About rafael


Live near Cambridge UK. 47, married male. I have been off Lush for a while as I felt in the dozen or so stories I wrote in 2008 had taken me as far as I could go in writing erotic fiction. But I am back now in 2011 with new enthusiasm as I want to really explore the genre. I don't want to write like the majority of people on here - I'm searching for quality - realism. It has to be believable or it's just not sexy, for me at least. It's not porn - that is not satisfactory at all. I am no longer the writer that will open with a fuck passage - a good story needs characters and a good plot - and subtlety. Well judge for yourself - I am back with My Social Worker and Me - written in parts. Hope you enjoy and get in touch!

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Topic: Contraception
Posted: 19 Sep 2017 06:48

This is why we shouldn't allow our viewing of porn to influence any of our real world decisions.

Do you have an aversion to vasectomy ?

My wife doesn't want me to have a V. Even though we intend to have no more children.

I'm going to do a sperm count as I hardly produce any semen these days and if my sperm count is 0 - I can save myself the bother of a V anyway.

Topic: Contraception
Posted: 17 Sep 2017 12:18

OK guys - what contraception do you use, if any? to avoid pregnancy.

I have been married 17 years and bar the first years when we conceived - have been stuck on condoms ever siince.

judging by the porn amateur stuff I see - most couples do not use condoms. I assume the girl is on the pill or they are trying for a child or taking chances.

Topic: when did you masturbate last?
Posted: 17 Sep 2017 03:17

months ago.
I stopped finding it satisfying or interesting a while ago.

only real sex seems to get me off properly - a wanked ejaculation feels like a blocked sneeze

Topic: Edit After Publication
Posted: 17 Sep 2017 02:32

I deleted and then decided to clean up and ended up reworking significantly - glad I did as I feel much happier with what I produced in the end.

just submitted it now after one last round of revisions - and argh! would you believe I forgot to deleted a great big space after the story ends.

I wonder if this will appear in the final version.

one question - if you edit after publication - do you lose all views, comments etc and do you get bumped to the top?

Topic: Edit After Publication
Posted: 10 Sep 2017 09:49

Some useful comments - I decided to delete the story and work on it some more before submitting again.

Topic: Edit After Publication
Posted: 10 Sep 2017 07:01

well, it does come back to us, since we need to make sure you didn't edit something against TOS in, but as long as you edit it in the box and don't edit it in word and cut and paste the entire thing again, we can see the edits and will usually verify it very very quickly.


Topic: Edit After Publication
Posted: 10 Sep 2017 05:51


I have just submitted my first story for 3 years.

I spent an hour proofreading it but after submitting found a small error, after submitting.

What will happen if I edit the story after publication? does it have to go through the moderation process all over again?

thank you

Topic: Sexless marriage
Posted: 26 Mar 2017 11:32

I myself am in a sexless marriage and it sucks, we now sleep in seperate rooms, live seperate lives, people probably think why don't you leave, there's acouple of factors stopping me, I'm also a curvy lady and I'm pretty positive that most men are not interested in curvy women, so I'm afraid to leave a sexless marriage to go out and meet someone and end up still being sexless. Any suggestions???????

Every shape of woman has a million admirers, believe me.

Topic: How do I tell a friend that I want to have sex with her?
Posted: 22 Mar 2017 13:53

My view is - if you want to fuck a woman who is your friend - just ask her out for a date. Make sure you arrive with flowers or she will think it is just good friends. flowers will say it all.
then hold her hand gently in the cinema, theatre or whatever. if she withdraws it - try again a little later. if she keeps shutting the door. that's your answer. She certainly wont blame you for trying - she will only blame you if you become a pest.

If it sours the friendship - just move on.

I am 52 now and looking back missed some wonderful chances with friends who were waiting for me to make a move. Life is too short to dither - make your move!

Topic: male orgasam denial
Posted: 22 Mar 2017 12:29

I like watching this kind of thing but fucking without ejaculation is not really my thing. it's like chewing food and spitting out

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Ella was a well respected member of the parish. She was secretary of the Mother's Union, treasurer of the church restoration fund, worked in an animal charity shop and stood in all weathers outside the village post office at the cake stall on fund raising days for the local primary school. I was fifty three at the time and had known Ella as my daughter's piano teacher for several years....

Added 22 Sep 2017 | Category Love Stories | Votes 9 | Avg Score 5 | Views 1,442 | 4 Comments

One Hour In a Hotel

I am sat in my car in the hotel car park and watched as a Nissan Micra pulled into a bay close to the reception entrance. A casually dressed blond young woman got out and walked into the building. I hope it's her, I thought, she is hot. My heartbeat quickened and my palms began to sweat. Pre-punt nerves. It seemed odd though that she would use a hotel for this purpose and arrive at eight...

Added 08 Jun 2013 | Category Straight Sex | Votes 8 | Avg Score 4.75 | Views 6,004 | 1 Comment

Shower For Two (Stuart and Joanne pt2)

In my story "Two hands are better than one" I told about how I helped out Joanne with her essay and ended up getting a beautiful hand relief from her - not as a thank you - but to take my mind off her so that I could concentrate on the work. I hoped that would be the start of something between us but it was not. She continued to treat me almost like her little boy and had such a motherly...

Added 06 Jan 2013 | Category Masturbation | Votes 4 | Avg Score 4.5 | Views 4,127

Two hands are better than one

I was eating pot noodles and pouring over my lecture notes when the phone rang. It was Joanne, one of my classmates. "Stuart," she said, "I really need a massive favour." I saw in my mind's eye Joanne, topless, her large breasts looking ripe and juicy. "I've got this essay to finish tonight and I'm stuck on the conclusion. Can you help me?" She was a mature student in her mid 20s, a...

Added 04 Dec 2012 | Category Masturbation | Votes 5 | Avg Score 4.2 | Views 11,813 | 2 Comments

Vicarage Discipline (f/m spanking)

We were on the bed preparing to fuck. Debbie was on all fours, her beautiful arse should have been stimulation sufficient to arm me with a rod of steel. She was pampering my aching balls and gave my unwilling pecker an encouraging touch now and then, hoping as I hoped, for some stiff action. But all to no avail. It was me that gave up in the end and I huddled on the edge of the bed, beaten in...

Added 01 Dec 2012 | Category Spanking | Votes 17 | Avg Score 4.76 | Views 34,266 | 3 Comments

The Surrogate Mother Pt 1

They met at a motel just off the A14 north of Cambridge. Peter and Jan had opted for natural insemination. It was no problem for Jan. She knew her husband would have to insert his penis into the body of another woman but she knew her man. To him it would be no more significant than planting seeds in his neighbour's garden. She also knew he was doing it for her. It was she who yearned, at 56,...

Added 11 Apr 2012 | Category Straight Sex | Votes 6 | Avg Score 3.67 | Views 8,951 | 1 Comment

The Vicar's Granddaughter

"This is my granddaughter," said the vicar. "Emma is with us for the summer." Stanley nodded to the young lady who was stretched out on the vicar's sofa reading a magazine about horses. She barely acknowledged the visitor, lifting her black eyelashes fleetingly, and continued reading as if her attention had been uninterrupted. Stanley was nothing much to look at of course, just an aging...

Added 15 Mar 2012 | Category Straight Sex | Votes 9 | Avg Score 4.56 | Views 18,677 | 1 Comment

The School Secretary

I was shopping for a new digital camera in the town when I saw a familiar face at the checkout. It was the school secretary, Miss Wilson. There were two secretaries at the private school where my son used to be a day boarder and neither one of them would raise a smile if I happened go into the school office. I have no idea why. My wife and I often considered this coldness and reasoned it...

Added 10 Mar 2012 | Category Love Stories | Votes 14 | Avg Score 4.71 | Views 11,963 | 3 Comments

The Secret Spanking Fantasy Of My Wife

So I discovered that my wife is an active member of an erotic stories forum and I wish I had not. She might still be with me. It happened like this: We had been together for ten years and I honestly thought she was happy with me. I admit I thought I was lucky to marry her as she was (and is) very pretty and I was not really in her league for looks. But she obviously found something in...

Added 31 Oct 2011 | Category Spanking | Votes 21 | Avg Score 4.37 | Views 42,286 | 6 Comments

A Great Little Session

She told me to park up and text her so I did that and waited for a reply. An old riverside mill converted into flats. My mobile jingled and I answered. "Come through the white door," she said in a husky voice. "Then through another and go right, I'm B2, push the door open and come up the stairs." "See you in a minute." I replied and was about to hang up. "Wait," she said, "Wait a couple...

Added 25 Aug 2011 | Category Spanking | Votes 5 | Avg Score 4.6 | Views 12,333 | 1 Comment

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