Forum posts made by warlock

Topic Watching your partner have sex
Posted 11 Mar 2012 10:54

I think what surprises me the most about this thread are the variation of responses.. yes.. maybe.. no.. and.. OH HELL NO!! and the surprise is actually that it seems the no's and oh hell no's are the majority.. watching one's partner be pleasured by someone else as well as pleasure someone else is a very arousing experience.. almost orgasm by proxy.. of course you have to have the self-esteem and security of your relationship in order to truly enjoy it.. I'm not suggesting that it's everyone's cup of tea.. but I can tell you from experience that it can be powerful if the chemistry is there..

Topic So My Boyfriend Wants To Enter From Behind...
Posted 11 Mar 2012 09:39

Good anal play is learned and gradual.. it should happen over a period of sessions and not just the first time right out of the box.. literally.. tongue.. fingers.. beads.. plug.. vibrator.. and then cock.. it should be an anticipated pleasure for both of you.. and the best lube for anal is olive oil.. it slides easily.. and it's edible.. but always keep in mind it is the ultimate privilege you are offering him.. make him honor it..

Topic The Worst Thing That Has Been Said To You
Posted 08 Mar 2012 15:50

"Maybe this time I won't let you up. Drown you like a kitten nobody wants, you fucking worthless piece of shit"

my ex. we call him 'The Monster' for a reason. i don't share those words often, but i have never forgotten them and sometimes, when i'm at my lowest, the ring loud and clear in my head.

Those are words that should never ring loud and clear at any time.. burn them from your memory.. it was his loss.. not yours..

Topic The Worst Thing That Has Been Said To You
Posted 08 Mar 2012 15:47

"I love you.. but I'm not in love with you anymore." My wife told me that..

Topic ok, now, you tell us
Posted 08 Mar 2012 15:29

I don't think any of us want it all to be the same.. each of us has our 'style' and 'techniques' that we like to believe we have perfected over the years.. we had a saying in the Navy.. "There's no such thing as a bad fuck.. just some are better than others." If I could narrow it down I would say that passion and imagination are the keys to great sex.. variety.. pick up the pace.. slow it down.. eye contact.. whispers.. moans and quivers.. fantasy play.. everything else is just body parts.. I've had many great sexual experiences where I never even got my dobber in or reached orgasm for myself.. it was all about the pleasure I was giving and not so much about what I was getting.. but hey.. that's just me..

Topic Display Pic
Posted 08 Mar 2012 15:10

shh! don't ruin it for me! in my mind you will always be the hot guy with wings. no, NOT the guy with hot wings! that's a whole different image! :)

hahaha.. hot wings? maybe.. but I'm more of a sushi guy.. I love eating raw..

Topic Display Pic
Posted 08 Mar 2012 14:30

Apparently everyone else on Lush is smoking hot.. I chose my pic because I'm not.. from the avatars I always see.. everyone here is a 10 but me.. I guess I'll have to learn to write.. and just stay out of everyone's sight.. but if there's ever a knock on my door.. you'll get the wings and abs.. and a whole lot more..

Topic Ok ladies and gentemen I want to know...would you suck his cock RIGHT AFTER anal sex? And men would
Posted 08 Mar 2012 14:14

Hopefully there was a certain amount of preparation prior to sex.. and my tongue has already been there anyway.. so what's good enough for her mouth is good enough for mine..

Topic Display Pic
Posted 08 Mar 2012 11:13

Yes. It takes about 30 seconds to pick from one of the many uploaded images that Lush offers as avatar choices or you can upload any personalized image you want in even less time. To just have an impersonal generic avatar just seems... I dunno... lazy. No offence. Most people don't use their real pics as their avatars, so picking an image that represents you on some level will differentiate you in the sea of red/white zombies.

Perfect response..

Topic Is it ever O.K.??
Posted 07 Mar 2012 14:35

Yes.. there are people in this world who just need killin'.. anyone who hurts women, children or animals goes to the top of my list.. and some I'll just wound first before I kill 'em...

Topic Threesome question
Posted 07 Mar 2012 14:25

This is a good thread.. spme interesting viewpoints.. some will.. some won't.. some will for their mates.. some will for themselves.. a lot of 2 & a halfsomes really.. whether it's mfm or fmf or even fff.. the dynamics may change but the intent is the same.. it's about pleasure and exploration where the word 'NO' is never inappropriate.. I've had my fair share of mfm and fmf.. and I found that those 3somes which were planned and anticipated were far more rewarding than those that happened spontaneously.. one man's opinion.. 'try everything once.. some things more often'..

Topic Threesome question
Posted 06 Mar 2012 12:37

evil4 evil4

You did. That's why I never go back and forth on these things, because I'm talking to different people and it takes me about 20 minutes to form a rebuttal and miss about 10 posts! confused1

BTW, still NO cumming!!!

OUCH!!!!! Dang woman.. you are a hard task master.. lol

Topic Threesome question
Posted 06 Mar 2012 12:36

Some would be me. Yes, I would be more or less doing it, because it's on his list. I'm good with that. If I was not, then I wouldn't. But there are certain aspects of it I'm not comfortable with.

What if I was really interested in pegging my guy (if you're reading this, I swear I'm not), but he was totally against this? Then maybe just some good old fashioned prostate stimulation might be a nice wholesome compromise for us. evil4 Does it mean I pout and say "no anal" at all, because he won't let me fuck him in the ass (again, I swear I don't want to)?

These issues seem like things you should already be passed sexually.. I know if my mate said "Honey I'd like to 'peg' you tonight because it would arouse me" then her arousal is all that would matter to me.. I think we are saying almost the same thing.. I'm just letting my boundaries be a little more accommodating.. and by the way.. I don't mind being pegged by her at all.. lol

Topic Threesome question
Posted 06 Mar 2012 12:19

I disagree. I have no boundaries on oral, fucking, or anal, so there would be a bit more going on than show and tell time. 3some

I've heard of boundaries/rules being set for 3somes many times. I'm willing to push my boundaries (to a point) for my partner and hope that he's willing to compromise a bit for me, because he knows it's not something I necessarily desire. If he's not and it's something he really wants and only his way, then we're better off not together. If we've gotten to the point of planning a 3some, then he knows and is OK with what I'm comfortable with. You need to have a bit of compromise in all aspects of a relationship.

I've expressed myself a little more clearly in later posts.. not that it may change much.. but it did seem in your initial post that you were restricting your guy to some pretty rigid standards.. no cumming being foremost.. but rules are rules and if he is OK with that I am too.. as a man though.. let him have a drip or two.. lol...

Topic Threesome question
Posted 06 Mar 2012 12:13

I understand what you were getting at, I was more elaborating on the fact that there are likely to be some ground rules and that that's okay (which wasn't made entirely clear in your original post).

Well.. I am often accused of being unclear and somewhat evasive.. I stand convicted.. lol..

My original point was that if you over-think the whole 3some thing and start setting do's and don'ts and what ifs.. then the actual act becomes staged and unnatural.. each of us who are in relationships should already know our boundaries and should know what would be acceptable.. if my mate refused to do anal with me but let the 3some dude have his way then there might be a problem at some point.. I'm a guy so it wouldn't be a deal breaker but if everyone goes into the 3some being natural and flexible in limitations it would be a worthy experience..

Topic Threesome question
Posted 06 Mar 2012 11:57

I've been the 'third party' in the past and I'm ok with basic groundrules, but if they're too complicated or the girl has seemed like she's really only doing it to please her boyfriend and is generally paranoid, then I've declined (I've declined way more often than I have gone for it, actually).

If the rules are "no kissing, no penetration, don't look at my man, he can't cum anywhere near you blah blah", then I'll definitely take a pass. It's not fun for me if I have to second-guess everything I want to do in the moment or if I'm mainly there to spectate or have a minor role while they enjoy all the fun.

lol.. well said..

Topic Threesome question
Posted 06 Mar 2012 11:56

Everyone has things they're not comfortable with. Some girls aren't into anal, for instance, should this girl not 'bother' to have sex because she's setting a rule for her partner? Think

There's nothing wrong with having boundaries if everyone agrees on them.

I was referring to basic sexual conduct as opposed to the more "privileged acts" that may or may not happen.. from my reading it seemed that some were doing a 3some to satisfy their mates desires and not so much for their own.. all I was saying is that perhaps that may not be the best way to approach letting someone new in your bed.. rules and communication are always good.. and so are boundaries.. but if the acts in your 3some are restricted to just a small percentage of the things you and your partner traditionally enjoy together.. then it's just a 3some lite? (my attempt at humor)..

Topic Position?
Posted 06 Mar 2012 11:43

on her back.. hips all the way to the end of the bed.. knees pressed back to her chest and spread.. my feet planted on the floor.. and driving my entire weight into her for full penetration..

Topic Threesome question
Posted 06 Mar 2012 11:36

As a man I wouldn't be totally comfortable or 'into' a sexual situation where one or more of the individuals wasn't fully committed to the activity.. a lot of members here have restricted touching, cumming, partners, etc... it's a 3some.. it involves more than just getting naked.. otherwise why bother.. I'm just sayin'..

Topic Waking up to a blow job - yay or nay?
Posted 03 Mar 2012 16:07

Is this a trick question?

Topic Nickname
Posted 03 Mar 2012 15:55

Do you still call yours the twins and the evil empire Kat? lol..

Topic Your Screen Name
Posted 03 Mar 2012 15:51

My real name is Omar Dipshit Fuckowski.. but it was already taken.. so I had to settle for Warlock..

Topic Would you lick her pussy after you came in?
Posted 03 Mar 2012 13:50

Oh hell yes...