Forum posts made by seeker4

Topic Guys And Gals What in Particular Do You MOST Enjoy Seeing Your Lover Wear ?
Posted 03 Feb 2015 12:20

A nice dress that shows some leg and has a neckline that flashes a bit of boob. Just a simple bra and panties beneath, preferably black or red.

Topic Too early or too late. The first time.
Posted 03 Feb 2015 12:16

I was a bit of a late-bloomer, having my first time at twenty-four with a classmate who became, and is still, my wife (though we didn't marry for another three years after that first time).

Sometimes, I think I could have and should have got there earlier. Perhaps, had I not been a rather geeky sort and therefore a bit of an outcast in high school, maybe I would have got there earlier.

OTOH, the bullying and rejection that I experienced in high school left a bit gun-shy socially and maybe I needed a few years to get over that. Plus, that first summer with her was a pretty exploratory time for me both socially and sexually (it was also my first time living away from my parents) and will be a part of my memories forever so maybe it really was the right time.

Topic Harper Lee to publish a second book!
Posted 03 Feb 2015 12:10

Oh, I knew she was still around but this news (I saw it on a news source I follow on Twitter) still threw me. I suppose it's good news but I'm also wondering if lightning can strike twice or if Lee will turn out to be a "one hit wonder".

Topic What is your favorite romantic movie?
Posted 03 Feb 2015 12:03

I dislike romantic movies, so much slush. Although I quite like, 'Lost in Translation' Is that movie romantic ? I guess so !

I suppose it is in a rather quiet sort of way. I like it very much but didn't even think of it for this topic until you mentioned it.

Topic How opposed are you in having sex with a virgin?
Posted 02 Feb 2015 12:23

You know what? Never had one (a virgin, that is). Likely never will at this point in my life. And I don't really think that's a big deal. The feeling that someone is trusting you with their "first time" is probably more important than the act itself but, hey, I'll probably never know.

Topic What is your favorite romantic movie?
Posted 02 Feb 2015 12:21

I'll air my dirty little secret...I absolutely abhor "romantic" movies. I am probably the only heterosexual woman in North America who spent the entire length of "Titanic" thinking quietly to myself, Sink already, dammit. Just...fucking...sink. That was pretty much the extent of my feelings, the entire movie.

So...favourite romantic movie? Sadly, I don't have one.

I don't abhor romantic movies but I'm fairly selective about them. Just slapping the "romance" label on a movie is not enough for me. There has to be some depth to the characters and stories beyond just "I wuvs you, baby".

As for Titanic: The script of Titanic was so cliched and wooden that without Cameron's beautiful realization of the ship and Leo and Kate's performances, it would have been a total write-off. As it was, it was tolerable at best. But I'm also an s-f fan who didn't get bouncing-off-the-walls excited about Avatar, either (beautiful world-building, but the script blah5 ). Cameron needs to get a good writer to work with and focus on directing and world-building, which are his real fortes.

Topic Erotic thrillers recommendations?
Posted 02 Feb 2015 10:33

Not a genre I watch a lot, but I did like the already mentioned "Unfaithful".

Ang Lee's "Lust, Caution", which I mentioned in another thread a long time ago, kind of fits the bill (Chinese girl becomes part of a plot to snare and assassinate a collaborator during the Japanese occupation of Shanghai) and Zhang Yimou's "Ju Dou" definitely does.

Topic What is your favorite romantic movie?
Posted 02 Feb 2015 10:13

Are they romantic or tragedies? They don't have happy endings.

A tragedy can be romantic. "Romantic" really just means romantic love is somehow part of the story, not that all's well that ends well. Look at something like Love Story (which I actually detest but it works as an example) or Romeo and Juliet. Definitely romantic but also tragic. Not all romances have to be rom-coms or fantasies, there can be romantic dramas, romantic tragedies, etc. You could probably do romantic s-f but I can't think of an cinematic example (there are some s-f romance novels).

I do rather agree with Derek about Gone With The Wind, though. I don't find as much romance in it as some seem to.

As for my favorite romantic movies:

The Princess Bride

Much Ado About Nothing (okay, that's a play but there are couple good, entertaining film versions around)

Topic Would you consider LUSH to be a porn site?
Posted 01 Feb 2015 06:01

In strict, technical literal definition terms, it is. "Pornography" seems to hearken back to Greek meaning "writing about prostitutes" and has traditionally meant any literature/media aimed at creating sexual arousal.

In modern usage, though, I'd say it leans more to the erotica end of the spectrum since "porn" these days refers more to explicit, often exploitive, media like hardcore vids. We at Lush (well, a lot of us) value stories that arouse through the mind and that portray relationships as well as the mechanics of sex.

Topic When you get yourself off . . .
Posted 28 Jan 2015 13:38

Depends where it happens. In the shower, there is no mess. Just down the drain. Else I try to keep it on my skin and then do a quick wash or at least get it somewhere that is wipe clean.

Topic Forum error?
Posted 27 Jan 2015 10:04

That makes perfect sense ... dontknow

I suspect he means he switched it off and on again or swore at it then kicked it.

Actually, it's a bit more high-powered than that (just barely within my level of understanding of database technology) but those are legitimate IT troubleshooting tactics that I frequently resort to. evil4

Topic Do you like to play with tits, not just look at them?
Posted 27 Jan 2015 09:58

Looking at breasts is just step 1. Breasts are meant to be touched, played with, licked, sucked, and generally enjoyed (squeezing and pinching optional if the woman is into it), not just looked at. IMHO, anyhow.

Topic How To Win An EP By Accident... (A lecture on writing poetry...)
Posted 26 Jan 2015 13:47

By accident? Not a chance. Very nice piece of poetry, stephanie. Wish I could get my poetic muse back (I've written a few over the years) but right now my prose muse isn't even functioning especially well.


Topic Forum error?
Posted 26 Jan 2015 13:36

Actually, I'm finding it better today, but I've only been on for short spells so maybe just not getting it for that reason.

Topic Co-author, anyone?
Posted 26 Jan 2015 13:30

Quick note: I notice that KatieElizabeth and ChrissieLecker created a cover picture for their story "A Teutonic Temptation" that includes both names so that's another way to acknowledge all the authors. See link below.

Topic Co-author, anyone?
Posted 26 Jan 2015 13:25

Do Co-Written stories appear on both authors profiles?

Not at present. There are three "contributing authors" fields on the story itself that lets you link to collaborators, but you have to choose one profile to put it on.

Topic Yahoo messenger
Posted 26 Jan 2015 10:21

Used it for the odd person who preferred it. I don't use IM much though, so don't have a preferred system.

Topic Dominate or to be dominated or pass the above person?
Posted 23 Jan 2015 16:41

As you wish. Let us begin...

Topic Who would you rather kiss? (above or below)
Posted 23 Jan 2015 16:35

Look down to see who's there...

Topic Would you like a 3some with the 2 members Above You.....Yes or No?
Posted 23 Jan 2015 16:35

So let's put her in the middle - between me and fireman.


Topic Ask the person below you any question
Posted 23 Jan 2015 16:34

Well, I'm a guy so topless I've done, but never nudity. With my fair skin, I'd have to bathe in sunscreen first, though.

What is the sexiest outfit you have ever worn to attract someone?

Topic Sexual ABC's
Posted 23 Jan 2015 16:32


Topic Use My Last Word First - in a 5 word sentence..
Posted 23 Jan 2015 16:31

More of what, I wonder?

Topic Dominate or to be dominated or pass the above person?
Posted 23 Jan 2015 16:26

Dominate above.

Topic Oral vs Vaginal
Posted 23 Jan 2015 16:15

I would say each is a different sexual experience and I can enjoy both, but vaginal is a bit more intimate and intense for me. It is hard to be face to face and look each other in the eye when her mouth has to be at crotch level.

Topic Jumping between first person point of view,with more then one character.
Posted 23 Jan 2015 16:13

It is easier to make it work in third person, I think. First person with a shifting narrator can get confusing unless it's "diary style" with an heading at each shift in narrator or each narrator is in a different chapter. When done well, it's great, but it is hard to do well compared to third person with a shifting point of view.

Topic Ask the person below you any question
Posted 23 Jan 2015 12:39

Only once so far. The rest have all been lust or infatuation.

Do you ever go commando in public?

Topic Use My Last Word First - in a 5 word sentence..
Posted 23 Jan 2015 12:37

Fine is for parking illegally.

Topic Guns! Yaaay!!
Posted 23 Jan 2015 12:31

Chicago has one of the highest number of gun crimes in the country, yet the state has the strictest gun laws. If only the criminals have weapons and nobody can fight back unless the police are there, what is the deterant for bad people? The law? obviously that doesn't matter much to them.

OTOH, we have fairly strict gun laws in Canada to the point where police and the odd criminal are normally the only armed people on any given street and our murder rate per thousand is well below many parts of the US, let alone murder by gun (which is a subset of that murder rate). If owning guns is a deterrent to the criminals who get them illegally, then we should have a much bigger gun problem than we do. IOW the presence or absence of gun laws may not be the only, or even the biggest, factor in gun crime rates. It is likely that other factors like gang activity are a bigger factor. Even here in Canada, the gun crime rate tends to be highest in cities (like Winnipeg and Toronto) with a lot of gang activity.

So Chicago's gun crime rate may not support you or your opposition, but could be related to an entirely different problem. Reigning in the gangs is likely the solution there, not changing Illinois' gun laws.

Topic Guns! Yaaay!!
Posted 23 Jan 2015 11:08

It is legal to own guns in Canada. You need an Firearms Acquisition Certificate which includes a police background check. This means you cannot just walk into a store or gun show and buy one, but it does allow you to buy one (actually up 3 or 5 or something, IIRC). It only allows you own guns meeting certain parameters (long guns, no full auto, a few others I think), but that's all most gun owners up here really need since they are mostly hunters, farmers (for removing vermin) and such like. Handguns are restricted and require special permits and additional checks. Guns must be secured and unloaded when stored or transported. I am quite happy with this regime as, it seems to me, it hits a fairly happy medium between gun owners rights and society's need to control a dangerous item. If we can license drivers and take that license away if they f-up badly, why can't we do the same for gun owners?