About TheSexyWriter

Hello, how is your day going? My day is going fine, thank you. Who am I, you might ask? I'm probably a lot like you, for a start. I'm a dreamer, a lover, a fighter, and a writer. I'm a man of intense philosophy, politics, and interests. I love film, above all else, my family, friends, my lover, and my country. I am very religious, sensitive, and consider myself a caring man. Like you, however, I have a dark side and am capable of some very terrible things.

There are three aspects that dictate my daily and long term life: Social Justice, Film, and my Family. And all of these aspects pour equally into my one life goal: filmmaking. I want to be a Film Director. I want to create change in our hostile, dying world. I want to be remembered for correcting the mistakes of the past and making a bright, secure future for our children. I ache for it. More than a man can ache for a woman. More than a baby ache's for it's mother. More than a flower ache's for sunlight. Film, Justice, and my Family has defined me and made me who I am today. During my life I've met people who have shaped my character and added to my inspiration, helping create stories that I one day hope to share with the likes of all of you.

Also like you I have a past filled with incredible highs and depressing lows. I had the privilege of having a fantastic, wise family to help guide me through pitfalls and teach me about the world, and because of that I've been told that my opinions come on very strongly. Regardless of differences though, one of my absolute favourite past times is that of learning. I love to listen and read about new things, and learning how and why the world works.

I love to chat about anything, really, although I am shy if we've never talked before. Go on, tell me about you're day. If I'm not writing a script, playing computer games, or being a complete nerd I'll respond. But no matter what I will listen, and if asked for anything, will give.

That is Nathan. All that. And right now I'm just that. One day I hope that people will think more of me. Though for now, I'll be here, chatting, writing, and listening. Maybe I'll catch a movie, too.

Relationship Status:
I'm either found watching the Anaheim Ducks on TSN, shooting up some pool, playing video games, or writing here on Lush Stories
Favorite Books:
My favorite novel is Wizard and Glass by Stephen King.
Favorite Authors:
Stephen King, Ken Follet, Stieg Larsson, Christopher Paolini, and George R. R. Martin
Favorite Movies:
The Social Network
Take Shelter
The Dark Knight
The Lord of the Rings: The Return of the King
Saving Private Ryan
District 9
The Iron Giant
Favorite Music:
My favorite band of all time is Coldplay, while Rise Against, LIGHTS, Eminem, and Macklemore come in a close second.
Date Joined:
23 Dec 2009
Last Visit:
01 Jul 2015 (150 days ago)
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Topic: Lush Matching Photo Game:
Posted: 08 Jan 2014 18:23


With socks on

Topic: Humming during oral sex?
Posted: 11 Oct 2013 06:59

A little while ago when I was giving my wife oral I had the idea to hum, hoping that maybe the vibration would give her a little extra stimulation. My wife said she loved it, but she's never been really out in the open about her sexual do's and don'ts. So girls, has a guy ever hummed while giving you oral, and did it really make that much of a difference?

Topic: Porn Desensitization and Addiction
Posted: 12 Aug 2013 10:26

One of the BIGGEST problems in my marriage and ultimately the cause of our sexual problems was porn. Like all healthy and sexual men, I knew my ex enjoyed watching porn. As a couple, we even watched it together many times during our courtship as well as during the first couple of years of our marriage. It was hot and exciting in the beginning but soon, it got ugly. He wanted it on every time we made love, then it shifted to him sneaking around and watching it on his own late at night, so much that he wouldn't come to bed until the wee hours in the morning almost EVERY night. Pretty soon, porn took over and became his lover, it was the third person in our marriage. He then began to have problems staying hard, then he had difficulties cumming unless he jerked himself off which took forever, and eventually, he couldn't even get hard with me at all! It was BRUTAL!!! Porn had become the enormous pink elephant in our relationship.

After YEARS of dancing around the issue, I confronted him and confronted him I did HUNDREDS of times about our sex life and that porn was a much bigger problem then we both originally thought. I explained to him how it was making me feel, how it was hurting our relationship and although he denied everything in the beginning, eventually he conceded and admitted he couldn't stop but at the same time, didn't want to seek help for it either. As a woman, it was painfully disheartening especially when you can see your marriage falling apart all around you and there was very little I could do to save it. The experience seriously fucked with my self esteem so violently that I spent years and THOUSANDS of dollars on therapy to try and deal with all the shit porn caused in my life and ultimately ended my 20 years relationship and broke up my family - something that still brings tears to my eyes if I think about it too much.

So YES, porn can have insidious effects on one's sex life - I'm the poster child for that disturbing PSA. Having said that, despite my negative experience with porn, I think it can be a great aid in relieving tension and finding a release either alone or with a partner. I also sincerely think it can add a bit of excitement and variety into a couple's sex life provided it's kept it in check. Anything good in life is about finding a healthy balance and porn is no different.

Oh wow, that is heartbreaking. I am so sorry that all this happened to you. While I never thought about porn having this kind of effect on me it's very scary to think that I could have been on this path. I would never want to do this to my wife, and it makes me very glad that I was able to put my porn down as easily as I did. I hope you are doing okay now. You're absolutely right about finding a healthy balance. Sometimes it's hard, however, and it's easier--and safer--to drop it entirely.

Topic: Porn Desensitization and Addiction
Posted: 10 Aug 2013 22:51

So a few months ago I went through a very stressful period in my life where I was consistently away from my wife, and I developed the habit of masturbating while watching porn to help expel stress. I had watched porn on almost a weekly basis beforehand and never had any problems in bed, but when I was in my wife's company again I found it very difficult to get hard. After avoiding the elephant in the bedroom I decided to stop watching porn entirely, seeing that it was desensitizing me and probably leading me down the road to a small addiction (I was masturbating twice a day, every day). Since giving up the habit, my sex life is back to normal and I find myself more aroused than usual. So, fellow Lushies, what is your experience with porn? What's your opinion on it? Any negative or positive experiences?

Topic: Let's Talk About Dreams
Posted: 10 Aug 2013 22:49

A repeating nightmare that I have when I'm really stressed or emotional involves my house being haunted by a dark, grey entity. I can always distinguish when I'm having the nightmare because I can never turn on lights in the dream--no light switch works. On top of that the whole scenario has a "dark" feeling over it, like I'm watching everything through a thick screen door.

Topic: Name A Must See Movie Before You Die
Posted: 10 Aug 2013 22:29

I would go with the films that most notably changed cinema. Not to be cliche, but:

- The Godfather
- Apocalypse Now
- The Good, the Bad, and the Ugly
- Citizen Kane
- Seven Samurai

Less cliche choices, and some of my personal favourites:

- The Social Network
- Drive
- Take Shelter
- District 9
- Saving Private Ryan

Topic: Lushies, what do you really enjoy?
Posted: 10 Aug 2013 22:20

I love being creative. Creating worlds and characters and amazing adventures. Even though a lot of my ideas will never see the public eye, I love knowing that I have the power and the commitment to make something that I'm proud of come to life.

Topic: Post the title most recent song that you listened to
Posted: 09 Aug 2013 11:42

A Wake, by Macklemore

Topic: Post a random fact
Posted: 12 May 2012 12:36

Nintendo's infamous character Mario is named after Mario Segale, Nintendo of America's warehouse landlord.


Topic: What pisses you off about our societies?
Posted: 12 May 2012 12:24

Two words: Police brutality. You'd think after decades of news coverage, riots, and charges, the laws surrounding the liberalism that police walk with would change. As can be plainly seen, it hasn't.

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Gym Class

A few years back in high school, there was this girl. Her name was Megan Retner, and--to be blunt--she was the polar opposite of me. I don’t mean to float my own boat, but I did my best to be respectful, determined, and educated throughout my High School career. Megan, on the other hand, did not. She was a rebel; she was ignorant, disrespectful, and didn't give a shit about school. At the...

Added 13 Jan 2012 | Category Group Sex | Votes 15 | Avg Score 4.67 | Views 16,724 | 5 Comments

Elven Flame

This story takes place in an alternate universe, medieval times, where elves are part of society. Also, if you're just looking for the sex part, then scroll down a ways. If not, then please enjoy what I have to offer.... There she is. I catch myself thinking of her again. Across the bar, serving ale to the men, is Leana. Her blonde hair falls down past her shoulders, glittering like only...

Added 15 Jul 2010 | Category Supernatural | Votes 7 | Avg Score 4.57 | Views 9,177 | 2 Comments

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Happy Birthday from the Lush team.
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Happy Birthday from the Lush team.
Posted: 29 Feb 2012 11:07
Thank you for my "Official Birthday" message ... it was very sweet of you x

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Posted: 23 Jan 2012 13:49
Thank you for adding me as a friend x

Posted: 22 Jan 2012 17:41
Thank you for the add and the comment on my story. I also enjoyed your Bio. As time allows I plan to read your work as well.
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