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I do have many things that bring me fulfillment. I no longer run my own business for a number of reasons, and where I work now I find it very rewarding and I do make a difference which has always been important to me. Over the last few months I have taken some time out and concentrated on doing things that I wanted to do, and even things that really have taken me out of my comfort zone and once again expanded my friendship group. I've have done a number of different courses in areas that I thoroughly enjoy.
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There is no such thing as destiny, or fate. People come, people go. Anything is possible, but not probable. I have no idea if I'll meet someone as unique as my last one, I doubt it because she is irreplaceable, so what can be done ? Nothing except keep on drifting through time, and you never know who might come into your life, good or bad.
In the world's harsh wear and tear many a very sincere attachment is slowly obliterated.


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Your only alone if that's what you wish to be. I've just spent two years on my lonesome, for no other reason than to clear my mind after a disastrous relationship.
Whilst I'm kinda with someone again now, I'm still not ready to commit fully. Therefore I class myself as single though this doesn't go down well.
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I have been divorced since June 2006 albeit we split up one year earlier (omg nearly 12 years). Since that time I have dated hundreds of women but none to date fulfil my very limited requirements. A lady who is very attractive, 20 or so years younger with a minimum of 38(dont understand the letters) breasts. Good cook, car mechanic, gardener, DIY expert, painter and decorator, loves doing the laundry, great masseur, doesnt snore or suffer from flatulence in bed.

Cant be hard to find surely.

Opsey... forgot stinking rich, blonde and very sexy.

Any here?... please pm CV.
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If for no other reason just to keep track of this thread I thought I should update it. I did remain single as I promised myself for the most part of 2016/2017 and now in 2018. The biggest different in 2017 I got involved as part group of volunteers who up to 10 times a year get together and work together at certain events. The reason I started doing this because it looked like a perfect opportunity to expand my friendship circle and become part of a sport I love. At the events I was involved in last year I met such a lovely bunch of people, both male and female. Most of us don’t even live in the same cities but manage to keep in touch and get together when we volunteer. As it so happened during one of these events I did work with a guy who does live in the same city as me. Over a period of months we got chatting and got to know each other better and he invited me to a concert. One thing lead to another a few meets after work we have become friends. We now see each other at least 4 or 5 times a week, he’s come to mine for dinner, we’ve gone out for drinks, dinner cinema all the usual things. We’ve been away together but nothing else has happened, think this is because neither of us have the courage to ask if it’s more than friendship. Our mutual friends think they can see we both like each other. As long as I don’t loose the nerve I am going to ask him this week if we can be more than friends. This to me would be ideal because we spend so much time with each other anyway, my kids have already met him, and think he is really nice. We’ve made plans to do things together not just this week but over the next few months. So hopefully as long as I have the courage I might have found a decent man.
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If for no other reason just to keep track of this thread I thought I should update it. I did remain single as I promised myself for the most part of 2016/2017 and now in 2018. The biggest different in 2017 I got involved as part group of volunteers who up to 10 times a year get together and work together at certain events. The reason I started doing this because it looked like a perfect opportunity to expand my friendship circle and become part of a sport I love. At the events I was involved in last year I met such a lovely bunch of people, both male and female. Most of us don’t even live in the same cities but manage to keep in touch and get together when we volunteer. As it so happened during one of these events I did work with a guy who does live in the same city as me. Over a period of months we got chatting and got to know each other better and he invited me to a concert. One thing lead to another a few meets after work we have become friends. We now see each other at least 4 or 5 times a week, he’s come to mine for dinner, we’ve gone out for drinks, dinner cinema all the usual things. We’ve been away together but nothing else has happened, think this is because neither of us have the courage to ask if it’s more than friendship. Our mutual friends think they can see we both like each other. As long as I don’t loose the nerve I am going to ask him this week if we can be more than friends. This to me would be ideal because we spend so much time with each other anyway, my kids have already met him, and think he is really nice. We’ve made plans to do things together not just this week but over the next few months. So hopefully as long as I have the courage I might have found a decent man.


Sounds promising. Good luck .
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There is no such thing as destiny, or fate. People come, people go. Anything is possible, but not probable. I have no idea if I'll meet someone as unique as my last one, I doubt it because she is irreplaceable, so what can be done ? Nothing except keep on drifting through time, and you never know who might come into your life, good or bad.


Whaddaya mean?? We've been together 4,000 years! You said the Goddess ordained it. I suppose you were just giving me a line to get me into bed?!
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As I told my daughter many times when she was younger, only you can be 100% responsible for your happiness. Allowing someone else that responsibility will only result in frustration and disappointment for you. Prince Charming is a myth.
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Whaddaya mean?? We've been together 4,000 years! You said the Goddess ordained it. I suppose you were just giving me a line to get me into bed?!


Yes she did, what do you mean, a line to get you into bed, I've already slept with you over a 1000 times ;)
In the world's harsh wear and tear many a very sincere attachment is slowly obliterated.


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Does she snore??? ??





I snort!
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There is no such thing as destiny, or fate. People come, people go. Anything is possible, but not probable. I have no idea if I'll meet someone as unique as my last one, I doubt it because she is irreplaceable, so what can be done ? Nothing except keep on drifting through time, and you never know who might come into your life, good or bad.



there something bittersweet in your post. I also agree to your "nothing except keep on drifting through time, you never know who might come into your life, good or bad"
I try to keep my heart open and look to the "good" in people. I have been blessed in the past and I shall continue to hope as I am on my journey.
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I snort!
A quick jab in the ribs, usually does the trick ;)
In the world's harsh wear and tear many a very sincere attachment is slowly obliterated.


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there something bittersweet in your post. I also agree to your "nothing except keep on drifting through time, you never know who might come into your life, good or bad"
I try to keep my heart open and look to the "good" in people. I have been blessed in the past and I shall continue to hope as I am on my journey.


Yes, life is bitter-sweet like dark chocolate, or Tira Mi Su. The bitter ingredient brings out the sweetness of the rest!