02 Aug 2015 20:41
Well this is just natural. Most women....well we admire other attractive women. I will notice how a girl dresses, how she carries her self, how she interacts with other women.....I mean some girls are just SO DAMN ATTRACTIVE. It's pretty much natural I think? I mean my answer would be to say yes.....she's curious, but probably too tightly strung to do anything? The fear of rejection....how you will react....plus even for myself.....I'm really nervous how to make the first move with another girl? All my girlfriends....I mean the close cuddly ones....have made the first move? So......well.......it's damn simple with guys.......but I think with other girls it's more complicated? Give her encouragement......perhaps go and invite the girl over to chat. Say your wife really likes her outfit and wants to know where she bought it. Women love to talk about clothes together. This will get the ball rolling. Who knows.....hehe....have fun with her. Let your wife spread her wings. I'm sure she'll love you for it. You might even get a blow job.
Topic being shared
02 Aug 2015 20:28
Well I think this is a fantasy of pretty well every woman.....even if they refuse to admit it. From talking with my friends and my mom's friends....well women all all very sexual. Most of them are just too scared or insecure....or the opportunity just never comes around? It's sad actually we are all so repressed.
Topic Name something that you learned about yourself since joining Lush.
02 Aug 2015 20:25
Well I didn't really realise how important sex was to me......or even how sexual I was? Well I was a virgin......gosh it seems like forever ago? I've grown so much as a woman. My mom has been so amazing. I mean I'm so lucky. My dad moving out was incredibly hard, but I'm so proud of both of us looking back. We are both much stronger women now.
Topic Ladies - do you like your nipples pinched?
02 Aug 2015 20:22
OMG yes.....my nipples both love to come out to play. Knock knock....."Are Crissy's nipples home? Do they want to come out to play?" Mom looks about....calls out...."Crissy your friend is here, she wants to play with your nipples.".......giggling and yippppeeeee screaming ensues as little Crissy bolts out the door haha.
Topic Pillow talk
02 Aug 2015 20:20
Well if he (or she) has done her job I won't be talking for long haha. But I do love to cuddle and keep touching. It has occasionally turned into round three or four haha.....but usually it's just cuddling. IDK....you can talk about anything really. It's not important. It's just being held and that intimacy that's important. I think especially in a girl/girl relationship....well there is a lot of stigma and insecurity....body issues and sex issues....so it's like really important to float down from the hotness into a warm like lull and just be together as two women who care for each other. Sex can be like so hot that you just wonder...."did that just happen?"......"did she just make my body do all that?" and you need to collect your wits and calm down.....I love just cuddling.
Topic Is a 19 year old in a sexual relationship with a middle-aged man wrong?
02 Aug 2015 20:10
Well like a girl said above it's totally a society double standard for us girls. Hey my mom dates guys much younger and I know she gets like funny looks. But look she's in amazing shape, does yoga and she really likes how younger guys make her feel. It makes her happy and I say....hey whatever rocks your boat mom. At first I was uncomfortable and I was nervous what my Gf's would think....but actually they were totally down with it more than me. Jenny even got my mom to come clubbing with us....she was like totally cool with it and helped me get over my hangups. Now for me I've always been attracted to older guys? Whatever.....get over it. I mean not like slobs with guts....but guys who take care of themselves and have a lot to offer a girl. I know guys who are in their forties who look like they are like early thirties and plus their brain is active and they are doing interesting shit in their life. C'mon totally admit it girls a confident older guy who has a nice body, who smells amazing, picks you up in a nice car and never says a totally dumb-shit thing the whole evening? Well that's sorta nice right. Okay my two-cents girls. Whatever.....does it even make sense?
Topic sex while partially clothed
29 Jul 2015 20:12
Haha what a silly question. Gosh I mean sex happens when the two of you just get so horny you can't help it. Okay well I'm not gonna dish all the details, but that can happen in a lot of different places (stop giggling girls)....okay well in some of those places removing all the clothes and finding a big bed and stuff is just.....well sort of inconvenient haha.....so yup well you might just have sex anyways, right?
Topic Jeans or Skirt?
29 Jul 2015 20:09
Short skirts.....well I'm very short and petite haha. I love jeans too, but short skirts make me look taller and more feminine.
Topic Going topless in Canada it's Legal, but would you?
29 Jul 2015 20:08
Well I did it in France on a vacation. Well my mom did it with me. All the girls were doing it and we sort of stuck out with bikini tops on. I was pretty much a tennie bopper and flat haha, but it was scary and exciting all the same. All the girls there do it and it's totally natural. Here in the USA we are so hung up on sex. Sort of silly if you think about it.
Topic Breast orgasms
29 Jul 2015 20:05
Well as I have commented before my breasts are very efficient little things haha. They are small, but very very sensitive. I have come quite close to having an orgasm from just touching and petting, but not actually had one . I would love to try, but it seems I need some other stimulation to actually come. I do love attention on my breasts and a guy who knows how to slowly build me up and tease them might win the prize some day hehe.
Topic cheating and living with that
29 Jul 2015 20:02
Well thank god my mom has been my role model as a woman. I think if you are in an "exclusive" relationship then of course it is cheating. You need to be honest with each other. If you are sexually attracted to someone else then you need to be totally brave and own up....well it's hard of course. We are all human. So most of us don't do that, right.
I mean a lot of my girlfriends "think" they are exclusive, but they are young and curious and they totally stray when tempted. My mom was very stern with me. In no uncertain terms she told me not to get too serious too young. You need to date and try different guys and travel and stuff. Gosh don't live a lie. Well my mom always makes sure her dates understand that she "dates" and that they do not own her. I can totally understand that many girls feel clingy and insecure and are afraid to maybe lose a guy, but hey if you want to date other guys and try sex with different guys then be honest with your self too. Otherwise you will end up being unhappy too right? Anyways I've blabbed on too much haha.
Topic Does looking qualify as cheating?
06 Jul 2015 00:24
Well I mean sure....no it's not cheating....but gosh don't do it in front of me and ESPECIALLY don't ogle my friends. I did dump one guy for exactly this. He just couldn't stop looking? I mean c'mon? It's not like I was starving him of sex. Wait until I'm gone and then look okay. Geez. And absolutely no sexting or Skype okay? Seriously. Unless of course we do it together and have a laugh.
Topic Are you happy with your breast size?
06 Jul 2015 00:20
Well I'm pretty happy with them these days. Ryan has been lavishing praise on my little mounds so my ego is less fragile haha. In the past I have obsessed a bit over my petite stature and tiny boobs and ass. As I get older I find there are a ton of men who seem to obsess on girls like me.
Topic do you like cuddling after sex
06 Jul 2015 00:17
Of course I love cuddling I am a woman. The intimacy from cuddling and touching and talking is as important for most women as is intercourse. It's a shame guys don't get that.
Totally! Exactly. Plus if you cuddle who knows.....he might.....hehe.....get hard again and you can have round two I love it the second time when the guy has more control and can last longer. Cuddling and kissing is very important.
Topic Total stranger and a blindfold
05 Jul 2015 23:52
Well I would like to combine both A hot ripped stranger who ties me to the bed and blindfolds me. I mean what woman doesn't want that scenario? All of us I bet. Yeah I've been blindfolded a few times. I haven't let a guy tie me to the bed yet.....but I think I will with my new BF. I'm curious to try it and see if my orgasm is even bigger.
Topic Which virginity did you lose first
05 Jul 2015 23:51
Fumbled petting/hand job (he just spurted in seconds? not much of a hand job haha)/blowjob (gosh I think I was so terrible but Steve was so sweet)/Vagina intercourse/Anal (much later haha )
Yup just like that.
Topic when did you masturbate last?
05 Jul 2015 23:48
Haha I will be in about half an hour. Ryan is busy today and I have work to do for Monday. So yup.....vibrator time. Looking for just the right story to get me off
Topic The worst thing a guy has done on a date with u?
08 Jun 2015 01:20
Based on all these stories I guess I'm one of the lucky ones hehe. Well this was not so terrible....sort of cute actually. This guy really wanted to date me. I kept refusing him. Eventually Jenny convinced me to say "yes". Well he took me to a nice restaurant in San Jose. During the meal he kept wiping his forehead and he seemed a bit "out of it"? Anyways after the main course he threw up??? I'm like WTF?? Anyways later he explained and it turned out he was feeling really sick.....but he was afraid to cancel the date because he thought I wouldn't give him a second chance. So even though he was sick as a dog he dragged himself on the date because he was totally smitten with me. I had to laugh and give him another chance. I will say watching someone puke is not pretty though. All in all a memorable date haha.
Topic Whats your best place to find sexy and erotic clothing?
08 Jun 2015 01:13
Well I'm very petite so I love Shibuyasj in Cupertino. My mom likes Besos sometimes in Los Gatos. For the more expensive brands and good service we go to ELA in Menlo Park. Well mom and I explore a lot. We love to find new places to buy lingerie. If we go downtown we always look around.