Okay guys, I've come up with a question.
If your partner is a virgin, and has an intact hymen, what do you do to make sure that things go well for her other than lube? I'm curious as to what others do. My first time didn't hurt much at all, but I was wondering what you other guys have done.
This relates very much to another thread = foreplay ie, FOREPLAY !! It is all about desire, readiness, passion.............yeah, and lots of lub.
take things easy at first until she feels ready for more. One step at a time, but it all depends on the woman , some feel pain , some don't
I have been around women's high school athletics for quite a while and have been amazed at how the conversations have changed and what the girls feel is exceptable about doing sexually...without getting into great detail the percentage is quite low of girls that make it through high school with their hymen intact. My opinion comes from a percentage standpoint...obviously not an absolute.
I made it through HS without loosing my virginity because I was scared of making babies...heavy petting and necking and that was it...no BJ's and didn't even get to rub a clit a little bit so it can be done, remaining a virgin. Thank goodness for college...made up for lost opportunities.
I was moving my dick near her pussy lips. ..I didn't even push it in and she was yelling... :S I was like honey I didn't even put it in ... and then I push it slowly and she was like... oh it didn't hurt too much...
My high school sweetheart and my two marriages have been virginous and I didn't do anything I just busted through it.
Never met a girl with one before, I think they are a myth.
In order to know virtue, you must first become acquainted with vice.
- Donatien Alphonse Francois de Sade
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En vis mann slår aldri en hund i klubben med en stokk, fordi hunden vil vende rundt og biter mannens ballene av. Alright ladies...who has known she had a hymen and who is like Bunny and clueless..(or unaware might be a better statement).
Personally, I've never deflowered a young virgin.
Am I missing anything? I think not.
The same GQP demanding we move on from January 6th, 2021 is still doing audits of the November 3rd, 2020 election.
i had one..i am sure of it. broke it though wayyy before i ever had sex. im like bunny have loved sex from the word go.
My hymen was broken a few years before I had sex, but my first sex was still terrible and painful. And it took the guy half an hour just to get all the way in!
Been with 2.....didn't seem to bother the first one, but the other was really painful apparently. Tears falling and all, sobbing "It's ok, just don't move".
I found that with most, it was just a case of a lot of foreplay and using their natural lube to ease it in.
Lot's of wine help too!
It's her hyman let her set the pace. It seems to me she will know what feels best and only she should control the timing.
Popping it quickly then sucking on her in various places seems to have worked. So, distraction. And ps the benefit is it's as tight as anal!
We did a lot of foreplay first, because if she wasn't entirely turned on, it would've been more uncomfortable. I understood she was feeling vulnerable, seeing as it was her first time being penetrated, so I told her to close her eyes and hold me tight while I enter. I didn't enter slow, I thrust myself in to get it over with and waited for her signal before fucking her.
My wife was a virgin and I was really worried about this when we had sex but I figured I would let her take the wheel, after all she knows what is comfortable and what isint and it all worked out fine. It was slow and steady the first time but what hocked me was the next day it was like she was a porn star she wanted it ruff fast and deep..
