I am a over 60 desert rat. About to be divorced after a 39 year relationship with a very controlling woman. I never knew how controlling untill we seperated. I still am not sure why.
Enough sniviling. I am here to help me go forward. You would think that by 63 I would not get terrified at the thought of approaching a woman to have a chat and perhaps make a new friend. I never have problems in a business setting but make it social and you would think I have been in a vacuum for the last 39 years. Wait a minute that is exactly where I have been. Totally controlled.
Writing like this and chatting is helping me loosen up. A lot.
Thank for listening. Phil

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Cqave Creek, Arizona, United States
Local Time:
26 May 2018 10:18
Sex (you saw that one coming). The outdoors. If you live in Arizona and you don't like the outdoors you are cheating yourself. Camping, fishing, hiking, and geocaching. I love to read, watch the tube, go to movies, and go out to eat. I love our animals and while soon to be ex took the dogs with her I get them back on the weekends and I get the cat full time. When things get settled down I may get a small dog.
Favorite Books:
I love science fiction ( A Canticle for Leibowitz or Flowers for Algernon or The Foundation series), action stories.
Favorite Authors:
Asimov , Clarke , Heinlien, Cussler, Baldachi
Favorite Movies:
Bringing up Baby, ET, Close Encounters of the Third Kind, Eating Raoul (really try it)
Favorite Music:
60's and 70's rock.


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Topic: Would you do me?
Posted: 04 Jun 2012 19:24

Simple answer YES. Now it gets complicated. Will he just watch or does he want to get involved and does that mean I will touch him and does that make it gay or Bi or is it still straight sex and do I give a shit any more? Does it really matter? Did I get to shoot my stuff in the holes I wanted to? Did I lick and play with all the parts I wanted to? Mission accomplished if you got off too.

Topic: Where do you cum after masturbation?
Posted: 04 Jun 2012 19:15

The obvious and only answer is out the end of my dick. You know that hole on the end of "The Penetrator".

Topic: Why do guys show their dicks??
Posted: 04 Jun 2012 19:10

They think they have the best dick in the world and when you see it you will beat a path to their door. Also they know that showing you their ear or elbow will not turn you on. It has to be the dick , Yea that will do it show her the dick. These guys drive big cars too.

Topic: If you COULD suck your own dick....?
Posted: 04 Jun 2012 19:04

Yes in a New York second. Reminds me of a story. Two men walking down the street and one notices a dog licking it's dick and he says "I wish I could do that" and the other man says "I would pet him first".

Topic: Pussy Eating
Posted: 04 Jun 2012 18:54

Why would anyone not like to lick slit? I have never run into a woman that didn't like it.

Topic: When was the last time you had sex? [BE HONEST]
Posted: 04 Jun 2012 18:45

My last time was August. Unless you count the times I get fucked by soon to be ex wifes divorce atty.

Topic: can your guy masturbate?
Posted: 04 Jun 2012 08:07

I have masturbated every day for the last 50 years. I got married 39 years ago. Wifey discovered this two years ago and totally flipped out. After a week of screaming and demanding she talked to on and off therapist/counciler and was told "He is a guy get over it" so she did. Last August she discovered me at again and filed for divorce.
What I want to know is are you ladies offended by this? I have heard doctors say masturbation while in a relationship means nothing and "the more you get the more you want". The same doctor said 95% of men admit to masturbating and the other 5% are lying.
Do you think a controlling wife has the right to control even this?

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