Forum posts made by purpleshade

Topic Do you guys actually like going down on girls?
Posted 26 Dec 2014 22:37

Do all you guys out there actually like going down on a girl or is something you give a quick lick for so that you can jump to fucking? Lemme know what you think

Love leila

Going down on a woman is a truly beautiful experience. My partner loves to be kissed immediately after eating her. She loves the taste of her own pussy on my lips. It's a great way to bond and prolongs the intimacy between lovers...

Topic Why do women get louder when having sex when there are friends in the next room?
Posted 27 Nov 2014 05:15

There are women who like to make their female friends jealous. Some women will exaggerate their sex life in order to piss other women off....

Topic decreasing sex drive
Posted 27 Nov 2014 05:00

My husband is 51 and over the past couple of years his sex drive has diminished. He has no problem in achieving or maintaining an erection. He won't speak about it or see his GP and I've tried everything to get the spark back. I keep myself looking as good as I can for him and don't pressurise him into sex but it's frustrating and knocks my confidence everytime he refuses sex. Is this normal for men his age?


Hi dear,

I'm a 50 year old male. I lost interest in sex a few years ago. My wife became very frustrated, she felt that she wasn't attractive anymore, and felt that I didn't love her anymore.

The truth was that I found her very attractive and still loved her. 

Following my lack of interest, she stopped showing affection, and abandoned kissing and cuddling etc. I missed her closeness very much but she became almost bitter.

My wife is a rare gem in the sense that she encouraged me to watch porn, and allowed me to wear hear clothes in order to revive our sex life.

The bottom line is that I began to find sex a mundane chore. I loved sleeping with her naked, loved kissing, cuddling, licking and sucking etc. 
Whenever she stroked my erection, I immediately switched off.

I miss the closeness and intimacy that we once had in terms of non-sexual activity. She feels that everything has to be based around physical sexual intercourse.

I miss her sensual massage, I miss licking her fingers during hand feeding, and I miss her jovial banter.

I did seek medical advice. I was given counselling and medication. The erection is still good, especially considering my age, but I can't explain why I don't want to have physical intercourse anymore.

I now feel that non-sexual activity can be so rewarding. The lady who now gives me a regular massage (non-sexual) gives me such a warm feeling. Our female friends bake for us, their friendliness gives me a warm feeling too.

I now find mature conversation and the other activities to be more heart warming.

I still find my wife very attractive and I still love her very much but, unfortunately, she considers this not to be the case just because I have lost interest in taking her physically.

This is my personal situation. Whether this holds true for other men of my age I'm not sure, but would welcome other views too....

Regards....x

Topic have you ever had car sex
Posted 19 Oct 2014 14:28

where and when and how it all happen

Having sex WITH a car is a lovely experience!

Topic wheres the craziest place youve given head?
Posted 03 Oct 2014 11:37

In Syria.

Topic Sexist Female Athlete
Posted 03 Oct 2014 09:23

Jessica Ennis.

She always gives me ennis elbow!...

Topic What is the sexiest thing a girl can wear to bed?
Posted 02 Oct 2014 06:53

Her feet behind her ears!

Topic Your ideal partner in two words
Posted 01 Oct 2014 06:57

Well mannered.

Topic 3 words a woman loves to hear a man say...
Posted 31 Aug 2014 11:37

Knickers off now!

Topic 3 words a woman loves to hear a man say...
Posted 22 Aug 2014 07:15

You're so moreish.....

X.

Topic If a girl in her twenties had saggy boobs would it put you off?
Posted 21 Jul 2014 08:18

Since putting on weight due to medications I take my boobs have gone from a 32B/C to a 36C/D and are kind of saggy, not majorly, but they are definitely not pert anymore. I have been told by men they still look great but I think they look awful. I wouldn't dare step outside without a bra and whenever I can I choose clothing that covers my cleavage.

I've known many girls whose boobs have sagged at a very early age. Personally, it did not put me off in anyway. I always encouraged them to go bra-less under their t-shirts.

They all felt uncomfortable about their sagginess, but for me it was not an issue. The thing that matters the most is your self confidence, your nature, the affection you show to others, and your dignity.

When we used to make love, the texture, the taste, and the feel is still the same as pert breasts.

Sadly, so many women are pressurised by society to have 'ideal' shapes....

Topic Why would anyone like to be humiliated and degraded?
Posted 21 Jul 2014 08:07

I must admit that bdsm is a strange country to me, but I have read some intriguing stories here. I think I can understand the want to be dominated, to let go of some of the responsibilities of own actions, beeng led into territory you would not dare to go alone - by a person you love and trust and will not let you be hurt.

But why would anyone want to go into a relationship where they are humiliated and demeaned and degraded by their master? Will that not destroy trust and selfrespect?

I agree with what you're saying. Many years ago I was with a woman to who I showed a lot of respect. She seemed edgy most of the time, she didn't really have a great orgasm. One day during foreplay, she wanted to pretend to be raped, I played along but nothing violent, just pinning her down. She fantasised about being raped, she had the best orgasm ever.

Ever since that day, during foreplay, she insisted on being verbally abused. Even during penetration she needed to be sworn at.

To this day, I cannot understand why she needed humiliation, especially since I showed her a great deal of respect.

Like some of the other replies here, maybe different things work for different people. I personally do not care for the humiliation side.....

Topic Which improvements or features would you like to see added?
Posted 09 Jul 2014 11:31



Well, as an atheist I can assure you that calling oneself after what you're not is not always a success either ;)

Yes, I agree; profile updated forthwith :)....

Topic Which improvements or features would you like to see added?
Posted 09 Jul 2014 11:30



That won't work because we also have a Lesbian category, so it needs to be distinctly male, somehow.

You could go with Man-On-Man, or something (not that I actually have a problem with 'Gay Male', but I understand the point that's being raised).

How about 'Male same sex'....

Topic Which improvements or features would you like to see added?
Posted 09 Jul 2014 11:28



WHat about "Same Sex" - that's functional and accurate is it not? I doubt anyone could get offended by that?



That's sounds better, sweet...

Topic Which improvements or features would you like to see added?
Posted 09 Jul 2014 08:14



Why not 'homosexuality'?

It's bit of a mouthful, if you'll pardon the pun!...

Topic Which improvements or features would you like to see added?
Posted 09 Jul 2014 05:12



Like 'gay' suggests that everything else is dull/grumpy.

I don't like the word 'gay'. The word 'gay' suggests something 'non masculine', it suggests some kind of 'weakness'.

Personally, I prefer the word 'non hetro' to denote homosexuality...

Topic Which improvements or features would you like to see added?
Posted 08 Jul 2014 07:43



I actually back this (only with "heterosexual" spelt correctly). I try to avoid using the word "straight" in this context for similar reasons.

Thanks, and sorry for the typo. As far as the story category is concerned, instead of 'Hetro sex' there could be 'MF sex', i.e. implying male and female.

I just find the term 'straight' rather antiquated and somewhat insulting. The term 'straight', by default, seems to imply that everything else is 'perverted'....

Topic Which improvements or features would you like to see added?
Posted 08 Jul 2014 07:37



I note East Sussex is in the drop down list.

Thanks for that...

Topic Which improvements or features would you like to see added?
Posted 08 Jul 2014 07:36



It's divided into East and West Sussex on the list.

Thanks, sweet....

Topic Which improvements or features would you like to see added?
Posted 07 Jul 2014 16:31

By the way folks, 'Sussex' is not available in the drop down menu for UK location. Any specific reason for that?...

Topic So Rolf Harris just got jailed for 5 years and 9 months...
Posted 07 Jul 2014 16:28

It's a good job that the 'fucking goat' did escape; I can envisage that being fucked too!...

Topic Which improvements or features would you like to see added?
Posted 07 Jul 2014 15:38

Could the sexual orientation 'straight' be changed to 'Hetrosexual'. The word 'straight' resonates a certain air of superiority. The word 'straight' is the opposite of 'Bent'. The word 'bent' is usually denoted for anything that is corrupt, such as 'bent coppers, bent politicians, etc...

Topic So Rolf Harris just got jailed for 5 years and 9 months...
Posted 07 Jul 2014 10:39





It may well be that her inheritance will be HER compensation for what she will go through being his daughter after all that he has done! It's a shame that these victims have not stepped forward sooner - then he would not have been able to live the life that he has lived, and some may not have ended up as victims.

I hear what you're saying, hun. She'll have £11 million to cushion the blow. The other victims will just have horrid memories...

Topic So Rolf Harris just got jailed for 5 years and 9 months...
Posted 07 Jul 2014 08:35

Perhaps he should've been forced to use his £11 million pound fortune to compensate the victims in some way.

Five odd years in prison, at his age, is similar to a 84 year old being sent to a nursing home. His daughter will inherit his fortune, she has no plans to help the victims.

His daughter is the ideal person to help the victims; she's female, and was once a child!....

Topic Which improvements or features would you like to see added?
Posted 29 Jun 2014 13:58

When it comes to scoring on a story, we have the option of 1,2,3,4, or 5. The difference between 4 and 5 is 20%. There should be an option for 4.5 or 4.75.

At school, we were given grades A B C D E etc. but also, minus or plus, e.g. A+ , or C-.

This gives more room, rather than jumping in blocks of 20%.

What do you think?

Thank...

Topic Have you ever experienced sudden arousal due to unusual, or extreme circumstances?
Posted 24 Jun 2014 08:22

Many years ago I had to accompany my wife to her family get together. After a few drinks, things starting heating up, in terms of old quarrels and disputes. Things started getting really loud, to the extent that it looked as if it was going to get physical.

Some of the more 'sensible' members started shoving people out of the large family room. As my wife was being ushered out, she grabbed my hand. We were in here sister's old bedroom. My wife closed the door and kissed the hell out of me. I thought that she was going to rip my jaw out.

When she released me from the kiss, her body jolted slightly. When we got back home, to 'normality' I asked her about the kiss.

She said that she had an orgasm during the family punch-up. The kiss brought her to a final climax. I loved the kiss and helping her to orgasm but, to this day, I cannot understand how someone could do sexually aroused during something so anti-social....

Topic Does a girl having big breast matter?
Posted 23 Jun 2014 12:40

Does having big breast matter on a girl matter? Or is average size or small size alright?

To be perfectly honest, sweetie, I prefer women with small titties.

Topic Age preference
Posted 12 Jun 2014 05:08

Yes, preference has changed, over time. When I was 20, I preferred mature partners. Now that I'm older, I prefer younger partners....

Topic Breasts, boobs or tits?
Posted 07 Jun 2014 07:15

Top bollocks...