Topic mouth, ass or pussy?
20 Mar 2012 05:10
I'm looking forward to trying anal with xxxxx (you know who you are) really soon but I absolutely love the idea and the passion of it. It requires so much trust!
For a body pleasing orgasm then I love coming in her mouth. It's so wonderful to think she's doing something just for my pleasure.
For the complete experience though, sweaty bodies entwined and eyes staring in to each other, pussy is the real deal for body and mind!
Topic The Ex-Boyfriend
26 Feb 2012 14:00
Being completely honest - it would drive me crazy - I'd hate it. Even if I was better looking, richer etc.
But it'd be my problem not hers and the most important part of a relationship is trust so if I couldn't get over it then it's probably not ever going to work out. I'd still recognise that it's my issue and I should probably just grow up, but you can't help how you feel can you?
Topic 3somes... Good or Bad
02 Jan 2012 09:44
I was 'given' my GFs best friend once as a birthday present and we had MFF sex throughout the night and the morning. We were all friends before and remained so after and repeated it a few times before I split with my GF some time later for completely unrelated reasons. I'm still friends with her best friend 12 years on ;)
I think that's pretty rare though from the conversations I've had with other people where things get to wierd and jealously sets in. I guess the old casino addage is true in this instance too, "Only gamble with what you're prepared to lose".
Topic Oral Sex or Fuck first
02 Jan 2012 09:33
I tend not to plan it - things just happen.
Most often it is:
Oral her on me, then me on her, then sex, then (if I've been a really good boy) her on me again.
Topic boobs vs. ass
02 Jan 2012 09:30
Sorry but for me - it's boobs all the way - Can't explain why - just because :D
01 Dec 2011 15:36
There are way more important things to worry about first.
After those aspects attractiveness and beauty are much more about a woman's confidence. How she feels about herself and how that comes across in her personality.
Having said that and as the hilarious Tim Minchin put it 'Fu** I love boob though' curvy through BBW all the way.
Topic Thigh Split Dress Delemma
20 Nov 2011 07:44
French knickers, silk stockings, and hold ups! It works for me.
What she said!
Topic Oral Sex or Fuck first
19 Nov 2011 01:52
Well I agree with several things said above -
First - there shouldn't need to be rules or an agenda - do what feels right
If I *was* planning (see above) I'd go with the following:
Oral on her to climax
Oral on me to climax
Oral on her to climax (also my recovery time)
Full on Sex until she comes
Oral on me
I may be odd on this - would be interested to know - but I prefer oral to sex and cum much more readily this way - I think it's all in the brain and a BJ feels much more intimate to me - any thoughts?
Topic do guys really care about boob size more than everything else?
04 Nov 2011 15:13
For me, mental attraction and trust come first.
I love boobs - I'm definitely a boob man, and I'd go bigger rather than smaller every time up to a point. But rather than size I think it's about the proportion to the rest of the body. DDs on a size 6??
I've personally always preferred the short curvy Mediterranean type with a full bust and curvy hips but it's each to their own and anyone fitting the above list above to the letter wouldn't do it for me unless she was first smart, funny and kind.
Topic Rimming (giving or receiving)
02 Nov 2011 15:57
ive never had it! and as much as id like to be a receiver, i am not sure i could be a giver. but that doesnt seem fair does it?
If I'm honest I think I agree with you - would like to try it with the right person one day, maybe...
Topic Fuck or Pass
02 Nov 2011 15:53
Would love to fuck but reckon she's too kinky for me!
Topic The truth about BJ's
02 Nov 2011 13:35
Halfway up a tree on a country walk
And in bed but she had a mouth full of popping candy!
Topic Losing my virginity
02 Nov 2011 13:07
oh i disagree here. why not have it be the last guy you sleep with? and i for one had a really great experience that i do remember fondly and have given thought to. and for some it can fundamentally change you...its a big responsibility to take on.
my thought are it should be more than spreading beautiful legs and taking a deep breath shutting ur eyes and saying "ok just do it!". it should be about more than making some guy happy...it should be more than light hearted. it should be taken seriously, IMO, so my advice is to take a deep breath and decide for yourself what your first time means for you and what you want it to be. given randomly or will you make a memory that can make you smile when you are 41 like me..
Couldn't agree more - he MAY not be forever but if you go into it KNOWING he's not then why bother? Remember that sex is different from 'doing it'. You want to give him your mind as well as your body and importantly, trust that he's doing that too.
Trust is a massively important part in letting go IMHO.
Topic How Dirty Are You
02 Nov 2011 05:13
Your score indicates that your mind is on its way to true dirty status. You'vepassed the test, but there are some things you could work on. You appreciate dirty things and you wouldn't call your thoughts pure, but you haven't gone completely dirty. You don't have a hardtimethinking dirty,butyou're probably less driven to do so than someone with a true dirty mind.
I think those that know me may disagree ;)
Topic Would you meet someone off Lush for sex?
01 Nov 2011 17:25
Only after months of chatting and building trust and only if was with a view to something more than just sex. I've never had 'just sex' with someone in real life so wouldn't start now with someone from lush.
Topic maybe im being too giving
01 Nov 2011 17:18
Tell him to get in touch with us Lush guys and we'll try to explain to him what he's missing...
Seriously though, honesty is the best policy. For him AND you.
Topic Pregnancy/Pregnancy Risk Fantasies
01 Nov 2011 17:00
No stop watching porn , no female in her right mind is going to risk pregnancy or disease for that.
I hope you're right. I really do. Let's see if anyone disagrees?!
Topic A Woman's Prayer (and the Man Version)
31 Oct 2011 18:40
This made me laugh. Thanks for sharing. Makes me remember....
How to impress a lady:
Listen to her,
Try to understand her,
Care for her,
Talk to her,
Spend quality time with her,
Remember little things she says,
Sacrifice some time for her,
Take the time to caress her.
How to impress a guy:
Show up naked,
We men are such simple creatures :)
Topic How to know when you're too picky?
31 Oct 2011 14:36
It's a double edged sword.
Not picky enough leads to to wasted time and effort. Too picky and, well, you know what they say "A life lived in fear is a life half lived"
As a nice guy who got turned down more than his fair share of times I can only say that now I'm older I'm glad I got turned down rather than having my heart trampled on more than it was. If you know at the start that there is no future - let the poor sap know up front - it might be a wrench to start but he'll apprecaite it in the end! :)
Topic Blow Jobs & Deepthroating
27 Oct 2011 14:06
My humble advice on this would be to address the situation away from the bedroom.
Whilst having a nice evening meal in a restaurant lean over and whisper in his ear "I'm feeling very naughty, I want you to cum in my mouth later. Have a think and later you can tell me what to do to please you. I can't wait to feel your cock exploding and your hot cum hitting the back of my throat".
Not that I've ever said that to a bloke before but a friend of a friend may have told me in the past that when you're feeling very naughty it works well to exercise the mind and imagination before the physical.
Without a doubt - this would work!!!!!