Forum posts made by purpleshade

Topic Showing him your horny
Posted 20 Jul 2016 14:05

What is your favorite non verbal way to show your guy that you are horny as hell. Is it a look? an outfit? or something else?

With my partner, there's a change in the tone of her voice when she wants intimacy. Her voice becomes much softer. She'll stroke my arm during an ordinary conversation, she'll make more eye contact than normal, and I can always read her body language...

Topic Is being too wet bad?
Posted 15 Jul 2016 04:01

Okay so this last time I had a sack session, the guy I was with couldn't keep it in because as he puts it "too wet".
This has happened before to me but I never thought that I was the problem.




What are your thoughts?

Some women can get very wet, especially during penetration. The result is that my cock and thighs are drenched. Her pussy and thighs are drenched. It usually involves having to stop temporarily, wiping down and staring again.

To be honest, I find it very arousing...

Topic Cock Rings ever used one?
Posted 09 Jul 2016 11:24

Cock Rings there are a bunch of different ones. Who has used them? Did they help? Did you like it? Did your female partner enjoy it? Pluses and Minuses let me know what your experience has been. Would you use one again>? Why or why not?

Any and all replies appreciated

Thanks
Holden

I tried the rubber cock-ring with the clit stimulator. It definitely made me last longer and my partner always preferred me using it.

That said, some people have complained about constructure side effects. So, seek professional medical advice if you're going to use one...

Topic Plucking Your Breasts...
Posted 05 Jul 2016 10:27

Ladies, do you pluck your breasts or nipples during sex or masturbation. If so, could you please elaborate on the desire and the sensations thus induced...

Many thanks,

xx.

Topic doggy style or cowgirl
Posted 05 Jul 2016 07:33

both ;)

Every position has a unique pleasure. She prefers doggy, so cowgirl is a very rare treat for me...

Topic Do you tell your partner..
Posted 05 Jul 2016 07:29

You're about to cum?

If yes, why? Does she want to hear it from you?

When I was younger, I didn't tell her when I was about to come. She just guessed from the quickened pace. Now that I older, I like to tell here because it's lovely to see her preparing herself for it. I don't do the full throttle routine anymore.

As to how I tell her, well I'm a bit shy to disclose that here, but would be willing to share via pm...

Topic Questions about your wife, girlfriend or lover
Posted 04 Jul 2016 14:42

Hi guys -

Tell me what you like about your girl. What is your favorite attribute about her?

Or do you just love everything about her.

Please take the poll and leave a comment.

Hugs and Licks,
Mysteria
Xo

While I love her arse, pussy, thighs, heart etc.the personality can be challenging at times though. I love everything else about her, apart from the hot headed personality...

Topic Do men like Fucking single or Married women which one is the biggest thrill?
Posted 29 Jun 2016 01:14

Sounds hot, how often do you and your wife like to be together?
30 years ago I had high drive and could do more about it.
Now it is high quality over quantity, we make it a event for ourselves.



Now at the age of 52, penetration has become a luxury, so it doesn't occur as much as we would like to. Just feeling the wife in bed, knowing she's been serviced by younger lads is thrilling in its own way.

When younger lads give me a good seeing to, that compensates me beautifully....

Topic Do men like Fucking single or Married women which one is the biggest thrill?
Posted 29 Jun 2016 01:13

Sounds hot, how often do you and your wife like to be together?
30 years ago I had high drive and could do more about it.
Now it is high quality over quantity, we make it a event for ourselves.



Now at the age of 52, penetration has become a luxury, so it doesn't occur as much as we would like to. Just feeling the wife in bed, knowing she's been serviced by younger lads is thrilling in its own way.

When younger lads give me a good seeing to, that compensates me beautifully....

Topic Do men like Fucking single or Married women which one is the biggest thrill?
Posted 29 Jun 2016 01:13

Sounds hot, how often do you and your wife like to be together?
30 years ago I had high drive and could do more about it.
Now it is high quality over quantity, we make it a event for ourselves.



Now at the age of 52, penetration has become a luxury, so it doesn't occur as much as we would like to. Just feeling the wife in bed, knowing she's been serviced by younger lads is thrilling in its own way.

When younger lads give me a good seeing to, that compensates me beautifully....

Topic Is the bellybutton more commonly an erogenous spot in females then it is in males ?
Posted 28 Jun 2016 11:41


Considering a woman has more hot spots on her body than a man when she's aroused, and since I have a bit of a bellybutton fetish I was wondering if the bellybutton is more commonly a hot spot in females than in males ? From all the stuff that I've read on the Internet about women who claimed that their bellybutton is an erogenous zone I have seen very few guys say that it's a hot button for them. But I've seen mostly women talk about it being an erogenous spot. Some women say they have this 'need to pee' feeling when their bellybutton is stimulated, some feel a tingle 'down there 'and some even say they can come close to having an orgasm if their bellybutton is played with in the right way.

But then for many the bellybutton does nothing. But since there are many women who claim that the neck, the back of the knee and the forehead and many other places sexually excite them when touched and none of these excite a man as much so I was wondering if the bellybutton is more commonly a hot spot for a women.

If you're a woman replying, you personally may not find your bellybutton to be sexually stimulating or you may, but do you think in general it is more commonly in a woman that it is a hot spot than it is for men?

Ladies what do you think? Can you give me any feedback please ? (and yes I would love to hear if you personally think you're one is sexually sensitive and how is it it connected to the vagina, for example what do you feel ?



Thanks for raising this question. My wife's belly button is extremely sensitive, she can orgasm through that alone. That said, she can orgasm very easily if I massage her stomach. I sloppily kissed and licked her flabby stomach,money to find her shaking with a orgasm almost instantly....

Topic Do men like Fucking single or Married women which one is the biggest thrill?
Posted 28 Jun 2016 11:34

My wife has many young boyfriends. For them, the thrill is fucking a married MILF. When I got together with a young single female, that was thrilling, since I'm older and married...

Topic Brits: Please explain the 'Brexit' situation
Posted 26 Jun 2016 14:32



Ah, I see. So Britain brutally colonizes half the world, then gets upset when half the world turns up on its doorstep -- Therefore, they want to leave Europe... wait... no, I don't see. That actually sounds a bit racist.

Yes that's true, Britain committed many atrocities in its former Empire, but they still don't want 'foreigners' or 'foreign culture' on their doorstep. The racism is probably inherent since they considered all other races to be their slaves, not equals.

Topic Brits: Please explain the 'Brexit' situation
Posted 26 Jun 2016 13:28

Okay, so here's what I understand (which is probably woefully inaccurate. Thanks, American media). The EU is pretty much a house of cards built in an RV that is on fire and being driven by a team of meth-addicts at 100 MPH down a road filled with pot-holes, economically speaking. Basically the decision for Britain is whether to jump and hope for the best (though they're almost certain to sustain life-threatening injuries in the tumble, while abandoning the rest of Europe to a certain firey crash, or to stay in the RV and maybe with the few other sober passengers in the vehicle, to try to wrestle the wheel away from the meth-heads, and at least slow it down so the damage won't be as bad, though the chances of completely avoiding a firey crash are pretty much nil. Whether or not Britain jumps or stays, everyone's bound to be fairly banged-up.

Is this about right?

There are some people in the UK who prefer to remain in the EU. There are some who want the UK to leave. Some in the 'leave' campaign fear that large scale immigration to the UK will place a huge burden on the Health system, education system, and other resources. Some feel that they are becoming a minority in their own ancestral homeland. Terrorist attacks, the imminent membership of Islamic Turkey, have served to alienate these people.

Large scale immigration also changes the culture of the U.K. to a certain degree. Some Brits want to England to make its laws rather than someone in continental Europe.

Disclaimer: I do not know what the long-term consequences will be for the UK, these are the views that are held by some of those who wanted out. Personally, there's always pros and cons of being in the EU. People have to weigh the pros and cons and then decide what is in their best interest.

Topic If she asked.. would you?
Posted 14 Jun 2016 07:06



For me.. hair pulling, spanking, restraining, hard deep fucking, throat gripping, throat fucking, light smacking, biting...

Yes, I would be comfortable with that. My personal definition of 'rough sex' is where she wants to be sworn at, legs lifted very high, very foul language, and she's fantasizing about being raped. I was asked to do that, hence my 'discomfort' for rough sex.


Topic Do guys like it when a woman wears lingerie?
Posted 13 Jun 2016 12:30

Hell yes, especially the sort of lingerie that is meant only for NOOKIE!

Topic If she asked.. would you?
Posted 13 Jun 2016 12:28

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Topic If she asked.. would you?
Posted 13 Jun 2016 12:27



See, in my eyes romance and rough sex can go hand in hand. More passion than rough sex just for rough sex sake.

Agreed, but the next question is what constitutes rough sex and what constitutes romance. I feel that individual explanations will be required...

Topic During sex, do you prefer a moaner or a screamer?
Posted 13 Jun 2016 05:53

I prefer a moaner. I find that screaming is too distracting and uncountable for me. A female friend told me that she deliberately screams just to boost her partner's ego, and to make the neighbors jealous too...

Topic If she asked.. would you?
Posted 08 Jun 2016 09:00

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Topic If she asked.. would you?
Posted 08 Jun 2016 06:25

If your girl dropped hints and even asked for you to get rougher during sex would you? For those who are more gentle would you find that a challenge to act in a way you're typically not?

Personally, I always preferred the gentle approach. I found that my partner could only orgasm during a rough scenario. I would play along, and it was arousing for me too.

The downside to the rough scenario is that I lost respect for her. I started seeing her as a fuck-buddy rather than a soulmate.

That said, a rough shag can really pump the adrenalin though...

Topic teen or milf
Posted 05 Jun 2016 08:23

When I was a teenager, I preferred MILF. Now that I'm old, I prefer TEEN!

Topic Boxers or Briefs?
Posted 04 Jun 2016 11:41

Outta curiosity, what do you guys prefer? Boxers, briefs, boxer-briefs, ooor commando?

Love both, love wearing hers more than mine...

Topic Pregnant?
Posted 04 Jun 2016 11:40

Is a pregnant woman hot or is it a turn off?

Lovely turn-on....

Topic One thing you envy about females having or getting to do?
Posted 28 May 2016 13:26

What is one thing you guys envy that women get to have or do that you wish you could have or do?

Women don't suffer from Erectile Dysfunction!

Topic Chat style and preferences
Posted 13 May 2016 02:07



Good listeners are at a premium. Keep on doing your part! :)

Thank you, I do try to do my part as best as possible. I feel that if I can help to relax the other person by listening to them, then this has a soothing effect on me too.

Normally I would start of by asking how their day went, how was work, or how they're feeling generally. It's a lovely feeling when someone feels confident enough to open up completely. When that person puts their complete trust, faith, and confidentiality in me me then I feel obliged to honor their trust.

I have never betrayed anyone's confidence. I have never been judgemental. As humans we are always bound to make mistakes or regret something in hindsight. It's sad when people start judging others or they betray their trust.

The world is full of misery enough without us trying to create even more. I love to listen. I love to talk. I only offer advice if it's wanted, never pushing advice in someone's face unnecessarily...xx

Topic Orgasms
Posted 12 May 2016 11:47

Are there any ladies out there who just cant, no matter what you have tried, orgasm from intercourse alone??

I cant without clitoral stimulation but some positions mean i cant get the reach i need so i often go without. I never thought of myself as strange until i met my partner who was more than upset and disappointed to find he couldnt make me orgasm from sex alone, i think he felt deflated and that it was his fault and it has taken months and months to reassure him that its not a him thing, its me. It doesnt mean the sex is bad, far from it but its just something that doesnt happen for me.

I once read that most women have this issue but ive actually never known anyone and my partner insists he has never been with anyone before who had this problem so id love to know about others.

My wife climaxes very easily, sometimes too easily. She can have an orgasm from just watching a kissing scene on tv etc. unfortunately, a female acquaintance of mine has never ever experienced an orgasm through sex, masturbation, or anything else.

I slept with her, comforted her, engaged in foreplay and pillow talk, but nothing would work.

In conclusion, there are plenty of women out there who just can't orgasm at all. You're not alone in this at all. Everybody is different, unique, and there is nothing to be worried about...xx

Topic Chat style and preferences
Posted 12 May 2016 11:37



Thank you purpleshade. Questions are great triggers. Again, sensing your style is based on a well-established rapport with your partner.

You're most welcome dear. I do have well established relationships but any new relationship, conversation, or interaction is a truly wonderful experience.

There are times when women just want a man to listen to them intentitively, I have found from experience that women do like to be told how wonderful, gorgeous, and pretty they are. Flattery is by no means a female only scenario, but applies equally to men as well.

Just being a good listener, a good talker, with sincerity is a wonderful virtue...xx

Topic Chat style and preferences
Posted 12 May 2016 02:05

Guys, when you chat with someone who is NOT your significant other...

Do you expect to do most of the talking or directing, expect your partner to do most of the talking or directing, or allow for an equal exchange of ideas?

Does the preference change with the person you're chatting with?

Doing some story research but also curious about the topic. Want to ask more but this is a start.


When I'm chatting to a female acquaintance, I prefer an equal exchange of conversation. I like to ask her questions, and I like to listen to her responses. I like it when she asks me questions, and then listens to what I have to say.

This of course changes with the scenario under which the conversation is taking place. Sometimes women need to be told, need to reassured that they are special. In this scenario I would do all the talking, helping her to relax and feel good about herself...xx

Topic Make up or Nah?
Posted 06 May 2016 02:00

I do like my partner to wear make-up, it's erotic and sensual. Make-up, in my opinion, is not about beauty, but about arousal.

The most beautiful woman is created by nature, without artificial make-up...