Forum posts made by sensualdesires83

Topic Why cheat?
Posted 14 May 2012 06:41

Because they can

Sadly, this is so true and says it best. Personally, I'd could never cheat on someone I love dearly. If I had thoughts of doing so, I would tell her first that the love I had for her is no longer there. That way, I would know the guilt would not be so hard.

Topic Recommend A Story!
Posted 13 May 2012 12:37

Title of Story: Midnight Ride
Genre: Quickie Sex
Author: alexa88
Why you're recommending it: I am recommending this story because of how well-written and erotically evoking it is. The scenes that alexx88 has painted throughout the story is just like being there. Even though there are a few grammatical errors with punctuation, the story, as a whole is a wonderful read and actually well-written in content. I enjoyed this story very much and I feel that other Lush members would too.

Topic Okay guys... opinions?
Posted 12 May 2012 12:36


After what you have explained, and after being with him a year, you had all the right in the world to ask him to spend New Years with you and not her. If that guy had any morals at all, he would respect you and not worry about being with her. It's obvious that he has more than a working relationship with her. He had that going before he was even with you.

I can tell you right now, he has no respect for you and that if he loved you, he would have never thought you were unreasonable with your request. Since his heart was leading him astray, he saw that as an opportunity to be with the other woman.

Now, it's your turn. You need to put your feelings aside and get out of this relationship while you can. While you still have feelings for him, it is apparent that he has none for you at all. All he wanted to do was fuck the other woman instead and when you said what you said, it gave him free reign and he took it.

Nothing is holding you back from leaving. You just think there is because you still have feelings for him. Think about how he treated you. I know if it were me, the moment he took the opportunity to leave and get with and have sex with her, that would have been enough for me. I'd have been out that door in a second.

I think you even know you will be better off getting out, so ask yourself, what's the one reason that is holding you back? If you can't answer that question, then you have your answer.

He definitely is not worth your time, and if you ask me, not worth the other woman's time either. Sounds like he thinks more of himself than being with someone that loves him.

Topic How Do You Score Stories?
Posted 18 Apr 2012 16:50

This is how I look at scoring a story here:

1) The first few sentences of the first paragraph should pull me in and tell me where the story is going to go. If they are very catchy and hold my interest, then there is a good chance I will continue reading.

2) Content and Grammar-- I realize that not everyone is perfect and that there will be mistakes made, but the use of content words and correct grammar is essential to any story. Content and grammar can tell a reader a great deal about an author. If the content is very easy to follow and the grammar is sub-par, then I do not keep reading. Complex content and the use of good grammar skills will always keep me reading.

3) Well-written quality-- A complex content will almost always lead to a well-written qualitative story. When these are put to use, everything comes together and flows naturally throughout. It is not always the quantity that matters.

If I read all three of these, I will almost always give a score of 4 or 5, and it is usually a 5.

If a story does not hold my interest, I never score a story. This is in part because I know I would not want any of my stories scored because it only brings down not just the rating, but also when the author looks at his scores and sees a score of 1, 2, or 3, it brings down the author's morale.

We all work hard to produce a quality piece of well-written art here, and to have low scores bring down the ratings and the possible morale of other writers, could discourage authors not to keep writing when in all actuality, they could be great writers that need some tweaking!

Topic Do you cum? x
Posted 12 Apr 2012 16:08

I can honestly say, while reading them, I read them for the enjoyment and content. I get more out of a story when I am able to take my time and enjoy a well-written highly erotic plot that has meaning than worrying about cumming to it.

Topic tits or ass
Posted 12 Apr 2012 16:04

I have always been a leg man, but small breasts are a very close second!

Topic make a confession
Posted 11 Apr 2012 13:29

After graduating high school, I went camping with two of my male friends on a secluded island near the river where I used to live. It was very secluded and I had always wondered what it would feel like to be naked outside. So, I got the bright idea that after they had fallen asleep, I would walk down to the river bank butt naked and just enjoy the feeling. The stimulation of doing something like this was so intense, while I was walking, my cock was erecting itself. When I finally reached the river bank, I was rock hard. I walked over close to the edge where the water met land and could not help it. I started to masturbate and before I knew it, I blew a load into the river.

Yeah, I know not the dirtiest or kinkiest thing ever, but it was for me!

Topic Big clit and lips?
Posted 09 Apr 2012 15:42

Small clits are best for me. I like to be able to peel back the hood to reveal it and then make it stand out!

Topic Obvious web pictures
Posted 31 Mar 2012 15:06

If you read my profile bio, you will see how I mention "fake" profiles in it. This is not my first rodeo and I can tell a "real" profile from a "fake" one, as most of us here can. Many times, it's the images in the gallery, but most of all, it's the avatar that gives it away. Two profiles from young women on here come to mind for sure that I know are fake.

That's why, when you look at my images, I posted a two to prove I am real. The other's, of course, I found and just liked.

The photo albums in my profile, well they are self explanatory.

Topic Do you think writing erotica helps you in your real life?
Posted 31 Mar 2012 14:56

I agree with everyone as well, especially tashitasha. I was and still am shy at times and writing erotica definitely helped with my self-confidence and my self-conscience in general. I used to write basic fiction and poems, but since finding my liking to erotic literature, it has helped my overall well-being.

Topic do you like profiles without avatar
Posted 29 Mar 2012 06:22

I know this is on the gals forum, but I have to agree with everything stated above. I am not a fan of someone who does not have an avatar and does not have their bio filled out. Makes me believe they are fake and only here for one thing. (Although I have seen many profiles here that have avatars and bios filled out that I know are definitely fake because I have seen the photos that they use as avatars on sites for years, and they are trying to pass it off as being real).

I have made a few exceptions, but most of all, no avatar or no bio, I normally do not accept them as friends.

Topic Penis enlargement
Posted 29 Mar 2012 06:06

I have always been very happy with my size, even though I know I am not as well-endowed as most men. I never wanted to try and never will try anything that "professes" to make a penis larger.

And I know that old saying, "size does matter," but in my personal experience, size is not always the issue. It how a man uses it. A vagina can grip an item as thin as a pencil which makes it very versatile. So, as long as the man knows how to move it and make it enjoyable for the woman, there is no reason that both could not be pleased.

Topic Body worship
Posted 29 Mar 2012 05:56

I would worship her legs. Not just because she could walk all over me (ha ha), but because I have always been a leg man and just the mere thought of running my hands all over their tanned smoothness that leads up to the pleasure land, is enough for me.

Topic Porn or Novel?
Posted 29 Mar 2012 05:43

Of course, I am a man, so I would be remiss if I said I didn't like porn to a degree, but it really only serves one purpose: Entertainment. A good novel induces more than just entertainment. A novel can stimulate all the senses and allow the reader to become part of what they are reading. Words evoke feelings that can happen in a natural state and have more meaning.

Topic Textbooks of Tomorrow
Posted 19 Mar 2012 16:57

While I like the feel of a real book, when it comes to text-books this is definitely the way to go.

Textbooks are heavy to carry, they cost a fortune, and many of them have new editions put out every other year or two, so they are basically useless in terms of resale value unless you do it *right after* the semester is over.

I paid hundreds of dollars per semester on new textbooks, then started buying used ones, but if I didn't sell them within the year, a lot of them were already outdated/wrong edition.

And as someone already said - it saves so many trees.

Digital is definitely the way to go. If you can afford university, you can afford a laptop. In fact, it's pretty mandatory these days.

I have never disclosed what I do for a living here on Lush, but I am going to for this thread. But first, I want to say I am quoting Dancing_Doll here on purpose. You'll see in a minute.

I am a bookstore manager for a major university where I live. The past few years, the digital age has affected the sales of textbooks in the bookstore that I manage. We have seen so many students either purchasing ebooks for their Kindles or Nook because of the expensive prices of textbooks. Not only has the digital age affected sales, but students are looking more to renting and purchasing online because they can find them cheaper. As much as I hate to say this because it hurts my livelihood, I cannot blame them.

Students come to the bookstore and inquire about their textbooks and when they find out the price, they often get really upset and blame the bookstore. They fail to realize that it is not the bookstore's fault. Well in some ways it is, but in most ways it isn't. Some think that we inflate the prices. It's not the bookstore. It's the publishers and the many I deal with on a semester basis. I cannot always order books from a used textbook company, which will save the students money. Sometimes I have to order them from a new textbook company or the publisher. That's where the price is inflated. Due to their prices and the cost of supply and demand, textbooks can be outrageous! Trust me, I know. I am 100% positive.

And as Dancing_Doll has stated, editions have changed drastically over the years. In the past five years, I cannot even count how many disciplines have gone to new editions either after having had one out the year before or two years before. It used to be that editions would change every three years. That is not the case now. Many of them are changing editions every year, and maybe, if one is lucky, every two years. This is because there is a decline in there sales and it's a way to make money for them.

Since the decline of textbooks sales, the bookstore is no longer a "true bookstore." We have had to find other ways and means to make a profit. Therefore, we expanded our merchandise base to fit students needs. We have always sold the essentials like pens, paper, pencils and computer related products, but now we expanded to be a coffee shop, a snack vendor, and an outlet for students to purchase the university mascot items.

We may still be a bookstore, but in the true sense of the word, we are not. If we had not expanded our seller base, I am almost certain that I would not have a job now.

Topic Shaving your pussy: What exactly does it feel like?
Posted 17 Mar 2012 12:48

Ladies, I am in the process of writing a story and I am writing in a part where one woman shaves another woman.

I need some insight from all angles.

What does it actually feel like when shaving your private place? Is there any particular feeling you get while doing so? How does the razor feel running across your tender skin there? What's it feel like when you drag the razor over your labia?

Those are just a few of the ideas I have for this story I am writing. If any of you ladies out there can think of anything else that would help me develop the scene, I would certainly appreciate it!

Thanks in advance for your comments!

Topic Imminent launch of Lush Mobile - phase 1
Posted 16 Mar 2012 17:16

I can't do anything on the Lush mobile site using my Blackberry when I could the full site with no problem. It loads and I can see the categories, but I can't get the footer onto my screen in order to switch over to the full site. The last thing I see on the screen is the category, "Wife Lovers" and that's it. It won't scroll down anymore.

And if I try to click one of the categories, it only flashes, "loading," or "loading" stays on the screen in a large black box and nothing ever loads.

Topic What extra special thing can she do for you?
Posted 16 Mar 2012 16:59

Just her being naked usually does it for me! LOL!

But, if she really wanted to be sexy for me, she would cook me dinner in her skimpiest of lingerie she has. A woman is always sexy when they are cooking anyway, but that would be extra special!

Topic Favourite Body Part is ..............
Posted 15 Mar 2012 10:30

In the winter: the smile

In the summer: sexy legs

Why? Well, that's kind of self-explanatory, but in the winter it's hard to see a pair of sexy legs, so the smile catches my eyes first!

Topic What comes to your mind when you hear the name of the country above you?
Posted 14 Mar 2012 12:48

Zsa Zsa Gabor


Topic mouth, ass or pussy?
Posted 14 Mar 2012 07:18

I am like most that already answered. Nothing beats a nice warm, dripping wet pussy. Although, I would never shy away from a good blow. However, never anal; it does absolutely nothing for me.

Topic What comes to your mind when you hear the name of the country above you?
Posted 12 Mar 2012 17:33

Red Square and the Kremlin

The Bahamas

Topic A woman's place is in the...
Posted 08 Mar 2012 06:12

Topic wet dreams
Posted 07 Mar 2012 13:08

I am 39, and on occasion, I still get them. Blows my mind actually. The last one I had, I actually woke myself up feeling my erection, well, I don't need to say it.

Topic Responding to messages?
Posted 29 Jan 2012 11:57

For me, it's B. Whenever I get a message, (which is not very often sadly, lol) I will always respond. I would like the same courtesy, but I know that does not always happen.

Topic Buying ladies dirty knickers?
Posted 27 Jan 2012 16:51

Personally, I would not purchase any type of soiled garment, be any piece for that matter, from anyone off the net.

You never know what you are actually going to get and personally, I find it a little revolting.

At least when I am with my partner, what she soils I know about and if I want to play with them then, I know where they have been!

Topic My boyfriend thinks his cock is small!
Posted 27 Jan 2012 16:44

I've been contemplating responding to this question for a while now, trying to form an answer or opinion, and I think I can now, although I know this is late and pretty much been answered, but still wanted to weigh in as well.

I am not going to lie here, I am definitely smaller than your boyfriend. I am only five inches fully erect (see my pictures in my profile and read the story I recently wrote about it if you want). Your boyfriend is completely normal. I also consider myself normal as well. He should not be worried one bit.

As another poster said, it's not the size that matters. It's all how one uses it.

I have learned to be myself with my smaller than normal one. I also learned how to "use" it to make it pleasurable for my partner. There are so many things a man with a smaller penis can do with a woman to make it just as enjoyable for her.

As long as the man accepts himself the way he is, and stay honest, then size will not matter in a relationship at all.

Take it from me, I am living proof.

Topic Do you write non-erotica?
Posted 16 Jan 2012 11:07

I do write non-erotica. I find it just as relaxing and just as therapeutic as writing erotica. I have a profile on Lush's sister site,, and I have a couple there as well. I got very good reviews from them as well.

I'll be honest though, erotica is very much my liking, but non-erotica can be be just as wonderful as well.

Topic Your penis size (honest please)
Posted 14 Jan 2012 13:53

I'm not going to lie here. I am exactly 5 inches fully erect (look at my pictures and you will see) and I have been with a couple of women, and none of them have complained.

It's not all about the size. It's the "motion in the ocean" and knowing how to use it to please the one you are with that matters.

Topic Along the Lines of Shaving...
Posted 14 Jan 2012 13:32

The only reason I would think your thinks it is freaky is because your friend has never had one before and is possibly natural? This is not freaky at all. I find it completely normal because, I admit, I shave my "nether region" and as careful as I am, sometimes I miss and do the same as you.

Does that mean I am freaky also?