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How long should a blowjob last?

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I have noticed that it depends not only on the situationist, but also the guy. Some guys can last longer then others.
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It depends. It should last as long as it takes! No one should give up! I mean really! "Do unto others" kinda thing there as I would want them to do unto moi. It does depend on if they have already had sex in the last hours/day, how long it has been between... and how good and how horny, but I would say 1 minute to a few minutes -not much more... so not that long really. I think it has been 15-20 minutes tops but I don't realy know, maybe less. Really who is counting??
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Depends on whether or not the blowjob is the appetizer or the entree.

If it's the opening act, then long enough to tease him and get him ready for...other things. If it's the finale or the main event, then until he cums.

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If she looses interest or is not libger turned on itss waaaaay to long.
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I have never had a woman suck me until I cum (not real happy about this) as much as I do enjoy a BJ, Know one has ever made me cum from one. It would be a never ending BJ to make me cum.
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Quote by sprite


i thought i was harsh only giving him 60 seconds! *giggles*



I would be impressed to see any woman make a man cum in 60 sec.
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If it takes more than 3 minutes my jaw starts to ache.
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It can't go on all night but I would hope until he cums.
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Quote by Nikki703
About as long as his attention span when I am telling him about my feelings!!


I am a strange guy I guess. When a woman talks to me, I listen so it could take days before she even starts. It is hard to be intelligible with your mouth full, I've tried while eating a hamburger, so if she stops now and again to talk that's OK with me.

It should take as long as it takes. As long as both are enjoying it there is no time limit. If I take to long and she stops for something else, great, her choice because the key phrase was "...both are enjoying..." I adore women.
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if she uses only her lips, about 5 min. also it depends it i am hard at the beginng
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As long as it takes for him to cum when he's licking my pussy and I haven't cum in a certain period of time I don't say times up he'll stay down there until I've cum a few times so if I have to suck him longer than whatever normal is so be it.
Cryptic Vigilante
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About half the time a handjob lasts.
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until he blows a load on my face
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It lasts as long as I wish it to last, I love having the control over his orgasms.
I enjoy bringing him to edge and then letting it subside before bringing to edge again. This could go on for hours before I say "Cum for me" ;)
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until he tells me to stop and cums where he wants
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Quote by HeraTeleia
As long as it takes for him to either a) be right at the edge, at which point you move on to other things or b) explode deep in your throat.




Couldn't agree more!
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I think it depends on both of you. I've done it as long as an hour because that's what he needed. I love to do it, so half an hour minimum gives me plenty of time to enjoy it myself. If he wants it to last longer, we can. If circumstances require we do it fast and dirty, we can. As long as he's hard and enjoying it, I don't ever feel there is a minimum or maximum time. But then again I love to play so your mileage may vary.
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Quote by doctorlove



I would be impressed to see any woman make a man cum in 60 sec.
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Ha ha no you wouldn't. My first husband took anywhere from 30 seconds to a minute---for ANYTHING. I thought I was so good at oral b/c I could get him off practically by looking at it. Rude awakening when I found out it wasn't that easy for most LOL
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My grandpa's was 72 years.y6AcHI8IVH2nSNyC
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Well through practice I have learned to prolong it pretty long. I pay a lot of attention to how the guy is responding and if he gets close I slow down or stop altogether until he calms down. Most guys tell me they like it to last a long time. I try to go really slowly and build him up. I tease his thighs and around his sack.....just very lightly with my nails. Most guys squirm at that. I will go very softly until he can't take it anymore and then when he finally comes I will suck harder and swirl my tongue on the underside. Guys tell me that spot is very sensitive and it drives them crazy. Anyways I think I'm pretty good now...
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Until he cums thats how long it lasts for me when I give a blow job
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Quote by Milik_Redman
Really good head isn't just about getting a man to cum. It's about drawing it out of him slowly. Making him use every bit of his self control to resist for as long as possible. A really goob blowjob done by someone who loves doing it can last quite awhile.

The same goes for giving head to a women. It should be pleasant torture, not quick release.


Well said. This was something I learned as I got more experience and realized how much I liked giving head. It shouldn't feel like a chore for the giver pr rushed for the receiver. (and it shouldn't be boring for either) It's like french kissing a cock. The kiss ends when it's time to move on to arousing the next body part.
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THIS!

Quote by gunshopgirl
I think it depends on both of you. I've done it as long as an hour because that's what he needed. I love to do it, so half an hour minimum gives me plenty of time to enjoy it myself. If he wants it to last longer, we can. If circumstances require we do it fast and dirty, we can. As long as he's hard and enjoying it, I don't ever feel there is a minimum or maximum time. But then again I love to play so your mileage may vary.





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It really depends. Sometimes I want him to cum in my mouth. Maybe it's just a quick tease before work. Maybe we're moving from oral to fucking. There's any number of choices. I personally love to give blowjobs to completion, and I don't mind if he's quick or takes a while. I very rarely want the pure experience of a blowjob to exceed about a half hour, but I'll hold on til he's done, or at least get him off by more efficient means.
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As long as it takes for him to cum but its more than just having it in your mouth
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Depends really so I will say ... it lasts until he cums down my throat or until he pulls me up to fuck me
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Depends, is it a blowjob for him to cum? Then until he cums.
Is it a bj as foreplay, then right Up until I want him inside me in a different hole.
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Depends on the circumstances....from five to ten minutes to an hour but definitely long enough to get off.