I know there are prohibitions against referencing anything underage, so I will word my question carefully: WITHOUT saying how old you were, do you recall the first thing that came along and got you titillated and interested in sex?
As a child of the 90s, mine, crazy as it may sound, was The Addams Family movies. You had Angelica Houston wearing that gorgeous, tight dress, looking pale and beautiful saying things like "Gomez, last night you were unhinged. You like some desperate, howling demon. You frightened me...do it again." And her moaning in ecstasy as Raul Julia frantically pawed and kissed her. It made me very interested and very curious in just what they were talking about.
Does anyone else remember what first did it for them?
The lingerie section in Sears catalogue (seriously, this was before Victoria's Secret was big).
Hmm... im pretty sure it was the lead singer of my favorite band. I had posters of him and the full band all over my room. I remember thinking that i really, really wanted to kiss hi. That kiss turned into other things as I got older, lol.
A hand where it should not be.
Well, I can't really go into details, due to site rules, but it was in the bathtub that I first learned how wonderful a clitoris is!
I know its cheesy, but when I was in my teens, I would read my older sister's Harlequin romance novels. You know the kind with the bare chested hero clinging to a buxom female on the cover. Those are my first memories of being "turned on".
Around puberty I discovered just how nice it felt to touch myself. I'm now middle-aged and I still like to touch myself.
I had an avid interest in looking at guys and gals but I was tantalised more than turned on by certain aspects about their bodies and in many cases (especially with girls) how they were dressed. I found that more interesting than naked bodies.
It was only when someone tried it on with me, wanting to touch me and for me to touch them that I became aware of my own sexuality and I felt turned on.