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Do guys really imagine having sex with all of their female friends?

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Quote by padfootthegreat
Do guys really imagine having sex with all of their female friends, or do they just fantasize about the ones they find attractive?


Do we IMAGINE it..?.. Yes. Every single one has appeared naked in our heads and we've imagined sex.

...but then you mixed it up with FANTASIZE... I wouldn't say that we go that far with all of our female friends.
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The same question in the same language was up here a few weeks ago. Are these real or automated?
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And the answer is the same. No. Only some.
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Sexual awareness of female friends comes into play eventually. You're erotically aware of her on some level. Maybe you might have female friends to whom you're just not attracted, but you will wonder about it. But very often, yes, speaking for myself, I often think of sex with female friends and co-workers.
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Yes, I believe they do.
After chatting and getting to know their friends I think it is a natural progression.
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No some of my friends, are just friends but there are exceptions !!!
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Of course! I have privately lusted after one of my wife's friends for 25 years, her ex was my best man. She has been divorced now for 5 years. Last weekend I had to give her a lift home, we sat in the car out front of her house chatting comfortably for ten minutes and then it was time for me to leave. She always gives me a peck on the cheek, hello goodbye, but that night there was a really awkward few moments beforehand. I know that she wanted more and i definitely did but it didn't progress as we both hesitated. Now I know she would I will be grooming and if and when the situation happens again I plan to explore her body as I always have wanted to!
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Certinaly not me, my 2 best friends are chicks.. Not even thought about it.
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Not all of them. Ok, yes, all of them. ;) I like to imagine what they would look like when they climax. I also cant help but wonder how their boobs would feel.
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If she's a "friend" then that means I like her and have probably thought about what it would be like to have sex with her. That's true regardless of whether she's hot or not.
On the other hand, if she's someone that I don't like, I'm not interested even if she looks hot.
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I know this is a guy question, but the husband of a couple of my friends over the years have flirted pretty overtly with me. My husband tells me when his friends think I'm hot, and one friend of his has made it clear what he'd like to do to me.zNoGSSmvdOKJIoz5 As far as my male friends and colleagues, I don't go there. Maybe because they aren't attractive to me.
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No i do not. I still have women, lady friends that i do not consider available or even want to have sex with. There are others that yes i will agree i would not hesitate. There are boundaries that i will not cross.
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It also has nothing to do if i find them attractive or not.
I did have a thing with a girlfriend one time, she married someone else. I still find her extremely attractive, but i would never even think of trying to do anything with her now.
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Quote by Kal-El85
Hey, I'll be honest and most guys fantasize (even if it's a fleeting fantasy) about a female friend. Also whether they're attractive can play a part in it, but sometimes relationships with female friends can be special that they overcome the thoughts of a carnal connection in the male mind.


It is always more meaningful if that attractive female is one that is not stuck on herself and is someone you can relate with. That ability make her much more attractive.
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I feel that I imagine having sex with both my male and female friends.
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HAHA! Not just guys do that, I do it too. Not all of them but many. And a lot of Lush friends too.


HAHA totally agree there, this question can be asked both ways, i dont know about other chicks but my imagination can and does run wild with all sorts of thoughts in my daily life either about mates what would or could happen if the chance was there, or just any hunk in the street passing, mmm in saying that im sure its not a normal chick thing to do.. and only been with one man for nearly 17 years maybe that has a huge part in that but who knows.... it makes my day as a mum/wife/self employed super woman far more interesting when i can escape for a while smile....
Yes im the small bitchy chick in the corner, set me off and man do you know about it !!!
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Not all, but many, yeah.
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I can't speak for all guys but I certainly did!
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Not at the same time.



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I would not say "all" - but many, of course. Hell, I've imagined having sex with many of my female neighbors, co-workers, store clerks, flight attendants, passerbyers, traffic jam "neighbors", etc.

And I am sure most men are like that.

Also - related - I play a mental game when I am stuck waiting somewhere - like for a flight or checkout line at a supermarket. I pick a # like 15 - then say to myself "ok - need to have sex with one of the next 15 women I see". Then scan around and make a pick. A variation to the game is a progression one where I can say "her" at any time but once I've moved to the next one I can't go backwards. Hope that makes sense lol. If I pass on the first 14 then I am absolutely stuck with the 15th no matter what. Probably sounds like a very fucked up game - but it has helped me pass the time on many occasions smile
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YEP...
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I would say not all, but there is a high volume of strange that guys wanna test out until they find that one strange that they wanna make unstrange. ;)
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I would not say "all" - but many, of course. Hell, I've imagined having sex with many of my female neighbors, co-workers, store clerks, flight attendants, passerbyers, traffic jam "neighbors", etc.

And I am sure most men are like that.

Also - related - I play a mental game when I am stuck waiting somewhere - like for a flight or checkout line at a supermarket. I pick a # like 15 - then say to myself "ok - need to have sex with one of the next 15 women I see". Then scan around and make a pick. A variation to the game is a progression one where I can say "her" at any time but once I've moved to the next one I can't go backwards. Hope that makes sense lol. If I pass on the first 14 then I am absolutely stuck with the 15th no matter what. Probably sounds like a very fucked up game - but it has helped me pass the time on many occasions smile



My variation is to wonder if they are shaved or not and IF they are "styled"

As far as having sex with all my lady friends...Just a very few "in my imagination" and even fewer via cyber, etc. I DON'T KISS AND TELL!
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I'm gonna have to say yes. Women are hot and im open to different body types and personallities . So I have thought and wanked to every female friend I have.
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Quote by padfootthegreat
Do guys really imagine having sex with all of their female friends, or do they just fantasize about the ones they find attractive?


Attraction or beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. There were some females friends of ours, who did not attract my attention, in terms of sex, but in the long term, I found myself fantasising anoint them.

In a nutshell, a pleasant personality is far more attractive than physical looks...

Purple.
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yea I've got a lot of friends that are very attractive sexy good looking and yes I am a guy so of course I think about it
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My variation is to wonder if they are shaved or not and IF they are "styled"

As far as having sex with all my lady friends...Just a very few "in my imagination" and even fewer via cyber, etc. I DON'T KISS AND TELL!


Sounds like a fun variation smile
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As a general rule I don't. Not that i wouldn't like to have sex with a few of them but i like to imagine or fantasize about stuff that could happen and as most of my friends and all my female friends (apart from those on lush) are christians from my church nothing can really happen.
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It depends on the situation. Sometimes I will actually will fantasize about a few, then other times, it's more of a "I wonder if we'd click sexually."