Forum posts made by transitionalman

Topic Drop letter, add letter ..
Posted 18 Apr 2011 17:09

steer = sheer

Topic Female Ejeculation? So who are the lucky ladies??
Posted 20 Mar 2011 09:04

I've had three lovers who squirted. It was fun and thrilling but you do have to take precautions if you wish to avoid a major wet spot, and that can sometimes "dampen" the moment.

Topic Legalizing prostitution?
Posted 12 Mar 2011 21:44

The "holy" is the real problem. There is some evidence that the sexual purity/monogamy sanctioned by the judeoChristian faiths comes from a desire to separate themselves from the older pagan faiths, such as worship of the fertility Goddess Astarte. Under that worship, people tried ritual to influence matters like the weather and crop yields, often by having sex with a temple prostitute. It's said that Yahweh sought purity as proof you followed him and not the older faiths, a proof of sincerity.
I think there is a more compelling reason. It wasn't that long ago that people didn't understand how diseases were spread but we always realized that prostitutes carried sexually transmitted diseases. Which meant they were a vector for spreading STDs into the community at large. Nowdays, with good health regulation and condoms, that doesn't apply, but it certainly did apply for most of human history. I think that's probably a greater source of the stigma then faith teachings, only they retain today as the teachings (originally to maintain health) are retained out of tradition, and again because in the modern context sexual "restraint" is seen as evidence of piety. The ancient Israelites were never so chaste in real life, as the life of King David makes plain.

In my view what matters isn't so much the act as the consequences. If you cheat on your spouse with a hooker, your relationship may be threatened, which may threaten your family. But from the point of view of the woman, protecting her from disease and pimps greatly outweighs all other objections, and potential harm, with the benefit of all but removing her as a source of STD transmission. Even if you don't like an act it must be weighed against its possible and probable consequences.

Topic Studies show more bisexual women 'go' anal than straight women
Posted 10 Mar 2011 21:24

Which study? How was it done? Did they survey enough people to attain significance.

I can imagine how practicing bisexuals might be a bit more adventurous then their purely straight/gay counterparts. Dan Savage has written that bisexual is a transitional stage anyway, which I disagree. But I very much doubt if the study would hold up to close examination.

Topic Woman Says She Became Pregnant After Watching Porn In 3D
Posted 10 Mar 2011 21:21

I suppose watching porn made her horny, and she found a man to help her with it.

Topic Fantasy VS. REality
Posted 10 Mar 2011 21:19

Sure there are lots of real women here, and modern male lesbians. Figuring out who is who takes time, but why not invest the time?

Topic Adult toys
Posted 10 Mar 2011 21:17

As a man, I find sex toys intended for me uninspiring at best. They just sound wrong, and fake. So I don't own any, but i have dated several women who do, and it is always fun to use their toys upon them, or to torment them in other ways while they use their own. Tonguing a lady while she takes herself is always fun for everyone involved.

Topic Tell me what's the difference between love and Lust!
Posted 24 Feb 2011 08:31

Love means putting them first, that you think of them first, look to them first, care for them first.

Lust is for right now. Love endures.

Topic The 7 Letter Game
Posted 20 Feb 2011 01:40

Balling Amy She Kisses Each Teat Slowly


Topic Oral Sex or Fuck first
Posted 17 Feb 2011 13:07

As a man well past the voting age, I'd much prefer to use my mouth first, simply because I don't recover so quickly as I used to. it makes good sense we should both wear out about the same time, but there should also be no rules in sex.

Topic Are all men unsatisfied with the size of their penis?
Posted 17 Feb 2011 13:05

I wasn't when I was young. After all, the porn industry and the penis expansion industry want us to very much think cock size matters. And for a few women perhaps it does. But I learned long ago that Maria Muldaur was write when she sang "It ain't the meat it's the motion"

Topic Should creationism be taught in schools?
Posted 17 Feb 2011 12:56

If Creationism is taught, it should be taught as introduction to political issues class, or perhaps religion or not at all.

From a scientific point of view, Evolution has no challengers. While there are debates within the scientific community as to the details of evolution, it explains so much (germ theory of disease, cladistics, et all) so simply that I cannot think of a more powerful theory.

What Creationism is really about is religion. As the world has grown more complex and attaining the "American Dream" more difficult people have turned more and more to more fundamental and literalist interpretations of their faith. But as one Creationst (can't remember who without research) put it, "If Evolution is true then the Bible is wrong.". And he's right. The accounts of creation in both the 1st and 2nd chapters of Genesis cannot be adapted to any literal interpretation of the scriptures. Of course the Genesis 1 and 2 directly contradict each other on the matters of creation, which in itself says much.

This isn't about science, it's about protecting a particular narrow version of religion. As far as science goes, the only pro-creation scientists out there were people who started out wanting to defend their preconceptions. The other 99% teach evolution.

Topic How did you first discover you liked reading sex stories?
Posted 17 Feb 2011 12:46

Before the internet there was Penthouse magazine. They began publishing erotic stories in their "Letters to the Editor" section, and quickly discovered they were popular, and thus spun off Forum and Penthouse Variations magazines. I found those letters reading the magazine, and found the stories, at least the good ones far hotter then the pictures simply because the good ones took me inside th head of someone having actual sex.

Which wasn't doing back then. Dammit.

Topic Do you prefer shaved pussies?
Posted 17 Feb 2011 12:41

Trimmed a bit, but really pubic hair is the least important thing imaginable. And I personally like being hairy.

Topic Who can turn me on in 100 words or less? STORY CHALLENGE
Posted 16 May 2010 11:13

The blacksmith led my by the hand inside to a seat, telling me he needed to finish this one piece before he could get my order. Then he turned and went to the forge, muscles shifting as he pumped the bellows. Blackened coals began to glow as he pumped, and the cool steel began to glow. I could feel the heat from the forge, but instead of pulling away, leaned closer for I felt flush with heat of it, particularly warm in my breasts and loins.

Topic Which Viewpoint do you use and why?
Posted 16 May 2010 10:55

First or third person. First is more 'immediate' but it does not suit all stories. Omniscent I think is a mistake, the sexual experience is personal, and omniscent POV is always personal. A story needs a narrator who is involved with the story, even if they aren't the person telling it, their viewpoint and feelings must predominate.

Topic knowing within 5 minutes
Posted 16 May 2010 10:40

I'm not so sure about that, particularly in a situation where you have regular contact with someone. First impressions matter, but they can be overcome by consistent personality. Other traits come through, and someone earlier dismissed can grow more attractive with time.

Topic Sorry; put that under the wrong topic. Would you risk sex with an ex
Posted 06 Mar 2010 18:48

Not with all of them, a lot depends on how we parted, but with several absolutely.

Topic Watching Women
Posted 06 Mar 2010 18:42

Watching my lover touch herself is a very wonderful thing. It is a compliment that she trusts you enough to have you there to see, and if she wants you to see, then she is turned on and even if her thoughts aren't of you at the moment, you are in there. Second it is a very intimate thing, and her pleasure reveals her. Plus if you observe closely, you'll see what feels good to her, places you might not easily discover otherwise.

Besides, girls in pleasure are always arousing, always promising.

Topic If You Woke Up With The Person Above You What Would Be The First Thing You'd Say?
Posted 09 Feb 2010 08:47

Wow, that was a great party!

Topic Minors Sexting
Posted 04 Feb 2010 09:16

I don't think any one should be punished for this. Let's face it, how mature were we at that age? When two kids who go to class together flirt, it by definition is not an exploitative relationship. They're peers! They're equals, which would not be the case if an adult entered into a relationship with them. Instead of using legal structures designed to cope with an entirely different type of problem to make examples of them we should use education about the very real consequences, like having your 'sext' sent on to others.

Honestly, how many of us would have done differently if the tools were available to us when we were that age? How many of us might send one today to our adult partner if we knew they alone might see it? Sexting is merely a new form of flirting, and we do like to flirt.

Nor do their parents qualify for specific sanctions. It's simply not possible to know every single thing your kids do, particularly when technology has made it possible that all you need is 30 seconds alone to send a text. Instead we need a society which deals with sex as a normal part of life, with a realistic set of expectations about what is and is not expected of both children and adults. That may be a fantasy, but it's what needed.

Topic If you could do one fictional character.
Posted 03 Feb 2010 08:41

Commander Susan Ivanova on Babylon 5. (played by Claudia Christian)
President Laura Roslin on Battlestar Galactica (played by Mary McDonnell)
Maxine in Being John Malkovich (played by Catherine Keener)
Dizzy in Starship Troopers (played by Dina Meyer)

Topic This is going to be my wedding dress any offers for a proposal !!!!!!!!!!!
Posted 03 Feb 2010 08:22

Well, I'd be very pleasantly surprised if any future Mrs. TM could pull of that 'outfit'. But I see it as more dressing for the honeymoon. Wearing it to the wedding would probably give my parents a heart attack.

Topic When he cums inside you, are you less bitchy? ;)
Posted 03 Feb 2010 08:18

I heard that somewhere too, but can't begin to remember where the study came from. Such a thing might make evolutionary sense, if a calm, relaxed woman is more likely to hold her body in a position that improves the odds of Mr. Sperm hooking up with Ms. Egg. If such a behavior did improve the odds of impregnation evolution would select for it.

Besides, for many women orgasm is a sign the train just got rolling. Of course that improves the odds of getting more sperm.

Topic Guilty Pleasures
Posted 02 Feb 2010 16:35

I really enjoy B-movies like 'Faster Pussycat Kill! Kill!' or 'Frankenhooker' A good B movie can be great fun.

Topic 7-day Cruise - I entered your name
Posted 02 Feb 2010 16:31

Looks like a family-run business.

Topic Beer, porn and sex toys...
Posted 26 Jan 2010 19:10

That's a hoot, totally.

Topic Ice Cream Relationship
Posted 17 Jan 2010 17:30

Coffee, sweet with a bit of an edge to it.

Topic Describe in 300 words or less...
Posted 13 Jan 2010 19:41

Dinner, then a movie, then out for a drink or two. And then tells me: "I'm pregnant."

"Really? When did you find out."

"Well, it's not official yet, but I just know. I can kind of feel a baby growing inside my body."

At this point I can hear the theme to "The Twilight Zone" growing in volume inside my head. At the very least I don't know what to do. I remember saying something sensible about making sure before you make plans, and then she starts telling me about her ex, whom she's just certain made her pregnant the other night when she got him drunk.

It got worse from there. I decided to take her home, only the directions she gave me didn't match the directions she gave me when I picked her up. She had me drop her off at a different location. Turned out to be her ex's and it turns out he was with his new girlfriend and well, let's just say once was more then enough.