Forum posts made by sanchohardbottle

Topic Confederate Flags, offensive or not?
Posted 06 Aug 2014 13:06

Wow. Thanks Sprite.

Topic Confederate Flags, offensive or not?
Posted 06 Aug 2014 13:02

I made on off hand comment on a Facebook post that concerned confederate flags. My comment was that "I think it's screwed up you can still get confederate flags so readily in the 21st century". Meaning that I thought it's absurd that in 2014, I find it somewhat appalling so many people want to buy Confederate Flags. I figured people would agree with me. BOY WAS I MISTAKEN. Immediately I was hit with replies like "Why is it so screwed up?" "Whats so offensive about confederate flags?" "It's a part of our history" "People are offended by everything" "You can find something wrong with just about every flag if you look for it, doesn't make them bad."

These are friends of mine, people I like and want to stay on good terms with so I responded with as much polite restraint as I could muster, refraining from saying what I really thought which was: "What the hell is wrong with you people?! Even if it was once an innocuous state symbol, now it's totally been appropriated by Ignorant jackasses, who either use it to symbolize bigotry or are in total denial about a very very grim period of American history! The Confederacy was a country based on the idea of white supremacy, and has been to symbolize the ever after!"

So I figured this deserved some discussion and investigation: What do you think? Keep in mind I am NOT saying that the Flag should be banned, I know it's a free country. Nor am I saying we should ignore our history. I am saying I think that It's very ignorant to display the stars and bars, be it on a bumper sticker, a T-shirt, from a flag post or what have you, and then act mystified when people take offense to it.

Topic does anyone here have a favorite musical?
Posted 05 Aug 2014 05:43

Toss up Between Les Miserable and Jesus Christ Superstar

Topic Share your Top 3 Porn Clips
Posted 04 Aug 2014 15:24

For everyone who is interested, share your top three favorite clips on the web. You know, the ones you always find your way back to. The ones you think about in the shower. Maybe the first ones you ever found when you went looking online and still have a soft spot for in your heart. If you don't have 3 then share, 2 or 1, however many you want o share. I'll Star us off with mine:

Like mother like... The smoldering and sexy Nici Sterling, catches her naive daughter Jessica with a man. She shows her how to do things properly.

My First Sex teacher. Mrs. Storm Sexy Mason Storm goes the extra mile to make sure her students grasp their vocab.

When she finds her gorgeous daughter Melody masturbating, Ms Cleo wants to make sure she's doing it all right. She uses her hubby as an example

Topic casual sex
Posted 02 Jul 2014 16:48

I love it there are no complications, just pleasure and then you go on with the rest of your life.

That is my attitude as well. I think casual sex can be a great as long as both partners are on the same page about it. Problems CAN arise if both people don't go into it expecting the same thing.

Otherwise I think it can be a fun and perfectly healthy for two consenting adults to basically say to each other "excuse me, but since you aren't using your genitals as the moment would mind if I use them?" without needing the whole trappings of a relationships. My girlfriend of seven years, are both allowed to pursue casual sex with others, provided two things: We are honest with each other about it, and the other party knows we are in a committed relationship with someone else.

Topic What's your writing process for erotica? (shorts or longer works)
Posted 02 Jul 2014 14:11

Generally it goes like this:

1)An idea occurs. Usually it's very rough, revolving around a single scene, image or perhaps even a line of dialogue. It will grow and become masturbation fodder as it take shape in my head more and more until I decide "I have to get this down on paper"

2) Then there is a lot of Procrastination. As well as masturbating

3) Finally I begin to write it long hand on a legal pad, generally on the bus, or outside under tree on my break from work, whilst chain smoking and listening to NPR on my headphones. This usually takes a long time, because almost in variably, another idea with occur around this point distracting me. However when I'm lucky, I'll get hot and write until my hand cramps up.

5) More procrastination, more masturbating

6) I've finished the story long hand. I'm satisfied with it enough that I want to type it up. Usually this part involves lots of changes to the original draft. Honing fleshing out details. Often a lot gets altered in this part.

7) Once it's done, I re-read it to myself, checking to make sure it flows and to make corrections. Invariably I miss things.

8) submit it to Lush, and wait in agony for it to go up or be rejected.

9) Once it's been approved, sigh in relief and wait for it inevitably to be overshadowed by the work of more talented writers.

Topic Do you remember the first thing to turn you on?
Posted 02 Jul 2014 13:11

I know there are prohibitions against referencing anything underage, so I will word my question carefully: WITHOUT saying how old you were, do you recall the first thing that came along and got you titillated and interested in sex?

As a child of the 90s, mine, crazy as it may sound, was The Addams Family movies. You had Angelica Houston wearing that gorgeous, tight dress, looking pale and beautiful saying things like "Gomez, last night you were unhinged. You like some desperate, howling demon. You frightened it again." And her moaning in ecstasy as Raul Julia frantically pawed and kissed her. It made me very interested and very curious in just what they were talking about.

Does anyone else remember what first did it for them?

Topic Announcing the Winners of our "Supernatural / Sci-Fi" Stories Competition
Posted 01 Jul 2014 11:47

So, when do we learn about the next one? lol. I am sure I can't be the only person eager to start working on seeing my hopes dashed by those far more talented then I.d'oh!

Topic What would you do if...
Posted 01 Jul 2014 09:16

I am surprised no one has said they'd make him watch lol

Topic Announcing the Winners of our "Supernatural / Sci-Fi" Stories Competition
Posted 01 Jul 2014 04:53

Congrats everybody, especially to the winning three and the top ten. I'll be needing to step up my game for the next contest if it's anything like this onewave

Topic What would you do if...
Posted 01 Jul 2014 04:48

Just to reiterate, this is just a hypothetical question about how you'd react. I personally don't believe woman are prizes to be gambled with.

Topic What would you do if...
Posted 30 Jun 2014 17:42

f-hihi Purely a hypothetical question for you ladies, based on a scenario I've seen in more than one adult film, and played out in my own mind: let's say you're husband/bf is playing a game. poker, basketball, pool, what have you and get's a little over confident. He offers his buddy a bet: if his buddy wins, you will have sex with him. Then as fate would have it your hubby/bf loses big. He is left staring at you with big, desperate eyes. What would you do?

Tell him and his buddy to go fuck themselves for being pigs? Tell your hubby what a loser he is for making the bet, then go ahead with it? Try to reason with his friend? Something else? Just an odd little hypothetical I'm curious about

Topic Announcing our "Supernatural / Sci-Fi Sex Stories" Competition, $150 First Prize.
Posted 30 Jun 2014 12:36

Going slowly insane waiting for the news! I don't expect to win, but it'll still be a relief just to know for sure. placing in the top 10 would be a thrill. :-)

Topic Incest stories all removed
Posted 19 Apr 2014 15:09

Am I the only one feeling completely blindsided by the decision to remove All incest fantasy stres without any prior warning?

Topic Oral Sex Contest
Posted 18 Apr 2014 09:49

Got it, thanks guys.

Topic Oral Sex Contest
Posted 18 Apr 2014 09:36

anyone know when the contest winners will be announced? I thought it was supposed to be a couple days ago.