So the other day I was giving a guy a blow job and he came within a minute or two. Now I know I am good at head, but that wasn't even my best head. Is that normal?
Btw, I want to explain that I am not complaining. I found it kind of hot. I am just extremely curious if this has happened to you and if there was any reason for it.
I've been there, no specific reason for it. Maybe he was thinking about it for a while and was wound up....maybe you were particularly good....who knows. I have had it the other way, where she just wasn't that good and it got awkward as she tried to make me cum with no luck....
Thanks! I'm extremely happy it wasn't the other way though.
I guess it's the same reason women can come fast when they get oral or any other pleasure. Sometimes people are just so turned on they can't help themselves. It also helps if the person giving them pleasure is good at it, as you say you are. Now, I'd be pleased if I could make a guy come fast, because I know I did the job well, but also sad, because I love sucking cock. Hopefully he can withstand still getting it sucked on even after he came.
Not to sound perverted, or anything, but if that is you in your avatar, I can imagine he would have been extremely turned on, so that would make him come extra fast.
A minute or two?!!!!
So ... what's the question again?
He was either already very aroused or had a control issue.
head on over and suck on my cock. I'll let you know how good your technique is ;)
Probably just could NOT help himself...what with the exquisite sensation of his cock in your loving, sucking, soft mouth with that wiggling/massaging tongue. Hey...stuff like that happens. Just be glad!! YA DONE GOOD!!
It honestly wasn't my best. I am guessing he just got super excited. I remember we kissed, I put my hands on his cock and he was already super fucking hard.
We were also in a hurry.
Well, the added excitement of doing it somewhere you ought not to is also a factor.
Could be many different factors. Maybe he hadn't had an orgasm in a while. Maybe he is crazy attracted to you. Maybe it was the best head he has ever had. Maybe the build up was super intense. The most likely answer is a combination of all of the above.
I think Roy and Ginger kitty hit on it. If you two have worked together awhile he has probably been lusting after you for a long time and the fact that it was happening was just to overwhelming and he shot soon. I suspect he will calm down and be better the next time or time after that.
As someone with a "hair trigger" himself, I'll second OlderGent. More excitement, such as an anticipated encounter or something/someone new does make it worse.
Sounds like work setting + excitement level extreme (as in, he digs you, at least sexually, very much) + even your "great, but not best" oral skills are the best he's had.
Take it as a compliment. Unless he's on a hair trigger many times afterward.
I have recently cum so quickly by way of a blow job / the build up was amazing - this usually comes after my partner came (usually orally) - in my bed I make it a rule that the woman comes first!
many factors to consider somtimes you get so turned on you cant help it od somtimes you jist want to get it over with lol
Time for some hand relief...?
My Karma just ran over your Dogma
My situation is usually the exact opposite. But men don't seem to worry about it.
Plus they still get off.
Well, in terms of the first time, that could just mean you did well. I'm sorry to hear about him ditching you after you made him cum when you fucked. The early ejaculation could still mean he's just really into you, but you should stand up for what you want afterward. He may be nervous or worried that he can't perform. I was once with a guy who didn't want to try because he had been in a long relationship where he and his girlfriend simply weren't compatible, and more than that, she never gave him any guidance and told him that he was lousy in bed. I think you should talk it out with him.
After he came I could tell he felt bad. I asked if he usually cums that fast and he said that he usually doesn't at all and was surprised. He said he felt like it was because he hasn't fucked any one in awhile and that he was extremely nervous to fuck me because he likes me a lot and has for awhile.
Also, right after he left my house he texted me, "You suck dick amazingly. I want to eat you out next time first."
I have to say that that I feel bad if I cum quickly... it has only happened twice... and both times I felt really bad. Both were a result of not pleasing myself for a while ;) If he could I'm sure he would, nothing feels better than being inside a woman while climaxing.
By the sounds of it I think you should be letting him please you first if he is going to cum so quickly
Over the years I have practiced and studied self control and can stop myself from cumming without any problems
Women do take longer to orgasm so all the attention should be on you to start with
Nothing more satisfying than a sexually satisfied woman and the taste of there juices
