I have been trying to figure this out about myself for years, and I have now given up trying to figure this out for myself. I need help.
It is extremely difficult for me to achieve an orgasm with a partner. I can get myself off quickly and with ease. But when I'm with someone else, my body just refuses to. I have tried showing my partners how to do it properly, and even when they do it exactly as I show them and tell them to, it doesn't feel anywhere near as good as when I do it. It's as if my arousal gets to a certain point, and then it stops and stays there until I am sore and it hurts to be stimulated. Even my ex fiance was only able to get me to orgasm twice with no help from me in the entire two years we spent together, and both times I was drunk. What's odd is, even if my partner watches me get myself to an orgasm, I can do it easily. It's just when my partner tries to that it doesn't work. I have tried toys, I have tried more foreplay, I have tried building myself up halfway or almost to an orgasm and letting them take over, I have tried watching porn or reading erotica while being stimulated. Nothing has worked.
Has anyone ever had this happen to them or heard of this happening? If so, is there a way to correct it?
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