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A drifter… Looking to explore…. Find the sources of dreams, fantasies and nightmares… Seeking peace in self and with others. An asker of questions; provoker of thought; instigator of confusion with realization of inner self.

I visit here to read.... chat.... to learn.

Some come to visit for a while.... others say they will, but don't... some close themselves, like flowers in the evening, as if to protect them self... yet others deny their own fantasy.... but all are here for what draws us all.... filling the gaps that exist between real life and the freedom to be fully, ourselves! Catch me when you can... venture where you dare... be truthful if it scares you!


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Topic: People of Walmart
Posted: 12 Jan 2018 23:49


Topic: Over or Under?
Posted: 13 Dec 2017 22:04

The argument has lived on for ever..... while I personally don't care, that attitude results in about a 50-50 chance of a bicker-fest over how I messed up, putting on a new roll. I then started simply getting a new roll out as need developed, use what I needed and leave it in a handy place within arm's length to let housemate address the "correct" installation. That too, was declared "unacceptable and lazy".
My next counter protest gesture was to "leave it empty. You guessed.... unacceptable.....
So now... as the roll nears the 1/4th Mark, I reach into closet, getting a new roll.... use from it and then hide it under sink vanity, (within reach), using from that roll, until the "appropriately installed roll" gets used up by others and replaced.
No more arguments... no more blame, and plausible denial.....<img src="/images/emoticons/eusa_shhh.gif" alt="Shhh"> <img src="/images/emoticons/eusa_shhh.gif" alt="Shhh"> <img src="/images/emoticons/eusa_shhh.gif" alt="Shhh">

Topic: Putting Black Men in the Narrative.
Posted: 10 Dec 2017 09:15

Some of the easiest to find and more reflective, is poetry. Some great creative minds have worried in that area. Even start with Song lyrics.... wide open, easy to access and reasonably short for small group work.

Careful in your efforts to "pick out" what you think they want or should read in considering where they are or come from. I tend to resent that greatly, when others "don't know me".

Topic: Boy Scouts Allow Girls to Join, Girl Scouts Backlash
Posted: 13 Oct 2017 05:44

BSA has for a long time, included girls in their Explorer Scouts program and allowed rank there, starting at age 15.. Co-ed program. This doesn't surprise me in many ways. There will surely be ripples... I watch many years the ripples of women becoming leaders... let's see the new rules of "two deep" leadership, with say, two male leaders going camp out and the add in one girl... let alone the 15 or so teen boys.....
Hate to say, but having provided E-Scout oversight on District co-ed weekend gatherings, the measure of success was no parental phone calls within the next 9 months.
We'll see the rumors fly over who sleeping with who..... as happened with female leaders joining their male peers... how many wives pulled husbands and sons out of troops on "trash talk", alone.

Topic: Self Pleasuring
Posted: 08 Oct 2017 05:57


Topic: Employers now will be able to deny contraception coverage for employees
Posted: 07 Oct 2017 20:45

When did it become mandatory that an employer provide health insurance at all? Isn't it still looked at as a "benefits package" along with things like bonus, vacations, paid holidays? And aren't there still jobs out there that offer no such compensation s for your time and energy? So, then how is it so difficult to understand that an employer can offer the "benefits package they choose? As long as each employee in the same work class is treated equally within the same organization? And if an employee or for that matter, potential employee does not feel valid by their offer, they can go elsewhere.....
Just like some people choose not to work for Burger King, but will take a job at Wal-Mart....

If I as an employer can't get quality persons to do the work I have available, then I as an employer, might need to add to either the pay or the "benefits packet.... Isn't that how it works????

If I'm correct then, as an employer I could say "free lunch" on Fridays but buy your own pills.... anyone want a job?
Edit <img src="/images/emoticons/dontknow.gif" alt="dontknow"> <img src="/images/emoticons/dontknow.gif" alt="dontknow"> <img src="/images/emoticons/dontknow.gif" alt="dontknow"> <img src="/images/emoticons/dontknow.gif" alt="dontknow"> didn't realise I was agreeing with Bethany.... lol

Topic: Masterbating wife
Posted: 07 Oct 2017 20:21

If it's a bit too much to pitch in and help her, simple arrange yourself to enjoy the view and slowly start masturbating, yourself.... An alternative too, is start yourself, letting her know it's o.k. to be open about masturbation. Keep your mouth shut until she makes a statement or question.... then only refer back you how horny you are thinking of her enjoying herself... if she started first, again relate only to how horny you got thinking of watching her pleasure....

Topic: The Donald Vs The Cap
Posted: 30 Sep 2017 20:18

I so love hearing from Americans who keep telling us all how Canadian health care works.....

If I seriously have to explain this one more time, I will have to write an entire thread about it so as to enlighten all you ignorant asses.

I'll try to my best in 7 sentences or less.

Canadian health care is free, in that if you have a health issue you will be covered. You will never suffer or die because of a lack of health insurance. If you have a non life-threatening health issue...then you probably will wait longer to get that addressed. If you have private insurance or the money then you can get these non-essential issues dealt with(the same as in the US.) The worst case scenario is that you will wait 3 months for a knee MRI. Or 6 months to get the carpal tunnel surgery you need. Although that is an issue in my profession, its a small price to pay for universal health care when it comes to people getting treatment for cancer, infectious diseases, or pretty much anything that is life threatening or life affecting. PS drugs are also wayyyy more affordable in Canada.

Now that was 7 sentences. And I invite you idiots out there to please, please debate me on this...because I am just waiting for a stupid bomb to drop so I can annihilate you on this subject.

All I can suggest that if you are going to talk shit about health care, maybe do your fucking research so you don't embarrass yourself in the future.

Yep.... By golly, that sounds all correct..... but you see, here in the U.S., there is the law that you get all the life saving health care you need.... before you are even asked for insurance.... they are mandated to take you in and keep you alive.... and if you truly lack insurance, all they can do is send you a bill. 80 percent never pay...and walk away...
And the tax payers, just like the tax payers in Canada, pay the bill. And if you have Medicaid, you'll get near anything you "need done", taken care of, asap, again at the tax player's experience.... all your meds for a few dollars a bottle, which is again, paid for by those with jobs and private insurance, simply by charging the later group the higher prices. So reAlly near all the same.... Taxes pay the bills..... I work full time.... employer supported insurance that can be viewed as a trade off to getting higher wages .... so either way I work for my insurance coverage... meds cost me $5 per script and a pay $20 to see my doc.. all emergent care is at near $0 cost if I Legitimately needed to be hospitalized....and through the greatness of tax plan, I support healthcare for those not able or who chose not to.

Guess, in reality... it's near the same.... other then who do the doctors work for?

Topic: The Donald Vs The Cap
Posted: 28 Sep 2017 20:48

Umm.... no. It's amazing how so much incorrectness can be crammed into a single sentence.



oh.... wasn't aware they got it all fixed up..... what? Though those computer ex-berts did come on down to hook up the enrollment process over the OP....

Then too..... "fake news" comes in many shades of gray..... Huffy-Post could be wrong too....lol

Topic: The Donald Vs The Cap
Posted: 27 Sep 2017 20:22

Once again you provide nothing to the conversation at hand.

Honestly .... a little bantering "on point, on time" makes the Think Tank enjoyable .... five months later does not.

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Thank you in advance if you happen to have caught my previous post.....

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Dreams come slow tonight I lay here thinking of the times we had... could have had... should have had... But my tears sting with the sadness that I messed all of that up Feeling the emptiness deep inside knowing you will never share with me again Yes, dreams come slow the pain filling each cell of my brain explosions of rage fear of being alone of not finding peace within...

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