cosy box bedroom. It was tiny, but it was hers and it was private. It had been a long day, she spent all morning and all afternoon sitting her last exam. She was tired, but excited about going to Cyprus. As soon as she got in she kicked off her sandals, feeling the soft luscious shag pile carpet between her weary toes. Carol removed her dress over her...

Added 17 Jun 2014 | Category Taboo | Votes 6 | Avg Score 4.67 | Views 10,129 | 5 Comments

Keeping Mum!

"Oh God! You're something else, Ali." The raindrop effect from the power shower splattered against Andy's face as Alison sucked him off lovingly. She was on her knees, milking the thick eight inches, taking large gulps, gyrating the cock as the veins stood out, the head wanting to break free from the foreskin. Alison gave him sex on demand, she didn't want to hurt his ego. The couple...

Added 11 Jun 2014 | Category Taboo | Votes 12 | Avg Score 3.92 | Views 27,568 | 4 Comments

Queen of all Hearts

Justin sprawled himself on the sofa, dressed in his pretty frock. He flicked through the TV channels, feeling rather content. Justin was always different, even as a child, he preferred to play with girls, with their dolls, and wanted to wear frocks and dresses. His mother encouraged his development by taking him to ballet classes, needlework, and flower arranging. Justin relished his...

Added 30 May 2014 | Category Crossdressing | Votes 11 | Avg Score 4.64 | Views 7,625 | 5 Comments

Essence of woman

They placed John in their laps, turn by turn, as he rode their pre-match hard-ons. Their silk concealed behind their football kits: satin knickers, cami knickers, garters, bras, stockings and suspenders. John, or Janine, as he liked to be called, was the college tosspot. The college football team slept with him whenever their girls were away. The team guys were six foot two beefcakes...

Added 22 May 2014 | Category Crossdressing | Votes 8 | Avg Score 3.88 | Views 8,652 | 2 Comments

West meets East hospitality

The shalwar (Indian baggy trousers) felt so sensuous on Charles's legs and groin as he gently rubbed himself through the raw silk. He was wearing Rani's Mangla Sutra (Indian lady's wedding necklace) together with anklets that had individual toe rings. The more he thought about Rani, the closer his hard-on approached climax as the silky shalwar sent tingles down his spine. Rani was the head...

Added 21 May 2014 | Category Crossdressing | Votes 5 | Avg Score 5 | Views 4,133 | 2 Comments

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