About Youhavemale


Hi, I am a normal guy interested in writing and meeting and talking to people on here about writing. I am not one to go straight into cyber...I do need to have a conversation, and know someone, before anything like that.

Carlo Postano
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Oxfordshire, United Kingdom
Writing, reading, tennis, soccer, sex :)
Favorite Books:
The Road, Atonement, Birdsong, The Death of Bunny Munro, One Hundred Years of Solitude, Trainspotting
Favorite Authors:
Cormac McCarthy, Ian McEwan, Sebastian Faulks, Irvine Welsh, Anais Nin, CJ Sansom, Chuck Palahniuk, Nick Cave.
Favorite Movies:
Coen Brothers movies & Citizen Kane, West Side Story, East of Eden, True Romance, Pulp Fiction, Inglorious Basterds, The Godfather, On the Waterfront, The Road, No Country for Old Men
Favorite Music:
Many and varied....


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Topic: Have you ever had the urge to send your worn panties to someone?
Posted: 12 Mar 2011 14:15

I like the idea of a silent auction where the women of Lush donate a pair of panties and the proceeds go to a charity.
I'd donate a pair to raise money for a good cause. <img src="/images/emoticons/icon_smile.gif" alt="icon_smile">

The Japanese could certainly use a little help right now...

A tsunami of arousal could be arranged to help those in need. <img src="/images/emoticons/icon_smile.gif" alt="icon_smile">

Dancing doll....I think I would be first in the queue for a pair of yours. What a wonderful idea...perhaps someone should recommend this to the Lush team!

Topic: Club Zafia....
Posted: 06 Mar 2011 18:30


Unfortunately the acoustic version of the song that normally accompanies this song has embedded disabled.

However, a great film "Ils se marièrent et eurent beaucoup d'enfants" (...And They Lived Happily Ever After) with
Johnny Depp and Charlotte Gainsbourg...

Ever felt that moment??? :)

Topic: Is it me or are most girls on this forum Bi sexual??
Posted: 06 Mar 2011 09:05

I think some bisexual or bi-curious girls aren't able to find the right kind of environment to act on their desires in real life, so the internet offers them a safe outlet to explore these feelings, which is why they might be more interested in "only talking to girls" on here.

But as mentioned by someone else, there are definitely some guys posing as bisexual "girls only" types in order to chat with women online, so people should just be aware and make their own judgment calls on that.

Personally, I've had some sexual experiences with girls, but I'm basically straight (unless I'm drunk). <img src="/images/emoticons/icon_smile.gif" alt="icon_smile">

I actually believe there are a very high percentage of bi-sexual girl profiles on here, where in fact they are really men posing as girls.
For the genuine bi-sexual girls who want to experiment, good for you, but be careful of some of the fake profiles.
I could well be a bisexual girl using a male profile to attract straight girls....but then...I am not :P

Topic: fake picture on lush
Posted: 27 Feb 2011 16:35

This is a really interesting topic...and well done to Dancing Doll for showing her lovely face :)
I for one could never reveal me in a photograph on here as I do have a career to protect....and as someone did say, it does not help having your whole village realise what you do in your personal life.

The only thing that has ever annoyed me is when someone has posted photos of a person, not a model, but obviously taken the photos from Facebook or some other media and then claimed the image is of themselves.

I often think this when I see young girls who freely show off their bodies as well as their faces, if they are being niave or just plain frauds.
Often these same people will state in a PM that they are the person in the photo, when they are not.
This is my only gripe really.

If you post a photo, if asked be honest enough to say whether it is you or not.
Also, it really is not morally right (not that I am one for taking a moral high ground too often) to post photos of innocent people, showing their faces and bodies when they are not aware that this is happening.

I can say and always do say that my Av is not me...it is an erotic photo ..and I would never claim it is me.

Whenever I get to know and trust someone it is a different matter - and they then will know me.

But thanks for starting this discussion...

I would have to say that generally there are many bi-sexual girls on here who post very erotic photographs including their faces and stating they only wish to talk to girls. It often crosses my mind how many of these are really men trying to hoodwink innocent girls.
Does anyone else get that uncomfortable feeling when they see such profiles?
I have no problem at all with a girl saying she wants to speak to girls only.....but then I do check out how genuine I believe the profile to be.

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