About rafael

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I have been writing stories since 2008. My aim is to make my erotic fiction realistic, believable - and minus the cliche vulgarity which is, sorry, commonplace, but very popular on Lush. My more recent stories probably reflect this more. I would be happy to hear from any female writers to exchange ideas, insights, trade views etc.

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rafael
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Cambridgeshire, United Kingdom
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Eroticism
Favorite Authors:
D H Lawrence, G Greene, Maugham, Austen. Bronte Sisters.
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Classical and opera.

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Topic: Public libraries: Are they obsolete?
Posted: 15 Aug 2018 09:22

Be honest: When's the last time you actually checked a physical book out of a public library?

Is it worthwhile for libraries to maintain and expand physical holdings, or should they reform to better fit the digital age? Or perhaps they're an unnecessary public expense that could be done away with all together?

What do you think is the role of public libraries in modern society?



Less useful than they used to be.

I tend to buy 2nd hand books on ebay if I want to read anything so dont need a library. Most novels can be had for a couple of pounds.

The last time I went, a year ago - there were few books - lots of space and lots of people - but few books compared to the pre internet days.

Topic: 301 priests identified in Pennsylvanian sex abuse report
Posted: 15 Aug 2018 09:19

The numbers of victims in this investigation blows my mind! I'd say the percentage of pedophiles in the Catholic church probably exceeds 6%! Pedophiles are drawn to professions where targets are plentiful.

Yes and priests - being men of god - are of course trustworthy to leave your children with.

At least that myth has now been laid to rest.

Topic: Help! Mum has written a book.
Posted: 07 Aug 2018 12:22

Keep us up to date on how she goes.

Thanks for your interest.

Sadly - I am beginning to think my mum is dealing with some mental health issues as she mainly tells me, by email, stories of paranoia - victimization - mostly by her neighbors - but her claims lack credibility. For example - she started claiming that 50 cars follow her when she goes shopping - she has now upped that figure to 100. The police have accused her of paranoia and thankfully sent a mental health expert to her and I am hoping she will now get some help.
This is tragic - I've not seen her for 10+ years - she is 73. I always assume people will stay the same including myself. How wrong.

Topic: Help! Mum has written a book.
Posted: 26 Jul 2018 06:37

UPDATE

My mum has now submitted a synopsis to a publisher.

Topic: Twelve Russians indicted for collusion. Should Trump cancel Putin meeting?
Posted: 17 Jul 2018 05:52

It’s really embarressing how all his tough talk goes right out the window when he’s face to face with an actual alpha powerful motherfucker. Putin literally looks like the cat that ate the canary. Putin is a tyrant but goddamn, the fucking guy plays chess on the highest level.

It's not hard playing chess with someone who thinks sacrificing all the pieces on the board for nothing is the best strategy.

I thought Trump could do no more in terms of making a laughing stock out of USA - but yesterday really changed my mind

the guy has endless possibilities.

Topic: Texas School Shooting
Posted: 29 May 2018 05:51

it was only a matter of time before video games started to offer the chance to play the role of a school shooter

https://www.theguardian.com/games/2018/may/29/active-shooter-video-game-parkland-school-massacre-florida

the worst thing is - the sicker games are - the more they seem to sell.

Topic: Ireland votes on Abortion
Posted: 28 May 2018 08:24



Even that word, “mistake” feels like stigmatization. It’s like it’s been drilled into all our heads that it’s this thing it’s not. “I have no money and no way to support the baby,” feels like something someone who carries guilt would say about having had an abortion. I don’t know why it’s has to be a mistake. In my perfect world it would be a nothing. It would be like getting a cavity filled or lasic surgery. At its root all it is is a minor medical procedure. I don’t think any of us can really know how much our opinion is rooted in the propanganda spread by those who would limit abortion. I remember growing up and seeing anti choice billboards talking about how a baby is murdered every 6 minutes or something like that. My parents were anti choice and they’d say things like “abortion isn’t birth control.” My opinion on it now is a huge overreaction to that propaganda and influence. I don’t know if it’s right or wrong. I do think words matter. I think my “celebration” of abortion isn’t so much a celebration of abortion as it is a rejection of how we talk about abortion.

I reject the idea that women who have an abortion made a mistake. I reject that abortion isn’t a form of birth control. I reject the idea that abortion has to be a big emotional deal. The people who want it to be a big emotional deal want it that way to make a woman’s decision even harder than it already is. If the anti choice movement can’t control woman’s bodies then they want to do their best to control their minds. They control it by setting framework for which many pro choice people talk about abortion. That’s why I avoid saying “pro life” It implies woman who get abortions are anti life. I won’t accept their premise. No one who is pro choice is ever going to convert anyone who is anti choice. The best we can hope for is to gradually take their power away by changing how abortion is talked about.

there's no stigmatization about "mistake" - we all have made mistakes of different kinds and we've all regretted having sex with at least 1 person in our lives, well most of us probably. There's no stigma.

It sounds like you want abortion talked about the way that makes you feel comfortable in your own perfect world. Abortion should be like having a tooth pulled - it should be this - it should be that.

that's not how the world works.

My opinion on it now is a huge overreaction to that propaganda and influence.

is about the only sensible statement in your post.

Topic: Ireland votes on Abortion
Posted: 27 May 2018 23:34



You don't have to think like me. I am not telling you what to find funny or not. My issue is with you telling me I shouldn't find humor in an abortion. I am just trying to make the point to you that treating it like it is this serious somber thing and not treating it like a minor medical procedure akin to getting a wart removed contributes to the stigmatization of getting an abortion. You may be pro choice but you are also part of the problem. to do my part I make jokes about it. It may seem crass but my brilliance is often under appreciated. I'm used to it. No hard feelings.



I think women who have experienced abortion would probably take issue with you on that one.

Raising legitimate concerns in no way stigmatizes abortion.

Trivializing it like you do may lead to some people using abortion as secondary contraception - which it is not.

Topic: Ireland votes on Abortion
Posted: 27 May 2018 12:20



So let me get this straight. In this free society you want to not only control what a woman does with her body, but you also want to control what people find amusing? Abortion IS hilarious. The jokes you can make about it are endless. I mean, every time a pro-controlling-a-woman's-body (aka pro life) republican gets busted for getting an abortion that is hilarious. I think, maybe, women get beat up enough for being slutty or not being slutty enough. I think they get beat up for being 5 ounces over weight, too short, too tall, for not smiling enough, for dressing like "they really wanted" those unsolicited sexual advances. Oh, and by the way, women get beat up enough, literally... by men... all the time. So, I am here to say abortions are hilarious. Laugh about them. Give the fetus you have scraped out of you a ridiculous name like Rupert or Mike Pence. There should be joke cards for when a girl gets an abortion. "Congratulations! It's a nothing!" They should get unbirthday cakes where they blow out zero candles. Why should all of this be a thing. Because with the beatings (literal and figurative) women take in this world, maybe we can give them a day off after they have to make a challenging and deeply personal decision that has nothing to do with anyone else in this world except her own values and beliefs. So in the spirit of saying Abortions are hilarious here is one more joke for all of you to enjoy.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/NlA2A6yUJn4

I am pro choice. A woman should have the right to abortion.

no idea why you think any different. being pro choice does not mean I have to think like you and laugh at what you find funny.

Topic: Ireland votes on Abortion
Posted: 27 May 2018 12:17



Show me where in LovingSadist's post he forced said woman into the abortion she had. It sounds to me that she had already decided to have the abortion and was being curious enough to inform him about the pregnancy and termination. Now, I'm inferring this as I don't know all the facts and it's up to him to further clarify. I won't force him to do such. LovingSadist wasn't being disrespectful, just brutally honest. Also, you don't know if one or both were using contraception during said encounter. Let's be real, we're always told the only 100% way to not get pregnant is to not have sex.

I have more respect for LovingSadist's position because it's honest. I have less respect for you, Rafael, in thinking his man has no respect for women's bodies. Men who force any woman to carry a child to term are the ones who truly have no respect for women's bodies or women in general.

I think you need to read his post more carefully.

I am really pro abortion..It saved me the trouble of having to pretend I was going to be there to help raise our child

what does this imply? It implies that if there had been no abortion option - he would have deceived his girlfriend into believing he was going to support her by being a real father to the child - only to, presumably from his words - disappear at some stage and leave her holding the baby.

I really dont think this deserves respect even if you do.

As for the contraception question - true - we dont know what happened - maybe the contraception failed. What I'm getting at though is the attitude "It saved me the trouble" - trivializes the seriousness of abortion.

I know a friend who made a girl pregnant unplanned - he paid for her abortion too - his face goes white when he recalls the episode.

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Two hands are better than one

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The School Secretary

I was shopping for a new digital camera in the town when I saw a familiar face at the checkout. It was the school secretary, Miss Wilson. There were two secretaries at the private school where my son used to be a day boarder and neither one of them would raise a smile if I happened go into the school office. I have no idea why. My wife and I often considered this coldness and reasoned it...

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