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I am Master J from Texas. I enjoy writing erotica very much though I'm not finding as much time here lately to indulge. I'm very into BDSM obviously and love to talk with submissive women, so write me. Inspire me and maybe I'll write a story just for you. I am also open to the idea of an online slave, sub, Kitten, Baby Girl,etc if I meet the right woman. My stories run from quite romantic (The Dream) to raw and sadistic (The Hoist) so let me know if one or more really grab your attention.

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Topic: Have you ever?
Posted: 08 Apr 2019 07:32

To Masters/Doms and Slaves/subs alike, have you ever met someone out in public and you immediately knew they were either a dominant or submissive? I was at the park, walking my dog over the weekend when 3 college aged girls came over to pet her. I let my dog off the leash and gave one of the girls her frisbee and two of the girls started playing with her while the 3rd girl stayed to talk to me. She was wearing a plastic choker which is often a give away but she kept looking me in the eyes for a split second before dropping her gaze. But every time we made eye contact her whole body put off a palpable energy of connection between us and she would immediately look away. I asked her name, Dawn, and asked for her phone and put my number in it when she readily gave it to me. She started texting me later that night and we are going to have lunch together today to get to know one another. I have not brought up the Dom/sub topic but I did make a joke about her seeing me walking my dog and wishing she was wearing the collar and leash and walking beside me and her answer was "maybe..."

Topic: Sex bucket list whats yours
Posted: 03 Apr 2019 11:46

As a Master I would love to enjoy two well-trained female slaves at once for at least 2 or 3 days...

Topic: BDSM dating sites
Posted: 01 Apr 2019 10:58

I had luck on Fetlife in the past.

Topic: Introduction into the lifestyle
Posted: 01 Apr 2019 10:55

Being the Master, a dominate, is something I fought against for most of my life. I always knew I craved taking complete control in the bedroom and having my way completely but I always thought it was wrong to feel that way. I kept that part of me chained deep inside myself because I was afraid to let it out. That doing so would make me a bad person. But then I met my first sub, Lacey. I met her through Seeking Arrangement. We never discussed anything about her being a sub and I didn't know she was. But from the very first time we were together she just naturally brought out my inner Master. I'm a very passionate man and I can really pickup on a person's energy and somewhat intuitively know what they feel. I've always been a good lover because of this because I read a woman's body after I've gotten to know her and know what it needs. Lacey was the first true submissive I had ever been with and without ever saying a word about it I could literally feel the need in her to be taken and controlled and used. And as I did those things for her I simply became the Master. When she finally broke through those chains and I unleashed my inner Master I finally, for the first time in my life, felt totally and completely sexually fulfilled. It came so natural from then on. So we spent about 6 months with her as my submissive. She wore a black silk choker everyday as a reminder that she was mine.

In her particular case she really needed a full time Master even though we only saw each other about once a week. We texted every day I would give her tasks to do such as edging (rubbing herself until she almost came but stopping short) and "slapping" her pussy 10 times every hour that day. She had to always refer to me as Master and always be formal even in text. She was really bad about being late and she received a good many spankings for that! I quickly accumulated a number of paddling/whipping tools such as a leather riding crop, a rattan cane, a suede flogger, a wooden paddle and a cat of nine-tails. She very much loved pain because it made her cum all the harder so I think she would make sure to earn punishments every time she visited. She was very much into bondage as well and I acquired a nice set of gear and every time she visited I came up with a new way to restrainer her. Even suspending her by wrist cuffs. That was one hell of a night.

I actually wrote a contract which we both sign stipulating the terms of our arrangement. It outlined both our hard limits (no feces play, no bloodletting), defined the submissive's role as well as my responsibilities. It also defined the safe words. I use a 2 word system. Yellow for "I"m getting close to a boundary here" and Red for "STOP STOP STOP". I still have a copy of it in my safe. And so she became my "Kitten". For her the Kitten phase was a training phase. I defined specific physical capabilities she must possess as well as attitudes. When she met these requirements she would get promoted to Princess. As my Kitten she was only allowed to spend time with me in a hotel room or in my bedroom. I never took her out in public. She could only accompany me out in public after she became my Princess. Had she made it we were going to celebrate by going to a swinger’s club in Dallas. Unfortunately, it came to an end before she became Princess.

I'm married now and my wife isn't a true submissive, but her body is mine to do with as I please and the love we share makes the sex we have the most amazing, more than I could ever have imagined. I wouldn't have been able to let myself go with her had I not unleashed my inner Master.

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Nice To Meet You Taylor

I went out to lunch yesterday and sat at the bar at my local pub. I'm in there a few afternoons a week and have been for years.  It is a mostly local, men-in-their-forties kind of place staffed with waitresses and bartenders from the local university.  About four years ago I decided it was time for me to fuck a certain waitress there.  She was twenty and on the dance team.  Five-foot-nothin'...

Added 05 Apr 2019 | Category BDSM | Votes 6 | Avg Score 5 | Views 1,405 | 3 Comments

Master And Kitten Go To The Mall

Master: We are at the mall, shopping. We are walking through a department store, in the kitchen wares section when I pick up a long, wooden-handled spatula without you knowing. I direct us to the clothing section and, grabbing a shirt from a rack, we head into a dressing room. We enter, and I turn and lock the door. Turning back around, I grab you around the throat and pull your mouth to...

Added 09 Oct 2018 | Category BDSM | Votes 2 | Avg Score 5 | Views 5,931

Kitten's Punishment

You have earned a serious punishment by flirting with another man in my presence.  So here you are, on your knees beside my bed. Your wrists are bound behind your back and the severe leather collar is around your neck. It is tall and holds your head completely upright. Your ankles are tied to hooks on the floor. They allow you to stand but not move your feet.  You have been here for a...

Added 06 Oct 2018 | Category BDSM | Votes 5 | Avg Score 4 | Views 6,859 | 2 Comments

The Gift - Part 1

I had a birthday recently and my wife gave me the greatest gift.  When I met my wife several years ago I was a few months removed from my first Master/slave relationship.  It was a very rewarding experience for me, an experience that helped me take the last step I needed into the transcendant man I am today.  While I greatly enjoyed the experience, I also discovered that I did not desire a...

Added 21 Sep 2018 | Category BDSM | Votes 3 | Avg Score 4.67 | Views 4,326 | 1 Comment

Tina texts me back

It is Friday afternoon, the day after I met Callie and Tina, when I receive a text message from Tina.  Below is the transcript, minus the emoticons... Tina: Hey sexy, watcha doin?  Me: Chilling on the deck with a blunt and some Bourbon.  How about you? Tina:  Thinking about you and rubbing my pussy.  I can still feel your mouth on me.  OMG I didn't know I could cum so much! Me:  Mmmmmmm...

Added 20 Sep 2018 | Category BDSM | Votes 3 | Avg Score 5 | Views 3,356 | 1 Comment

Good Thing I Stopped In For Coffee

I had a meeting this morning.  It ended mid-morning and, not ready to head home, I stopped by a local coffee shop.  I grabbed a cup of coffee, planning to spend some time reading before heading to lunch.  This coffee shop has very uncomfortable seating except for a couch and two leather chairs situated around a coffee table.  After getting my coffee I headed to the other side of the cafe...

Added 07 Sep 2018 | Category Threesomes | Votes 11 | Avg Score 5 | Views 10,324 | 2 Comments


He sighed as he looked at his watch for the thousandth time that morning.  It had only been forty-three seconds since the last time he checked.  It seemed the entire world slowed as the minutes ticked closer and closer to 9 am.  Yes, he had only made these plans a week before, but the chance to experience his ultimate fantasy of being with two beautiful women at the same time was something...

Added 23 Aug 2018 | Category Threesomes | Votes 7 | Avg Score 4.86 | Views 8,352 | 5 Comments

The Visit

For the twentieth time in the last half hour, he looked down at his watch.  It was finally getting close to time for her to show up which was good because he didn't think he could stand it much longer.  After many months of chatting online, they were finally going to get to meet! He had flown in the night before and gotten a hotel room one city away from where she lived.  She had agreed to...

Added 08 Jul 2018 | Category Hardcore | Votes 11 | Avg Score 4.82 | Views 19,272 | 3 Comments

The Hoist

The hoist allows me to raise you, facing downward, 5 feet in the air, spin you 360 degrees and even to tilt you front and back. So, I can put you in any position I need. You are strapped up as tight as a straight jacket with your legs spread wide, lower legs bent and strapped tightly to your upper legs, arms folded up the same way. This makes you available for many uses. First, you are...

Added 16 Jun 2018 | Category BDSM | Votes 2 | Avg Score 5 | Views 8,038 | 1 Comment

The Dream

Once again the thunder boomed.  The lightning was so close that the windows rattled.  She loved these spring thunderstorms in Texas though and just snuggled a bit deeper into the couch while sipping her hot tea.   What had started as a lazy Sunday morning turned into a stormy Sunday afternoon home alone.  When the lights went out she had lit a number of candles and decided to enjoy a...

Added 15 Jun 2018 | Category Seduction | Votes 3 | Avg Score 4.67 | Views 4,118 | 2 Comments

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