Forum posts made by seeker4

Topic guys do you like to be called daddy by a girl during sex or general or both
Posted 13 Mar 2015 13:04

I'm not calling anyone liar, but many people would deny it, even if they were okay with it. Given what SO many people assume it is associated with. It has NOTHING to do with incest or being a pedophile.

It plays a large part in BDSM, as a Master or Dom who has a softer approach. Though a lot of woman who use it aren't into that lifestyle, but like the term, because they get a comfort from their partner they'd not get from anyone else. It is a loving, tender pet name.

Fair enough. I was not judging those who like it with my remarks. But it still does not appeal to me. I am a father (albeit of a son, not a daughter) and being called "Daddy" just carries too much other baggage for me to find it especially sexually stimulating.

Yet it is perfectly okay to call a woman a whore, or slut or what have you, while fucking her.

Actually, I doubt I'd do that either. Even if the woman I was with was, technically, a "whore".

Topic Sex and Scentsuality
Posted 13 Mar 2015 12:58

Same rule as with scents any other time. Little to none. I have a rather sensitive olfactory system and even a moderately strong scent can bother me. Now, something fairly mild like the almond and vanilla you mention might not be a problem. I'd have to have a sniff.

Topic Rest In Peace - Terry Pratchett
Posted 12 Mar 2015 11:18

I did not read a lot of Pratchett but loved what I did read (esp. Good Omens, his collaboration with Neil Gaiman). A serious loss to fiction, not just the comic fantasy that was his trademark genre.

Topic Being Gay a Choice?
Posted 11 Mar 2015 08:46

No apologies needed, Derek. I hear the same thing from folks on other sites, too (esp. transgendered persons, who are lot further from general acceptance than gay and lesbian persons here in Canada). And the problem is not just the "fundies" who deliberately target people who are not cisgendered and straight but also well-meaning mainstream people who just don't "get it". We had a long thread on my other board where a transgendered member answered questions from other members over a period of months (it's still technically open but has died down) and I think she opened a lot of eyes (even mine, and I'm LGBTQ-friendly).

Topic Oklahoma fraternity SAE closed after racist chant
Posted 10 Mar 2015 10:30

OTOH, we have to contend with sexist, misogynist dental students.angry7

http://www.torontosun.com/2014/12/22/dalhousie-shuts-down-dentistry-clinics-amid-facebook-rape-joke-scandal

Topic Oklahoma fraternity SAE closed after racist chant
Posted 10 Mar 2015 10:24

Things like this are why frats largely died out/were killed off in Canada back when I was in uni in the 80s. They have made a bit of a comeback but are very tightly regulated and policed by the universities.

Topic HELP!!! Before I submit
Posted 10 Mar 2015 10:18

Buz is right. Some copyright holders are cool with fanfic (The Trekkies pretty much invented it and Paramount has learned to with it. So has George Lucas), others are not (e.g. J.K. Rowling), and we don't have the time to figure out which is which. There are plenty of sites that accept fanfic including some dedicated to it.

Topic what's your take???
Posted 10 Mar 2015 10:13

Never did it. We stuck to my own bed. t1517

For my son, he's welcome to it as long as he does the laundry afterwards. evil4

Topic What is Your Favorite Sexual Act
Posted 09 Mar 2015 11:06

Actually having sex (which has eluded me for some time for a variety of reason).

However, you wanted a specific act, so I'd say intercourse in either missionary or cowgirl (but that could change with the day, the woman, and the Bank of Canada prime lending rate).

Topic Your best friends wife
Posted 09 Mar 2015 11:04

Like others, I'd probably just say "no". I have, on occasion, found friends' partners attractive but never let that thought go too far.

(But, if they had an open relationship and I knew it and I knew the friend was cool with me being a part of it ... it goes from a "no" to a "maybe" depending on the friend, the wife, and the circumstances)

Topic When you masturbate
Posted 07 Mar 2015 17:36

Usually I'm playing out a mental fantasy (some of which ended up becoming Lush stories). Sometimes videos or erotic stories, though.

Topic Celibacy In Religion.
Posted 06 Mar 2015 12:06

I know in Eastern traditions, esp. Buddhism, it is more about controlling desire and attachment; removing things that could distract one's attention. It isn't so much that sex itself is bad or evil as it is a need/desire to limit attachments that may distract from the path to Enlightenment. Christianity has been well-covered by some of the other posters.

Religious celibacy is not, to my mind, either a good or bad thing; as long as it is voluntary and has a purpose other than "sex is evil", I have no issue with it but do not plan to practice it either. Sacred sex (the use of sex in religious practice/ritual so kind of the opposite) likewise though I'd be more likely to practice it. My own personal belief is that sex is a normal, natural part of existence and should be celebrated in our spirituality, not avoided.




Topic There's a time and there's a place for camgirls...
Posted 05 Mar 2015 09:55

... but an open public library is neither the time nor the place for camming, folks. But it is happening. I mean, we here in Ontario all know what an amoral cesspool Windsor can be evil4 (I kid, I kid drunken ) but ... wow.

http://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/windsor/public-online-sex-shows-bring-in-big-bucks-says-woman-who-alerted-cbc-1.2982489

Would you do something like this in a public place?

Topic Why are most American men circumcised?
Posted 04 Mar 2015 13:50



Cool i didn't ask you ur Candadian

It's called North AMERICA for a reason. evil4

We're the more polite, slightly more English (or French in the case of Quebec), Americans. Regaeman Man

Topic What's your WIP (work in progress) about?
Posted 04 Mar 2015 10:48

I'm done. Nothing on the go save a non-Lush story that has lurked in my brain for over a decade and keeps haunting me. There's a couple of those and I need time (as in lots of it) to attack them properly as these are novels, not shorts. Someday, I'm sure I will return to the many Lush-worthy ideas that I have and have not used but I'm taking a writing break for a while (unless inspiration strikes unexpectedly as it often does with me).

Topic Why are most American men circumcised?
Posted 04 Mar 2015 10:40

It was the thing to do at one time (for parents in my parents' generation for sure) for alleged medical reasons but seems to have tailed off in my son's generation (I am, he isn't).

Topic Tips for seducing my Husband?
Posted 03 Mar 2015 11:12

Is a vacation an option? Doesn't need to be anything dramatic, even a a couple nights away over a weekend at a some romantic little spot. The change of scenery and absence of regular, daily routine stressors could help. And seconding hopp3r's suggestion. I don't know about your hubby, but I love a good full body massage.

Topic Sucking
Posted 02 Mar 2015 08:00

I married a woman who generally doesn't go for oral, so I suppose it is not a deal-breaker but it is something that I would like more of.

Topic Announcing the Winners of our Valentine's Day Poetry Competition
Posted 02 Mar 2015 05:53

Congratulations to the winners and runners up.
I have taken the results of this competition as an indication that my belief that I could write reasonable poetry as a delusion, so I have removed all my poems from public view. I am not sure whether this is because they are technically flawed, or because they are just rubbish. I will publish mo more here.

Really? I read a lot of entries that did not make the cut but that doesn't mean they are rubbish, just that it was a very good, competitive field. Heck, one that I thought would make the final three isn't even a runner-up.

For my part, mine didn't make the cut but it was also my very first try at a poem here (I have written them sporadically for years) and got a lot of positive comments so likely will not be my last.

Topic Announcing the Winners of our Valentine's Day Poetry Competition
Posted 02 Mar 2015 05:50

*Adds to the applause* Excellent choices all round! Congratulations to the winners and runners-up!

Topic FREE Antispyware and Cleaner Program - no catches
Posted 01 Mar 2015 18:54

I'll have to look a those. I use AVG Free Edition + Malwarebytes.

Topic keyboard issues.
Posted 01 Mar 2015 18:52

Interesting. My keyboard doesn't work since yesterday as well.
Well, it works for a few minutes, then stops working, then works again... All the keys in my case.

Don't know what it is, but it pisses me off :(

Could be either a loose connection inside (I'm assuming yours is also a laptop) or something causing the system to freeze. Have you rebooted (as in Shutdown and then turned it back on if you're using Windows) since it started? May be a worth a try if you haven't.

Topic Roll the Die...coming March 11th!
Posted 01 Mar 2015 05:50

I am glad you can all see the cover. I am getting the broken image link. :(

(I know, I know, gav's working on it)

Topic RIP MR SPOCK
Posted 28 Feb 2015 05:59

Isn't this unfair.....I mean how can God be this unfair with ys .Leonard Nimoy was easily one if the greatest actor the world had ever s een and then He takes him away......

Perhaps Nimoy himself can answer this one (per a post on FB by his co-star and friend George Takei quoting one of his last tweets):

"A life is like a garden. Perfect moments can be had, but not preserved, except in memory. LLAP"

Topic 50 Shades of Grey
Posted 27 Feb 2015 18:11

No real interest. Too much other stuff piled on my reading list and if I want good erotic BDSM fiction (which is rare since I'm not that into BDSM), Lush can scratch that itch.

Topic Actors and their movies
Posted 27 Feb 2015 17:00

Les Miserables

Lauren Bacall

Topic Replace One Word in a Song or Movie Title With "Orgasm"
Posted 27 Feb 2015 16:53

Orgasm from the Black Lagoon
Revenge of the Orgasm
The Orgasm Walks Among Us

(Orgasm=Creature for all of them)

Topic Use My Last Word First - in a 5 word sentence..
Posted 27 Feb 2015 16:48

Welcomed with a friendly hug.

Topic Who would you pick out of your lush friends?
Posted 27 Feb 2015 16:47

I don't have any friends noone likes me binky

Oh, I don't know about that. Big Hugs

And I'm not saying anymore. I'll save the details for a story someday. evil4

Topic RIP MR SPOCK
Posted 27 Feb 2015 16:22

You know, the more I think about it, this really is the end of an era in Trek. Leonard was only cast member from the original unused pilot "The Cage" to be picked up for the series ("The Cage" was later edited into a series of flashbacks in the episode "The Menagerie"), one of only three original cast members to appear in The Next Generation, and the only original cast member to appear in the recent movies by JJ Abrams, giving him by far the longest run of any actor in a single part in the franchise (the late Majel Barrett-Roddenberry may be a close second but played a different character in each series in which she appeared).