Forum posts made by rxtales

Topic Young boy wants to join Girl Scouts
Posted 28 Oct 2011 00:55

I think gender is more that what your chromosomes are, or what genetalia you have. Over the summer I volunteered with an organisation called Gendered Intelligence which provides youth groups for transgendered children and teenagers. They also did various educational workshops for teachers, doctors, parents...ettc

Most transgendered people that I know, have felt they were the opposite since they were very young. However many of them didn´t come out of the closest until later because of their parents and other people weren´t accepting. Many transgendered children can start taking hormones at a fairly young age - in their early teens. In the UK, in order to obtain the hormones they have to be evaluated by a psychologist over a number of months, if not longer.

Anyways back to the original question. If this child identifies as being a girl, then yes, I think the child should be allowed to join the girl scouts. Who needs to know that the child´s biologically male? In my opinion that should be kept private by the organisers.

There is an excellent documentary called cruel and unusual which is about transgendered men that are put into male prisons in the states. It´s somewhat related and I would really suggest watching it.

Topic Why do women shave/wax their private parts?
Posted 27 Oct 2011 07:05

I originally started shaving when a partner asked me too. I had never really liked the idea of doing it, but now that I´ve started shaving, I wouldn´t go back. I find my skin is a lot more sensitive.

Topic Your man tells you he is gay
Posted 23 Oct 2011 10:23

I was in this situation once a couple of years ago. I was accepting, we were pretty young, and to be honest it really didn´t surprise me. What I was angry about though, was that he had cheated on me. It didn´t really matter that it was with a guy. I was also angry that he couldn´t talk to me about what was going on. I would hope that whoever I am with told that he was gay, instead of letting me find out, or lying to me about it.

Topic What are your Halloween plans & costume?
Posted 20 Oct 2011 12:29

I was going to be princess lollipop from candyland, but from what I understand it's not very popular over here. Afraid people won't get it.

Topic What's on your sexual bucket list?
Posted 17 Oct 2011 15:40

my sexual bucket list:a threesome with three girls

Wouldn't that be a foursome?


1 you + 3 ladies = 4 people

Topic Westboro morons
Posted 17 Oct 2011 15:32

So went on a bit of a Louis Theroux binge today. Not only did I watch all 8 parts on you tube, but also when he went back a few years later after some members left the church. I am speechless. They are just a buncf nut jobs.

I also watched when he went and stayed with White supremacists and had a similar reaction to the westboro family. When watching this stuff it's hard to remember that they are such tiny minorities.

On a side note medicated kids and porn star episodes were quite interesting as well.

Topic What stimulates you more?
Posted 16 Oct 2011 15:29

I find that when my clit is rubbed, I often get over stimulated, and the feeling is not so nice. When I become really turned on, I get super sensitive. I have orgasmed a couple times, by having someone lightly run their fingers over my skin.

So in a way, I find that I am more stimulated by penetration. Or at least I find it more enjoyable than clit stimulation.

Topic Help! I think I'm an internet slut :/
Posted 15 Oct 2011 04:14


The important thing is that you are staying safe and you're not letting it impact in a negative way on the rest of your life; your job, family, real life relationships etc.


I think that´s very important. A few years ago, I became very addicted to doing similar things. At first it was all online, and I felt safe hiding in my room. Then I started meeting the men I was camming for and it became addictive. I often lied about who I was, and would staying up all night to find men to meet up with. It impacted my entire life; I couldn´t get my school work done, I was lying to everyone, I pushed all of my friends away... Just be careful with what you are doing.

Topic Dyslexia
Posted 14 Oct 2011 03:27

I think dyslexia takes a unique form for each person, right? Or it seems that way, at any rate.



Yeah it does. For me, it really only effects me when I read out loud. When I read I don´t follow the words in the same way most people do, my eyes are all over the page. When I read to myself my brain puts it all together rathar slowly, but when it comes to reading it out loud it can´t do it quick enough. So when I am reading to someone it really sounds like I don´t know how to read at all.

It effects my brother´s short term memory (almost non-existent) and his speech as well as mixing up words and numbers and such.

Topic Yesteryear websites - post your links
Posted 13 Oct 2011 15:55

http://dokimos.org/ajff/

Warning you may instantly get a headache!

At first I thought it was a gay pride site. The flashing rainbow prevented me from seeing the writing.

Topic Dyslexia
Posted 13 Oct 2011 15:52

I like to think I put the sexy in dyslexia.

Topic Coming out
Posted 11 Oct 2011 15:18

Hi all,
Just writing to make myself heard.U see I have just found out that I love cock rather than pussy, I wonder if any of u guys are in the same predicament and what can be done about it?????

Welcome to the forums Rondel. Coming out can be difficult. I know people who feel that they cannot come out, because they live in cultures that are largely intolerant towards gay people, or because they are in straight relationships. I hope you find the support you need to be able to do so, and be yourself. As for what can be done about it, I think you need to do what is best for yourself. Good Luck!

Topic What's the funniest or strangest comment you have received on one of your stories?
Posted 09 Oct 2011 01:36

On another site one of my stories got the comment:

"Pregnant women are gross. Your story is anything but erotic, it made me puke in my mouth a little."

Charming...

Topic Hey movie lovers! Can you spot all of the films??
Posted 08 Oct 2011 15:51

Schindlers List

I just rewatched the movie. I have no idea where I got that answer from. Maybe I mixed up the red balloon with the red coat.

Topic cell phones
Posted 05 Oct 2011 09:03

I have an iphone4.

I really like it, but still can´t seem to text on it. Definitely can´t do it while walking or after a couple of drinks.

Topic virgins
Posted 05 Oct 2011 08:13

Hello Taylor and welcome to Lush! You are a very beautiful girl and I am sure your inbox will be full in no time.

As for your question, I am not turned on about the fact that a girl is a virgin. I personally have to be attracted both physically and mentally to the girl, being a virgin doesn't add much to the mix for me.

The other thing that comes into question is that the first time you would have sex would place enormous pressure on the guy to be "amazing". I am not saying that I am not, but it could lead to a little performance anxiety.

Have fun out there! This is a wonderful community!

Really? I´ve heard some guys say that they like being with virgins, because they feel less pressure to perform well, because she won´t be able to compare it to anyone else.

Topic Is this wrong that my girl likes this thought and thinks she will
Posted 05 Oct 2011 07:51

I´ve been with this girl for a year now, but our relationship has been completely online. I am planning on seeing her soon, in the near future. Last night, she told me that she thinks I´m too good for her and she will ruin my life.

So after that she tells me she likes the thought of cheating or going with others. It arouses her. I was really angry and snappy. Below is a conversation we had, am I wrong to feel angry, hurt and mad about it? She thinks I´ll leave her in the end. It´s already been a year, and I´ve had plenty of other girls to get with, but I haven´t. She says she is weak, meaning that if other´s hit on her, she let´s them do what they want to her. Can you guys kindly give me your thoughts of what she´s thinking? Is it okay, or isn´t it? How would you deal with it, if it was someone you love?

Sorry mate, it took me a while to decipher what you were trying to say, and I´ll be honest I can´t decipher most of that chat log, I don´t know who is saying what, and to me it looks like there are three people involved.

I think some people like having a fantasy about cheating on their SO. It´s something that´s forbidden, and can be a little attractive. I´ve known people who get off on the thrill of trying not to get caught. I think it´s a sign for trouble though, especially since she´s admitting it. Can you trust that she isn´t going to cheat on you?

Topic Hey movie lovers! Can you spot all of the films??
Posted 01 Oct 2011 17:46

Schindlers List

Topic BDSM 101
Posted 25 Sep 2011 04:03

I am new to the BDSM community, i have only been in one D/s relationship that ended brokenly and has left me very lost. It makes me uncomfortable in chatrooms and men automaticly try and make me their sub. while i am unowned and i do enjoy playing i feel that to take on the full reasponsibility of being owned takes trust and i dont know how to handle these situations. and i dont know how to tell them when i have reached my limit without getting them angry as im still learning? what do it do?crybaby

You should always make your limits clear, and never worry about what the other person thinks about them. If they are worth your time, then they will understand that everyone has limits, and yours shouldn´t be crossed. If you don´t tell them that you have reached your limit, then you will only end up hurting yourself.

Topic Staying for the Kids
Posted 25 Sep 2011 03:59

Staying together for the kids, in rarely a good idea. Kids pick up on things, like when the parents are unhappy. I think it´s important to the kids, that their parents are happy, it generally makes a nicer environment to live in.

My parents got divorced when I was 10 or so. It was pretty amicable, there wasn´t really ever any fighting, and for a couple of years they lived very close to each other, and would get together for dinners with my brother and I. I actually saw more of them then I did before. They also worked a lot, but when they had their night with us, they would make more of an effort to get home early.

When they realised that it was never going to work, my dad had to go back to the states (we were living in the UK) for visa reasons. That was the hard part. Then they started fighting about who got to see us on the holidays. That´s what made things difficult for us.

When I was a 16 or 17 my dad moved back to the UK, and still lives a street away from my mom, and they are back to being friendly. My mom has remarried, and they are all much happier, which makes my younger brother and I much happier.

Divorce is going to be hard on kids no matter what, but I don´t think you would be doing your child any good if you and your partner are unhappy together. You and your partner just need to try and keep things as friendly as possible, and share time with the children.

Topic HAPPY BIRTHDAY WICKEDSHADS!
Posted 23 Sep 2011 02:42

Happy Birthday!

Topic How the human mind works
Posted 22 Sep 2011 17:03

I still can´t see the dog

Topic Why swallow?
Posted 22 Sep 2011 16:46

I just don´t know what else to do with it. Swallowing seems the best way to get it out of my mouth. I don´t really fancy having to clean it out of my carpet.

Topic The texture of cum
Posted 22 Sep 2011 16:37

This is an excerpt from the cookbook.

Heat up a lightly oiled frying pan. Remove from heat and ejaculate directly into the pan, return to heat and fry the semen without stirring. This will create a mini-omelette, or in some cases, many small omelette-drops.


OMG, can someone please try this and give us a review! *jumping up and down enthusiastically*
Felix, I'm looking at you to take one for the team, here! Taste test required, obviously.

Is it to much to ask someone to cum in my frying pan on the third date?

Topic The texture of cum
Posted 22 Sep 2011 04:09

This morning I made myself coffee with condensed milk as normal, but got busy and it went cold. So I put it into the microwave to heat it up. Afterwards I drank it and noticed the texture was different - somewhere between liquid coffee and flan, and then I thought it reminded me of the texture of cum. Not sure I will be making my coffee with condensed milk anymore.

Topic What music do you listen to while you exercise?
Posted 22 Sep 2011 04:04

I run pretty much everyday and have been running to the same crystal method album for about 2 years now. I think it´s time for a change. Any suggestions?

Topic Beating the Smoking Addiction?
Posted 20 Sep 2011 01:44

I have found nicorette gum is the only way I have been able to quit. I chew the gum for a while, but eventually the cravings stop, as the gum makes me feel a little nauseous.

Topic More violent than the US or even South Africa: Great Britain?
Posted 11 Sep 2011 07:10

Okay, I have been meaning to reply to this for a while. I am not so sure the UK is any more violent than the US. Sure there are areas where there is a lot of a crime, and there seems to be an increase of it, but I wouldn´t say that´s any different than the US, or most other countries for that matter. I don´t feel in danger walking down the street or anything. I feel perfectly safe walking home from a bar at 2 or 3 in the morning in London. Sure I´ve been mugged, and such, but that´s happened to me in the US as well as four or five other countries. I think the big difference between the US and UK is that in the US there are a lot of sparsly populated areas that we don´t have over here.

As for guns, that´s the last thing we need. I can just see that as being an absolute disaster.

Been mugged in the UK, the US and four or five other countries? That is up to 7 muggings in your life. Umm, I hate to point this out but you are either running with the wrong crowd or you're going to places you shouldn't. Might be time to make a few lifestyle changes. I'm almost 40 years old and I've never been mugged. I don't know anyone that has been mugged.

Yeah point taken. I haven´t lived in the safest of countries, but I do just generally have bad luck.

Topic More violent than the US or even South Africa: Great Britain?
Posted 09 Sep 2011 06:25

Okay, I have been meaning to reply to this for a while. I am not so sure the UK is any more violent than the US. Sure there are areas where there is a lot of a crime, and there seems to be an increase of it, but I wouldn´t say that´s any different than the US, or most other countries for that matter. I don´t feel in danger walking down the street or anything. I feel perfectly safe walking home from a bar at 2 or 3 in the morning in London. Sure I´ve been mugged, and such, but that´s happened to me in the US as well as four or five other countries. I think the big difference between the US and UK is that in the US there are a lot of sparsly populated areas that we don´t have over here.

As for guns, that´s the last thing we need. I can just see that as being an absolute disaster.

Topic HAPPY F'ING 21st BIRTHDAY LADY X!!!
Posted 02 Sep 2011 08:24

Happy Birthday!