Topic Personal attacks in heated discussions. Acceptable, or not?
18 Apr 2016 04:02
Any member is entitled to his or her own opinion and any member should be able to express that opinion without fear of being personally attacked and insulted for it.
This should be the case. People react how they want to react. With no tone, or body language behind the words people will read things as they see them. Comments like, "fuck you" are just an example of the levels of emotional intelligence in some people.
As moderator, I've dealt with a lot of pms about people feeling precious about their work and they have fired personal insults. People's beliefs and opinions are important to them but it's how they articulate them that is the issue.
I just close my laptop down and log off. The mind is a powerful thing. Joining in and reacting to their show only makes them worse. Ignore them and they soon lose interest. If they don't, block them.
Topic What's for dinner tonight?
16 Apr 2016 08:17
I have no clue. I'm going to read this thread and see if I'm inspired to cook something. Ha! Decisions, decisions...
Topic Guys with glasses
16 Apr 2016 06:23
Sooo fucking yummy! I LOVE glasses
Topic Songs that make you horny?
15 Apr 2016 11:14
Songs that make me want to strip, like 'I just don't know what to do with myself' by The White Stripes
Topic First "porn"
15 Apr 2016 11:09
My friend and I discovered her stepfathers porn stash. He had fucking hundreds of videos! I think my first one was a movie called "11 days 11 nights." Then there was a porn video with a guy fucking a girl on a car, wet t-shirt comps... And so began my porn addiction
Topic What's your favorite comedy?
15 Apr 2016 10:55
Monty Python's The Life of Brian (yes, I like my comedy a bit on the absurd side)
Brilliant! Love this too.
My personal fav is Stepbrothers. Makes me cry with laughter.
Topic Recreational Drugs
12 Apr 2016 01:27
I've never smoked (apart from a cigarette once, urgh) or injected any illegal drug. I'm really too much of a wuss.