I'd like to get to know others with similar interests, who are excited by pleasing others, who understand the thrill of power exchanges, & that intimacy Is a much more powerful, deep and important thing than intercourse. My interests include spanking and all of its variations, male chastity, petticoat punishment, and serving a caring but strong woman. My fantasies include male chastity with corporal punishment from a caring but strict and demanding Disciplinarian/Keyholder. I have worked on perfecting my massage and oral skills and according to my Dental Hygienist & friend of about ten years, I have "one of the strongest tongues" she's ever seen. I'm married, my wife has not been interested in intimacy of any kind since she went through menopause, and not only does she not understand my interests & desires but, sadly, considers them "sick & perverted."