About purpleshade

My wife and I have been married for over 26 years. I love to read erotica and try to write some too. I love chatting to sensible and mature people, whether they are heterosexual or homosexual. Please feel free to chat, bearing in mind that erotica should stimulate the mind, not only the genitals. Thank you.

Purple Shade
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In The Library, West Sussex, United Kingdom
Erotica. Spirituality. Cycling. General knowledge. History. English literature.
Favorite Books:
Great expectations. Me before you. The unlikely pilgrimage of Harold Fry. The one hundred year old man who climbed out of the window. The Girl On The Train. One Day. An Inspector Calls. The Dog's Bollocks. No one ever has sex on a Tuesday. The Hound Of The Baskerviles.
Favorite Authors:
Charles Dickens. William Shakespeare. Tom Sharpe. Jojo Moyes. Rachel Joyce. Jonas Johansson. David Nichols. Paula Hawkins. J.B. Priestly. Lynda Renham. Tracey Bloom. Sir Arthur Conan Doyle.
Favorite Movies:
Romantic-comedies -- Notting Hill, anything with Hugh Grant. Action movies such as James Bond, particularly Skyfall. All of Jim Carey's movie, particularly Bruce Almighty.
Favourite TV Shows:
Soap, US tv comedy show. Lost. Brooklyn 911.
Favorite Music:
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25 Nov 2012
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Topic: Chat style and preferences
Posted: 13 May 2016 02:07

Good listeners are at a premium. Keep on doing your part! :)

Thank you, I do try to do my part as best as possible. I feel that if I can help to relax the other person by listening to them, then this has a soothing effect on me too.

Normally I would start of by asking how their day went, how was work, or how they're feeling generally. It's a lovely feeling when someone feels confident enough to open up completely. When that person puts their complete trust, faith, and confidentiality in me me then I feel obliged to honor their trust.

I have never betrayed anyone's confidence. I have never been judgemental. As humans we are always bound to make mistakes or regret something in hindsight. It's sad when people start judging others or they betray their trust.

The world is full of misery enough without us trying to create even more. I love to listen. I love to talk. I only offer advice if it's wanted, never pushing advice in someone's face unnecessarily...xx

Topic: Orgasms
Posted: 12 May 2016 11:47

Are there any ladies out there who just cant, no matter what you have tried, orgasm from intercourse alone??

I cant without clitoral stimulation but some positions mean i cant get the reach i need so i often go without. I never thought of myself as strange until i met my partner who was more than upset and disappointed to find he couldnt make me orgasm from sex alone, i think he felt deflated and that it was his fault and it has taken months and months to reassure him that its not a him thing, its me. It doesnt mean the sex is bad, far from it but its just something that doesnt happen for me.

I once read that most women have this issue but ive actually never known anyone and my partner insists he has never been with anyone before who had this problem so id love to know about others.

My wife climaxes very easily, sometimes too easily. She can have an orgasm from just watching a kissing scene on tv etc. unfortunately, a female acquaintance of mine has never ever experienced an orgasm through sex, masturbation, or anything else.

I slept with her, comforted her, engaged in foreplay and pillow talk, but nothing would work.

In conclusion, there are plenty of women out there who just can't orgasm at all. You're not alone in this at all. Everybody is different, unique, and there is nothing to be worried about...xx

Topic: Chat style and preferences
Posted: 12 May 2016 11:37

Thank you purpleshade. Questions are great triggers. Again, sensing your style is based on a well-established rapport with your partner.

You're most welcome dear. I do have well established relationships but any new relationship, conversation, or interaction is a truly wonderful experience.

There are times when women just want a man to listen to them intentitively, I have found from experience that women do like to be told how wonderful, gorgeous, and pretty they are. Flattery is by no means a female only scenario, but applies equally to men as well.

Just being a good listener, a good talker, with sincerity is a wonderful virtue...xx

Topic: Chat style and preferences
Posted: 12 May 2016 02:05

Guys, when you chat with someone who is NOT your significant other...

Do you expect to do most of the talking or directing, expect your partner to do most of the talking or directing, or allow for an equal exchange of ideas?

Does the preference change with the person you're chatting with?

Doing some story research but also curious about the topic. Want to ask more but this is a start.

When I'm chatting to a female acquaintance, I prefer an equal exchange of conversation. I like to ask her questions, and I like to listen to her responses. I like it when she asks me questions, and then listens to what I have to say.

This of course changes with the scenario under which the conversation is taking place. Sometimes women need to be told, need to reassured that they are special. In this scenario I would do all the talking, helping her to relax and feel good about herself...xx

Topic: Make up or Nah?
Posted: 06 May 2016 02:00

I do like my partner to wear make-up, it's erotic and sensual. Make-up, in my opinion, is not about beauty, but about arousal.

The most beautiful woman is created by nature, without artificial make-up...

Topic: period
Posted: 02 May 2016 02:22

What is your opinion on having sex with a girl while she is on her period.

My girlfriend always wanted me to fuck her on her periods. She saud that it helped with the stomach cramps. I enjoyed fucking her but it was a different experience from the normal fuck.

In terms of hygiene, we'd use extra perfume. She would place a large towel under her bum to save the bedsheets.

Her nipples and breasrs were always very sore during those five days, so i had to take extra care when kissing or sucking the nipples.

My cock would always feel different inside her during the period. The vagina muscles would be slack and the period blood diminished the natural juices of the pussy.

Owing to the fact that the period is a very emotional time for women, i had to fuck her very gently and slowly. I had to work that much harder to try to tune into her emotionally rather than physically...

Topic: Coffee Porn...
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Topic: LOST
Posted: 23 Apr 2016 12:57

Did anyone watch all the episodes. What were your thoughts about the show...?

Thank you,

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