Forum posts made by rxtales

Topic Why Aren't You Speaking English
Posted 18 Jun 2011 13:20

I find it funny that so many Americans get upset about people not learning to speak English while they are living in the US. I have been to countries which are popular places for US expats to live, and they aren´t able to speak the language.

I live in Cabo San Lucas, Mexico. This town relies very heavily on American tourists, so a lot of the mexicans here speak English. It´s still Mexico though, and most people speak Spanish. There are a lot of American expats that live here, and the majority don´t speak a word of Spanish. I know several Americans who have been here 20+ years and can´t speak simple Spanish.

If I was to move to Mexico and become a permanent resident there, I'd make it my business to learn the language. I wouldn't even consider otherwise. The thought just doesn't make sense to me. I apply the same moral guidelines to someone that moves to America and becomes a permanent resident. They should make their best attempt at learning English, even if they never use it at home or among friends. Just because.

I agree. Some attempt should be made. Some people just aren´t very good languages. I can pick them up pretty quickly, but I am sure if I moved to Thailand or China or some place I would struggle for a while.

This is a weird place though. I also find a lot of the expats here don´t like Mexican. A lot of the American landlords here will only rent to other foreigners and won´t let you have Mexicans over. Okay, maybe a lot is a bit of an exaggeration. But still, I don´t understand why they would move to Mexico...

I recently did some work with the Gringo Gazette, a newspaper for english speakers here. The editor told me she wouldn´t print anything about events that Mexicans were involved in because the gringos then wouldn´t like it.

Sorry, was on a bit of a tangent there

Topic Why Aren't You Speaking English
Posted 18 Jun 2011 12:29

I find it funny that so many Americans get upset about people not learning to speak English while they are living in the US. I have been to countries which are popular places for US expats to live, and they aren´t able to speak the language.

I live in Cabo San Lucas, Mexico. This town relies very heavily on American tourists, so a lot of the mexicans here speak English. It´s still Mexico though, and most people speak Spanish. There are a lot of American expats that live here, and the majority don´t speak a word of Spanish. I know several Americans who have been here 20+ years and can´t speak simple Spanish.

Topic Happy Birthday GAV!!!
Posted 13 Jun 2011 08:21

Happy Birthday!

Topic Sizes
Posted 11 Jun 2011 19:03

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_penis_size


This Wikipedia article has some links to reputable sources. Or if you would like we could go with the "in my opinion" cases, which I'm sure you will get plenty of from the Lush forum members.



Personally, I find anything under 12" (30.5cm) small

Topic How not to break up, with a former lover
Posted 09 Jun 2011 11:20

He Even Has A Website (According to the yahoo article)

Topic Which Sexual Position Is Your LEAST Favorite and Why?
Posted 09 Jun 2011 10:20

Hun, I have done that and he sulks like a child lol. We do have good sex usually but he likes trying to sneak into my back door. When he tries he knows I will not give it to him for a few weeks. So he has learned his lesson.



A few weeks?

Aren´t you punishing yourself?

Topic How not to break up, with a former lover
Posted 09 Jun 2011 10:11

Let 'em know what you really think.

I am have been seriously bored lately.... Maybe this will keep me entertained for a while.

Topic would you pose for nudes ? artistix or personal?
Posted 09 Jun 2011 10:05

I had a fling with a photographer a couple of months ago. We drove into the desert for a "photo shoot," I thought all the photos would be for his eyes only, but I recently found out he is using a couple in his portfolio. Modelling is not my thing, I don´t like posing for cameras. It was incredibly sexual with him though.

I used to host a life drawing class in my friend´s apartment. One time one of the models didn´t show up, and since I never did much drawing, I was the one who ended up modelling. Nothing sexual about it for me what so ever. Just sitting in the same position for extended lengths of time. It was also rather chilly

Topic Holiday ideas
Posted 09 Jun 2011 09:58

I think it would be hard for me to recommend one place, but Malaysia is an amazing country. I spent 4 months in peninsular Malaysia, and it´s not too far Australia.

I really liked Bolivia and Guatemala as well. Mostly for the same reasons. I like the mountains, and the indiginous culture they have in both places.

I think my ultimate favourite place I have been, was the Galapagos. No words to describe how awesome it was.




Topic How many countries have you been to?
Posted 09 Jun 2011 09:48

Canada, USA, Mexico,England,Germany,France,Belgium,Netherlands,Denmark,Norway,Lichtenstein,Switzerland,Italy,Spain, Russia,Egypt,Syria,Palestine,Lebanon,Jordan,Ghana,Togo,Burkina Faso, Mali, Nigeria,Chad,China,Thailand,Philippines, Indonesia,Australia,New Zealand, Malaysia, India,Singapore,Dubai....maybe left some out, can't remember them all.

I´ve always had this strange fascination with Togo. After doing a report when I was in 4th grade about the government, I have wanted to go there. what was it like?

Topic Why do girls hate anal sex?
Posted 09 Jun 2011 09:44



Excellent questions... I'll try to answer them carefully and honestly. icon_biggrin


Cum is gross to most guys, it's because it's cum. Whether it's his or not. It's cum, from a penis, attached to a man... With balls. Do you really want to see your man fucking eating his own cum or playing with it or some shit? Is that sexy now?

... Yes!



Some girls don't like licking a guy's butt-hole even thought they like having theirs licked... Is she lame?
... Yes!



How about ass to mouth? If I'm willing to lick a dildo that's been in a girls ass does it make the girl lame if she won't suck on my cock after anal sex?

... Yes!




Was I surprised by Dancing_Doll's answers? ...NO laughing8

But do the rest of you girls feel the same way? Does everything about sex have to be equal?

If a guy wants to fuck a girl in the ass must he be willing to have the girl shove a cucumber in his brown eye???

Must a guy swallow his own cum if he expects his girl too???

THESE are the pressing issues of the day!!!

Things don´t have to be equal. Everyone has things they like or dislike. If he expects me to do something though, and I don´t like the idea, then he shouldn´t push it if he wouldn´t done to them - I would hope there would be some sort of understanding.

Really, I don´t mind if a guy wants something stuck in his ass or not. Long as he is willing to stick things into mine, we can make things work.

Topic How many countries have you been to?
Posted 08 Jun 2011 19:15

43 and still so many that I want to go.

I think travelling is very important. There are times when I think I would like to stay put for a while, but pretty quickly I get an itch to move on again. I am lucky though, I have a job I can do pretty much anywhere.

Topic Friends with Benefits....Fuck Buddies
Posted 08 Jun 2011 17:54

I have tried and sometimes it has worked. It has worked when we are attracted to eachother sexually, but not really in any other way.

I have also tried it where it has been a disaster. One of us fell for the other person, or got jealous about other partners.

Topic Tattoo's
Posted 08 Jun 2011 17:51

I have a leafless tree on my lower left back that goes from my hip to the bottom of my ribs.

My next one is going to be a ganesh tattoo, probably on the back of my neck.

A friend of mine who is a tattoo artist has designed a charm bracelet which I would get around my ankle. But that is whenever I next find myself in the same city as him.

I have various ear piercings, lobe, tragus, cartilidge. I want to get my nose and tongue repierced, but the nose piercing isn´t so fun when it comes to scuba diving. So that will have to wait.

Topic Women vs. Men
Posted 08 Jun 2011 11:57

425

Topic Super Hero Power
Posted 07 Jun 2011 09:54

I would want to be able to "breathe" underwater. Basically turn into a fish while keeping my human form, so I wouldn´t have to worry how long I was staying under for.

Topic Is smoking ever hot for a girl?
Posted 02 Jun 2011 11:03

I used to be a smoker, and never had a problem when others smoked. Now, I don´t mind the smell while someone is smoking, as long as it isn´t in the house. However, I hate kissing someone that is a smoker. It´s like kissing an ash tray!

Topic Make up, what's up with that?
Posted 02 Jun 2011 10:41

In my job it´s not very practical to wear makeup. I am in the water all day, and my hair is usually a mess. So when I get home and shower, it´s nice to put on a little make up and some nice clothes. Not becuase I am trying to please anyone, but because I feel a little more confident about myself. I am pretty sure my boyfriend wouldn´t care one way or the other. I don´t wear much, just a little, but I like it.

Topic Webcam Self-Timer
Posted 02 Jun 2011 10:39

Does it let you take multiple photos at once?

My old one didn´t have a timer, but it would take 10 photos, one after the other, and they gave me time to strike a pose. Only one or two of the photos would turn out okay. The others would just be a blur of me moving around.

Topic sex for money
Posted 22 May 2011 09:08

I have had sex for money, at a time when I really needed. I crossed a lot of boundaries that I shouldn´t have; personal limits I have set for myself and never would have crossed if I wasn´t getting paid a large sum of money. When I look back on it all, that is the only part I am ashamed of. It is something I am ashamed of. I don´t think I will ever tell my boyfriend about it, mostly because I am afraid of how he will react to it.

Topic What do you do...to become 'clean and fresh'?
Posted 29 Apr 2011 15:48

I bathe in the ocean.

Topic Home Made Sex Toys (for men) -Do They Work?
Posted 29 Apr 2011 15:35

I'm a creative person and love making things.
I searched YouTube and I found some videos on how to make your own sex toys.

I'm wondering do men find them enjoyable?
Or have you yourself made a good and working sex toy?


http://www.youtube.com/embed/j5kUrRBN_2g

Do we have a test panel? happy1

I was going to post a smart ass comment and ask when the KFC bucket was going to be used, but much to my shagrin it actually was LOL!! Put some popcorn in for added warmth ARE YOU KIDDING ME?? LOL

Wait - how could you use that to play a trick on your friends?

Topic Have You Ever Visited ?
Posted 16 Apr 2011 16:51

I went about 7 years ago. Spent some time in Cairo and Luxor. I also got my Open Water Certification (Scuba Diving) in the red sea

Topic Why do men find it offensive when a woman is submissive?
Posted 09 Apr 2011 19:25

i dated a few guys that have found my way of life difficult.... i am if you cant tell from my screen name a submissive.... i like to be controlled completly and yet they found it extreamly difficult to do... i guess my question is why they found it offensive.
all thoughts are appreciated!!!!!
confused1

If you are really this person I'd be surprised...I don't know anyone in real life that doesn't like more than a few things to go their way...submissive on everything...really?

Being submissive doesn´t necesarily mean that. I am very submissive with the right Dom. That doesn´t mean that I am just going to please him. I expect an equal amount of pleasure from whatever we are doing. It doesn´t mean that I should have no input on what we do. Not all men are into the d/s world, and not all men are dominant. It may just not be there scene.

Topic When not on Lush, this is what pays the bills
Posted 09 Apr 2011 19:22

I am a dive master.

Topic Transgender Athlete
Posted 08 Apr 2011 18:10

Yeah, her/his case is clear cut for me. As long as her body is still female, then she can play for the women's team. Once it changes, then he can't.


So what determines that she is no longer physically a woman? She will still have XX chromosomes.

Topic are human beings natural monogamist or just a social imposition?
Posted 06 Apr 2011 16:51

This is a topic I have been thinking about a lot recently. Personally I don´t think monogamous relationships are what I want. I have mostly been in monogamous relationships, with only a few open ones.

As far as emotional monogamy... I believe in it. I have always operated this way myself. You need the love/emotional bond to justify being together. When that is not there, it's time to dissolve the partnership. I could not function in a marriage/relationship with one person and have emotional affairs on the side and still consider myself happy. Physical connections are very different.


I truly believe people can love more than one person. I think that´s more natural, than only loving one person for the rest of your life. Just because you meet someone who isn´t your spouse/bf, doesn´t necesarilly mean you will love them any less.

I am reading an interesting book right now called "Ethical Slut." If you´re interested in reading materials, I have a few PDFs - PM me.

Topic Figging
Posted 06 Apr 2011 16:36

About an hour ago, I opened my fridge, and thought "What should I do with this ginger that has been in my fridge for about two weeks?"

I think I now have my answer drunken

Topic How to make cum taste better
Posted 01 Apr 2011 18:17

I have come accross some pretty foul tasting spunk in the past. I just asked them to spray it accross my face or something. It´s not like anyone would complain about it.

Topic What's on your sexual bucket list?
Posted 07 Feb 2011 15:34

Sex in a Mayan pyramid.