Forum posts made by seeker4

Topic The Imitation Game
Posted 20 Nov 2014 13:05

Don't think it's out yet over here - we have plans, though, for opening night. It looks amazing, plus my wife has a thing for Benny :p

It's played festivals in North America but isn't in general release yet. Next Friday according to IMDB. Got good reviews at TIFF (Toronto International Film Festival) and I love both Turing and Cumberbatch so it's on my "to see" list for sure.

Topic how much are you attracted to a woman's eyes?
Posted 19 Nov 2014 09:25

Eyes are very important. There are women I know whose eyes are their most attractive feature (country singer Martina McBride's used to mesmerize me something fierce when I saw her videos), others for whom they enhance other features.

Topic London - What's the attraction?
Posted 18 Nov 2014 12:36

I've been there once and quite liked it. You left off the great array of museums and galleries: National Gallery, Tate Museum, Victoria and Albert, and the British Museum. Yeah, I'm a museum junkie. Out of that lot, though, St. Paul's. I'm a lover of churches and church architecture even though my own faith/beliefs are a bit off the beaten path.

Topic Body Hair
Posted 18 Nov 2014 12:33

Even worse, can you imagine people styling it?? Little Princess Leia "buns" on either side of a guy's cock. Braiding it in various ways. Eh?

Topic Question for Scottish people
Posted 14 Nov 2014 09:04

I groaned so loud I think they heard me in Aberdeen.

Topic Girls Aloud - The sexiest???
Posted 13 Nov 2014 12:53

I'd like them better if they were smiling. Such a serious looking bunch. Usually I go for long dark hair but, for reasons I haven't pinned down yet, Sarah appeals to me the most here. Maybe if I was more familiar with the group and had seen more pictures of them (Cheryl is really the only one I recognize).

Topic why do guys like younger 60 male and 22 female, is it right
Posted 13 Nov 2014 09:43

I'd rather focus on finding a woman who clicks with me than on her age. Realistically, though, I just can't see myself relating meaningfully to someone a full generation younger than me. I'm almost 50 so that would mean someone current in college. I've done older and if that relationship ended, I'd probably stick within a reasonable margin of my age, maybe 35-40 at the youngest to 55 or so at the oldest. Then again, if I did find a hot young lady with whom I had some kind of intellectual or emotional connection (physical attraction isn't likely to be an issue), I would not say no. I'd just think carefully before committing.

And before dpw asks: similar parameters for guys.

Topic Legalise prostitution?
Posted 10 Nov 2014 12:50

I live in Sydney Australia and prostitution is legal. No issues as in brothels have to have health checks etc

Sooooo...what's the IT job scene like in Sydney? 588-rolleyes

Actually, the pro-legalization side here in Canada generally uses New Zealand as their example. Is Australia similar?

Topic The Arkham Series Appreciation Thread
Posted 09 Nov 2014 19:18

I have not played them (I'm a huge Batman fan but not much of a gamer) but my son played through Asylum and, IIRC, City and loved it. Even got him to watch some of the Nolan Batman movies and he's generally not a big superhero guy.

Topic Assisted Suicide - What's your view?
Posted 05 Nov 2014 13:35




Hi Scott........

I hope you're well. It will be interesting to hear the result particularly as the Brittany Maynard case has gained worldwide coverage. I do believe that as one country makes Assisted Suicide legal - others will follow. We here in the UK are quite often guilty of following other countries in what they do according to how successful it is elsewhere. Not such a bad thing really, so the fact that it is being heavily debated and debated in the House of Commons at that, it just goes to show that we are serious about it.


The main risk here is the current government. It is a very conservative government on many levels (gay marriage was brought in by a previous government and this one did take a half-hearted stab at reversing it) and if the Court knocks down the law on assisted suicide, they may just try to bring in a new one that sidesteps the courts objections in some way. We almost had legalized prostitution here due to a court striking down sections of the old law but the government has instead used the opportunity to bring in a much harsher law with provisions that, they claim, sidestep the court's concerns. OTOH, there's an election in a year and they are running behind in the polls. The Liberal party, who seem to be the likely alternative, are much friendlier to things like assisted suicide (they were the ones who gave us same sex marriage after a court decision forced the issue and are even proposed decriminalizing simple possession of pot).

Topic What is your favorite sex positions?
Posted 05 Nov 2014 12:53

Cowgirl is generally my first choice, though I enjoy others, too. I lean towards positions that let me see her face and upper body (ie. doggy and other rear entry positions are less desirable for me).

Topic Assisted Suicide - What's your view?
Posted 05 Nov 2014 12:50

Littleluce, it's before the Supreme Court here in Canada right now. They held hearings a few weeks ago and we are now awaiting a decision (though that could take a while). I am generally in favour of it being an option but with some degree of protection to ensure it is not being misused.

Topic Legalise prostitution?
Posted 05 Nov 2014 12:43

Well, Canada almost got it (a legal sex trade, that is). The bill to change our prostitution laws in response to a Supreme Court ruling that struck down portions of the old law is now through all its legislative hurdles and can be signed and proclaimed. Unfortunately, it's actually moving towards a stricter legal regime than the one it replaces, including the criminalization of those who buy sexual services like escorts, prostitutes, and erotic massage. Many are already saying it may not stand up to a court challenge and there's an election looming in a year so all may not be lost for those, like me, who think that the purchase and sale of sexual services (the new law criminalizes the purchase but not the sale) should be a legal, regulated business, leaving criminal law to focus on things like human trafficking. But, for now, it's buyer take care in Canada's sex trade.


http://www.theglobeandmail.com/news/politics/tory-prostitution-bill-gets-senate-approval/article21450839/

Topic Hotness Scale
Posted 04 Nov 2014 18:45

I don't have a scale per se. All of those mean somewhat different things to me so there's no "scale" just different words for different women. "Cute and adorable" denotes something different from "gorgeous" or "hot" but all can mean "attractive", just in different ways.

Topic Cup size for mens underwear
Posted 01 Nov 2014 06:40



But aren't men's undies mean to provide some kind of support for their little treasures?

And they do that well enough, at least for me, without special pouches and pouch sizes.

Topic Question for my fellow Christians on lush.
Posted 31 Oct 2014 12:43

One of the things I like about Unitarian Universalism, my faith tradition for the past 10 or so years after being raised in a relatively liberal Christian denomination, is that we tend to leave matters of conscience, such as what happens in intimate moments, to the individual. The core for us is that we "respect the inherent worth and dignity of each person" (quoted straight from our first principle). Which means that what your sexual activities and what you are doing with your partner(s) does not matter, it is how you are treating them while doing it and vice versa. If your sexual activity is all consensual and everyone is being upfront and honest, then there is nothing in UU'ism that would stop you. I suppose there could be arguments about humiliation and some BDSM activity but there's no doctrine against it, just the need to understand and discuss how one can live up to that first principle while practicing it.

Topic Cup size for mens underwear
Posted 31 Oct 2014 12:26

No. Bras are for support, not just attire. They have a sizing system to make sure the woman gets enough support. For men, ordinary boxers and briefs will pretty much fit any size of equipment. If you want support, wear something tighter like briefs but many men wear boxers which don't provide any support at all (been there). It's only if you're wearing tiny little thong-y things that size would be an issue and, honestly, outside of the bedroom I can't see wearing those.

In the end, buying something like what you're talking about would just push the price up without really adding anything.


Topic Daughter or son brings home older bf or gf and there older then u or same age what would you do
Posted 30 Oct 2014 15:44

Get to know him and figure out if there's an angle. I'd be more suspicious than if she (I have a son) was close to his age and would pry more but if all seemed on the up and up, I'd let it take its course. An age gap that big is unlikely to last.

Topic Husbands would you share your wife with another man while you watched?
Posted 30 Oct 2014 13:39

There is a reason for the "big IF" in my answer, Chuck. I'm not sure that I would really do it but I can't really say I never would either. Right person, right time, right place, who knows? I would not actively seek it out, though, unless my spouse expressed an interest in doing so. The probability of that is likely in the "snowball's chance in Hell" league.

Topic Apple Pie - the big question
Posted 30 Oct 2014 12:35

Apple pie with brown sugar cinnamon ice cream. Or a slice or three of old cheddar.
Whipped cream on apple pie is sacrilegious. angry7

Amen! Whipped cream belongs on pumpkin pie in my universe.

Topic Would you like a 3some with the 2 members Above You.....Yes or No?
Posted 30 Oct 2014 12:31

Surely we can share Sheri!

Topic Ask the person below you any question
Posted 30 Oct 2014 12:30

Making to (almost) 50 with my sanity (almost) intact.

What is one sex act or kink that you NEVER want to try?

Topic Use My Last Word First - in a 5 word sentence..
Posted 30 Oct 2014 12:26

Dining is a fine date.

Topic Where would you like to be right now?
Posted 30 Oct 2014 12:25

Sipping coffee in a cafe somewhere in Europe. Maybe Paris.

Topic Football team sponsored by Pornhub banned from league
Posted 30 Oct 2014 10:23

Yeah, I can see that not going over well. Even Ashley Madison, whose name doesn't actually say anything about sex or affairs, has problems with sponsorships and advertising getting rejected so this hardly surprises me.

Topic Apple Pie - the big question
Posted 30 Oct 2014 10:18

I'll serve it with ice cream for other folks, but 90% of the time I eat just pie, myself.


We have that here in Canada, too (I'm in Ontario but if it's in New England, I imagine our Maritimes do it, too). Dad used to put this really ancient cheddar on his pie.

I prefer ice cream myself.

Topic Sex and love
Posted 30 Oct 2014 08:21

I do separate them to some degree. They enhance each other (sex with someone you love adds a dimension to both the sex and the love) but I have had sex without being in love and enjoyed it and I have been in love without having sex as well. I have had sex with women other than one I am in a relationship with (though not for a while) and it's a guilty pleasure that fulfilled needs that weren't being met in the relationship.

Topic erotic storys or porn
Posted 30 Oct 2014 08:17

It's a mood and what fits the occasion thing. I do prefer the images and feelings in my own head to watching someone else's so I would lean towards stories or just my own fantasies (that then get turned into stories in some cases) but a hot, well-shot porn scene can get me going, too.

Topic Erotic games?
Posted 30 Oct 2014 07:21

Arkham City does it for me. geek


//www.youtube.com/embed/95fQZypErTE

Yeah, they kind of went all in with Catwoman's outfit in that one, didn't they. Almost sexier than Michelle Pfeiffer's (the chief downside being the fact that it doesn't have Michelle Pfeiffer in it).

Topic How did you guys feel when you lost your virginity?
Posted 30 Oct 2014 07:17

Fulfilled. We fooled around (mostly various forms of stroking and rubbing to orgasm) without going all the way to intercourse for a long time (relatively speaking) before we finally went "all the way". As a consequence, it was kind of the end of a process rather than a single, standalone event.