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Alik
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 53
United States
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Quote by sunshine2112
Been divorced nearly 6 years. I've had a couple of shortish relationships during this time, but for a variety or reasons it never seems to work out. I've just dumped the latest guy as there was not trust in our relationship. I did not trust him. I don't think I have trust issues just not met the right guy. I do wonder though am I destined to be single forever. I've got my own business, have a fairly good social life. My best mates are actually guys. Should I just accepted that I am going to be on my own now?
In my practice, people seem to suffer the same fate simply because they lack the true understanding of what they really want.
Let me paint you a little picture. You know how you like to dress, down to the little detail. You know what you want out of your job, again, down to the littlest detail.
Why then, if I were to ask you "What are you really looking for in a partner?" do you pause and stumble?
When you have outlined everything you could ever want and have in the person in front of you, then, you will find the one that makes you amazingly perfectly happy.
Sincerely,
Al, the Relationship Chef.
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Quote by Fireballs
no really asking for advice cuz i did see her and want to know what to do
It's rather simple. Ask yourself, are you attracted to her, or are you attracted to the way she looks? (Get the difference?)
If the latter, simply outsourcing will cure the problem. Hire a pro, and indulge your fantasies.
If the former, as in, you really are attracted to your mother in law, talk to your wife. I bet the reason for that is that you see something in your mom-in-law that attracted you to your spouse. Of course, there you're really looking to open a can of worms. Your spouse may be understanding (if you explain to her that ACCIDENTALLY seeing her mom only solidified your appreciation of your spouse), or she may go mental. Attempt at your own risk. (Obviously, I couldn't even pretend to begin to claim to know your wife's behavioral patterns).
Sincerely,
Al, the Relationship Chef.
Rookie Scribe
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It's been a month since she's told me (in a text message) that she doesn't want to talk to me ever again. Three months of seeing each other daily, speaking to each other every chance we get, becoming a father figure to her kids, gone.
The emptiness is exacerbated by the restraining order. I have never, nor would I ever threatened her or her children. How could I do that to someone I love so dearly?
Yet the pain she's caused me is only diminished by the vast quantities of alcohol. Yeah... And I don't even drink...
I have to appear in court 4 days from now to appeal the TRO, or else it's extended for another year. Yet everything pail in comparison to the pain she's caused. Words like "I want you in my life", "If I didn't have you I'd absolutely crumble" ring hollow now.
Bourbon, you is my salvation.
It's been a month since she's told me (in a text message) that she doesn't want to talk to me ever again. Three months of seeing each other daily, speaking to each other every chance we get, becoming a father figure to her kids, gone.
The emptiness is exacerbated by the restraining order. I have never, nor would I ever threatened her or her children. How could I do that to someone I love so dearly?
Yet the pain she's caused me is only diminished by the vast quantities of alcohol. Yeah... And I don't even drink...
I have to appear in court 4 days from now to appeal the TRO, or else it's extended for another year. Yet everything pail in comparison to the pain she's caused. Words like "I want you in my life", "If I didn't have you I'd absolutely crumble" ring hollow now.
Bourbon, you is my salvation.