Forum posts made by seeker4

Topic Do you like funny girls?
Posted 27 May 2015 09:26

When asked what girls want in a guy, most would say that they want someone who is funny.
Is humor that important to you? Are you attracted more by girls who are funny and silly?

Definitely. I love to laugh and sharing that laughter with someone helps us bond and helps us enjoy each other's company.

Topic In your view what is a difference between a girl and a woman?
Posted 27 May 2015 09:23

Rather like "boy" and "man", isn't it? It's all just maturity. Yes, girlish and boyish attitudes and behaviours may continue well past physical maturity and even psychological maturity and maybe use of "girl" and "boy" as a term of affection is appropriate in a some relationships ("She's my girl/boy") but, in the end, every boy is a man and every girl is a woman, just at a different stage of maturity.

I would also suggest giving a good read of what clum said.

Topic Losing your way in writting erotic,how to gain your writers mojo back.
Posted 08 May 2015 10:02

Take a break. My production rate has never been high. Part of it is time and part of it is that I find I kind run of steam when I start "pumping them out".

Topic Announcing the Winners of our "This is Hardcore" Stories Competition
Posted 05 May 2015 10:08

Congrats, all. Hardcore isn't always my cuppa so I largely steered clear of this comp but I'll likely circle back and read the winners at some point.

Topic Favorite Masturbation Location
Posted 05 May 2015 10:02

Bed is nice, esp. if I can go at it slowly for a long time and have some lube. So is the downstairs couch, maybe with some porn on the big screen TV. Shower would be my third place. I do get off in the home office in front of the computer at times, but it's not my favorite. Not the most comfortable spot, I find. Never stroked outdoors but if I was in the mood and fairly sure I could get away with it ...

Topic would you ever want a live in slave? (as in bdsm, sexually, not a slave slave, so sorry)
Posted 02 May 2015 06:20

Catering to your every whim?

At your beck and call

To use as you wish?

Doubt it. It would get boring rather quickly, I suspect. Would make life easier and it would be fun at first, to be sure, but give and take makes life livelier and more interesting.

Topic Can I get an interview with you?
Posted 01 May 2015 05:50

Introduce the title of your story: New Friends
Genre/Category: Group Sex
Provide the link:

1. What first inspired you to write this particular story?

I love the idea of sex outdoors, even though I've never done it. Once I wrote the first paragraph, the idea of another couple similarly engaged appearing and joining them occurred to me and I ran with that.

2. How did you come up with these characters?

I did not originally start this as a story about Ross and April (from my older story April's Secret ), but as I wrote the scene and tried to come up with a name for the woman sucking the narrator's cock, "April" popped into my head. She's pretty insistent at times, so I let her stay and it became a new Ross and April story. The others are new and mostly aimed at being different from Ross and April.

3. How does it differ from some of your other stories?

I haven't really experimented with Group Sex much (a threesome in one story but that's about it) so that's the really new dynamic here.

4. What was the most challenging thing about writing this piece?

The ending. I knew I had to reflect on how the encounter affects the core relationship (Ross & April) but it took a long time to get that right.

5. Anything else you want to tell us about it?

April and Ross seem to have wormed their way into my brain so expect more about them and definitely look back at the other April stories if you have not already done so.

Topic I AM
Posted 30 Apr 2015 12:01

I am ... sorry to hear about your dental problems, mysteria. One root canal at a time is bad enough but three?sad1 Big Hugs

Topic Write Any Word That Begins With "P"and Ends in "Y"
Posted 30 Apr 2015 11:56


Topic Use My Last Word First - in a 5 word sentence..
Posted 30 Apr 2015 11:55

Here is our secret place.

Topic Current Favourite TV Shows
Posted 29 Apr 2015 12:28

At present, I'm playing catchup on various shows on Netflix, so kind of alternating between Doctor Who and Archer. Dr. Who would be the favorite but Archer is pretty damn entertaining.

Topic Windows XP.
Posted 29 Apr 2015 09:22


Windows XP may be dead, but not really! It is used in many Epos (Cash register) Systems across the word, so Microsoft have to give extra support to those_ until 2019!!.

There is a fix, and I have used it with great success! You simply create a file (website details to follow) , double click on it, and then your XP system magically becomes a till system with full updates!

XP rocks still ;-)

Oh the website is here:-

I hope it works for you guys?


There's some other specialty systems that are still getting support but, honestly, a new laptop running either Windows 7 or 8.1 can be had for $500 CAD or less here in the Great White North so I'd say just bite the bullet and replace that old warhorse. And all current 7 and 8.1 systems will be entitled to a free upgrade to 10 when it comes out, so you'll be current for at least one more generation.

Topic I have a heavy equipment operators license. Is that sexy?
Posted 28 Apr 2015 09:40

Depends on how you use that knowledge.

Topic Theoretical sex life
Posted 28 Apr 2015 09:39

Of those options, the first. Really, though, some kind of "serial monogamy" where I have a few lovers but repeat with all of them is probably more my speed. An endless string of one-night stands as suggested by the second option does not appeal to me.

Topic Are condoms really that bad?
Posted 28 Apr 2015 09:37

After using them 3-4 times they get stretched out and slide off. I know what you are thinking "3-4 times!?" Its simple really. When you get done, just shake the fuck out of it, and its as good as new!

Um, no. That's not how it works.angry7

Topic Are condoms really that bad?
Posted 27 Apr 2015 11:49

Used them for most of my active sex life (which is largely over or at least on hold right now) save when wife and I were trying to get pregnant. I do enjoy bareback but find condoms aren't a big constraint. I'm a bit hypersensitive and prone to PE so a well-lubed condom can actually enhance sex for me. Yes, it can break the flow but if you plan for it, keeping the condoms ready and in reach, you can work it into your play fairly easily.

In recent years, when I've been playing around a bit with escorts, they all insist on condoms for intercourse and many do for oral as well (some do offer bareback blowjobs, aka BBBJ, though). Of course, they may be seeing half a dozen to a dozen guys a day so the protection is very necessary for them. They are masters at working it in to play, too. A couple of my favorites have mastered the technique of putting them on with their mouths.

Topic Brittany McHenry.....would ya?
Posted 17 Apr 2015 18:28

She's not my type (and I have no idea about the parking lot thing).

Topic Cars
Posted 15 Apr 2015 17:55

There's cars I like in both categories (e.g. for a sports car I could easily go for either the Jag F-Type R or the Corvette Stingray) but as a passionate lover of British luxury and touring cars (like that lovely Aston-Martin Vanquish above) I had to go with imports.

Topic Would you like a 3some with the 2 members Above You.....Yes or No?
Posted 10 Apr 2015 12:36

Round 5, Kitty moves to the middle between Ranger and I.

Topic Who would you rather kiss? (above or below)
Posted 10 Apr 2015 12:35

Sweet, deep kisses for my Sheripie.

Topic Movie Remakes
Posted 10 Apr 2015 09:29

I like both sprite and Katie's ideas. The latter especially, given what could be done with it using modern fx and an A-list cast.

Remaking Creature from the Black Lagoon is an idea that's been around for decades and has never come to fruition (I think Clive Barker of Hellraiser fame was attached at one point in the eighties). ScarJo is good in almost everything she's in and would be a good choice (and I'm not just saying that because she'd be wearing a swimsuit in itEmbarassed ).

Topic Use My Last Word First - in a 5 word sentence..
Posted 09 Apr 2015 11:47

Sun warms our naked bodies.

Topic Commando Men VS Braless Women
Posted 08 Apr 2015 12:51

I'd think braless would be easier to spot, esp. given how sheer or skimply a lot of women's tops are any more. However, it depends on what is being worn over top and who is wearing it. It would be hard to tell if someone with small tits in a bulky sweater or shirt is braless, while someone well-endowed in a tight or sheer top will be immediately noticeable if untethered. For guys, it's similar. Loose fitting jeans or slacks will make it harder to tell than tight jeans or shorts.

As for the other question, no idea. It is not something I look for and I've never seen any research on the subject. I always wear briefs myself.

Topic Ever met a sex partner online?
Posted 07 Apr 2015 08:02

One male encounter arranged with a guy I met online. Other than that, does booking escorts by email or through their website count? Embarassed

Topic Anime & Hentai
Posted 06 Apr 2015 13:51

Tried anime a few times and, with a very few exceptions, it has never done much for me. As a consequence, I haven't bothered with hentai. If that style of animation can't get me interested in characters and stories, it is unlikely to get my rocks off. And tentacle sex seriously squicks me out to boot.

Topic Lesbianism
Posted 03 Apr 2015 06:05

The lesbian part does not bother me. I'm bi-curious myself so same sex relationships are cool with me.

It's the affair part that's the problem. We would have to talk it out, figure why it happened and why she did not express her desires for a woman earlier (if my wife is bi, it's the best kept secret on Earth). Whether it's a deal-breaker would depend on the outcome of the talking out.

OTOH, if she was up front about her need for female intimacy, we could probably explore possibilities; perhaps an open marriage where we are both allowed some leeway with our own sex (since I'm bi-curious myself).

Topic Use My Last Word First - in a 5 word sentence..
Posted 02 Apr 2015 13:51

Dreams full of lusty visions.

Topic Who would you rather kiss? (above or below)
Posted 02 Apr 2015 13:50

Above (both of her).

Topic This or That
Posted 02 Apr 2015 13:49

Vampires. Ready for me to suck your blood, my dear?

Luxury car or sports car?

Topic Write Any Word That Begins With "P"and Ends in "Y"
Posted 02 Apr 2015 13:48