Forum posts made by seeker4

Topic Ask the person below you any question
Posted 23 Jan 2015 16:34

Well, I'm a guy so topless I've done, but never nudity. With my fair skin, I'd have to bathe in sunscreen first, though.

What is the sexiest outfit you have ever worn to attract someone?

Topic Sexual ABC's
Posted 23 Jan 2015 16:32


Topic Use My Last Word First - in a 5 word sentence..
Posted 23 Jan 2015 16:31

More of what, I wonder?

Topic Dominate or to be dominated or pass the above person?
Posted 23 Jan 2015 16:26

Dominate above.

Topic Oral vs Vaginal
Posted 23 Jan 2015 16:15

I would say each is a different sexual experience and I can enjoy both, but vaginal is a bit more intimate and intense for me. It is hard to be face to face and look each other in the eye when her mouth has to be at crotch level.

Topic Jumping between first person point of view,with more then one character.
Posted 23 Jan 2015 16:13

It is easier to make it work in third person, I think. First person with a shifting narrator can get confusing unless it's "diary style" with an heading at each shift in narrator or each narrator is in a different chapter. When done well, it's great, but it is hard to do well compared to third person with a shifting point of view.

Topic Ask the person below you any question
Posted 23 Jan 2015 12:39

Only once so far. The rest have all been lust or infatuation.

Do you ever go commando in public?

Topic Use My Last Word First - in a 5 word sentence..
Posted 23 Jan 2015 12:37

Fine is for parking illegally.

Topic Guns! Yaaay!!
Posted 23 Jan 2015 12:31

Chicago has one of the highest number of gun crimes in the country, yet the state has the strictest gun laws. If only the criminals have weapons and nobody can fight back unless the police are there, what is the deterant for bad people? The law? obviously that doesn't matter much to them.

OTOH, we have fairly strict gun laws in Canada to the point where police and the odd criminal are normally the only armed people on any given street and our murder rate per thousand is well below many parts of the US, let alone murder by gun (which is a subset of that murder rate). If owning guns is a deterrent to the criminals who get them illegally, then we should have a much bigger gun problem than we do. IOW the presence or absence of gun laws may not be the only, or even the biggest, factor in gun crime rates. It is likely that other factors like gang activity are a bigger factor. Even here in Canada, the gun crime rate tends to be highest in cities (like Winnipeg and Toronto) with a lot of gang activity.

So Chicago's gun crime rate may not support you or your opposition, but could be related to an entirely different problem. Reigning in the gangs is likely the solution there, not changing Illinois' gun laws.

Topic Guns! Yaaay!!
Posted 23 Jan 2015 11:08

It is legal to own guns in Canada. You need an Firearms Acquisition Certificate which includes a police background check. This means you cannot just walk into a store or gun show and buy one, but it does allow you to buy one (actually up 3 or 5 or something, IIRC). It only allows you own guns meeting certain parameters (long guns, no full auto, a few others I think), but that's all most gun owners up here really need since they are mostly hunters, farmers (for removing vermin) and such like. Handguns are restricted and require special permits and additional checks. Guns must be secured and unloaded when stored or transported. I am quite happy with this regime as, it seems to me, it hits a fairly happy medium between gun owners rights and society's need to control a dangerous item. If we can license drivers and take that license away if they f-up badly, why can't we do the same for gun owners?

Topic Complete The Sentence!
Posted 23 Jan 2015 10:21

His big dreams and aspirations were washed away when he saw her. It was as if he had never seen true beauty before.

Linda saw Jacob's eyes upon and looked shyly away, unsure...

Topic Why does it get colder after sunrise?
Posted 23 Jan 2015 05:58

Thank you! hello1

You've been ever so helpful to me today.

It's much appreciated.

You are quite welcome! Big Hugs

Topic Why does it get colder after sunrise?
Posted 22 Jan 2015 14:07

tiddlywink has it with her first answer. It's just a specialization under astronomy.

Topic Forum error?
Posted 22 Jan 2015 12:57

Thanks, John. I've had it, too, but being in IT just assumed it was something like that.

Topic Would you like a 3some with the 2 members Above You.....Yes or No?
Posted 22 Jan 2015 08:14

Well, being with two guys could be fun but these two are not the right two guys, so passing.

Topic Dream sexual scenario.
Posted 22 Jan 2015 08:11

What is you ultimate dream for sex. I could say the locker room after a football match!
No! Somewhere like Churchill in the winter. Log cabin for two. A roaring log fire, and Polar Bears outside.

Take note Scott!

Whereas dream sex for a Canuck generally involves getting as far away from Churchill and polar bears as possible (making love in an igloo or caribou skin tent is something I'll happily leave to the Inuit). Like maybe a hedonist resort in the Caribbean. Poolside orgy for the win!

My dream sexual scenario, though, is a cozy room somewhere with a hot naked guy or girl (the advantage of being bi - more choice). Give them a thorough, all over massage, shower together, and then fuck them silly while still wet from the shower before snuggling down for the night. I love sex but I'm not overly kinky.

Topic cybering with lesbians.
Posted 22 Jan 2015 08:04

Is the word "Cyber" an official verb now?

If it isn't already, I'm sure it will be soon.

It is being done. Heard it said many times here and elsewhere and I am guilty of having used it as such, though I am not crazy about it.

Topic Who would you like to handcuff? (Above or Below)
Posted 21 Jan 2015 12:03

Hard to cuff him while I'm cuffing you, Dimples.

Topic Name something that you want to take to bed with you.
Posted 21 Jan 2015 11:48

A blindfold and some cuffs and then whichever of trinket or KK wins.

Topic What Are The Movies You've Seen That Have Great Soundtracks?
Posted 21 Jan 2015 11:42

Hm. Not seeing much John Williams love here, so to remedy that:

Star Wars : A New Hope and The Empire Strikes Back (the two best of his scores for SW)
Close Encounters of the Third Kind
Raiders of the Lost Ark
Superman : The Movie

I like a lot of the ones on Bethany's list, esp. the John Barry-era Bond scores.

Casablanca has a great score for older movies.

Topic How long beetween cumming
Posted 20 Jan 2015 10:20

I think I've gone as much as month but not voluntarily (illness, personal issues). The first one back after a long dry spell often isn't that strong. It's more about cleaning out the ductwork, I guess. Then the next few are fantastic, esp. if I can get the time to really get worked up.

Topic What's your WIP (work in progress) about?
Posted 20 Jan 2015 09:29

but now I've also started three other storylines that didn't want to let me go (blame it on the plot bunnies).

I'm glad I'm not the only writer who suffers from this. Part of the reason I'm stalled right now is that I can't seem to finish one idea before the next worms it's way into my brain.

Topic Guns! Yaaay!!
Posted 19 Jan 2015 08:45

I know this seems like a common sence thing "keep the guns away from kids and locked up" "don't keep them in your house" Well, here's my opinion and what we do. I have a wife and 2 kids, my wife has multiple handguns and I have multiple rifles. All but one of the handguns are locked up and none of my rifles are. Both of my kids know where they are. Now you are probably flipping out thinking "is this guy fucking stupid?!" Well My kids "both under 8 yrs old" have been brought up around them, they are not curious of them and they know what they are for and can do. None of them are loaded but even if they were, they know better. A lot of you I'm sure are going "but they could get killed with them!" Let me ask you this, does your kids put butter knives in the outlets? Put toys in the oven and turn it on? Maybe throw your cat in the microwave to see what would happen? Play with kitchen knives? Stick their hand in the toaster? I bet not. Why? cause they know better. My kids aren't curious about our guns because they have seen us shoot them, and clean them, and every time we do, its a gun saftey course basically. I have left guns on the table (bolt carrier group was out, unloaded and trigger lock on) just to see if my kids would even pay attention to them, they would walk by, glance at it as they passed by, then came to ask me why I left it out. I'm not saying every parent can do this, because well not every kid has grown up around firearms. I happen to grow up with a dad that had one in his truck at all times. And so will my kids.

Good and I think that's probably how it should be in a family like yours in a country like yours. If you're going to have kids around guns, raise them to live safely around guns.

My only question, and this is coming from someone who lives in a country that doesn't have a US-style gun culture and for the most part does not want one, is why so many guns? Especially the handguns?

I mean, if you're a hunter, I can see having two or three rifles (which would be perfectly legal here, too, by the way) or a couple rifles and a shotgun.

But multiple handguns (which are tightly controlled in Canada)? Is she a competitive shooter? Because for self-defense, the only justification beyond competitive shooting I can think of for owning a handgun, one good quality pistol should be enough.

Topic Inspirational viewing
Posted 19 Jan 2015 06:37

I am looking for movies, TV shows, or other media that could be considering "inspiring" for a couple trying to get some passion (erotic and romantic) back into their life. Should be sexy without being graphic (wife doesn't like porn) though some soft core sex would be okay (desirable even). Something fun and uplifting would be preferable to a weepy drama but the latter would be okay with an uplifting ending. Definitely no "she/he/they dies at the end but love goes on forever" stuff. I'm thinking more "Princess Bride" or good rom com but with some eroticism rather than "Romeo and Juliet" or "Love Story".

Topic Lush Facebook Users! Have you been locked out?
Posted 16 Jan 2015 13:25

I keep FB and Lush quite separate (and do use my real name on FB). Lush is a private area of my life that I don't advertise so don't want it tied or tie-able to my FB or other fora that I'm on (even the mountain lion avatar is unique to Lush, I use another animal elsewhere). So, can't really help you here but I know FB (and Google+) are fairly insistent about real names.

Topic Why are pictures missing from some of my stories?
Posted 16 Jan 2015 13:23

Got an example? Mods will remove pictures if they violate terms and conditions of the site (e.g. explicit pictures of genitalia are not allowed in public areas like picture banners) but we would normally also let you know if that was the case so you would be aware of the rules for the next time.

Topic Who would you rather kiss? (above or below)
Posted 16 Jan 2015 12:12

Kissing up.

Topic Use My Last Word First - in a 5 word sentence..
Posted 16 Jan 2015 11:47

Bed the lovely lady now.

Topic This or That
Posted 16 Jan 2015 11:46

Depends on how the soy is prepared (Chinese Buddhists actually have some really good soy-based "fake meat") but generally meat.

Movies: Documentary or Drama?

Topic I Am An Atheist. (Does that offend you?)
Posted 16 Jan 2015 11:42

I wish I were gullible enough to believe in one of the more interesting deities.

There are times when I feel this way. Sometimes I feel like saying "Why can't I let go and let God, as they say?" My brain just isn't wired that way, I don't think. I began life as a Christian (currently agnostic and attending a Unitarian Universalist congregation) but even then I was not inclined to take creeds and doctrines at face value but had to question, explore, and examine them. In some respect, I think I was "doomed" to become a Unitarian Universalist where one of the core principles is a "free and responsible search for truth and meaning". My personality is just too suited to being one for me to be happy in a more rigidly creedal, doctrinaire faith.