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How does if feel if you dont cum for a long time?

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I have been going two or three weeks without ejaculating. I feel no pain, no swelling of the balls. The desire for sex is always just a few thoughts away. Tantric philosophy states that unused semen is absorbed by the body. It is said to fuel transformation in the brain and nerves, eventually activating so called prara-normal activity.
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Good thing I don't believe in Paranormal Activity. I'm an active debunker. And, and active spunker. So, if I'm not getting laid, I'm handling things on my own.

Ashes to Ashes
Dust to Dust
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It's going to rust
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More like an emotional agitation.
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The longer I hold off the more erections I get and the more sensative my cock becomes. While I have not had blue balls in a long while, it is a real. These days, I find that one orgasm a day Will keep me from being uncomfortable.
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This is an interesting point. Years ago, I had testicular cancer and had 1 ball removed, I gave my left nut to live, literally. After all the surgeries my ability to ejaculate was gone for the most part. It does happen once in a blue moon. I still orgasm like I did before, it feels the same except I don't have the minor sensation of cum travelling up my cock wich is somthing I had not noticed before. The point is that the sperm and seamen my body produces is just reabsorbed wrhout pain or discomfort, so whatever blue balls are, it's not that.
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It just feels uncomfortable, i mean, it doesnt hurt but you can definitely tell that somethings wrong.
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funny story when I was in the army this guy in my company was in male/female quarters and he watched porn constantly, he got very sick and we had to drive him to Baghdad to see a doctor, they told him to find a private area and take care of it. personally I only find it painful if I get really turned on and don't ejaculate, that is not cool.
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It just feels uncomfortable, i mean, it doesnt hurt but you can definitely tell that somethings wrong.


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There should not be any sore or ache. Its usually the mental side that is playing.
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wow kinda late for a reply but what the hell.

yes "blue balls" does exist, the term for it is "testicular conjestion" (may have spelled it wrong but dont care at this point). Not all guys get it, just the unlucky ones. and if you want a point of view, a soft touch is all it takes to cause pain, even walking can hurt.
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There's an entire fetish around guys who enjoy this particular kink; it's called "edging" and "orgasm denial". (The two terms are linked but not synonymous, by the way). The heightened sense of arousal some afficianados report from prolonged withholding of ejaculation is the apparent driving factor, along with submissive overtones.
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yup. that sperm just keeps on getting produced.....its gotta go somewhere. any ideas, katie ? p.s. I'm free tonight
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I didnt masturbate till I was almost 17. after that the longest I ever went without masturbating was about a month. I wasnt uncomfortable or anything. and yes, I'm a guy
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If you get excited throughout the day, then you would get a bad case of blue balls and it does hurt
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How long is "a long time?" Are we talking hours, days, weeks, months?(I'd ask years, but thats impossible) Longest I've had to go were the 11 weeks I was in boot camp and to be honest I was too busy and tired to think about much other than learning and not falling asleep.
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Rocco... With all due respect, just because it doesn't cause YOU discomfort, doesn't mean it doesn't cause any of us discomfort. Not all men are the same - we're talking about plumbing here, you know.

That said I agree with you that some men do use this to pressure women to give them some sex of one sort or another, and shame on them for that. Especially when they're like you, Rocco, and don't even have the problem. Which is why I always told my little sisters that if some guy pulls that on her to tell him to go jerk off like he normally does and leave her alone.
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he just probably wants sexx on a more regular basis or it was a sorry ass justification for when you caught him doing the do!! or hes 16 and has raging hormones!!!
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that's gotta hurt... all your mood swing will come your way
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Yeah, once the male's testicles begin producing sperm cells, if they are not properly ejaculated every 75-80 days, the gonads will swell up and death is imminent within 3 months. Young men will exaggerate this time window and shorten it drastically, when they are whispering sweet nothings into the ears of innocent and naive young women.

That's why paraplegic dudes who cannot use their arms nor hands must find something else to rub against to stimulate themselves. Quadraplegic men have it even rougher.

Next time you see a paralyzed fellow in his wheel chair, ask him if you can give him a hand. He will appreciate it more than you can know.
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me and my wife just had sex first time for a month, due to her being a bit ill, we fucked hard and i came hard, the only this is i came so hard one of my testicles has swollen up it only just gone down after 3 days! never happened before weird!
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I does not hurt, my love, but it is used to try to get girls to help out or into bed. If it would work with you, I would attempt it, since you know how much I am attracted to you! Balls are wonderful!
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i personally feel no pain or discomfort if i dont ejaculate..lets say for a week...no discomfort at all.

but i do become VERY horny...balls become sweatier...generally get eractions way faster too.
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How long is "a long time?" Are we talking hours, days, weeks, months?(I'd ask years, but thats impossible) Longest I've had to go were the 11 weeks I was in boot camp and to be honest I was too busy and tired to think about much other than learning and not falling asleep.

I acctually had to go almost 5 months without ejaculating mostly becuase i was with my family for a long period of time and we were out on a long vacation in a RV and there was basically no where to do it Hint Hint the RV didn't have a bathroom in it. it was an older model.V5Iydsnuqjl38HLf
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Like I am in the worst kind of hell.

-MV
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Ive never expierenced pain from not ejaculating for sometime but i do get very anxious and moody when i dont for a long time.
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Ashes to Ashes
Dust to Dust
If you don't take it out and use it
It's going to rust


That made my day!

I take care of myself often so I don't have any issues.

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Hello

I was told by a boyfriend once that if he didnt cum for 3 days, his balls would get sore and ache, and the only way to solve the problem was to ejaculate.

I havent heard this from anyone else.

So guys, who does it feel if you don't cum - is it painful?

Katie
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If I get aroused after a dry spell they can hurt a little until taken care off. Little thing called "Blue Balls."
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This is very silly, if something is hurting down there go see a Dr. Your balls are not storage tanks and they don't hurt!
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I racked myself, climbing out of a min-van yesterday, prior to walking, errr...limping, 50 meters across an asphalt parking lot.

Getting racked is about the only time I can recall my balls aching.
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It does get painful but for me its like 5 days.