Forum posts made by sanchohardbottle

Topic Confederate Flags, offensive or not?
Posted 06 Aug 2014 13:06

Wow. Thanks Sprite.

Topic Confederate Flags, offensive or not?
Posted 06 Aug 2014 13:02

I made on off hand comment on a Facebook post that concerned confederate flags. My comment was that "I think it's screwed up you can still get confederate flags so readily in the 21st century". Meaning that I thought it's absurd that in 2014, I find it somewhat appalling so many people want to buy Confederate Flags. I figured people would agree with me. BOY WAS I MISTAKEN. Immediately I was hit with replies like "Why is it so screwed up?" "Whats so offensive about confederate flags?" "It's a part of our history" "People are offended by everything" "You can find something wrong with just about every flag if you look for it, doesn't make them bad."

These are friends of mine, people I like and want to stay on good terms with so I responded with as much polite restraint as I could muster, refraining from saying what I really thought which was: "What the hell is wrong with you people?! Even if it was once an innocuous state symbol, now it's totally been appropriated by Ignorant jackasses, who either use it to symbolize bigotry or are in total denial about a very very grim period of American history! The Confederacy was a country based on the idea of white supremacy, and has been to symbolize the ever after!"

So I figured this deserved some discussion and investigation: What do you think? Keep in mind I am NOT saying that the Flag should be banned, I know it's a free country. Nor am I saying we should ignore our history. I am saying I think that It's very ignorant to display the stars and bars, be it on a bumper sticker, a T-shirt, from a flag post or what have you, and then act mystified when people take offense to it.

Topic does anyone here have a favorite musical?
Posted 05 Aug 2014 05:43

Toss up Between Les Miserable and Jesus Christ Superstar

Topic Share your Top 3 Porn Clips
Posted 04 Aug 2014 15:24

For everyone who is interested, share your top three favorite clips on the web. You know, the ones you always find your way back to. The ones you think about in the shower. Maybe the first ones you ever found when you went looking online and still have a soft spot for in your heart. If you don't have 3 then share, 2 or 1, however many you want o share. I'll Star us off with mine:

Like mother like... The smoldering and sexy Nici Sterling, catches her naive daughter Jessica with a man. She shows her how to do things properly.

My First Sex teacher. Mrs. Storm Sexy Mason Storm goes the extra mile to make sure her students grasp their vocab.

When she finds her gorgeous daughter Melody masturbating, Ms Cleo wants to make sure she's doing it all right. She uses her hubby as an example

Topic casual sex
Posted 02 Jul 2014 16:48

I love it there are no complications, just pleasure and then you go on with the rest of your life.

That is my attitude as well. I think casual sex can be a great as long as both partners are on the same page about it. Problems CAN arise if both people don't go into it expecting the same thing.

Otherwise I think it can be a fun and perfectly healthy for two consenting adults to basically say to each other "excuse me, but since you aren't using your genitals as the moment would mind if I use them?" without needing the whole trappings of a relationships. My girlfriend of seven years, are both allowed to pursue casual sex with others, provided two things: We are honest with each other about it, and the other party knows we are in a committed relationship with someone else.

Topic What's your writing process for erotica? (shorts or longer works)
Posted 02 Jul 2014 14:11

Generally it goes like this:

1)An idea occurs. Usually it's very rough, revolving around a single scene, image or perhaps even a line of dialogue. It will grow and become masturbation fodder as it take shape in my head more and more until I decide "I have to get this down on paper"

2) Then there is a lot of Procrastination. As well as masturbating

3) Finally I begin to write it long hand on a legal pad, generally on the bus, or outside under tree on my break from work, whilst chain smoking and listening to NPR on my headphones. This usually takes a long time, because almost in variably, another idea with occur around this point distracting me. However when I'm lucky, I'll get hot and write until my hand cramps up.

5) More procrastination, more masturbating

6) I've finished the story long hand. I'm satisfied with it enough that I want to type it up. Usually this part involves lots of changes to the original draft. Honing fleshing out details. Often a lot gets altered in this part.

7) Once it's done, I re-read it to myself, checking to make sure it flows and to make corrections. Invariably I miss things.

8) submit it to Lush, and wait in agony for it to go up or be rejected.

9) Once it's been approved, sigh in relief and wait for it inevitably to be overshadowed by the work of more talented writers.

Topic Do you remember the first thing to turn you on?
Posted 02 Jul 2014 13:11

I know there are prohibitions against referencing anything underage, so I will word my question carefully: WITHOUT saying how old you were, do you recall the first thing that came along and got you titillated and interested in sex?

As a child of the 90s, mine, crazy as it may sound, was The Addams Family movies. You had Angelica Houston wearing that gorgeous, tight dress, looking pale and beautiful saying things like "Gomez, last night you were unhinged. You like some desperate, howling demon. You frightened it again." And her moaning in ecstasy as Raul Julia frantically pawed and kissed her. It made me very interested and very curious in just what they were talking about.

Does anyone else remember what first did it for them?

Topic Announcing the Winners of our "Supernatural / Sci-Fi" Stories Competition
Posted 01 Jul 2014 11:47

So, when do we learn about the next one? lol. I am sure I can't be the only person eager to start working on seeing my hopes dashed by those far more talented then I.d'oh!

Topic What would you do if...
Posted 01 Jul 2014 09:16

I am surprised no one has said they'd make him watch lol

Topic Announcing the Winners of our "Supernatural / Sci-Fi" Stories Competition
Posted 01 Jul 2014 04:53

Congrats everybody, especially to the winning three and the top ten. I'll be needing to step up my game for the next contest if it's anything like this onewave

Topic What would you do if...
Posted 01 Jul 2014 04:48

Just to reiterate, this is just a hypothetical question about how you'd react. I personally don't believe woman are prizes to be gambled with.

Topic What would you do if...
Posted 30 Jun 2014 17:42

f-hihi Purely a hypothetical question for you ladies, based on a scenario I've seen in more than one adult film, and played out in my own mind: let's say you're husband/bf is playing a game. poker, basketball, pool, what have you and get's a little over confident. He offers his buddy a bet: if his buddy wins, you will have sex with him. Then as fate would have it your hubby/bf loses big. He is left staring at you with big, desperate eyes. What would you do?

Tell him and his buddy to go fuck themselves for being pigs? Tell your hubby what a loser he is for making the bet, then go ahead with it? Try to reason with his friend? Something else? Just an odd little hypothetical I'm curious about

Topic Announcing our "Supernatural / Sci-Fi Sex Stories" Competition, $150 First Prize.
Posted 30 Jun 2014 12:36

Going slowly insane waiting for the news! I don't expect to win, but it'll still be a relief just to know for sure. placing in the top 10 would be a thrill. :-)

Topic The Incest Category is going to be removed
Posted 19 Apr 2014 20:34

I have not: Treated anyone like crap. Acted like a child. Threatened anyone. Harrassed anyone. I just have stated my OPINION. I thought I was allowed to do that. Stop telling me to grow up.

Topic The Incest Category is going to be removed
Posted 19 Apr 2014 20:32

Look guy, you're acting like a child.

If you've read any of my posts in this thread you would realize I feel the exact same way you do. It's my favorite category. I had to totally rework my H&H S series. I had to scrap even more. And my very first story I ever wrote is no longer available. Also my famous story badge will be taken away.

Difference between me & you? I'm acting like an adult. You're acting like a child whose favorite toy got taken away.

Grow up.

I'm being an adult. As an ADULT I am pissed off and I am saying so. I missed the lesson where adults were not allowed to express their opinions without being called an spoiled child wanting candy.

Topic The Incest Category is going to be removed
Posted 19 Apr 2014 20:25

no. it's not childish of you to disagree. some people here have, and come off as adults doing it. the way you have chosen to disagree is what is the issue. believe it or not, the site owner, as well as the mods, have feelings.

They knew what they were doing was going to piss people off. People Spent months of their lives working on stories that people are now no longer able to read.

Topic The Incest Category is going to be removed
Posted 19 Apr 2014 20:16

Sorry I have an opinion different from yours Haineko. I should stop doing that it's childish of me to disagree. Everyone knows this is the new law of the land ok, everyone has already decided if they are going to live with it or not. Ok. WHy is it a problem if we're freaking upset about if? If any other category got removed there would be as much is not more uproar.

Topic The Incest Category is going to be removed
Posted 19 Apr 2014 20:12

I know there is no debate. The decision is made and we all need to live crappy results. But just me set the record straight on something

I do write for me first and I enjoyed the fantasy and taboo of incest. I will continue to write them and post them elsewhere. I do have a profile on literotica but I don't really care for the site. I guess the question of why we like writing incest should be asked of all those that write erotic fiction that is outside of the "acceptable" genres, such as BDSM or cuckold or cross dressing or gay male. My biggest problem is the discrimination!! if one category is not acceptable then none of the other categories should be either!

Thank for saying this sexybbw71. What so many other posters seem to not grasp is when they say "oh just get over it, right something else." We don't want to. Not because we want people to read what we write, that's true of ALL the writers on this site, otherwise they wouldn't be on this site would they? It's because we like writing about this subject. Repugnant as you might find it, those of us who write and read the stories in the incest category, find the FANTASY of two blood relatives in a sexual relationship arousing. Not molestation. Not rape. Not abuse.Just the part where they are related. I find it erotic. Why? I don't know. Why do others find BDSM arousing? They just do.

I don't want to read stories about children being molested by their parents, or sons raping their mothers, or older brothers forcing themselves on their sweet innocent preteen sisters. Nor do I wish to write those stories. If I did I would go to other "plenty of other sites" on the internet you all keep trying to push me towards, that permit that content. I want to stay here, at lush, where stories have a standard to uphold. The stories that were on this site were up to that standard. They depicted only what every other story on this site depict, a persons imagination. For the Admin to say "THey may meet all the qualifications, they play by the rules but I don't like the subject matter so no one ese can read them, is absolutely discriminatory. Then when we have the gaul to call this for what is, we are told "you shouldn't like those stories anyway."

Topic The Incest Category is going to be removed
Posted 19 Apr 2014 17:34

Please stop trying to remind us whose site this is. I don't own McDonalds but if they decide to discontinue the Big Mac I'd be upset.

Topic The Incest Category is going to be removed
Posted 19 Apr 2014 17:13

Topic The Incest Category is going to be removed
Posted 19 Apr 2014 17:13

I really love the attitude that some people seem to have, here that Incest stories are just a bunch of perverted trash, but what THEY like is, "classy". This is an erotic story site for people to share smut. Plan and simple. Dress it up as much as you like, clear out all the "riff raff" you don't like, it still will boil down to people writing, and reading pornographic fantasies. Or did I miss this pace becoming something so much grander than that. I've said already, I love this site. It's the best there is, and while it remains so I will keep publishing here. I'll play the game and publish stories that the site finds "acceptable" but if this move is any indication of the direction the site is going, it means the death of fun on Lush.

Topic The Incest Category is going to be removed
Posted 19 Apr 2014 16:42

Given the number of PM's I receive asking to RP incest "fantasies", I don't think this category can be deleted soon enough. Incest is incest is incest, fantasy or no. For all the whiners, grow the fuck up and find something else to write about.

Classy. a very inviting attitude, I applaud your willingness to talk this out with those that disagree with you.

Topic The Incest Category is going to be removed
Posted 19 Apr 2014 16:38

As I stated before, I appreciate the idea of fantasy because otherwise I wouldn't even be on lush. I personally can't look past the reality to "appreciate" the taboo thrill of it. I find it different than other fantasies and I think a lot more people lined up to see Lethal Weapon than anyone would to see a movie about incest.

And they don't have to line up to read these stories, and neither do you. but those that want to on this site should be able to.

Topic The Incest Category is going to be removed
Posted 19 Apr 2014 16:32

What was the point of this discussion board ? It's seems to me as though the decision to remove the category and the stories in it was a foregone conclusion. This was nothing but a chance to get enough people to say how happy they were with it to make it seem justified.

Topic The Incest Category is going to be removed
Posted 19 Apr 2014 16:22

hey, SH .... we are ALL a little perverted here on Lush! Don't take it so hard or personally.

I believe that this move/change that Nicola wants is a class act and stops the whining about why the incest fantasies are allowed but no other discussions allowed.

Quite frankly .... many many authors here have not had to resort to incest to garner "famous story" badges. And, I would think now, Taboo will become popular .....

or maybe there will be a Workplace/Office Sex category open up!! bunny

I didn't "resort" to anything VH. I wrote stories I wanted to write. People just happened to like them. Give it time. At this rate Taboo will be gone next.

Topic The Incest Category is going to be removed
Posted 19 Apr 2014 16:16

Fantasies don't destroy families _candy_. That's what we're talking about. FANTASIES. The stories on this site never hurt anyone. And if you are going to try and say that this category of story was somehow encouraging immoral behavior I ask you to explain why the same can't be said of any of story on this site in any other category. I don't know about you but I'm able to watch and enjoy lethal weapon without thinking its good idea for cops to go around shooting people.

Topic The Incest Category is going to be removed
Posted 19 Apr 2014 15:41

Alright that's not helpful Sancho there are constructive ways to find a solution to this. Insulting the content owners is not one of them. If everyone stays calm and keeps an open mind then maybe a middle ground can be found.

I don't like that I am being told by a large number of people on an erotic story website that I am a pervert in so many words. That's why I am heated. This is a fantastic site, I love reading and publishing here because it is the best, but now I am being told my stories are not welcome and good riddance to them.

Topic The Incest Category is going to be removed
Posted 19 Apr 2014 15:35

I thought about it more and I have to say this was a good idea.

I never wanted to be pegged as that kind of author and I have plenty more in every category to write, even in a category we don't have (but would be a good replacement)

I will get my badge back eventually and the unsavory element has one less reason to come to Lush.

I resent this sentiment. Who are you to call those of us who read/write these stories "unsavory"? I had a famous story in that category, over 30,000 people read it. I had another one that was one that made me one of the top rated authors of the month, 25 votes all fives. Talk about unsavory? what about adultery stories? stories involving watersports? bondage? Are those unsavory as well?

Topic The Incest Category is going to be removed
Posted 19 Apr 2014 15:20

I have an idea, let's get rid of the sex stories all together. There won't be Any stories on here that might possibly offend anyone that way! I mean it's not like people have the option not to read stories on here that they don't like. Yay! we'll have a site solely for elitist pricks!

Topic Incest stories all removed
Posted 19 Apr 2014 15:09

Am I the only one feeling completely blindsided by the decision to remove All incest fantasy stres without any prior warning?