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hmmm nice thread... yeah agreed
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So a new update.......She recently told me during a game of sexual truth or dare that she has toyed with the idea of a threesome with another woman!!! I of course told her of my thoughts of a threesome with another guy. She did not say no, but she said she did not need it.
So the question is:
She didn't say no but that she did not need it. Does that mean she would like to but it is not necessary?
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I've only just picked up this thread and I'm sitting here with my jaw dropped. You hadn't talked to your wife about passing her around. As she didn't say no you think she may want to do it. Well let me give you this advice if you want your testicles to remain attached to the rest of your body I would wait until she gave you an enthusiastic yes. That should give you a good few years to get over your jealousy issues.
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Only do it if you both agree and talk about it honestly. If you feel you will get jealous, don't even bother doing it. And at no point should you force the issue. She has to want to do it, and feel comfortable about it. If not leave it as a fantasy.
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I'd have to agree with Dudealicious.
Just because you fantasize about something, doesn't mean that you actually wanna do it.
A lot of people on this site have an incest fetish yet I don't think many of them would actually commit incest.
I know this topic gets brought up. "Wife and Another Man Turn-On" -Lush forum link. <click here I have known people who had open relationships or were swingers. I think it is a common enough fantasy, though I think reality is not something as controlled as fantasy and has consequences and side-effects. Most of the things I fantasize I will do or have or am currently, yet there are some things that I would not, nor want to in reality. I see no point in marriage if you invite others in or want to, personally. You know the thought turns you on but the reality is how you feel when it stirs the emotions you cannot control that are just part of who you are.
I think she may want a "woman" NOT a man ("her" fantasy) *hint-hint. I think you read what she said wrong. Plus she is saying it is not nessecary. Take that as a compliment and move on. Maybe she does not want to actually do it. Either way - *dangerous waters.
Read what myself & others said there^ on the link I provided, if you want to.
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I love sharing my mates wife's but we have a great understanding when it first started we all had to be there but now when he goes away he will ring me and say its fine so it works well when everyone is on the same page.
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Sounds like it should stay a fantasy. Swinging breaks up a lot of couples.
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If there is even a hint of a tiny bit of jealousy, DON'T DO IT. KEEP THE FANTASY. I know of 2 couples that went down this road and it caused major problems.
The first was another teacher with whom I worked and her husband brought it up. She was no prude, had had her share of men in the past. He kept bringing the idea up for her to be with another man and let him watch. She gave in to his fantasy and they invited another man be the third. Apparently he was talented sexually, just a bit larger then her husband and she had several orgasms. He apparently had better stamina then her husband and they did it in several positions and each time she had multiple orgasms. When all was said and done he left. Her husband was unusually quiet for sometime. He did not want to have sex with her for over 2 weeks. He was intensely jealous but realized it was his own actions that caused it. Their marriage has not been as good ever since.
The other couple we know quite well. She had been a virgin when they married she was 23 and he was 25. He had his share of experience. At 51 he thinks she should at least see what another man is like. At first she was opposed to the idea. After a few months he got her open to the idea. She picked a widower from her work and they had him over for dinner. Husband met him and they agreed to have sex with hubby watching. She told me that he fucked her better than she had been fucked before. It unleashed a monster in her and turned her into quite a married slut. She sneaks around on her husband and is, as she says, "making up for lost time." She claims that she is having regular sex with 3 different men, not counting her husband who is unaware, and a few others as she can "fit them in." Her husband does NOT know what is going on.
How do I know of these to ladies situations? I have been intimate with both. I had my slut side prior to marriage, my husband knows. He also knows that I "occasionally" will have a fling with other women. To my knowledge my man has been 100% faithful since saying "I do."
The first was another teacher with whom I worked and her husband brought it up. She was no prude, had had her share of men in the past. He kept bringing the idea up for her to be with another man and let him watch. She gave in to his fantasy and they invited another man be the third. Apparently he was talented sexually, just a bit larger then her husband and she had several orgasms. He apparently had better stamina then her husband and they did it in several positions and each time she had multiple orgasms. When all was said and done he left. Her husband was unusually quiet for sometime. He did not want to have sex with her for over 2 weeks. He was intensely jealous but realized it was his own actions that caused it. Their marriage has not been as good ever since.
The other couple we know quite well. She had been a virgin when they married she was 23 and he was 25. He had his share of experience. At 51 he thinks she should at least see what another man is like. At first she was opposed to the idea. After a few months he got her open to the idea. She picked a widower from her work and they had him over for dinner. Husband met him and they agreed to have sex with hubby watching. She told me that he fucked her better than she had been fucked before. It unleashed a monster in her and turned her into quite a married slut. She sneaks around on her husband and is, as she says, "making up for lost time." She claims that she is having regular sex with 3 different men, not counting her husband who is unaware, and a few others as she can "fit them in." Her husband does NOT know what is going on.
How do I know of these to ladies situations? I have been intimate with both. I had my slut side prior to marriage, my husband knows. He also knows that I "occasionally" will have a fling with other women. To my knowledge my man has been 100% faithful since saying "I do."
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I get incrediably turned on with the thought of sharing my wife, the idea of watching her with someone else. I think about it all the time. The problem I am having is I think about and it gets me excited, but when a guy flirts with my wife or gives her a friendly hug I am incrediably jealous and mad. I can't have it both ways. What is wrong with my head. So confused. Anyone else experience this or have any words of wisdom.
No one else can make the decision for the two of you. There have been many good points brought up here and you should consider and discuss them all. There is nothing at all wrong with your head, everyone is different however and you have to decide for you. The two of you should talk this through and just maybe you will find common ground that works for you both. Test the waters slowly if you do decide to go ahead, don't jump in over your head to begin with. If at all possible find a local couple who do share and talk with them in person. Real, in person conversations are better than a million online chats or whatever. Good luck, hope everything works our well.
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I have a very hot wife, who says that she would never have sex with another guy. I did catch her cybering with an old highschool classmate. I caught it through text. The text said, "thank you very much, you are so sexy." I asked her what that was about. She confessed that she ran into an old high-school friend has she always had a crush on and then exchanged numbers. She apparently sent him some boudoir pictures that you made for me and when they video chatted he has to see the whole thing. So she stripped down to her panties and he started masturbating too her. She saw his penis then pull down her panties and start masturbating too. When she told me this I started getting hard I masturbated. She started meeting him at their gym but nothing ever happened, except she let him touch her breasts. She told me that she felt bad about all that so she stopped.
I thought it was hot. I am encouraged her friend to come over who I know that she liked. I got us all drunk and started having sex with in front of him. I let him play with her breasts whileI have sex with her, but she decided but she wouldn't be doing it again afterwards.
Even through my encouragement, she still denies that she's interested in other men. However, since I've seen some of her texts to random guys. One of them was with a old mail college friend and had a picture of her and her bra and panties. Another to guy who used to work with me with nothing but her panties on. I submitted to her I like the idea of her doing that. she just told me that they just want to jerk off pics and that she wasn't interested herself. I think it's so hot what she does I just wish you would do more.
I thought it was hot. I am encouraged her friend to come over who I know that she liked. I got us all drunk and started having sex with in front of him. I let him play with her breasts whileI have sex with her, but she decided but she wouldn't be doing it again afterwards.
Even through my encouragement, she still denies that she's interested in other men. However, since I've seen some of her texts to random guys. One of them was with a old mail college friend and had a picture of her and her bra and panties. Another to guy who used to work with me with nothing but her panties on. I submitted to her I like the idea of her doing that. she just told me that they just want to jerk off pics and that she wasn't interested herself. I think it's so hot what she does I just wish you would do more.
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Maturity and communication are two things a relationship can never have too much of.
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Regulars in the sex clubs and swinger parties all have stories about the couple who tried it, & one or the other reacted badly in that public setting.
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Its been 7 years.. I kind of want to know what happened....
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I get incrediably turned on with the thought of sharing my wife, the idea of watching her with someone else. I think about it all the time. The problem I am having is I think about and it gets me excited, but when a guy flirts with my wife or gives her a friendly hug I am incrediably jealous and mad. I can't have it both ways. What is wrong with my head. So confused. Anyone else experience this or have any words of wisdom.
It is natural for men to enjoy watching women fuck. That is why the porn industry is so massive. Guys that do enjoy sharing their wife have the added thrill of participating. Aside from issues of pregnancy and STDs, the only real barriers is JEALOUSY. Jealousy is viewed as "normal" but it is a toxic trait. It is also true that women are capable of multiple orgasms and a woman that loves sex have a much greater capacity for sex then most men.
The most guys I have fucked in one session is four. My husband and three friends. They each fucked me twice and then the were totally wasted. I could have gone on much longer. So, if my husband limited my sexual pleasure to his sexual capacity it would be very selfish. Selfishness is at the core of jealousy. So rather than block yourself and your wife from fully enjoying sex, (which is the most intense natural pleasure known to humans) why not go to the core of the problem and defeat jealousy? Aside from a much better sex life it will make you a better person.
I have been married for 20 years. Love my husband and we are very close. He started sharing me with other men four years ago and we both love it. We wish that I had been spreading my legs for other men from out honeymoon on.