The only way I can write a believable story is to take bits and pieces from my own life. I've had some small, yet memorable experiences with sex. I know what I like. Some of my characters are based upon people that I know. I spend a lot of time romanticizing these people, so they may be a bit far off from what they really are.The day that I grow up - whenever the hell that's gonna be - I want to be a writer. My stories are pretty heavily influenced by things that I care a lot about, but they're all going to end up somewhere that's pretty far off from the actual truth.I want to expand on the woefully small list of things that I'm comfortable with. I'm doing that by plunging my complaining ass into all of my interests. Lush is a treasured part of that, and I'm planning a number of stories that all go outside of my comfort zone.
If you're talking about the actual physical sensations that go along with giving a blowjob... no, I don't like it all that much. I don't really get anything out of it, but I'm turned on all to hell when he's turned on, so it sort of works out for both of us when I give them.Yeah, I know it was an 'Ask the Gals' question, but I give blowjobs too sometimes!
I recently saw one of my favourite sci-fi actresses, Tatiana Maslany, portray a pre-op transgendered man. I know that Tatiana isn't actually a trans man, but what the hell else can I say? This boy was hawwwwt. The pool of men and women that I'm willing to put myself out there and date has always been kinda small, but there's no real reason for me to be against the idea of dating someone who is transgendered. Just be aware that if you have a vagina... you might need to give me some directions on what to do with it. I make no promises in that department.
Anal is just like any other kind of non-vanilla sex. It's got some heavy fetish appeal... it's an act requiring a certain amount of intimacy and trust to do it properly... it's something that you can never do for yourself, which makes it pretty special to have now and then.Anal also has the unhappy position of being that one non-vanilla thing that's almost commonly considered to be normal. If you really stop to think about it, it's kinda fucking bizzare. Yet, you can ask for it as often as you want without feeling like a creep or a weirdo. Can you imagine how it would be if fisting was the thing? Or electro-play?
My answer is yes... most of the time.I'm also Canadian, so naked-at-home is not always the most comfortable option. I like being warm a lot better.
The question of 'who cums first' really depends on who's taken the lead, doesn't it?If I'm in charge, it's a policy of mine to try to ensure that her orgasm comes first. If she's in charge... well, it's still her pleasure, even if it's not necessarily her orgasm.
I understand what you mean. When you come out as gay you feel that there's no going back! It's a BIG thing mentally to come out as being gay and it's so easy to stay that way.I think a lot of gay guys are like you. Bisexual, but nearer the gay side. My friend is the same but has always kept his bi side open. Self-identification isn't really my issue. I'm pretty comfortable with my feelings, but having to come out twice is pretty much the worst.Also, I love how you said "the gay side" like it was synonymous with "the dark side". Does the gay side have snacks? I could go gay if you have snacks.
I have a bit of a love-hate relationship with porn. It's pretty good when you find the right clip, but there is a lot out there that just doesn't make the cut. My favorite clips are so overused that they don't really do it for me any more.Imagination is just a lot more variable. You can tune in to exactly what might turn you on and just go with it from there. So... I went with erotica, because that's the forum that I usually use to play out my imagination. I've learned to type one-handed by now.
I've been having some problems like this very recently. I've been crushing on a girl who only knows me as a gay man. I've got all of those usual anxieties about crushing on someone who might not feel the same way... Long story short, she's been a friend for a very long time and I don't want to lose that for the sake of a relationship that probably won't work... blah blah blah, my problem.I still have to out myself as a bisexual man to her. It's never been very important to me that people know, but I really hate being misunderstood. When I outed myself as a gay man, it was because I really thought that that's what I was. Now... I have to do it again. Shit.I know how to take it slow when it comes to my own feelings, but I find it difficult to act on them because I hate being misunderstood so much. I don't know where that puts me in relation to your article... but I've often felt perfectly comfortable liking who I like.
I suppose it would have to do with a guy's preference. For some, the visual thing is a big turn on. For me, the preference is to do it with a partner, rather than on a partner.Porn is like a surrealist show. There's not a lot of real pleasure in those money shots.
Right on the hotel room floor, because that's what freedom feels like!
I need to be honest with you. It was never my intention to scare Kieran away from me as completely as I had. It was actually just the opposite. I had wanted to bring him closer, not alienate him. For weeks following the demonstration, there was nothing but silence coming from Kieran's apartment. He spent most of his time away from home, and I had no idea where he went. There was...
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Kieran was true to his word. For two months following our little encounter in the restroom, I heard no mention of the Aneros toy. In fact, I didn't hear much of anything from him. Our contact at the dojo became perfunctory. There was always something in his countenance that seemed... forced. I began to worry that he was avoiding me. Apparently, it was a matter of chance that we missed...
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When I saw the package sticking out of the mailbox, I groaned aloud. I had been traveling for the past week on business; I was tired, sore, and desperate for a good night's sleep. It looked like I wasn't going to get it. Work had obviously caught up with me. Rubbing the sleep out of my eyes, I strode over to the mailbox and ripped open the package. I gave only a cursory glance at the name...
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To my pleasure, I found that the beast furs were comfortable and soft beneath my body. The fire I had prepared crackled merrily in the hearth, filling the bedchamber with warmth and illumination. My hands lovingly caressed the folds between my thighs, teasing the wetness and sensitivity from my lips. The feeling of soft fur against my bared skin tickled that pleasure, compounding upon the heat...
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