Topic Strong and silent, or cocky and confident?
19 Apr 2015 12:24
I would tend to describe myself as quiet and thoughtful (even though I do like a good chat and a laugh) so imagine myself fitting into the strong, silent category. But, which types do you ladies prefer to be seduced / chatted up by?
Since I'm the quiet, very discreet type, I prefer to be chatted up by the friendly, confident type but if he's arrogant, I'll be unimpressed.
Topic How do you really like to be treated?
19 Apr 2015 12:16
Do you l refer to be treated like a lady and respected? Or do you prefer to be treated like your shit?
I seriously doubt everyone wishes to be flushed down a toilet.
Assuming you meant 'you're shit'. I expect to be treated as an equal and respected as such in daily life.
Topic Ladies - do you like body pictures?
19 Apr 2015 12:02
well since this is lush, i doubt anyone would really want to show their face in some daring pictures. Unless there's a good level of trust between 2 persons. But for me, a headless body shot is good. It's actually fun sometimes.
Topic Guilty or Innocent.
15 Apr 2015 11:26
Have you done it inside the conference room during work time?
Have you ever done it in a picnic area? (open space park?)
Topic Make up...why?
15 Apr 2015 11:22
I wear some but keep it minimal for daytime. I get a bit edgy with red lipstick when i go out at night. Though when i'm home... fuck the makeup.
Topic I believe..
25 Feb 2015 10:21
What does that mean?
1 person having several lush accounts I suppose. and that's not allowed on Lush.
Topic Do you feel confident?
25 Feb 2015 10:18
I've never been confident about myself before. I've always had people putting me down and I grew up it kept getting worse. I guess I also did what my mom would do and still does, keep quiet and let people do and say whatever they want.
It's recently (like a year or two ago) that I started gaining confidence and at times I still fear I may revert back to the old me. But I've learned to ignore people and be myself instead of trying to fit in. I mean what's the point of trying to befriend people who can't accept you as you are? Sometimes I still feel I might lose it but then I am lucky to have a few persons who remind me that I am amazing and that helps. If I look back, I never dared to oppose to things I felt were not right. Nowadays, I do it and don't bother about what people think of me.
Writing stories help me, talking to the right persons does too and trying to keep positive.
Anyways, coming back to your question, yes. I always wished I were confident and I feel I missed out too much. I've made a lot of mistakes and did things to let others be happy, almost killing some of my dreams. But something happened last year that made a difference in my life and made me realize a lot of things. I'm catching up and there's no chance I will go back to that unconfident girl I used to be.
Topic "3 truths/1 lie" Game
24 Feb 2015 07:16
Number 2 is a Lie
1. I love red wine
2. I read too much
3. I forgot to wear my panties today
4. I play with myself almost everyday (except when I'm on the bloody hell week, then I want to murder everyone)
Topic Will you watch fifty shades of grey?
15 Feb 2015 07:33
Well almost everyone is going on about it Again since the first trailer. I remember when the first book was out and everyone was obsessed, almost nagging me to read it. In the end I read the 3 books. They are ok, not exceptional. And I guess the movie will be toned down. I might go see it sometime If my friends want to.
Topic Men lingerie?
11 Feb 2015 10:24
my only weakness is a man in a dark suit and a tie
Topic Do you insist that a vote on your story be commented upon.
10 Feb 2015 11:26
Feedback is always appreciated but I don't insist on it. Many readers don't have the time to comment or just don't like to do it. And some of them prefer to send a private message with their views to the author. I think the voting gives a good and quick indication of how your story is doing.
Topic Do you keep a Diary.
05 Feb 2015 05:18
I used to keep one when i was young. Then my mom found it, read it and (so kind of her ...) corrected all my grammar mistakes with a red pen.
Since then I stopped.
Topic Gals, do you date outside your race?
19 Dec 2014 05:28
Personality is what matters, not the race. You either get along with someone or you simply don't. The color of their skin does not matter.